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Why no pics of the male from a couple?
December 19 2008
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RHP User
17 years ago
Not many couples have photos of both partners here which is curious considering that it does take two people to make a couple. Its impossible to like a couple when you can only see one partner. Not many couples are verified either, around twenty five per cent. Makes you wonder if they really are a couple or not. It only take a few minutes to verify a profile & if you can load up photos of the female why not the male ? Its also strange that no one has a video intro, that we've seen, apart from us that is. We must be the only ones in Australia. So many into chat but no videos ? We've raised thie topic of couples without male pix several times in the past but unfortunately it seems as though some things & some people are slow to change. We just disregard the ones who won't do the right thing. Happy Xmas.
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RHP User
17 years ago
Your profile pic is restricted... so at first glance you don't see anything at all! LOL! I've noticed that even when couples have both it is extremely rare for them both to appear in the one picture. I suppose it's because the other partner is taking the photo?
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RHP User
17 years ago
I think it is because the female body is a lot sexier than mens. I do a lot of nude photography and find it harder to make a shot of a guy than of a girl. We have also found that girls are normally interested in guys face pics before anything else.... And a lot of guys are the ones doing the 'research' and are generally more interested in females...
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RHP User
17 years ago
We don't have either of our face pics on here but are more than happy to exchange them on msn. It's just a caution thing is all. We applaud the people that do have face pics on here or any other adult site but with family and work, it's not the easiest thing to do. We've been knocked back by people who say that they're not interested because we don't have face pics but oh well, that's their choice. Everyone has to have some rules they need to follow and stick with so we don't begrudge them at all. We carry on and do our thing.
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RHP User
17 years ago
We have pics of us both ..but no face shots..you see those if we are interested in you enough that we add you to our msn.
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RHP User
17 years ago
We think there are a few reasons .. Firstly, most wont put face pics on their profile wanting to remain anonymous so you are only going to get body shots of some sort anyway. Whereas guys love to see girls bodies, girls tend to want to see male face pics on their shots - rather than simply body parts - we think it is tough to get an appealing pic of a guy without showing his face that might appeal to couples. Most of the browsing tends to be by guys here - hence the focus on girl pics Finally, in our experience, many of the so-called couples are only really looking for a bi experience for their girl .. so want to see the girl involved. Any guy half that girl may have then tends to be irrelevant. If this is stated in their profile fine but if not, doesnt it piss you all off like us? We have full shots of us both in our private gallery .. that seems the best option
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RHP User
17 years ago
The last few posts have refered to face photos or the lack of them & reasons why they don't post them. The original post, as with ours dosent make reference to a lack of face photos but a lack of male photos. Lustbirds are quite correct in that a large number of couples are looking for girls or couples who are only willing to allow the female half of the couple to play without any involvment with the males. < Must be a jelousy thing >. In that sense they are of course more interested in the female. Both partners are relevant though in situations where couples are looking for full play with another couple with all involved in the play. There are many ways for the male partner to show something of themselves without revealing their identities. Mask the eyes, blur the face, chop the whole head off if you like but if you are a couple looking for other couples then it is the right way to go.
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RHP User
17 years ago
i wonder why couples or singles who join don't want their pics to be seen just incase friends or family members even people who know them as they browse thru rhp profiles and see them well guess what if people browse rhp then they are looking for the same thing a fling or more what are they gonna say guess who i seen on a sex site i know if someone told me they seen us or someone we know then i would say by the way why would you be looking thru a sex site anyway , and in most cases it's a male pretending to be a couple they get a photo of a female and post it i can vouch for that as we have had a few requests to meet then he will say female isn't well or not interested anymore to play but wants to meet as us 3 some if we like
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RHP User
17 years ago
Cuddlycupple is kinda right in that if someone you know sees them then why are they on the site in the first place. In our case though, and with many others I guess, we work with a lot of single people who we would certainly not want to share our sexual preferences with. If they saw us on the site here it would be as good as putting a notice up on the notice board! Our privacy is very important to us :) and work privacy critical Also, some of our friends have kids who (possibly) use these sites to meet others - can you imagine the trauma for a 18 year old if they hopped on and found their parents staring out at them naked .. or worse, sending them a flirt lol Finally, security on these sites is always important - being easily recognised may inspire the 'wrong' types to track you down - why risk being recognised we say. We do applaud others who put face pics on the public profile - wish we could be as open about things I guess. I am sure it would generate loads more traffic.. especially as Ms Lustbirds is gorgeous imho :)
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RHP User
17 years ago
I think a majority of couples are after another female to join with the female in particular and secondly after another couple. The female naturally would tend to be the better looking and will attract the others. Having said that there should be a pic of the guy because he is part of the coulple. What I don't like is all the female profiles that are actually a couple in a female profile. If you are a couple, make a couple profile, don't make it harder for people searching for females.
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RHP User
11 years ago
:-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Why? Because the profile was generally written by the male. And in creating the profile, he, via his desire to not scare other women away, has placed deliberate focus on the less rejectable part of the couple..... her. See also... 'single' women profiles with comments like ...... "I also have a male partner who would like to play if we all agree" Peoples thought patterns are quite predictable when they're not being 100% honest or withholding information DG
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RHP User
11 years ago
why there aren't any photos of my husband. My Profile says it all !!! Amy
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