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Why men cant go more than 1/2 hour?
February 06 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Have you thought it might be a female problem??
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sorry to disagree, but I find the sex gets better as time goes on as long as the person has the depth to take it further.As you get to know each other more & learn to read the responses of their bodies it keeps getting better.As for lasting no more than half an hour I think there are just as many woman who cant last the distance as men.
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RHP User
16 years ago
excitement builds when they hold their breath and tense their bodies. Deep breaths into their bellies slows everything down. Also, remind them about foreplay, not naked in the bedroom but all the stuff before you get naked that gets a woman warmed up :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Guilty as charged...for sometimes not going the distance myself (like I haven't walked my 10,000 steps for the day??) I'm a bit of a firecracker at times...the right moves, the right time....and BOOM! It's a 10min ministry of sights and sounds! My guys ego is well satisfied....lol But then....there is always the next round if we want. I just go with the flow....it's the company I value more than their performance. Each to their own though.... Jx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'OneBrightStar' I just go with the flow....it's the company I value more than their performance. Absolutely agree... to me, it's the company what makes the sex more pleasant. Discovering each other's bodies, interests, likes and dislikes makes the sex more enjoyable... Working on your own mentality and the way you treat your partner, and ofcourse your expectations, will lead this in a better company. hugs
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RHP User
16 years ago
Oh Tiger ..if it, did not happen in half an hour ...babe ..I dont know , we can go the distance , but its going to be "distance " ..only .....all night distance ..wow..like jogging ..and in the morning .."lets just kiss and say ...good byeeee
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RHP User
16 years ago
While I mightn't be able to stay erect for the whole time, if a women is willing and playful I'm more than keen to spend 3, 4 or even 5 hours playing around as well as fucking. I had one memorable session with a lady I met from here that lasted over four hours and you should have seen the wet spot. So don't give up , some men are more than keen to goo the full distance.Quickies can be good too !
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RHP User
16 years ago
The most of sexy ladys profiles are asking for guy who can hold conversation , so maybe your ladies are sending wrong messages to wright guys ......if you would demand in your profile for the aplicant to hold the post for few days , maybe you will find someone stiff enough ...."enough for the distance " , tiger is nothing beter then half an hour round , or two , or three or actually depends , how much cigarets i have ..left...........or what they taste like at 4 50 am ..
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RHP User
16 years ago
If the woman I'm with is keen and playful I'm more than willing to spend 3, 4, or 5 hours having sex. Well not having sex because I can't stay hard for that long but I'm willing to play around sucking licking, kissing caressing as well as fucking while we are both interested. I had one memorable session with a woman from here that lasted 4 1/2 hours and you should have seen the wet spot. So don't give up, some men are more than willing to go the whole distance.PS Quickies can be good too.
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RHP User
16 years ago
chemistry and desires ..i think the answer is amongst these replies..If you build it they will cum ..
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RHP User
16 years ago
They have to get home to their partners. . . . . pmslWildly wondering
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RHP User
16 years ago
hehe.. Good one Wild! Frankly I've always wondered why women climax so quickly. :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
i find the position you are in plays a big part, so i've learnt which 1's bring it on earlier so we just do't do them until we are ready to finish till next time scott
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RHP User
16 years ago
not being able to last is a legitimate issue - for men and women. And I KNOW there are men out there that wish they could last longer. And there are many simple techniques that would help them to do that. I'm wondering why no-one here seems to be addressing that.hmmm ....lilmiss :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm with DeSade_returns & Lilmissfussy... everyone knows that you often don't have the best sex on the first or second time...its after knowing each others hot buttons and go zones and taking time to care that it gets mind blowing.I can spend an eternity on foreplay before clothes come slowly off... touching, kissing, teasing, even more when naked and it's these times including oral that deserves special attention in my book.wickedtiger - if it's penetration you're referring to, I'm often a little anxious/nervous/excited on first encounters and often climax too soon when I'm fully charged up. But I'm a repeat offender and (time permitting) can always recharge for a more extended round 2 or 3.Number 2 orgasms for me are often better than the first!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I all has to do with chemistry. I've been with some where it wasn't really there. I lasted over an hour trying every thing I know. In the end I gave up and just came anyway. It does have a lot to do about breathing. I enjoy that special moment when you climax at the same time looking into each others eyes. So I go the distance.
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RHP User
16 years ago
It's all got to do with chemistry. I've lasted over an hour trying to please some women. I think it has a lot to do with their own mind. I also agree with breathing.as I enjoy that special moment when you climax together looking into each others eyes. I stay the distance. I guess by chatting and stuff you can find out sexual quirks of new partners so when you do it it will be natural and in the girls head.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Have you thought it might be a female problem Quoting 'customer69' Perhaps perhaps perhaps! That was one of my finest posts ever wasn't it *rofl*. I accidentally hit tab and enter and wacko - there it was posted. Akin to premature ejaculation, which is kinda ironic. At this point I could say "Look - that was the start of a very funny post... there was plenty more to come". But that would just fit into this topic far too well, so I won't degrade myself any further... I'll just roll over and go to sleep.
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RHP User
16 years ago
once us guys get to the final curtain call then it's not going to last much longer,,,so ,maybe the women should take a more active roll in delaying that final act as long as possible,,, after all you are our teachers and what would we guys know unless for the things you have shared with us over the centuries,,,,help us help you,,,,,personally i like the foreplay and know myself well enough that if i am like the eveready bunny with a new partner i delay putting it in for as long as possible because the feeling you get when you first enter a woman on your cock is so intensive i wish i could just enter a woman and take it out again and do this every five minutes for the entire night but i know this is impracticle,,,,c'mon girls don't forget who is the teacher here,,,,bren
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RHP User
16 years ago
funny your complaining about this do you know how hard it is to find the lady who will last and doesnt want wam bam thank you mam how do I get sick of hearing "r u going to cum now' "when r u going to cum" why doesnt she just say had enough, cant take anymore, got to dry to quickly and is now painful yes it goes both ways then you find that wonderful lady who will take you on for hours, yes hours and thanks you and you know when you get reply requests and invites to their play and parties he is out there its just finding the rightone 4 u then run with it
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RHP User
16 years ago
I've found it's 99% mental and takes some practice but now I'm at the stage where I'm going anywhere between 50mins to 1 1/2 hours each time, if need be..if it's required that I cum quicker then i can. I found the tantra practice of tensing the muscle (can't recall the name) almost worked the opposite. In any case, everyone knows, a 10min session can be just as great as an hour session. I do understand though if you, for whatever reason do take longer, then you want your man to be able to get you there. Breathing, breaks from penetration, thinking of other things, trying to move some of that mental energy up from the genitals all helps...
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RHP User
16 years ago
I don't mind a good long love making session for an hour or two.. or three or four.. with coffee breaks... but quite frankly I really get bored if I'm having to slog it out penetrating with my dick and pounding away for more than, I don't know.. let's say about 20 minutes... I mean, it shouldn't be up to me alone to make a woman cum... a lazy shag is a lazy shag... and I am so over starfish women who think all they have to do to get off is lie there and wait... take some responsibility for your own orgasm. Seriously... bitching about how long men can go. lmfao. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
My FB pretty much can't come through sex, he has once or twice and luckily he's pulled out in time but 99.9% of the time he gets himself off (which I help him with) after he's worn me out. Apparently some women are offended by that "is it me?" that kind of thing but I looooooooooooooooooooooove it, he can go for hours and hours... although I'm kind of selfish lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
is that with one lump or two stalky? and carfull,,, you will wake up jean with your rightouse yelling about responsability. Me,, im just a lucky smuck,,, my mz just loves my dick,, loves the quickies and and the lazys,,, sure every time we get the extra urge we go to extra lengths(no pun)and we will spend the extra time giggling, probing and titalating untill she gushes allover whatever device/bodypart happens to be in the way . As far as going the distance goes,,, we are having to much fun to check the time,,, or boil the kettle,,
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RHP User
16 years ago
I didn't know men could go under 1/2 an hour! lol.....I must be lucky! huggies sweetpetite41xxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Wow some of the comments on here are really spinning me out!! Whats with a guy that only spends half an hour naked with a beautiful woman! thats just not right guys! And as for Lackoffuns attitude that he only comes once and thats the finale, 'not going to last much longer'!!!! I'm not trying to make anyone look bad but come on, it's both parties that need to put in the effort. I have sex for an average of mayb 2 and a half to 3 hours every time. I come WAY more than once coz with more physically activity it gets me going again. Fembot69 from this site is my main fuck buddy, and she's the same way inclined. We probably fuck for about 7 or 8 hours on average, coz thats how long it takes to enjoy each other AND satisfy each other enough. If i ever do kick back for a sec get all cosy and start to doze, she's into action again making sure she gets fed more and vise versa. And it's an ego thing for me aswell, gotta put on my ultra A++ game for the ladies ;) and fuck its the only exercise i get i need it lmao
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lilmissfussy's comment made my page freeze couldn't scroll down for at least half an hour.... natural A++ i'd say ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
as the heading says,,,sorry maruader,, yes i could have versed my reply a little better than i did,,,but i never said i only come once,, I was replying to the points of the question which you may have missed i can only assume by your comments that your 7 or eight hours of fun means that you have been humping this woman for all that time,,,,,,,,,what, with no foreplay????? true, these days i don't have the same sexual energy as i did when i was 29 but neither was i fumbling around a womans body for seven or eight hours making sure i got it right what stamina,, what a true master of the bedroom you are,,what self indulgence,, you'll have all the unsatisfied women beating down your front door about now,,, point scoring might be fun to further your own cause but in the end it's just that,,, enjoy your new found fame,,, hopefully there are women out there that want someone with a larger than normal ego but in the end it's just my opinion,,
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RHP User
16 years ago
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RHP User
16 years ago
it's kind of the opposite for me, it doesn't take me very long at all, however I am happy to keep going and going and going (umm, or should that be coming and coming and coming?). Sex is about so much more than cock in cunt action, and I try to ensure that I get a couple on the board before penetration so I don't feel let down should there be a quick ending to the encounter.Serious hours of intimate pleasure is something that I don't really expect to find on RHP. Maybe an hour or two of some random fun, a lunchtime quicky here and there.Ultimately those types of quickies aren't satisfying because it's when you're getting to know someone properly that all the really fun physical stuff happens, not on first time (I agree with Dalmation that it's often awkward). That's why regular fuck buddies are awesome, because you get to know them but you're not bogged down in the mire of all that other stuff that clutters a relationship. Oh, and why does everything have to end after the guy cums once? That doesn't seem fair.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I dont think I have to look at the profile to figure who this recomendation is about. lol. Singles profile Brae? Why aren't you attending Stalky's meet and greet? HUgs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Seems all the forum contributors are the ones who have no problems...lol. But I spose who would write up here that they do. Half an hour is not a long session but I spose some guys and girls struggle to go past it. With the girls it is more of a drying up or maybe that they just aren't into it. Some just are no good at sex and by the time half an hour has past they have had 3-5 orgasms and just want it over. Others are just getting started. So there really isn't a right or wrong answer, maybe WickedTiger you are just been on a bad run with those that you have been picking. Maybe they aren't into you that much and just want their satisfaction then off they go. People that are into you will generally last longer as they are trying harder to please. Of course there are those that couldn't please someone if they tried. I've had it both ways, sometimes the woman is just not doing it for you so you just try to make yourself cum quicker, especially if she isnt doing anything. Other times I've had a woman say she has had enough and is just too buggered to go on and I'm the one doing the work...lol. Each to their own. Keep looking you will find better
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RHP User
16 years ago
There are certain techniques a girl can use that can and will slow the majority of men down. They can come in very handy when a marathon session is planned. A hard on is basically a physical response and knowing the right places to hold and touch will prolongue the pleasure. Wanting to prolongue it is another story - that is ruled by a complex range of things.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Get 2 guys!!! A couple was asked what would you do if the world was gonna end in 5 minutes he looked at her and said make love....... She said what 3 Times!!!!
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