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Why is it that some guys can’t take Rejection?

February 18 2012

We had a guy 32 who is only a guest on here; send us an e-mail to meet, we arranged to meet twice and both time was not good for him, he wants to meet late at night, in the end we met someone else who did turn up to meet, so I sent a e-mail to the 32 yo and said we were not interested in meeting as we are meeting with someone else........ I put our age limit back up to 45 yo’s as we have found young people don’t seem to take rejection very well...... This is the reply we got: I think ur full of shit,it's ppl like u that give this place a tacky name...Hope u eventually come through for somebody nd stop wasting others time...good luck Why do people (manly guys) think that if they don’t like your time to meet, you should put yourself out for them?

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RHP User

14 years ago

omg...we had one guy message us saying how much he liked our profile, and what we share in the forums....'would we be his friends?'...... we said a polite 'no'.....more than once.....and now, whenever we cross paths in the forums....its an opportunity for him to still hurl abuse and invective our way... so we no longer respond.... dont worry tho...they do go away....or you just report them to the site moderators....and let them deal with it........

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RHP User

14 years ago

It makes us feel better we are not the only one to get this shit.... When you say No to someone why cant the just move on, and yes we had to block him seeing our profile and we did report him.... Hopefuly he does not read the forum....

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RHP User

14 years ago

As a guy, rejection is just a rudimentary misfortune on the journey to "scoring"! Smarter to get use to it...let go and move on!!!Having said that, there are occasions when you sense something special may have been missed....but still the healthly thing to do for everybody involved is let go and move on. ....next!

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RHP User

14 years ago

Have to agree with lee_wood but also, bad manners just don't have a place on a site like RHP.He could have been nice about it and wished good luck and just left it at that. Who knows, he might have left the door open for a later date but being rude and bad mannered deserves having the door slammed in the face and no second chances.

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RHP User

14 years ago

though guys on here do get carried away (like the example above) there are women on here that do practically the same in terms of receiving messages and flirts and then you not hear back from them.Ive said no thanks and have got no thanks as well - u wish them the best a move along... anything else and you should deserve a "dick head" stamped across your profile as public humiliation lol!

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RHP User

14 years ago

sungle guy here... and i never get one reply when i ask to meet (females) .. so all i can say "who knows" i wish i got get a no,sorry im busy,piss off you freak or anything as a rely to a email... a reply is better than no reply at all.

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RHP User

14 years ago

I know that female can do the same but if someone says: thank you but we are not interested... I would find it easyer to just reply and say: thanks and you have fun..... Not every one will get along even if you e-mail a person 10 times... but meybe if he had of just said thank you down the line we may have run into him again and change our mind.. but now he not going to get a look in.......

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RHP User

14 years ago

He's done you a favour. Shown his true colours early so you know you don't want to know him. Don't be put off, there are still good people to be found on RHP. Unfortunately, there are arseholes to be found everywhere.

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RHP User

14 years ago

Aren't you glad you didn't catch up with him? Sounds like he was attached (and not just to outcome) by the late meet criteria. . I doubt he would comment about your post here because we would then know who the Git is.

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RHP User

14 years ago

Thanks jensman1903 you are right if he had not said that we may have found out when it was too late.... People like him dont make good friends..... Thanks Guys..........................

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RHP User

14 years ago

Quoting 'Punisher_roach' sungle guy here... and i never get one reply when i ask to meet (females) .. so all i can say "who knows" i wish i got get a no,sorry im busy,piss off you freak or anything as a rely to a email... a reply is better than no reply at all.

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RHP User

14 years ago

just get over it and look for some one else its apart of life we win some we loose some and its mutch easyer on line than in person where all you have done is look at a pic or send msg as long as you are up front the first time rejection doesnt bother me as a skiny red head my school days were full of it so as i got older i just got over it and now i dont give a ,,,,, but if you dont ask you dont know better to be told to ,,,,,, than left wondering

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