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Why is it so hard to find people for soft play/same partner same room sex?
January 09 2019
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RHP User
7 years ago
God I wish I could edit this?! So many errors lol. Note to self, proof reading is always a good thing haha.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Sweety we would love to help you out in your quest we love to do same room
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RHP User
7 years ago
Quoting 'Innocentfun' God I wish I could edit this?! So many errors lol. Note to self, proof reading is always a good thing haha.
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FeistyFatty
7 years ago
Probably because we all have different interests. Soft swap is a hard sell, certainly does not interest me in any way shape or form and hubby and I have encountered quite a few soft swappers over the years. So they're out there.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I've been invited to just watch couples before, it's a real turn on to just watch a couple be passionate with each other sometimes.
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RHP User
7 years ago
I read somewhere once on a profile for this couple (or the couple who owned the profile) that they wanted to save the best for each other - now for me I interpreted that to be that final orgasmic climatic release let everything go toe curling screaming can’t get your breath but give me more moment via penetration was for them.. and it touched home for me.... so much so it’s stuck in my Mind and I always wish I’d remember their words correctly as it explains how I feel about it. As I’ve continued on my journey I have grown but these words still stick with me. I don’t see an issue with saving that moment for your partner - there’s so much fun and exploration and passion and sensual touching and kissing and teasing that can be done - especially when there’s more hands and mouths and bodies involved to heighten the senses - but soft swap can seem to be quite looked down upon by those who only full swap (in my experience (disclaimer!!! Lol)) I’m not against full swap but when it’s thrown out there as the only option and if we don’t agree to it then it’s see ya later I tend to dig my heels in a little.. lol
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SSExplorer
7 years ago
You always put things very well Redmustang. This always amazes me. When I was single, if I was to meet a woman and get to let’s have a date stage I never went along expecting her to put out in any way shape or form. Why as couples do we think swapping a few photos and swapping a few messages is enough for us to share not only our bodies but the body of someone we care so deeply for. Some may say we are all here for sex but I think it’s more limiting to base choices purely on a profile and then go straight to fucking. Open the gate a little further and meet people outside your box and see what happens. The best experiences I’ve had have not been with my most favourite profiles but the ones that catch you buy surprise by having more than the sum of their parts when you meet. Also I think it’s much more exciting not knowing what your night might be rather than knowing the inevitable Mrs A will play with Mrs B for a very short time until Mr B will push Mrs B aside to stick it into Mrs A
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RHP User
7 years ago
We only do same room, when we deside to play with others. We dont get to play often due to finding the time. But when we do we like to get the most out of it. So understand why some would like soft swap
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ck6151
7 years ago
If the playtime is negotiated before hand, consensual soft swap can be an awesome exploration of partners. And same room sex can also be an almighty turn on, for all parties.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Red mustang if you’re ever in Brisbane 😉😉. Seems there is just a few of us around. Oh well we know what we want and I personally think if we are meant to find like minded sexy fun couples we can enjoy we will come across them. Life is short, time to enjoy it and not let people pressure us. x
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MILFandMr
7 years ago
Hey there . We are heading you! We have lots of trouble finding classy and non pushy couples. We do sometimes full swap but not always and more than happy for girl on girl and same room so let us know if you are nterested in meeting up. Sane goes for red mustang! Krystal and dan
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RHP User
7 years ago
D_cross lets chat hehe
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bliss2
7 years ago
Soo much prefer the soft swap
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RHP User
7 years ago
I think people forget that people have different interests. And as far as swinging goes, soft swap is still pretty niche and not at all mainstream. If that’s what you’re into then just find others like you; no sense complaining or judging people who are into it.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Nope no judgment here, never judgment from us that’s one thing people can be sure of. It’s jot fair to judge, life is too short. Anyways..... search shall continue for the soft swappers lol. Nothing like some sexy fun to keep life exciting! Thanks one and all for your comments. xo
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Nudetwo
7 years ago
Have to agree that its difficult to find couples who are not into full swap, after all its a swingers site.We only ever do SRS own partners and soft swap if all comfortable. Some full swap couples that we met have told us they had just as much fun with us as with other full swap couples.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hi guys Yes we know exactly what ya taking about. It’s a hard sell We are exactly like you guys and have found two couples who also soft swapped who have now moved to full swapping however we have not. If you guys would like to chat further let us know CJ 💋
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TWOfourYOU
7 years ago
Hey guys, we are the same when it comes to couples, have swapped in the best and is something we still entertain, but certainly not essential. It is hard to find and couples I think try to push (at times) to progress even though we have it in our profile and are up front....We agree its sexy!
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RHP User
7 years ago
yep, we thought we were the only ones who were into this. Dinner, drinks, laughs, flirts a little bit etc.
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play_pal_s
7 years ago
This is exactly the sort of fun we luv. Look us up if your ever in Broome!
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RHP User
7 years ago
We are happy to go with what ever the people we meet are happy and comfortable with. It's about everyone being comfortable and respected. As long as everything is spelt out before hand. For us it's about the "click" We only play as a couple. So we'd be happy with a soft same room swap. I actually get so turned on listening to other people, particularly a woman. I can understand why people want to full swap tho. It's also a turn on watching my husband with someone else. Everyone's turn one nd odds are different so needs/ wants and experience are different
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RHP User
7 years ago
Innocent fun.. We found exactly the same thing. It seemed to us that a LOT of couples simply weren't interested in their own partner, and as such, always wanted to ditch him/her in favor of another. Before I get attacked.. not doubt this doesnt apply to every couple out there.. Just put experience. This was one of the reasons we went to only meeting guys, not couples.. T xx
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RHP User
7 years ago
I think there is lots of couples that just want to hang out with other couples that are free and easy for what ever they do together,if its beach camping in the nude etc,,,stick to ya own partner but don't be shy what you do infront of others,, we would love to go somewhere like fraserisland with some open minded couples,,,drinks ,,clothes free,,good times,,but own partners,,,to a degree,,,
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RHP User
7 years ago
We find the concept of soft swapping a bit too close to vanilla for our liking and akin to getting turned on from flirting with others at the pub then going home to fuck. That's all good, and many couples enjoy that experience however we like a bit more kink in our fun. Raceyroo xx
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RHP User
7 years ago
It's actually hard to find anyone on here. Everyone just seems eager to get as many flirts and friends as they can. All talk and no action this site. Just another money grab of you ask me.
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