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Why is it so hard

March 26 2024

Today I’m writing coming from a couple new to the lifestyle only just starting to explore and experiment with our sexuality but we’re finding it quite hard to find likeminded couples or females in our local area of Mornington peninsula victoria yes we get to chat to some people online but we are more of the genuine kind that would actually like to meet people face to face for lunch/dinner or drinks get to know them anyone else have these issues?

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Alexis
a month ago
It’s hard because you’re strangers on the internet, in a place with a relatively small population, seeking something which a tiny subset of the population does.

Keep chatting, build some trust, let people operate in their own timeframes and don’t push too hard for face to face meets too soon.

Your profile is good though. It shouldn’t take too long to build some trust.
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TheMinx
a month ago
Go to events or clubs there will be lots of like minded people there to chat with have a drink with and connect with.
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NeoAndTrin
a month ago
Use the datefinder part. We met a couple first time we used it just recently.
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FeistyFatty
a month ago
Its not hard to find people to play with. The intricate part is for that person/s to have equal attraction to the both of you. Therein lies one of the many nuances of swinging.
Attending events can be more forgiving as it allows your personality to be visualised more than just your physical appearance. Online platforms aren't for everyone.
Best of luck x
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Andrea_Sydney
a month ago
I would try a meet and greet. Maybe in Melbourne, and see if you meet anyone you feel like swopping numbers with. You find meet & greets advertised in the parties & events section.
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shadesofbrown
a month ago
Hey mate! Search MINGLEevents and try one of their social events(No dress-downs) and I'm sure you two would have an amazing time. All the best 💖
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MajekMonkey
22 days ago
You're probably better off than a single male, that said these apps work best when you live inside a big city i.e. Sydney and Melbourne. If you're rural than you need to consider being able to travel for dates.
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boobsandbusted
22 days ago
I’d say participating in a thread you start or responding to a chat you start in private, might be a great start 🙄

Mr b
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BELREN82
20 days ago
Good luck 3 years here still looking
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