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Why is is that most girls are bi, but guys are not?
December 12 2017
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RHP User
8 years ago
Nice question fellow novocastrians. I actually have been involved in vanilla bi with couples as it seems the "lady" likes to see her man involved. I did have bi curious on my profile but was hit up by so many gay guys I removed it. I am not gay. Experimenting is fun. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I don't think most women are bi at all. More like bi women will end up on a website such as this, a fair amount of them would be experimenting, a fair amount of those just to please their partner, kick a few tyres so to speak. In RL I would imagine the numbers would be similar. I haven't met a single bi woman in general life, not openly bi, but then again, haven't met any bi men either. Gay men and women yes, but not bi, difference there is they have outed themselves I guess, where many bi people keep the bi part private from their everyday life. I'm not making reference to the swinging world or online, I mean out in RL. But how many women are truly bi? Not as many as it would appear is my opinion. Look at those who once played bi, but only play straight now, yet still consider themselves bi. I call bs, if they were truly bi, they'd be still lusting after women surely? Re men, from the profiles I've seen, plenty are bi. But I'm looking at singles. Maybe check more single male bi profiles? Just a thought
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voyeursmf
8 years ago
Still alot of stigma attached to bi males. It seems that it is more accepted than we think, but people do not advertise it. But maybe I am wrong, just my thoughts. Mr.
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RHP User
8 years ago
That bisexuality is ment to occur more in men than women but I think as voyeursmf has pointed out there's a lot more stigma attached to being male and bisexual.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Mrs Dex is very bi and loves her girl fun, we have played with a few bi couples and it was a lot of fun but some guys are freaked out by it. We have found a lot of younger couples are very open to both bi play.
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try1ngit
8 years ago
if a male in the couple puts bi in their profile they are inundated with winks and messages from gay males. Whilst they might enjoy a little bi play in a mfm, mfmf, situation it does not mean that they just want or need a male partner. it is just part of the 'playtime', some ladies also enjoy seeing their man get a serve as well, lol.
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boobsandbusted
8 years ago
i’d have to agree in part with itouch ,many are plenty curious but not really bi ,or as in mrs b’s case it’s great foreplay and a huge turn on , they have a play, enjoy some fun ,but for many if the line was drawn would go with men at the end of the day if they had to choose between the sexes ,luckily the don’t have to choose in the swinging world and get to have fun with both sides while it pleases them mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
yes good question we both enjoy each others bisexual side and support ad encourage each other to explore it weather alone or together
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RHP User
8 years ago
Yes this is something that has intrigued me too. Perhaps it is the old male thing of not wanting to admit to being gay.
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
that it has a lot to do with what’s portrayed in the majority of the mainstream porn movies : there is a lot of “girl on girl “ action but very rarely any “guy on guy” bi action. Perhaps this has helped make bisexual girl girl action more “socially acceptable”, the result of which is that there are so many females (females of couples) on here who have ticked bi or bi curious on their profiles ? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
The first rule of cock fight club is that you don’t speak about cock fight club... Mr D - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Exactly. Perfectly put. - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Straight is the new Bi. Straight guys don't have issue sucking on my dick.....
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RHP User
8 years ago
I call it heteroflexible, and lots of guys are but don’t advertise because a good percentage of women won’t play with bisexual men. And yes bi women are sexy, but bi men are “dirty”.
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
It's a bit of a cop out saying that Bi guys put straight as they got tired of gay guys hitting them up.My male half had a bi profile on here for 12 months. In that time only l guy messaged and he was biSo with the avalanche of messages that guys receive from women and couples, it must be really difficult to find time to read the hits from gay guys...... And gee, must be really confronting having to receive attention from a guy..... when you are Bi. Excuse me whilst l reset my bullshit meter......
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Sawadee
8 years ago
This site is the ideal platform for both bi / gay men and women to advertise their wares . I'm neither gay or bi , but the amount of men who check out my profile tells me there's plenty around if your that way inclined.. In fact I'd be quite happy if I had that many females checking me out.. Gets back to what I said about this site being the ideal platform ,
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Dirtyandfriendly
8 years ago
It's more of a thrill from both sexes when a female is bi, man couples yearn for that one bi woman, yet that bi woman needs to want both couple and a lot of the time they just want a girl on girl play. Sometimes it's just a fantasy too and have no intention of playing. Men on the other hand is a completely different world, this is just what I've experienced and not a generalisation. Couples and men who are open about being bi I think is admirable and their honesty about being open is appreciated. There are men out there who are married or partnered and secretly go out to find men for sex because it's easier and they do it very discretely. They need discretion and don't want anyone to know they do it. There partners have stopped giving them some attention and go out and find guys online. Trust me there are more out there than you think, they are so discrete about it and just do it for a quick thrill.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think it may have something to do with fact that men may think that being bi is less acceptable and don’t want to advertise it. Even though that’s what sites like this are for. Just my 2 cents. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I said I thought numbers would be similar in RL, what I meant was male/female ratio. I agree with comments above re it not being so acceptable for men. Leaving out work and extended family, who can blame men for not wanting to risk/upend that. But the first point of contact is the wife (vanilla version) and isn't necessarily going to react well or celibrate the news, where most men would have pornographic fantasies flying around in their brains "yes yes omg fuck yeah", already planning the massive orgies playing out in their heads 😉 naughty things they are 😜
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RHP User
8 years ago
I need to be clearer, I meant most men after being told by his wife she is bi. For the record, I absolutely hope the world hurries up to be more accepting. Few smalls steps recently but long way to go. It saddens me that men might worry about appearing less manly to workmates etc when the truth is, there are soooo many women turned on by male bisexuality, me included, not less manly at all, quite the opposite, sexy as fuck. It's just the bloody muggles who need to be educated. I talk to people about this stuff as much as I can. I can't change the world single handedly, but for every person I get to open their mind, one down, 7 billion or so left lol
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RHP User
8 years ago
You hit the nail on the head. Men are worried how people will react and I personally wouldn’t tell anyone at work in a million years. I personally don’t know any woman that are turned on by it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
We bloody label everything and everyone. Why do we even have to label it.....experimental is even a label. Our personal sexual preferences do not define us as people. Just because we want to try something new or are curious about something does not mean we are gay or bi or whatever. Yes people do define themselves if they have one sexual preference whether they prefer men women or both. When I was growing up you were labelled a tart if you had too many partners and this sort of thing swinging, gangbangs, etc was always kept in the closet. We are getting more educated as society grows and with the invention of the net the world is evolving but will it ever evolve enough that we don't have to label everything. All of these behaviours have been around since the beginning of time its just now we have to justify and label it.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'look_87' You hit the nail on the head. Men are worried how people will react and I personally wouldn’t tell anyone at work in a million years. I personally don’t know any woman that are turned on by it. - Posted from rhpmobile I'm 100% sure you know at least one woman that would love to watch two men together (and be a part of it) but it isn't exactly something that comes up in general conversation. I love love love the idea of two men together but even on here I don't exactly throw it out there to couples/singles we meet as it isn't relevant to the experience (Mr is not keen at all so it isn't going to happen). Still, that doesn't mean I can't dream Back to the OP's question, I think that - as has already been said - men are just more cagey about it because while most people think that two women together is hot, they also are super judgmental about men with other men. The "If they like men then they must just be gay" kind of mentality is super common. Even on this kind of site people are still judgmental about that kind of thing. Absolutely ridiculous, but there you go. Miss Little xx
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technologic
8 years ago
Totally love guy on guy. They don't even need to be gay/bi. Mr T doesn't identify as bi but he's game and that is super hot to me. 😍 - Posted from rhpmobile
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Sawadee
8 years ago
Coming from a male who only loves making out with women' it doesnt matter to me if the lady I'm with is bi or not. In fact ' of the handful of 3 some's I've enjoyed , 2 were instigated by bi females.. So Im not about to complain .. But by being a hetero man ' it doesn't automatically mean I'm pro or anti gay or bi . I accept it all as part of life.. and to my way of thinking, there's no need to fight to change anyone , you are what you are and thats the way it will always be..
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RHP User
8 years ago
I am not one bit bi or even interested in trying it. I dont know any bi women or bi men. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
This> "I accept it all as part of life.. and to my way of thinking, there's no need to fight to change anyone , you are what you are and thats the way it will always be" Just rereading this, I wondered whether you were referencing my comment about changing the world? If so, I didn't mean to turn people bi/gay lol just to be more accepting and supportive of others choices 👍
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cbdlivin
8 years ago
As mentioned, the stigma attached to being a bi guy means a lot of guys put straight on their profiles when they are not. The reactions you get from people who have a negative view of bi guys says a lot about the acceptance or lack of acceptance that is out there. With the amount of contacts I have had from couples with the guy saying straight when he definitely is not is entertaining and the even a higher percentage amongst the single straight guys. B
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hi , Don't want to be pounded by gay guys constantly . In mine , I am bi only with couples . Have introduced a couple of hubbies to the pleasures of cocksucking and they enjoyed it .I think there is a huge stigma for men to openly say they are bi and hence many guys havent experimented . Most are scared of their dicks touching still , as in a dp, dvp,dap . Fantasy of mine is hubby fucking my arse while getting blown by wifey and variations of it . Tgirl in this mix , even better 😜🎬⚔️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I mean, let's face it - you are either into sucking dick or you aren't. I don't think it's simply a case of ''hey, just relax and grope anything that comes your way''. You're either into that or you're not. I'm a member of a bi site similar to this and I can tell you there are a hell of a lot more bi guys out there than people think, but it is still the case that if I were to waggle my appendage in their faces, most blokes would just punch me.
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RHP User
8 years ago
im still looking for the right couple to give me anal. its dawnting the first time
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RHP User
8 years ago
A lot of women don't like the thought of dating a bi guy due to the perception that all bi guys are very promiscuous and will not be faithful and they can't handle the competition, that is always thinking that he wont be 100% satisfied with me. Swingers or non monogomaous people are more open to the bi guy. Lots of women in the swinging scene will play with other women but consider themselves straight. I do.
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