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Why don't people READ???
January 24 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Given you don't have a generic profile, I think you could be excused for not replying to 'out there' ones. It's the profiles with a generic "I like coffee do you?" that sound like whining kids. And I'm not just saying that because I'm looking for discrete fun with a Qlder :-) Hhee Coombahbah. Man - who named things in Qld?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well wannaby I hope you respond to my mail message you sound like a lady I would like to know.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I know what you mean................most times I reply with the Thanks but no thanks but when they keep sending messages and flirts anyway I just delete. So for anyone whinging about people not replying maybe they should check the details of the people they are contacting. It's also really crazy getting messages saying they want to meet when the live 100's and 1000's of kilometres away.........I just dont get that...............no face pic and I am going to jump on a plane and meet you. Dont think so. So wannabyummymummy I think it is just something we have to put up with............it's always nice to log on and see you have messages/flirts even if they arent what you want .....................there is always the chance that one of them will be...............and deleting is pretty easy. Good luck
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RHP User
16 years ago
You are absolutely right in your comments. Don't be discouraged as there are people out there who are the real deal, you may just need to reserve your right as to whom you respond to. Good luck in your quest.
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wannabyummymummy
16 years ago
i think one of the ones that gets me the most is the fact that i have clearly stated that i prefer to get to know someone first before jumping into bed and then you get the ones who decide to message you straight up with a 'hi lets meet'like sure..... i don't know your name or anything about you but lets get together i mean what's the worst that can happen?? i end up on the 6pm news as missing?? lol come on does anyone really work like that????then there is the forums where people complain about no shows, i wonder how many of those have rushed things and that is why the person chickens out and doesn't show up??i have chatted to some really nice genuine people so i do believe they are on here, just gets a little frustrating to weed out the others
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well from the other side of the boat i always make sure i read the profiles rather carefully and only send to those in the right criteria and it does get a little disheartyining sometimes when you get absolutely nom response at all. I do however agree with what you are saying as it is not hard to read a profile properly. Ignore the buggers who ignore to read the profiles properly.
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RHP User
16 years ago
for at least attempting to respond to all the flirts/emails you get... many of the gals here don't even bother to do that even after you take a few moments to write them an email that says more than "hey - wanna fcuk...". Sure - I understand that most men can't read.. don't they say that only women can multitask? ;-) I mean - they are sitting there drooling at your photo and too busy thinking about the fun you will have with them to actually read.. come on ;-) Anyway - sorry to hear you've been afflicted by the lower end of the gene pool - it happens to the nice gals... and the norty ones too. Wayne
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wannabyummymummy
16 years ago
Thanks Wayne,yes there does seem to be a wide and varied bunch on here (which of course is a good thing) lolThough it seems Profiles are not the only thing these types don't read it seems they don't check out the forums either as posting this has not limited the offending flirts/messages arrrgh!! what is a girl to do? perhaps a flirt response option that says 'sorry i only respond to people who actually read'
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RHP User
16 years ago
i gotta be upfront and say that occasionally my fingers do stray and i do send an emailto someone completely unsuitable...grins...hey...i can't help it...oh...did i say occasionally?....anyway...i am sure that the girls get flooded and if they don;t like my email...and they choose not to respondthat's all cool...not as if i'm gunna flood their inbox...and anyway...i only send emails to the galswho tickle my...errr...funny bone....if ya knows what i mean....cheersjose... but not today...
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wannabyummymummy
16 years ago
well comeandgetme68, thanks for that point of view, i mean i don't mind the odd random message from someone outside of what i am looking for don't get me wrong in fact i have wound up chatting to some of them but at least acknowledge that they have read the profile and know that they are not what i am looking for or have something funny/intelligent/interesting to say not just try and meet up straight away.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Over the weekend I placed the following onto my profile: THIS PROFILE IS HERE NOW SO I CAN ACCESS FORUMS AND SOME FRIENDS AFTER A BREAK UP WITH MY LONG TERM BF. I AM CURRENTLY NOT LOOOKING FOR ANYTHING OR ANYONE SO UNLESS WE ARE ALREADY IN CONTACT DONT BOTHER And the idiots who have still sent me flirts and messages well... While I do try to take every effort in answering everyone under normal circumstances these ones can go Jump! I just didnt think it was too much to ask for for someone to actually read a persons profile and not just drool over their pic. Wayne, I believe I have already recognised in another post that you truely are one of the nice guys and once again I am proven right.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Now if I had message originating access I too would be sending off ludicrous emails to ladies totally out of my range. Could have a lot of fun with that... Do have 7 very valid points... 1 - Boyfriends on aged walkers are less likely to stray 2 - It would be like a different person each date with the Alzheimer's 3 - I would at least be experienced 4 - No problem with premature ejaculation... just might not cum at all 5 - Cheap date with the seniors discounts 6 - Poor eyesight so not going to be choosy 7 - Built for comfort
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wannabyummymummy
16 years ago
however:1-if boyfriend in walker does stray you are less likely to mind2-like that one :)3-age doesn't always=experience4-can have too much of a good thing and cum is part of the fun5- would prefer shop a dockets to seniors card6- poor eyesight also means harder to see what you are doing and i don't mind people who are choosy7- ok comfort is important.besides it is not just the ones that are older than the age range i have had them way under to and that grosses me out some are just babies for crying out loud!!OK now i can hear all the reasons to go for the young ones, bring it on :)it isn't so much about age really just interests and preferences.
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RHP User
16 years ago
1 - embarrassing if hubby arrives home early 2 - awkward if you've parked in his carport spot 3 - hostile if you've drunk all his beer 4 - difficult if hubby wants the bed 5 - uncomfortable if you're hiding underneath it 6 - disturbing if his bum discovers the wet spot 7 - crushing if he now decides to shag his wife
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RHP User
16 years ago
1 - Has an incredible sense of humour 2 - Has a refreshing outlook on life 3 - Has a healthy fixation on sex 4 - Has a most photogenic body 5 - Has an ingenious approach to dealing with her daughter 6 - Can snap pencils after all those Kegel exercises 7 - Enjoys cuddles I also suspect Trish enjoys St Patrick's Day too. Did you know that men can also benefit from Kegel exercises? Some men can even achieve a form of orgasm without initially cumming so that they can reach multiple "climaxes". The exercise will also lifts the balls.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Great promo on Trish, Eunuch! Keep up the good work.Trish, you really are all those things.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sorry for hijacking your thread there wannabyummymummy. I take it you won't be responding to my flirts now?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'niceguy0068'Sure - I understand that most men can't read.. don't they say that only women can multitask? ;-) I mean - they are sitting there drooling at your photo and too busy thinking about the fun you will have with them to actually read.. come on ;-) Wayne You are so right, men cannot read!. How come only the illiterate men can get on this website? I think I am going to swing towards women now!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'focusliason' Over the weekend I placed the following onto my profile: THIS PROFILE IS HERE NOW SO I CAN ACCESS FORUMS AND SOME FRIENDS AFTER A BREAK UP WITH MY LONG TERM BF. I AM CURRENTLY NOT LOOOKING FOR ANYTHING OR ANYONE SO UNLESS WE ARE ALREADY IN CONTACT DONT BOTHER And the idiots who have still sent me flirts and messages well... While I do try to take every effort in answering everyone under normal circumstances these ones can go Jump! I just didnt think it was too much to ask for for someone to actually read a persons profile and not just drool over their pic. Ok, i finished drooling over ya pics and thought ya might not know, but if ya go into edit profile settings under home and then click on profile settings in the box marked Profile Preferences and then scroll all the way to the bottom, you can tick the box marked Don't accept new messages. But will ya at least wait until i've sent ya my email....hehe...cheersjose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'wannabyummymummy' well comeandgetme68, thanks for that point of view, i mean i don't mind the odd random message from someone outside of what i am looking for don't get me wrong in fact i have wound up chatting to some of them but at least acknowledge that they have read the profile and know that they are not what i am looking for or have something funny/intelligent/interesting to say not just try and meet up straight away. i was gunna email ya...but have successfully super-glued hands into trousers...actually it's quite a lot of fun...norty fingers...hey...stop playing down there...anyway...thoe i am now typing wif my tonguethoe exthcuthe me if i lithp a bit...doth thith mean ya can't meet me tomorrow night at the Thrine in Melbourne???....awww that thuckth, ya know...theeth...thniffing now and thulking....hothay....
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wannabyummymummy
16 years ago
That's ok eunuch you can hijack my thread anytime you have a great sense of humor and i like that you lightened my mood a little.and just for the record i was kidding with my responses to your 7 valid points.
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wannabyummymummy
16 years ago
well comeandgetme68 if you ever get the use of your hands back maybe you can message me and we can chat sometime, seems i am making some exceptions to my rules here mmmmmmmm perhaps posting this was a great idea after all have heard some very interesting points of view :)thanks guys (and girls) all comments are appreciatedoh and happy Australia day to all
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RHP User
16 years ago
I take the time.......which is often more than 20 mins of my playtime on the computer to answer every message i get......I dont bother with Flirts anymore as since the HOt or What Pic rating thingy came out i get random flirts from the same people several times a day.....( but thanks for rating my Pic ....lol) I platinum.......anyone can message me anytime......so no excuses for endless Meaningless....flirts If i had 5 cents( as they dont make 2's and 1's anymore) for every person that did not get past my pictures before they hurridly hit that send message button id....be richer than Murdoch i think lol As for other peoples profiles......if i open up a proflie and see a Dick shot or Twat Shot.....as a profile pic.... Forget IT...! I mean seriously we are more than our genitalia..... I read them......not cause im suffering a lack of reading material either A well wriiten and thought out profile of likes , dislikes and what you aim to achieve here at RHP...... Will rope me in faster than Any Picture Call it what you want....Common Courtesy/Politeness/Respect But insult me and my literary skills by not Reading my profile....and you end up in My Block Box...... Its cold its dark.......and the lid is only opened to throw another one in ...... Picks up Box and rattles it......Yep they are still in There.....lol Nudie xxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'COMEANDGETME68' Ok, i finished drooling over ya pics and thought ya might not know, but if ya go into edit profile settings under home and then click on profile settings in the box marked Profile Preferences and then scroll all the way to the bottom, you can tick the box marked Don't accept new messages. But will ya at least wait until i've sent ya my email....hehe...cheersjose... Ummmm still waiting
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wannabyummymummy
16 years ago
Maybe his hands are still stuck down his pants after all, do i hear a Road trip down to Melbourne?? well someone should check to make sure he is ok???
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RHP User
16 years ago
got me hands out...yayyy...speed typing here i come...emails sent....736 flirts sent...1243 friends requests are now gone too...sighnow me bored.....gigglingjose...
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wannabyummymummy
16 years ago
ok i can see that it is a common problem for people not to read profiles (or forums it seems) so my bitch switch is on i created a template reply to messages that says "i'm sorry you seem to have a problem reading profiles so let me say it more clearly you don't match what i am looking for on a number of things so NO!!!" is that too harsh you think????Granted i have learned in my short time here that sometimes you meet nice people who are outside of what you have specified that you are looking for (and you all know who you are) but these are not the same people messaging to meet up and have sex they are more interested in knowing me and i appreciate that and they will NOT get the above mentioned reply but for those that dive straight in and think i will swoon to them you have been warned
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RHP User
16 years ago
I've been on RHP for about a week and I'm already drowing in unwanted flirts and messages! Any help with profile comments etc to stop them would be appreciated! :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just exchanged few messages with a guy here and then the last one he sent me was 'sorry, didn't know you were TS, not interested..." WTF!!! didn't guys read before they send message?
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