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Why do women on these sites always seem to think guys over 50 cant make it happen
August 15 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
be interested in you OP is that firstly you are married. You say that you are in an open relationship but many single women don't want to have anything to do with married men. If you are looking for sex you are competing here with younger better looking,fitter males.What is different about you from all the other 50 plus men looking for sex that would make you a standout? Do people judge a book by its' cover,unfortunately most do. I suggest you choose who you contact carefully,pick women whose selection criteria you may fit,and seriously, do you expect teenage girls to be interested.When I see 18 plus on a mans profile I find it a little disturbing if he is in his 50sx Hugs H
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Hesione' When I see 18 plus on a mans profile I find it a little disturbing if he is in his 50sx Hugs H Yes!
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RHP User
13 years ago
a no go zone mate, round these here parts, it's iffy after 45 and after the big half century...wellll...it's mostly kinda over!The majority of women don't like old guys, they want the 20's and 30's set.Apparently we have nothing to bring to the table, for any kind of relationshipthat your average 25yo can't deliver and more, or so Iv'e heard.So take the pressure of yourself mate, It may happen for you, it may not.This may not be much of a consolation, but most guys here strike out, regardlessof age, unless your one of the five percenters.Good luck over there in Glenelg...lucky bugger.Cheers Felonius
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Playful2looking
13 years ago
Welcome to the world of invisiability..meaning when a woman has kids she is such and suches mother or the taxi driver for the neighbours kids. Sexually or as person she can be come invisible. Lose her Identity sort of. Now a married guy can alsio become invisible. for similar but also for few other reasons why i guess because they just are. But if you are a woman on this site you can become a cougar and you can become a person again. Because the young want to bonk them. unfortunatley it doesnt work for married men on here you are just another married bloke. why can't men become the male eqiuivalent of a Cougar shit I dont know you will have to ask the single women or Hesione.I guess there is myth that married men are all cheats and their poor wife is a victim. Where as most married men aren't cheats too busy working but 20% are and they give us a bad name. Or its fashionable to blame men.. who knows
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi Hesione, I fully understand that many single girls dont want to be with a married man and I dont expect them to respond, what is frustrating is that if you you through the female profiles then it is amazing whether they are single or not how many have an upper age limit of 45, also if its good for the goose its good for the gander, many of the female profiles Ive read are happy to put 18 to 45. I just find it frustrating if I find the fun great then it will be someone who wants it but I am lucky because I can walk 5 paces and will still have agood time. I still believe that most women under estimate the 50year plus bracket, but that appears to be life, Best Wishes kisses and hugs.
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Smilingwithfun
13 years ago
Have to agree with Felonious for the most part.Kramsins is right in that most women profiles stop at the 45 or mabe 50 age.At 52 its not the lower age limit that affects me rather the higher.What some of the above posts have said is probably true re the married bit, in that i'm single & have chatted to a few & met several extremely intelligent geniune goodlooking women.For me its not just about sex,funny thing to say on this site, its about chatting,maybe meeting but learning about the other person. Ive learnt so much about women my age just by chatting & the forum.Some of the best relationship education possible for me.For me its who you are & your mindset rather than i want sex.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think it is with both genders on here you are a stud or a dud....same as women.....For me I am more a dud, soo take it or leave it. You will attract the people which are right for you. Its just a matter of time. Be true to your self and what you want...but please dont complain. It is just what it is. You can not expect all women on here to choose you when there is a smogersborad of beautiful bodies to choose from.....where do you live, in fantsyland? Sorry to be so harsh but thats reality.
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RHP User
13 years ago
If you look at my profile you will see my preference is for men 45-60.I am often contacted by much younger men but I am not interested.I personally do not think that men over 50 as you say OP "can't make it happen"but the majority of women here do prefer younger men.That is the reality.I prefer unattached men simply because in my experience attached men are rarely availoable,either physically or emotionally.x Hugs H
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RHP User
13 years ago
You're married, experimental and safe sex is only "as required " thats three strikes dude !I'm over 50 and having a wonderful time thank you very much ! P.S Oh yeah, note to you and others, whining is not attractive !
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RHP User
13 years ago
i am 42 , my las t boyfriend was 62... so not a matter of age ...just status. over 50 and available , no problem as if I look only for fun ... close to my age is better.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Different side of the coin … Age for me is a bracket I may be looking at or take into consideration. So I would much rather meet / play / fuck or whatever with a woman who looks after her body this is not Red Hot Personality .. yes I like to look at the mantel piece whilst poking the fire, yes I enjoy looking at a nice firm arse while in the doggy position and yes I would rather be eating a nice pussy attached to a hot set of legs …wouldn’t we all ??? But with youth in general comes a nice firm body but having said that a 40+ woman who takes great care of herself and is active is by far the most attractive to me But maybe that is just because that is my Age Group… Just saying
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RHP User
13 years ago
I agree with you, its hard for a male to find sex when over 50. Any woman no matter what she looks like or her personality can get laid. Its a fact of life. What she cant find is intimacy and that is where the 50 plus men come to play. Then have the time if they are single, the money if they are working, and usually the place to take a woman. They often also want more than just sex, though some may think that they can offer just sex and women will take acept that, but that is not the case. That is not a logical assumption. If a woman just wants hot sex well as its a visual and primal thing then why not have it with a very hot, horny fucker who does what you ask him to do , and does it well. To tell the truth, most of my lovers are between 30 and 40 but I also have met one guy over fifty who was smokin hot and he did not have sex with me, his choice I might add. Its a hard thing for guys to find women on here or even off-line as now women are so in tune to their bodies needs that they can shrug of convention and take the sex they want. For to long women have thought sex is something that you have with a guy to get a partner. That often did not work out and now there are droves of women especially older women seeking the big O that they did not get in other relationships or in marriage. I went to a lecture last night on sexuality and pleasing women There was on guy there, yes ONE. The very people who need to know do not bother to learn. I learnt heaps and I am sixty and still learning, god have you seen those new medical silicone toys? Did you guys know that women can have five different kinds of orgasm? At 50 a lot of guys just stop learning, and then there are the young bucks with great bodies and willing mouths. I had my first oral orgasm ago from a 32 year old guy of RHP, and my first multi and I had been with men my own age and married for 20 odd years so my generation of men leave a lot to be desired. Just sayn
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
age is a number, but I also think it depends on the individual and how the 50 yr old looks after themselves.there are some hot older men out there that you wouldnt think were in their 50's, they look after themselves, take pride in what they do..... then there are the 50 yr olds who think they are something else and its a big turn off
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RHP User
13 years ago
I prefer older men.. But I'm not allowed to play. The closest age difference I have had is with my husband at 9 years older, I have found older men generally speak more nicely, are more respectful towards you, have more to say and don't just say " thanks for the photo now I have something to wank over!! " but that's not to say I don't like it when a hot young 20 yo pops a message to me ;P xMia
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RHP User
13 years ago
It is interesting to see how people react to a topic, I propsed this topic as a Question/Statement, it is interesting how people precieve things. This was not me whinging at all but merely an appraisal of what I see on these sites, I have and am having contiual success on other sites and I am sure if I play around with my profile either individually or produce a couple profile things will change on this site. What I appreciate is the various comments they stimulate the brian cells, to Tuscanred, i totally agree that many men over 50 do stop learning which I find quite annoying when listening to men friends complaining. I for one have never stopped learning and will never stop learning that is the fun of the fair. To all contributors I wish you luck in your endeavours, again thanks for having a say, I now will go away and think about my next topic. I am here for the FUN and I hope everybody achieves their own fun within their own desires.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Bugger, it looks like I'm only here for the forums now. Looks like I'll have to start dyeing my hair and get some plastic age reset surgery. Oh well at least I don't have to remove my looking for criteria. I reckon most older women are ok with my age and judge me on the things I say on my profile. Just don't expect a lot of calls if you're trying for some out side action and are older. Mike
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mate, it depends what the female is looking for. If she is just after sex with no stings then the younger bloke will get laid ever time over the older guy but if a woman is after a real relationship and she hasn't been burnt to badly in her past then we stand a chance. There are a few younger girls out there to (no where near as many as cougars) that get turned on by being with older men, the only problem I have with that is that they could be my daughter. I see so many good looking females 45 plus that are just so sexy. Why couldn't they have been like that when they where younger. Times have changed a lot I think, now woman understand themselves better and know what they are looking for sexually and I think that when they where younger, married with kids they did not (not in all cases but in my generation). So now that they have their new found freedom they look back on the ex husbands and blame them for not being a good lover or what ever which may be true but at the same time they weren't exactly the best fuck either. Anyway mate at least you have a woman and I would suggest you stick with her cause it ain't easy out here for a single older male but its fun trying and sometimes you get lucky and hook up with a sexy hot girl so worth the wait.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'feloniusfossil' It's pretty much a no go zone mate, round these here parts, it's iffy after 45 and after the big half century...wellll...it's mostly kinda over! I guess I've got about ten months left then. I'd best make the most of it. Quoting 'Hesione' When I see 18 plus on a mans profile I find it a little disturbing if he is in his 50sx Hugs H I don't even remember what I put. I'll get right over and have a look.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hehehehe Better make the most of your remaining time Jensman. Hesione, shall add you to the list of people I have offended and or disturbed....lolCheers Felonius....Errrmm whats sex?
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm over fifty and didn't seem to have any problems, I got a lot of offers from 25yrs upwards but knocked them back for guys closer to my age, but don't need to worry now have a regular companion. So it is just a matter of being true to yourself and the right person and situation will come around for you, being married is not a deal breaker though, a lot will avoid you like the plalgue but there will be some out there just right for you :)
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