Why do people get cranky

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  RHP User

  3 years ago

  Oftentimes it is because they are in love with an idealised version of themselves and therefore despise the real version of themselves which does not live up to the ideal. To cope with the psychological dissonance this creates they become delusional. When someone else threatens this delusion by acting according to reality the subject tends to go on ad hominem attacks to discredit the reality bringer and protect their delusional world view and therefore not have to face the underlying reality that they themselves are not the really the version of themselves that they love.

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  RHP User

  3 years ago

  Not many people read profiles unfortunately . They like what they see and have expectations, even if they are not what you are looking for. I cop abuse regularly, but remind myself that they are only online strangers, no one to worry too much about.

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  Flirty2020

  3 years ago

  We assume that you have received messages from people who have not bothered to read your profile, and who then become abusive towards you when you turn them down ? It happens a lot on here. People look at the photos and then assume that because this is a “sex site” that you will be able and willing to give them a root at a moments notice. Ignore / block and move on.

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  MsSuperFoxy

  3 years ago

  The trick is not to be emotionally invested. Don't engage/ignore, report and block. Invest in those who do show interest. Ms Foxy

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  MsSuperFoxy

  3 years ago

  Some people here just don't read profiles. There's nothing you can do to change their minds or behavour. Ms Foxy

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  RHP User

  3 years ago

  I agree with Foxy that you can’t control what people will or won’t do on here. You can control what you can or cannot do. Best not to overthink it and let it slide as haters are gonna hate.

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  RHP User

  3 years ago

  People eat with their eyes, just saying. They look at the food without reading the menu. Some people never change, that’s how they live their life. How many men don’t read instructions anyway 🤣🤣🤣

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  madotara69

  3 years ago

  Isn’t it people getting cranky, generally they have fucked up something or another and they’re projecting their guilt, anything to point the finger away with the attention at them self and they know but throw a bit of fear, blame whoever who cares and then go hide under their bed and wait to see if the bluff worked or their fuck up comes back to bite them on the arse. Again Unkind words and thoughtless snubs are but the echoes of a small and frightened person’ Mado Mado, Tara xx

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