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Why do men not live alone ;-)
April 09 2012
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avidmale
14 years ago
Perhaps thats a cynical way to look at it, (living with wives and lieing about it)... but heres a different perspective...Blokes can be tight arses (want things cheaper). If you are renting.,. the more in an house the less the split of the rent/household costs will be.Those still living with their mums (and please, id hope on a site like this where you are seen as an 'adult'.. the number has got to be very low) may just do it because they are lazy and take mooching off their parents as normal.brother/sister.. a simple solution. Youve lived with each other for a good part of your lives already (some maybe always) and any annoying thing about the person you accept, or live with because they are family.. But, as to what you are insinuating... Id hope for the integrity of all males, that its not the case that they are using that response as to avoid saying their wives. Its been mentioned in previous forum topics that if any married man that use a single profile are only making it harder for themselves.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Lol OnTheProwl. If you'd asked me two weeks ago I could've answered that I live alone and be willing to give you the tour to confirm it (my putting the toilet seat/lid down may have confused the issue though). However, I now have a flatmate (and he leaves the feckin' seat up grrrr).... one freedom closed down, another emerges. .CheersRusty
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm a little surprised by this as I didnt think living alone was that surprising. Is it really that rare?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Something that I have wondered about for awhile op.Men often state in their profiles that they are single but then expect the woman to provide the venue for meets. Curiouser and curiouser me thinks.....hmmm
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6exxy
14 years ago
I live alone and like that I come home to my house the way I left it ha ha ha
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RHP User
14 years ago
I live only,except for when I have my 2 girls. No one to answer too,do your own thing,come and go as you please(well that can mean 2 things)lol. Freedom again, actually as of today at 10am I will be divorced :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I live with my partner, but 75 percent of the time we are apart, the vagaries of mining. Cheers Felonius
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RHP User
14 years ago
I always make it clear i live on my own..there is nothing to hide in a one bedroom apartment !!
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RHP User
14 years ago
In my entire life, I've never lived alone. For a very brief period, in my early twenties, I shared a flat wth another bloke but I was already engaged at that time and my bride moved in soon after. After I seperated from my first wife, I stayed in the back room for six months or so until I had somewhere else to go. Then I moved in with Jennylee. I've been with her ever since.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Ypur too funny,I just wanted to see as most not every guy u talk too lives with someone,i mean i live with my older kids but im a single mum,I was just curious thats all but thank you for your response ;-) Quoting 'lil_bit_rusty' Lol OnTheProwl. If you'd asked me two weeks ago I could've answered that I live alone and be willing to give you the tour to confirm it (my putting the toilet seat/lid down may have confused the issue though). However, I now have a flatmate (and he leaves the feckin' seat up grrrr).... one freedom closed down, another emerges. .CheersRusty
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RHP User
14 years ago
You have been very upfront n honest all the way Taipan,out of all the guys i talk to on here only 4 so far live alone,thats strange to me that grown men share still with their parents or relatives,i understand the mates thing although wen my kids move out I will be living alone for sure ;-) Quoting 'Taipan12' I always make it clear i live on my own..there is nothing to hide in a one bedroom apartment !!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I prefer living alone. But circumstance has recently shifted me to a house with two friends. At least it's in a nice area and I no longer have such an idiot for a landlord. Unless a person is in a relationship and they want the space and privacy of a house, why would they take on that expense?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Taipan12'I always make it clear i live on my own..there is nothing to hide in a one bedroom apartment !! nice arse....wouldnt mind seeing that one bedroom apartment one day sexy man hugs
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RHP User
14 years ago
i live alone after years of living with parants..country living low income .high child support.didnt have much choice,now in perth and prefer freedom of doing what i want when i want..though cost in my case still very high..
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RHP User
14 years ago
...but I don't live alone.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I live alone and have done for the past 3 yrs I have a 4x2 house have thought about getting a boarder or 2 but then I enjoy the freedom and my own space I can leave the toilet seat up fall asleep on the lounge go to the pub when i like and stay for as long as i like and frankly anything that i would like to do i can cant beat it I say
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Manly_McHardon'...but I don't live alone. i understand that Greedy one...im in the same boat Hugs
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RHP User
14 years ago
Most of the men I meet live alone and like it that way.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Who really cares if you wanna play you will find the place! A nice hotel is great! No sleezy formula 1s haha! I also live with my Mum,cheaper and a great help,but Oh my God I am biting at the bit for m
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RHP User
14 years ago
Who really cares if you wanna play you will find the place! A nice hotel is great! No sleezy formula 1s haha! I also live with my Mum,cheaper and a great help,but Oh my God I am biting at the bit for my freedom! Not like people on RHP are taking you to meet their family. If people have to many excuses for meeting they probably have a reason for it! NEXT I SAY!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Im surprised myself but so far out of the guys I talk to only 4 actually live alone,i found that bizzareQuoting 'Venright' I'm a little surprised by this as I didnt think living alone was that surprising. Is it really that rare?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Still begs the question of how many men say they don't live alone eg flat mates,cousins ,brothers and other assorted family, are actually attached
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RHP User
14 years ago
I just moved back home does that count lmfao well Im renting my house out and staying at my folks house so yeh OntheprowireoWwwwww i have a friends house we can catch up ;-).....Francis
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have lived alone since 2004 and love it. The only time I have company is when my daughter comes up for the weekend from Sydney or I have a umm house guest for the weekend ;-)I adore the fact that I can eat what and when I want to, wear what I want to, watch what I want to on TV and go to bed when I want to. In fact when I have a friend here for the weekend, normally by Sunday afternoon I am wishing they would leave so I can get back to normal!Mooka
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think a lot of guys just cant afford to live alone any more, especially in the west. Many guys have been married and may have been to the cleaners and back again, same for women Sometimes women share, I have done that a few times myself though I mostly owned my own homes and would take in a boarder or two. I used to have mine guys as boarders when I lived in Perth, interesting to say the least I live with a FIFO guy, so it works a treat, for both of us. As for sex and where to go, all I can say is get a room! Too many guys want a fuck in the back seat of their car these days. What does that tell me? Married or too cheap to plan their play in a hotel Though sometimes women like that roll in the back seat of a car Not me too much a precious princess, a nice hotel is much better. But then I also have my own little fuck house, a part from my house that I live in , that I let my other female friends use if they wish.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I live alone and i own the place, come get me ladies I prefer to have my freedom and be able to do what i want, for example i played with a couple last week at my place, we fucked every where, kitchen, bathroom, the bedrooms and the lounge room, i couldn't have done that if i didn't live alone.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Yep live alone for about 18months or so now. most of time when home walk around naked, eat what, when, who lol... etc. do get sick of the "emptyness" every now and then though.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'mooka' I have lived alone since 2004 and love it. The only time I have company is when my daughter comes up for the weekend from Sydney or I have a umm house guest for the weekend ;-)I adore the fact that I can eat what and when I want to, wear what I want to, watch what I want to on TV and go to bed when I want to. In fact when I have a friend here for the weekend, normally by Sunday afternoon I am wishing they would leave so I can get back to normal!Mooka Nothing beats having your own space to do what you want, when you want. Although in my case, any house guests I have are usually cleared by my German Shepherd. I find dogs great judges of characters and he's a little more pickier then I am.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Is the point of this just purely for knowledge or so you lovely ladies now where to go if you have a mate with you or where to knock if to drunk to get to your own place mmmmmTo be alone or not to be how should one play thisNah truthfuly of course, live alone week about due to shared custody, when kids ere we all share same bed so 3 spare rooms, unsure if will take a lodger yet not looking either like my space (call it gread but its nice)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Just because a guy lies about living alone (some of us do but use the flatmate excuse), doesnt mean he is attached or married. Sometimes us guys, and no doubt you girls, like to keep sacred our home so its easier to say we have a flatmate than saying I'd rather not hook up at my house (yes, I know honestly is a better policy, just saying what some people do). There are also others like me who have kids part time and want to keep sacred the space we share with our kids (again, guys should just be upfront about this as also many girls in similar situations).
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RHP User
14 years ago
I've lived alone for five years. There have been times when I've hated it and times when I've loved it. Which is probably like living with someone? What I do know is that you truly don't know yourself until you've spent a lot of time alone. Once you realize that your friends are busy, family is not available, all the theatres are showing crap movies etc, once all the distractions get used up you eventually have to enjoy your own company. For me, living alone has been a good part of evolving from a boy to a man. Everything from fiscal responsibility to musical pursuits to a much happier disposition has come from my time alone. I'd recommend it to anyone. Having said that, I have also spent time waking up next to a great love. That's cool too and looking forward to it happening on a regular basis again
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RHP User
14 years ago
love living alone ladies are welcome to visit as are some guys
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'selflesslover' Just because a guy lies about living alone (some of us do but use the flatmate excuse), doesnt mean he is attached or married. Sometimes us guys, and no doubt you girls, like to keep sacred our home so its easier to say we have a flatmate than saying I'd rather not hook up at my house (yes, I know honestly is a better policy, just saying what some people do). There are also others like me who have kids part time and want to keep sacred the space we share with our kids (again, guys should just be upfront about this as also many girls in similar situations). i agree with you totally...i wont have men in my house because of my kids and in the years ive been single only one man has ever come to my house for play.....i protect my privacy with my life Hugs
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RHP User
14 years ago
Dear Hesione, Guys who are single and live at home "their home" only washup when there are no more dishes, etc...You are welcome..One Purpose
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RHP User
14 years ago
what surprises me is those that live with 'housemates', but can't host? why? are they prudes? do you share a room? or are they really your mother??? if i feel uncomfortable coming to a house that other people live in, i'll let you know...
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RHP User
14 years ago
I live alone and I love it. I do not like all the bullshit on here though. What happened to honest and upfront people. Shit if you haven't got your word, what have you got?
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RHP User
14 years ago
I used to live alone for months, but had to get a house mate...Hopefully I can get home alone again soon.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'WantedBabyDaddy' Quoting 'selflesslover' Just because a guy lies about living alone (some of us do but use the flatmate excuse), doesnt mean he is attached or married. Sometimes us guys, and no doubt you girls, like to keep sacred our home so its easier to say we have a flatmate than saying I'd rather not hook up at my house (yes, I know honestly is a better policy, just saying what some people do). There are also others like me who have kids part time and want to keep sacred the space we share with our kids (again, guys should just be upfront about this as also many girls in similar situations). i agree with you totally...i wont have men in my house because of my kids and in the years ive been single only one man has ever come to my house for play.....i protect my privacy with my life Hugs was fuckin MORE than happy on me own with the pitty payin orf a cheap arse mortgage. now i got the fuckin EX livin here 3 days a week with her shit in me room an her crap in me bathroom an her fuckin wingin bout how much a shit hole the house is (derr fuckhead, i fuckin know an iffa ya stop spendin all the cash on piss an drugs we may move forward) i fuckin over it all ta fuckin gether. got me daughter here, me Pitty, crapload of wreck cars, me bike (that movin inside soon ta work on it. front of tv be bloody good) anyone wnt an Ex, jackrussel an a shittycat ??????? BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHA Earl
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RHP User
14 years ago
As of the start of feb I started living on my own. I love it! Paying premium rent on my own is a killer on the wallet but after 5 years of living with my ex partner, living on my own has been amazing
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RHP User
14 years ago
...either of mine will bite an uninvited intruder. If you have someone else living under your roof, you might find out they are the intruder. | Besides, dogs are like chick magnets in the park if they are well trained. You'd be surprised how grateful some of them are when you rescue them from that really scary bull dog....just make sure they don't see him wagging his tail and waiting for his treat. | *shrugs*...dogs are better.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'sexymylf' Quoting 'WantedBabyDaddy' Quoting 'selflesslover' Just because a guy lies about living alone (some of us do but use the flatmate excuse), doesnt mean he is attached or married. Sometimes us guys, and no doubt you girls, like to keep sacred our home so its easier to say we have a flatmate than saying I'd rather not hook up at my house (yes, I know honestly is a better policy, just saying what some people do). There are also others like me who have kids part time and want to keep sacred the space we share with our kids (again, guys should just be upfront about this as also many girls in similar situations). i agree with you totally...i wont have men in my house because of my kids and in the years ive been single only one man has ever come to my house for play.....i protect my privacy with my life Hugs Well if everyone thought like you and selfless lover none of us would ever get laid. He protects his manspace, you protect your womanspace. Wheres the happy medium then? Wheres this neutral zone that you play at? I appreciate that you want to protect your kids but ive entertained at mine before and I'm still here to tell the story. What i won't do is have strangers here when my kids are home, thats compromising them for sure. As far as privacy goes, I won't give anyone my body until i know enough about them too i.e. where they work, where they live, again Facebook is brilliant for that too. But thats just me. Its about having trust in people too and building up friendships and buddy relationships for me so privacy never comes into it. there is no trust....my house is my safety and my kids safe house....you will be very lucky to be invited to my home if i want sex and i cant go to his place...then thats what hotels are for Hugs
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RHP User
14 years ago
As long as there are parks around...do they need a house? Hugs...xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hi ThereWell I do live alone too. But that is only very recently. Until 3 months ago, I was working full time and living in the outer Eastern Metropolitan area of a certain Southern state. I used to share my place with a mate. For the pure and simple reason that this was the only way I could afford to pay the rent/utilities on a average rental property.I have since made a major tree change. Moved out of that state and into a provincial city. This has cut my expenses seriously. This was after a lot of work to find the right place with the right fit.So in short economics was why I DID not live alone......All good now :-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' As long as there are parks around...do they need a house? Hugs...xFunlovingx Oh Fun,I do so like your reply to this post, and how true, and exciting.I am a bit lucky as there plenty parks round me i mean plenty so if day could go to one kids to another (if my week with them) lolIf not well , can still go to the parks gee could try one for each position all within short walking distance, or if a hot day just put on the retic and get in on in the back garden. (front garden pretty nice and green but open to neighbours view, however not an issue but has buffolo grass and not so keen on that over my naked body, might give paper cuts where they are not wanted)Suppose i am bit lucky just got to find the right one to explore all this with!!!!!! and who doesnt want to move in after a coffee lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
You know what to do with the cat....reckon about 50 grains of lead would sort that out lol Cheers Felonius
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RHP User
14 years ago
MMmm, I understand a woman wanting to protect her space and safety and i respect it, but think back as a kid, you hook up at the local disco, get on well hook up again following weekend, get a phone number call now and again meet again, then go of in the woods or round the back of the bus shelter, farmers stables. Gee folks many places and in all these places things can go wrong As for me, I have clients who never set eyes on me before leave keys for me to let my self in, do the work and some times they have left payment already and no one home. I suppose maybe thats is why i am different, so having some one round for a coffee i have no issue with kids here or not, if you look or resemble any thing like Annie Wilkes then i would have to show you the way to the door pretty quick. Ha, if some one wants to stalk me after a coffee then what ever, same can happen once I meet you at a cafe and you know my full name, I am pretty easy to find on the internet so I may as well be open from first base.This is me and my personality, open, honest respectful. Others need there safe haven and it is fine and respected also understood, again we are all so different (must be the most used saying on this site)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Listen you sexy thing,if u live with your folks then sign up as a paid member & send me your number lmfao Quoting 'luv2ply' I just moved back home does that count lmfao well Im renting my house out and staying at my folks house so yeh OntheprowireoWwwwww i have a friends house we can catch up ;-).....Francis
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hmmmmm maybe baby ontheprowireowww but dontnu haven1 free msg a week? :-( guess I'm not special........
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RHP User
14 years ago
Lets face it people, be careful who you invite into your home be it on the net or not. I used to have male lodgers and one of them would have every women that said yes to him at my house. The rules were nobody comes to my home, if you want to entertain do it some place else. reasons I worked in prisons, and I know that women hook up with guys on the internet for their crim boyfriends so they can case the place out. Women hook up because they want a husband or some money from you, and if they know where you live they can make it bloody embarrassing for you if they want to. Guys who cant take no, or who do not get it that your just having a bit of fun and no I do not want to meet your parents so get lost , are more inclined to drive past your house now and again in case you change your mind. We are strangers here, so its stranger danger We know three fifths of fuck all about each other And a person can go postal on you, no matter how nice and sweet they are, and that is even people you make friends with on here. I have done it myself a few times and prob will not do it again. I realise its just not smart no matter how charming a person is. Its mainly for nsa fun that we are here, but if it evolves into a relationship then fine give that person time to show their true colours then ask them back to your house, even then we can get it wrong. I have a big bite your nuts of dog for a reason. My home is my safe place
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have done it myself a few times and prob will not do it again. errrm invite a person home, not go postal myself I meant though give it time!
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RHP User
14 years ago
As a single woman in my own place - every guy i seem to meet, has no where for us to meet when it gets to getting down and dirty. Its always my place and as the ladies before me have said stranger danger. I dont know if its their own screening tactic but i now answer the who do you live with question with: i share with flat mates too! If its gonna happen it will happen....but it seems 90% of the guys i meet - in Melbs - share with flat mates that are always home and i cant go over, live with mum and dad, live with their cuz, sis or bro - and off course me visiting is inappropriate! Their assumption is always that it will take place at my place... I dont get it either....
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm on the other side of the world from home and know 5 people outside work. I figure moving in to a random house share was a good way to get to know people and keep my sanity. In a couple of months ill find my own place when I have a good social circle built up
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RHP User
14 years ago
status of single means not in a relationship, not i live alone so come over whenever you likeand most people who live at home do so in order to save money, if that is the reason, then i admire them for being intelligent
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RHP User
14 years ago
I live alone and love it. The freedom and discretion it provides is the best aspect. On the other hand, if not for RHP, I can understand it being a bit quiet and lonely for some.
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RHP User
14 years ago
i lived alone for seven years. best seven years of my life
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RogueGeek
14 years ago
I often wonder the same thing, and have found that more often than not the guy doesn't want his roomies finding out he is hooking up with "a random chick from the Internet". I actually had one guy tell me that if he was having a girlfriend over it wouldn't be an issue, but if it's a fuck buddy or FWB... Well, they have to sneak in (or play elsewhere) so that nobody knows :/ These days I only meet people who can play at their house because I refuse to be anybody's "dirty secret". Once I have met somebody and verified they are not a serial killer or a thief, then I am happy to have them come to mine (provided Geek is OK with it too - that's just being polite). Oddly enough, i've found it's the guys who DO live with their parents who don't mind having a girl over... MS
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hi Pervs & Pervettes, my 2 cents: Really people I wouldnt want to bring a "stranger" over to my house for sex period. Maybe someone I meet a few times, is a great shag & I find too be respectful sure. A complete stranger though no way & I definantly extened the same curtosy to my other sexual partner. I work hard for my things & wouldnt want to give a vip tour to a burglar who's name id pref not to know. If any girl here thinks thats strange or that I am concealing something, well they have their own issues. I meet where ever happy & find standby rates very reasonable however sometimes we dont even make it out of the carpark : )
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RHP User
14 years ago
Noooooooo I didnt no,see im new to this shit too but I found out today I do n guess who got my number ??????????So get those hot arms of urs with your fingers attached & dial my digits lol Quoting 'luv2ply' Hmmmmm maybe baby ontheprowireowww but dontnu haven1 free msg a week? :-( guess I'm not special........
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RHP User
14 years ago
Q. Why do men not live alone ;-). A. Because unlike women ;-) men can share a bathroom lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
Living with other people is, like turning up to a homeless shelter. Fuck that.
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RHP User
14 years ago
i do lol i ahave piks to email to and a cell num wata you ip to mr
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RogueGeek
14 years ago
Quoting 'manta11' i do lol i ahave piks to email to and a cell num wata you ip to mr
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RHP User
14 years ago
and i enjoy my own peace and quiet, although i am happy to live with a partner.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Lol I was wondering the same ;-) Quoting 'MS_and_Geek' Quoting 'manta11' i do lol i ahave piks to email to and a cell num wata you ip to mr
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