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Why are younger boys facinated by older women?

December 09 2009

Just a quick one for all the young males out there, but I wanted to know what is it that attracts you to an older woman, is it her looks, attitude, experience...?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I think it is the lack of BS that is associated with younger women, The ability to make a decision and stick to it, rather than fence sitting.......

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Some younger guys call me daddy. Me! hehe. The world is full of interesting people with weird ideas. :)   But I have to say that I saw Fleetwood Mac last night and theat Stevie Nicks is seriously sexy at the age of 61.. I mean, a man of any age woudl have no quarms about giving that a bit! :)   Hugs Gazza

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Ive learned a lot of older women over the years, and Ive been in some actual relationships with women 10 years older than me... I think its a combination of everything you said... and i do find that older women dont have the same issues that a lot of younger women have. Theyre more comfortable with themselves, more settled, more focussed... and they know what they want!! ;-)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    where women much older than me (say 10yrs +) don't really excite me anymore, but yep when i was a pup i so wanted an older lady, but never happened till i was 37 and she was 48, having said that young women(<25yo) don't realy cut it either for me personally....i mean sure they are nice to look at, but not to sure about whether there could ever be any connection, and i like a mental connection, so i just don't go there! maybe one day, but seriously don't think many chicks are interested in guys over 45 anyway.Cheers Nev

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    On here I find that the older women actually do meet up with you. Haven't had much luck with the 24-30 year old girls. And the older women I have met up with have been hot and heaps of fun!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    think mr e bunny nailed it right on the head with that one.. Only drawback is theres not alot of older women on here that take younger guys into consideration, sad time for all of us!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    "...young boys are my weakness, I just like their sweetness..."I'm with Gaz! Though, I don't find being called "Daddy" that weird anymore - once, about 15 years ago, yes I did but now I'm good with it and love the attention! For us gay blokes, younger lads do occasionally go for us older for the reasons I'll mention below and here on RHP I have found more younger bicurious men are keen to meet me because of what mr e bunny said that there is a lack of bull, a willingness to actually DO something and that I will be good at what I do because I have had the experience."...young boys are really mellow, if you don't believe me then try this fellow..."#:~()

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'mr_e_bunny81' I think it is the lack of BS that is associated with younger women, The ability to make a decision and stick to it, rather than fence sitting....... as per above...from my teens to early 20's I had dated women who were 5-10 yrs older then me due to their maturity and back then, being a student living at home meant I had a girl I could shack with on the weekends without fear of having to worry their old man was gonna bust us for playful misconduct I'm pretty sure its vice versa for younger girls dating older guys....although I don't think I could put up with someone waaay younger then me....it'd be too novelty

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    As has been said, we usually turn up for a meet, well i do anyway. We know what we want and are not backward in coming forward. We aren't usually looking to get married or anything permanent like that. We seem to know that sex is sex and not falling in love. We are more comfy with our bodies and take it in our stride that we are losing the fight against gravity, we have wisdom lines on our face, and because we are getting a little arthritic in the hips, we are more adventurous with our positions etc. who wants missionary anyway??

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Only i dont have problems yet....as im still agile i even a maze myself....lolWe're also not into mind games..and the bulls**t...and we tend to be realistic Yet i have know some younger women with the same attitude to some extentxoxoxheymumma

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'highland830' think mr e bunny nailed it right on the head with that one.. Only drawback is theres not alot of older women on here that take younger guys into consideration, sad time for all of us! I tihnk if you look a little harder you might find that there are a fair few of us who are ONLY interested in young men.   Joanna

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    For me it comes down to the fact that older woman know what they want, like someone said earlier sex is just sex without all the drama and BS attached.  Thats all I want at the moment is NSA sex and if it's great sex I'll come back for more if the situation allows

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    - More mature- Know what they want- Have had plenty of experience and guys are hoping they can teach them a thing or two- The 'Samantha/Kim Catrall'' effect- More secure with themselves

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Far more mature, relaxed, easy going love to have fun, less insecure (or at least don't let it ruin the moment) and especially no head games.. a true pleasure to be around :-)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Ok..my turn now!!.....lol   My opinion in being with a younger man....Well I was in an open relationship for about 8 months ..not long happened after I arrived back in OZ..He picked me up at the Sunday session lol!! He was 23 yrs.......He wouldn't leave me alone and had me in fits of laughter for quite a few hours and beers..hahahahaha...We clicked!! He was and still is a friend I trust and is wonderful with my son.. ( my son never knew how old he was). Pass on that convo with him..pmsl.   I get heaps of messages and flirts from younger men from here..But it is difficult to see who is serious as I want the friendship..not just a root..lol...I adore the company of younger people..Energy...fun antics...Honesty to say what they mean..I find men my age hide thoughts too much...I have contact ( as friends and not met) with a few young men from this site..I can open up ...and talk...have become friends.  Older men ..possibly think I am getting too close to them..i don;t know.....but with younger men we value each others voice in matters...and banter..lol...   So yes....bring on the toyboys!!  energy and passion for fun in life....To pic me up and throw me over their shoulder... and all the fun you can dish up!! in and out of the bedroom..YAHHHHHHHH!!!!   huggies   sweetpetite41.xxxxxxxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    You dont look a day over 30 anywayz!! I have to agree with u there I love toyboys hehehehe

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    thankyou Hotaz  xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx     kisses   sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Blimey, how old is a toyboy for you, you're still very young!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I agree with me e bunny - no complications etc plus, they are good to have a chat too (sometimes) however, im not prejudice - if i like something/someone, i chase it :)

  • kyyyy

    kyyyy

    16 years ago

    I think an older woman really gets sexier than when they were younger, they know what they want as well.   Always had a thing for older women!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    i agree wit sweetpetri ... i love their energy and honesty...and relaxed attitude that usually goes with a sense of humour and love of life.... its contageous to b around... wheras older guys r usually trying too hard too impress and u dont get to know the real person.... not to menton tred worn out bodies that havent been taken care of in years.. sorry but its true.... fat is ageing 123titti

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    123titti ..... i just think u are one gorgeous woman ... u have the naughtiest smile ... and u know why we like older women .... cause u ladies are ladies.... not stuck up little princesses that have a chip on there shoulders... or the world owe's them something ... older LADIES ...... mmmmm so come on dont let me starve ... I HUNGRY...........

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    When you all realise that us men,, young or old fuck mostly anything anywhere then maybe you just may understand why young men want older women,,,, dont think your special now by there choice cause they also fuck younger women... whats for dinner mum???we eat whats on our plate... There is no great mystery or a AHHHHH answer.. Its all DICK ladies

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Because they're awesome, duh? :p