M49
Why are single men the scum of the earth??
October 30 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
hey dude, ease up on the bigger over 40s ladies, some of the sexiest, horniest women ive met are bigger chicks, and trust me they know how to enjoy themselves. i understand what your saying about the single guy thing but hey its just how it goes, dont lose sleep over it. your sex life isnt over but maybe you have to stop being so shallow and expand your horizons. good luck man. enjoy !
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RHP User
16 years ago
mr schmoopsy: lol man i love the rant, and i can tell you where your going wrong you have a dick LOL i'll tell ya now being the mr in a couple isn't a picnic either, countless times we have missed out cause well face it i'm no oil painting LOL thing is its all about the pussy. the pussy is wanted so it can get exactly what it wants the more attractive the woman attached to the pussy the more it can ask. supply and demand.my wife and i would like a fem playmate... LIKE EVERYONE ELSE.. so the attractive fem playmates can pick and choose.and to those that will no doubt jump on and cry and be offended by what i have written get a grip and yes mrs schmoopsy has read this and doesn't find it too bad. To the "its the same for us women" and "i'm hot but can't get what i want" just realize that like us guys, women always aim higher than they should too ;).that and the fact that the 20-30 yr old single man with independent wealth, 9" cock, 6 pack and a yacht that treats you right and understands you isn't on here.... he's with the Bi, loves to swing, gorgeous bombshell with real DD's and a virgin twat that loves to give head all day everyday and just loves housework and cooking.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Listen, I dnt want to fall into the trap of seeming all knowing/all seing....I'm anything but....and I don't want to seem critical at all but here's something to think about. Just stick to the basics dude.....be a GENTLEMAN first and foremost..... Do a profile that YOU are happy with, after all a girl will want to meet a guy happy in his own skin........easy on the macho stuff.....strong, silent types with a gsoh are still hard to find for women.....that's the feed back I always get from ladies I chat to. Relaxed, low maintenance and up for fun. Keep it nice and simple ? Saying things in your post like "obese, scary women in their 40's" is actually a turn off to the whole sisterhood. Nothing wrong with being intense but common courtesy and respect go a LONG way when it comes to courting....and that's what we are doing here....modern day courting.....how do you know that your sexy soul mate is not the younger sister or neice or friend of one of those more "seasoned" ladies.....nothing wrong with walking a path of enlightenment and shaking hands with all on your way... If you slowly try to build a nice, small circle of chat friends and they see you are a genuine, healthy, nice guy....all sorts of doors may open for you..... Women talk (lot's some of them !! lol) and they talk to each other.....so give yourself a fresh start, be honest and up front, caring and considerate, friendly and genuinely helpful and the girl or girls (lol) of you dreams will be revealed to you....well, at least you will be sitting in pole position when she shows up. Just my take on your topic.....hope it helps in some way. Oh, on guys with 6 packs....if you can't beat em, join em.....hit the gym if it worries you.....although, I've never had a 6 pack and I have some lovely women friends....there is more to a man than what he's packing !! Dog.
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RHP User
16 years ago
asho77...I hear ya...I just posted how I am off all this on another forum..For me it is guys who just want to chat and never meet....Perth guys can't be bothered to come to country for a fun time..seems they just want a few hours in Perth...maybe they have no stamina..lol meh...over it ...sweetpetite41
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RHP User
16 years ago
But, pity you aren't in Perth - I have a great sister K.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I don't think you'll be finding what your after on this site mate, i've sussed it out, it's only good for girls not us blokes. There's way more chances of meeting someone through work, uni, going out or other activities than through this site! I don't really do too badly with women and decided to come on here as another avenue of meeting people, but it's just WAY harder than putting yourself out there in the real world. These days I only ever really come on to check Gaz's posts in the forum, that bloke is hilarious lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Asho, I dont know why either, but maybe it is just an age thing. Maybe the older we get, the less we worry about a person's looks and hopefully we have come to realise that good looks and great sex don't always equate.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I might be in my 40's but I am not obese and scary. So maybe i should start a topic on why people assume that those in their late 40's upwards are automatically obese or what ever and no longer "hot"
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RHP User
16 years ago
Most of the time .. they think if it looks good, it will preform good as well.... But most of the time that is not the case.If they want to be superficial people ... let them be just that... as one day.. they will be in their 40's, 50's and will look like everyone else.... a bit extra here and there.... yes some can keep toned up, a lot age gracefully ... but honestly if that is all they go by... they are superficiall themselves. Too many people put too much emphasis on looks rather than the whole person.See the world for what it is... every shape and size of Men and women ... all walks of life. Good luck ... there are people out there who are REAL people... its just to weed them out.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm pretty certain that this post will now appear as a link in your profile and while you are obviously frustrated by a very low percentage return on your effort, having a rant linked to you may not help your cause. I've heard that women will read everything you wrote when seriously looking at you. On another site I have had a woman contact me based on her assessment of my character from the forums, so I imagine that you can be judged by the forums here as well. Mate, have you looked at some of the incredible 40+ ladies that are around, not just on RHP, and seriously they are liberated. Over 40 women are more aggressive, more open, are not scared of what they want, and they know exactly what they want. I was very pleasantly surprised at how the world had changed after I split from the ex.Have you got a close female friend who can give you some tips on what to write in your messages? There is a very good thread giving tips for men here somewhere, it may be in the Melbourne section.Good luck and remember RHP is not the only place to meed ladies. Maybe you're more the pick up in person type of guy?
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RHP User
16 years ago
sitting here, reading your post, shaking my head....... ........thinking you need a clip on the back of your head NCIS style! There are many others on this site, men and women, who share your frustration. You are a good looking young guy! Sadly you have ranted in many of your posts, and what you have had to say in most of them hasnt been particulary pleasant. Yes, this is basically a sex site.....however, if I have choice (and there are many) in meeting with a man who appears to have a happy and balanced out look on life compared to a man who has repeatedly spewed viterolic comments in the forums......I know which one I will meet! You have received advice from some seemingly sensible men & women over the past few weeks but it seems you havent taken any of it on board. Changing your profile constantly makes no difference unless there is an attitude adjusment that goes with it. Six packs and ken doll looks mean nothing if there isnt a happy, witty, personality inside the man. Leave the past in the past, learn from it and move on with a happy outlook. "Yesterday is history, tomorrow is the future, today is a gift, that is why it is called the "present" If you can try and make some changes in your perceptions and disposition, others will pick up on it and want to spend time in your company. Just some words of wisdom from a 51 year young woman who is neither scary or obese...and enjoys single men! (as my profile states.....not interested in young boys) intriguedcurious
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RHP User
16 years ago
Most normal, everyday women go for men beyong there looks and look deeper at the inner beauty. Dont get me wrong looks are somewhat important buts its more the attraction. I understand its inherent for males to be directly drawn to women by looks due to biochemistry but for women its not. A small minority of women go for hunks who seem to have it all, looks, hot cars, money etc etc but in reality they are boring, unintelligent and useless (how do i fix the leaking tap?! lol!)....and these girls are usually trophy girlfirends anyway, only good to keep for awhile and when they get dusty they are thrown in the bin and its time to win the next dust collector lol! I personally think there is more to life than looks. Im 23 and I dont care that much about looks. I know who i am, I know what i want from life and Im confident about it. Attraction, friendship, personality and general nature of the person are more important to me. You could be the ugliest person in the world but also be the happiest with the person you choose to share your life with whether its two days or thirty years! Cos lets face its everyone gets fat, balding, wrinkly and somewhat dementied with age! loL! Did you ever think that maybe single women on rhp ask/look for men in with six packs because in reality it would be unachieveable becasue most men DONT have six packs???? Or maybe they have a specifc fantasy involving them? Probs goes the same for men who prefer fake boobs or tall women or petite women? In reality everyone is different and maybe rhp offers people the chance to experience what cant otherwise be expereinced???? Additionally, its interwined in society that men AND women should look a certain way. have you ever thought that as when you are a child (especially for girls) you are brought up to believe (through stories, movies, media) that one day you will find your "prince charming" who's handsome, kind and heoric? And on the other hand there are girls and guys out there with eating disorders resulting directly from body image and self-confidence issues? where do you think they arose from? P.s you shouldnt have to change your profile according to advice of others, if your 32 and dont get who you are when you write your profile and what you want then maybe rhp isnt for you and you should try a different approach to meeting girls ...perhaps join a gym, team sports or a club of interest?
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RHP User
16 years ago
http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Single-men-for-coupleswhy-are-we-being-rejected-24567http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Why-are-single-men-the-scum-of-the-earth-25414 http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Older-men-and-younger-women-24469http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Women-thoughts-on-Bi-guys-24508 http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Bi-Sexual-Barbie-Doll-Wannabes-24468I think a major change of attitude might go a long way to helping your cause. We along with many of the posters on your past threads have nothing against single men but do believe a positive attitude is paramount!... Mrs P
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RHP User
16 years ago
I included the link for this thread too hehehe... who was paying attention???
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RHP User
16 years ago
Every time you post you seem to be moaning, if that's your general attitude why would someone want to talk to you?Also I find it funny you talk about 'scary' older overweight women while complaing girls want young fit guys, pot calling the kettle black?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Good point! Goose and gander too... I luv a good gander
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RHP User
16 years ago
Was in perth lastyear, and i soooo woulda looked you up!Can't believe the fellas in WA won't hook up with Sweetpetite.Goes to prove the male sandgropers are a bit
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RHP User
16 years ago
single guys who aren't having the success they want should remember the three S's. Self-confidence - reflects how much you like yourself Sense of humour - laughter creates a connection and lowers resistance Self-control - knowing when and how to act Asho... I'd also just like to comment on your question "Why do young women only want other women,six pack guys their own age & couples???? Lots of women are open about their sexuality and are quite open to experimenting with it. The fact that being bi is now also a more mainstream, acceptable fashion at the moment just means that more and more women don't feel any stigma attached to liking other women. And I, for one, think that's great. I'm all for expanding your horizons. Unfortunately, you can't completely disregard sexual attraction either. A hot body is a hot body and girls and guys like to look. If people didn't like to look at attractive naked people, porn wouldn't even exist. Most of the time, what is attractive is subjective but sometimes attractiveness is just plain objective. And it has always been like that, since the first caveman took his furs off when the ice melted. Look at some of the most beautiful sculptures of all time. The Discus Thrower (4th Century BC), David (1501-1504)... seems like there's not much point complaining over that one, sorry. Gotta do the best with what ya got. Finally, if you speak to lots of couples, these "single girls that want couples" can sometimes seem to be quite elusive and have been likened to mythological creatures. However, some do exist and I'll tell you that the couples that do actually get single girls to join them for fun times are the same as the single guys who have success with women. They are generally very secure of themselves, accept their and their partner's sexuality as being something different from emotional love, are open to experimentation, not pushy, not rude, not arrogant, relaxed, respectful, up for a laugh and a fuckload of fun in the bedroom with no issues and hang ups.
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RHP User
16 years ago
desserts If you look half as hot as you sound, which I am sure you do, you tick all the right boxes. trisihl- your pic has to be one of the sexiest and most eye catching on this site. I think mature women who are confident, intelligent and know what they want... can perhaps make people apprehensive about approaching you. That is how you both come across to me but similarly I deal with "the dirty old man" stereotyping. Mind you I am not looking for someone young to make me feel better about myself. Unfortunately I'm old,in a lot of peoples eyes, it could be said I have a dirty mind so I guess that makes me a dirty old man...but hopefully I'll meet a dirty old woman. asho- I don't think people see single guys as "scum of the earth"... I know what you mean about the six pack look, don't forget the "well hung only"... but as has been said ...being a gentlemen, by that I mean considerate, polite and patient, is the best advice I can give. Also if your not happy with how you look..and it sounds like you're not...work on it. I am I've put on a few kilo's too many and am holding off paying my memnbership again until I shed them. Think its hard being a single guy try being a married one. What some people think of me wouldn't get past the censors on this forum.
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RHP User
16 years ago
love ya work :) 2b :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
love the 3 S's makes a change from the shit shower and shaveanyway sorry to bust in on your forum ashoI maybe an obese woman in my 40's (well just)but Im far from scary unless your mean to meand yes we are fucking awesome lovers and great companybut I wish you well in finding the slim slender stereotype your seekingeach to their own
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well...... I've checked you out asho77 and I would definitely have a crack if you weren't so far away!!! six packs oiled up fake tanned men don't really do it for me as I find nobody can possibly love them more than they love themselves!!! It could be that you just want sex!!!! It's no secret that the girls get hit on alot more than guys do and truth be known... it might be a novelty at 1st to have all these guys going on and on about our physical attributes but in the end it can get a little offensive and sleazy after a while.. we do have brains you know... and ethics... and feelings.... and..... heaven forbid..... a personality!!!! Try being a little more interested in the person you may be having sex with.... fucking is easy..... fucking with connection is AWSOME!!!! just my thoughts..... I'd still have a go.. I think you're pretty hot!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have tried online dating for over 5yrs on and off,I've tried pretty much every site,I've gone for all races aged from 18 to 46,size 6 to 14.....and through experience have found what I like and don't like.As for ranting... Why if you get fed up & frustrated,saying something negative you're branded a whinger?? I'm not whinging,I'm trying to raise a point that nobody seems to want to admit is happening.I've changed my profile on here at least 10 times...bad boy,good not,short,long,fuck buddies to looking for a wife and had no success at all. I have a ok body,I'm still trimming up & getting toned,very fit cardio wise,very hygienic,good skin,good teeth,been told I have " the most suckable cock",that I'm amazing at going down on a girl...probably I crave it & get off on making a girl cum,and have the perfect size cock.I'm attentive,passionate,affectionate,intelligent,witty,ambitious...but also full on sometimes quite direct.I've been told by plenty of women who know they're desired by men that I'm too fat,too ugly,too old or too full on & honest. So it seems you must be ripped,6ft tall,dark haired,ethnic looks,brown eyes,9 inch cock,act all coy & like you're hot shit,dress like a gay guy & talk shit just to get girls to want you & ask you out or for sex.I'm yet to have a girl approach me & take me home or ask me out. As one very close female friend said to me once..."society puts such expectations on women to fit an image of success and they're shit scared of a man like you because it means they don't have that image of success & suddenly this man who adores them expects the same in return & that's too much hard work.Who cares if the sex is shit,his cock is small & he treats you like shit...if it makes you look more successful & beautiful than other women..it's worth it" I have dated some amazingly stunning women inmy time but it seems since I changed the number 2 to a number 3 I'm suddenly repulsive!! And for the record to all those young girls & 40+ women out there...check your flirts..I vet there's about 3 or 4 from me that you've rejected without even looking at my profile. When you're being eaten out or fucked doggy style..what's the difference between 29 & 30??? I'm sick of being told I'm attractive and would make a perfect boyfriend/husband only to be rejected before I get a chance to walk across the room to say hi.I've plenty of girls pour drinks on me,tell me to fuck off or get their friends to puck fights with me simply because I dared to approach them with my so called amazing cheeky smile & say hello. Should I give up on women,finding my soulmate to marry & have kids & just get sex from brothels??
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RHP User
16 years ago
YeahBut noButYeah...You see it's all about supply and demand:Let me put it this way-1. There's not many single girls in this site...but everyones looking for pussy-even the married girls are...2. There's a fuckin shitload of blokes (including myself) on these pages, (and a number of 'couples' who are blokes too!)3. But not everone is looking for cock!Supply and demand - too much cock, not enough pussy...Be honest and hope for the best is my only advice... good luck fellas
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RHP User
16 years ago
Wow, that was the best answer to a post question I have read on here for ever. I'm going back to fucking school. What a brightly shining star you are s74. Read and rejoice in the wonder of today's woman. So succinct. A beautiful mind indeed. (Bows) Dogism.
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RHP User
16 years ago
can i come over there and massage those sore fingers of yours.. after all that typing you must need some attention. tap tap tappity tap..good point thoughLRE (remedial massage thingy)
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RHP User
16 years ago
thanks guys ;) p.s. LRE... lol yep...I never did properly learn the meaning of the word "succinct"... I was absent that day :P... finger massage sounds lovely lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Nom nom nom Sophie. Asho, you're in your early thirties... and if memory serves me well you are bisexual. So errrr what's the hang up about women when you can get a shag at the drop of a cake of soap? I think you should try some of the events. I adore my female contacts from RHP but the only women I've actually met from here are Rhp members that have attended those events. This space is a reasonable place to socialize and for people to get an insight into your personality and character. I'm sure you are a fun bloke to hang around but the stuff you talk about in the forum is always negative and that's a shame. Hugs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ive only got one thing to say.....WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHFuck.....whiney is just soooo not attractive.Just my opinion...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
NOw_ or_never, people dont appear to be apprehensive in approaching me. I seem to get enough messages and I have met a few nice gents from here. All I was saying is that I dont like it being assumed that cos someone is late 40's upwards then we are no longer "hot." But in any case, I'm not looking for 30 year olds either, so i guess it is all relative.
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RHP User
16 years ago
i will try and be short and crisp...i'm sure ya don't want some long windy thing...so, i'll stick to point form.......change your profile name...i see asho and i think asshole...maybe hugmyass might be better...hmm..ya got a week on that one, then i might pinch it, the name that is...and then your byline could be and hug everything else too please...i checked your profile...nice pics...why not show some skin as well...i think girls also like to look at your body, so let them see what they can have...your profile is very honest, but let's face it, every girl KNOWS what it is that a guy wants...say a bit about yourself...let them find out how awesome a lover u r when u GET to the bedroom...and lastly, ask a woman to be your friend, someone who you can chat to...and get a friend who is not your stereotype...i think a lot of men are looking for what you want, hot, slim chicks...and i tell ya, while that is great, IMHO, u are missing out on some truly awesome and wonderful people, not just sexually, but their minds...the way they think...be honest and lastly...keep, keep, keep on posting on here...in love and lightJose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
IMHO, the only scum of the earth are pedophiles...(did i spell that right?)jose... (but only sometimes an angel...grins)
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am attracted mostly by a man's mind and what he has to say. Yes, I am interested in casual sex but only if I feel a connection with the guy in question. This is frustrating because I would love to be able to get turned on simply by seeing an attractive body or hearing dirty talk! Some of my best sex has been with men who made me laugh, and were on my wavelength. So maybe girls out there are pickier because they need exactly the right ingredients to make their loins tremble.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Jose, your dead right there, mate. We can punish pederists but there is no apparent rehabilitation. Imagine being the parents of one of those little kids photographed on teh beach the other day.. front page of the SMH.. snapped with a high resolution digital camera by an unknown photographer closely allied with a convicted pedarist.... I'd be livid. Unconsolable, if one of them was my child placed in such a photograph and without my knowledge. If any one of us took a photo of some bare breasts on Coogee Beach we'd be arrested... well, that guy isnt sexually attracted to breasts... I find the whole situation completely abhorrent. Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
Asho, I've seen your posts over the forums in the past and not one of them avoids sounding bitter. No one wants to seek out bitter people. I feel for you as dating is dating and whether online or not women always have and will have the upper hand, it's just the way it is. Pain sucks but is a reality and it does seem you've had your fair share. Through pain you can either grow or can shrivel up into a bitter heap. My advice is to take some time out from it all and just focus on yourself and explore things in life that you love that don't need other people. Myself (Mr) as case in point had my heart broken (smashed to smitherines would be more descriptive) many years ago. Luckily I made the choice to go on a mission of discovery by myself. I explored putonoc friendships to thier greatest depths, traveled the world, fit in a little volunteer aid work, did further study and became a born again virgin who didn't have sex for nearly 3 years (after a firey relationship where sex was several times a day). This time was awesome as I had no one to rely on but myself and really grew to like myself and the good in the world (I still get down on all the crap in the world). Oh and in this time I became gods gift to women, never had so many offers in my life, damn it, as I turmed them down as I was still on the journey (everyone likes what they can't have!). I reached a point where I really felt comfortable with myself, my previous love and my singledom and was happy to continue along until the time when chance presented that special someone to me. Well BAM in sauntered Miss Puppy and the rest is history. I've been bitter and twisted too and it can be unravelled and the real you is in there somewhere. Get the hell off this site and immerse yourself in real face to face contacts and learn to love all the ups and downs again! (then come back on and watch the girls go mad!) All the best
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RHP User
16 years ago
GREAT STUFF MAN ANSWER TO YA PROBLEM- GO OVERSEAS AND HAVE FUNSWEETPETITE IN BUNBURY- iD DATE U ALL DAY EVERY DAY - HEHEHEHHEHEHE had to shout cause the neighbours are bonkin one of my girlfriends and its bloody loud- hahahahhahaha
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motobooger
16 years ago
I agree... I think the reasons are firstly...half the profiles on here are fake. Secondly..most girls are all talk no action..even if they seem super keen when it comes to meeting it never happens. Chicks like to tease dudes and most are just on here for the attention...all they're after is a million winks and messages to make them feel good. Thirdly...many chicks are very shallow and selective, particularly on sites like this where they are bombarded with options... Afterall...chances are they have a million other dudes already on the go..they don't need you, me, or anyone else on here.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm so horny for you Puppy.....you bitter and twisted? Never!Everyone else....chill out fuck ya's. Rant about Professionals if you have nothing better to do.....
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RHP User
16 years ago
It seems your complaining about your age and that the young girls wont give you a go. I'm 43 and have no problem connecting with younger girls off line, but like you I get no connection with them online. I got over it real quick and got on with my life, but you seem to be stuck in a rutt of your own making and I think having read your profile and your continual wingeing on the forums that you have small mans symdrone and the women see that straight away. Hell if I was a chick I wouldn't want to meet you either. Grow Up.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Asho, I really truly second Puppy's advice. You do sound bitter about women and relationships in general. This is bad for 2 reasons. 1. It's bad for YOU. There is no way it's not having an effect on you, it comes through in everything you write. I can't find a single self-depreciating line anywhere, no humour, no light, no fun. It's all rant, all the time. 2. Bitterness and anger are supremely unattractive traits in anyone. And they are also blindingly easy to see. And they overshadow all the other traits that you've listed. These are people to avoid. "When you're being eaten out or fucked doggy style..what's the difference between 29 & 30???" is, for me at least, an extremely unattractive turn of phrase. Puppy is giving you excellent advice. My advice to you is to take it. And I wish you good luck in the search for the less bitter you. And, as you keep bringing this up, if you do want sex then there is NOTHING wrong in paying a delightful escort for the pleasure of her lovely company. Again, if people didn't use escorts, well, then, they wouldn't exist. I just don't see the problem.
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RHP User
16 years ago
OMG asho you are such a sookie laaa laaa Not a good quality in a man Grow some balls, gets some personality, turn the computer off and go meet people Oh and I will say this time and time again... you will not find love if YOU GO LOOKING for it. Love with the right person finds you! Stop putting so much drama and hoo haa into it all, enjoy life and stop being a sook about what you don't have. Enjoy what you do have! That is all Kaito
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RHP User
16 years ago
How many of us can you hold under your spell, married or not we want to touch ya bits! Our advice to you is to get in bed between us at the first available opportunity!
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RHP User
16 years ago
ur so wrong there... some women like the rock hard sexy men but others have seen wat its like to be with them then go meh gimme a cute chubby guy anyday.. ffs my man isnt the most attractive guy out there but i dont care he looks after me and thats all that matters now if i was after a fuck buddy with no strings hell yeah go the hottie with the six pack lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with redhotgun, in that if you are looking for someone to share your life with and bear your children, then you are probably better off looking for them in the "real" world. Good luck
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RHP User
16 years ago
desserts..it was a badly worded post..sorry. You do seem very approachable ....and..."HOT"
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bondage_reality
16 years ago
FFS if you are looking to meet somebody here be different Every guy is funny or stupid or has a style Find your style n run with it.....IT WILL WORK....you will meet your natural type but .... n I have to do this STOP BEING THE WHINEY RECENTLY SEPERATED OR DIVORCED TYPE LOSER YOU SOUND LIKE hmm did I spell whiney right? Thats my 50c worth....wanna know more..call me with your 50c
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piercedfun
16 years ago
why are men the scum of the eath, well it dates back to the biblical times when dinosaurs ruled the earth and man used to get squashed betweet the toes ofthose big were they reptiles? hey just think if they find evidence of life being able to survive on mars we could also be the scum of mars as well as earth, i dont really have a point here but i have been blocked by people that have begged to see what i look like and i put web cam on for them and suprise suprise im blocked not even a sorry your not what im looking for hey i can be an arsehole at times and not everybody likes me thats fair enough try living with me 24 7 like i have to lol but hey i aint loosing any more sleep over it now if you'll all forgive me i really need some rest as i havent sleep for a few days as i got blocked 3 days ago and havent slept since lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Kaito this guy is just asking a question and having a bit of a rant and u jump down his throat. When some of the chicks on here have a rant about something stupid like um stalking on here lol (what an idiot post that was) everyone backs her up.Give the guys a freakin break and u girls get down off ur high horse... GROW UP GIRLS
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RHP User
16 years ago
Whitehawk (previously Asho), you are probably not surprised to find the figures you state are replicated for 98% of single guys on this site. But what may surprise you is that there are also guys on here that you would expect to get a lot of action that also struggle. Why is that? It's a simple numbers game. Truth is you would have a better chance picking up at a bar then here. Can you imagine going to a bar and there being 1000 people with only 2 single females that are looking for someone to take home. That's a bit what it is like on this site. those girls suddenly have every Tom, Dick and Harry hitting them up. Of course there are going to be a lot of disappointed people. I have had membership and my stats are 351emails and 736 flirts. Only received 86 flirts back and 121 messages ( a lot saying not interested) I think a lot of the last replies were from my current flatmate. Unlike you I tried to restrict my messages to those that were looking for my age and gender as well as within 200km from me. There were a few exceptions, mainly with flirts. I have only met 2 women from here. Yes just one more than you. Both of them could not believe that I haven't met lots from the site as they say I have a great profile. They are both in their 30's and one is now my housemate and fwb. In the same time I have met 4 women from other sites although only one of those included sex. So yes your figures are about normal. But as many have mentioned you are not helping yourself with the negative attitude which will really turn off any that are considering you. Just have to get over yourself a bit I think. If you are really that frustrated with it try something else. Whether that be another site, going somewhere irl or if you are really desperate hire an escort or go to a brothel. Never done that myself but i know people that have.Personally I think you would be better off not here as you obviously are not doing yourself any favours and just contributing to the fallacy that all the single guys are no good on here.
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RHP User
16 years ago
dont give up, l think you look hot but then l looked up a few comments u made and wondered....but then l read about your um...big...equipment?!!... and thought oh well take another look, then having been thru a few flirts and repling to ones l wasnt interested in, yes lm a good girl sometimes!!... l realised u hadnt flirted me!!! so the fact that im 35 might ve put u off or that lm willing to and have met guys off this site therefor following thru, might ve scared u off, or the fact that lm an easy going redhead(oops sorry now black haired) that likes to explore mightve done it but no l still didnt see any flirts!!!! And while lm funny enough to laugh at myself while writing this,as well as being very easy on the eyes apparently, lm hoping u have a sense of humor in there somewhere because deep down , every woman wants to laugh more than cry. So Asho or white whatever u call yourself flirt all u like but its the messages that get a woman interested. And if u have flirted me lm so sorry, !!! lm only a guest and u ll have to message me!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Mate...I'm not frustratd for sex..as much as I miss it alot.I'm frustrated because I want a girl to live life with...someone beautiful,sexy,intelligent,down to earth who wants to be adored and treat her man right.A woman who will love the fact that I buy her hot heels ll the time, or take her away for random weekends someplace.Someone to cuddle on the couch and look forward to coming home to.That's why I'm getting really frustrated...and yes I think it's time to get out of stuck up image based pretentious Melbourne where all the girls down here want a ken doll manbag. I've done the bar thing, never walked away with a girl or numbers....the three last efforts ended up with the following.... 1) A girl flirting with me all night, then when I get the courage to approach her, she tells her boyfriend I've been stalking her and to fight me so she can get off on how tough her boyfriend is smashing my face in. 2) A barbie Doll wannabe blonde who decided to tell me " Fuck off you ugly c*%t" and throw a glass at my face because I did not step aside at the bar for her to be served before me. 3) A girl screaming her lungs out at me on the dance floor making the sign of a crucifix simply because I smiled at her and leant over to say hello. Granted this has happened at 2 local bars where I live and these girls were under 30, but seriously....am I that ugly and scary that a girl who's slim,leggy and attractive won't even give me a chance to talk to her? Girls in Brissie will chat for a bit, then walk off when someone hotter comes along,and girls in Perth/Freo will chat onlyif you're the same height as them and actually from Perth/Freo.Sydney chicks only hang in their own social circle and Melbourne girls won't even look at you and let youcome near them unless you're ethnic or a ken doll. These experiences and others that I've copped from women in the last 5yrs since my ex-fiance chated on me....have definatly jaded me and made me very negative.I see it, I get told it all the time....you think I enjoy going to bed at night and waking up aloe, losing each day that could be spent with an amazing women?? How do you becoe happy if you have nothing to be happy about, and the one thng that can make you happy you can't get simply based on your looks and age,...because I know I'm intelligent,witty and bloody great at sex....been told that enough times as well.But unless you have the looks and age....a smile across a crowded room usually ends up in a look of death and repulse.Hence why I'm online trying o meet girls, but all it seems now is fakes profile webcam skanks, scammers and attention seekers who never had any intention of meeting me in person......so excuse me for being a lil frustrated and full on about my feelings on the way australian women treat men like myself.
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RHP User
16 years ago
hav u read any of the fantastic advise that ppl hav replied 2 u? i can tell u now u dont hav any chance wit any chic on rhp wit all the sh*t linked to your profile now, i know guys on this site no better lookin than u that r havin a ball, meetin chics, havin sex, makin friends........even witout a 6pak!!!! i keep lookin at this thread readin the amazin advise thinkin he has to get it now, i think u hav done your dash on rhp..... no hot skinny or hot bbw chiccy wants the kinda love or sex or friendship u r offerin, u will suffocate her, u need help that we rhp peeps cant giv.....we hav tried! please press that lill log off button, get yourself 2 a gp 2 treat your very serious bout of depression its horrible to c sum1 suffer like u r from their bitter mind, yes its your mind not the rest of the world that is makin u suffer! drag your mind away from your own worries and volunteer all that time u spend on here to ppl that really do hav it tuff r doin it really hard but keep smilin anyway, a kids hospital or riding for the disabled, a nursin home or all the other amazin charites that really need help so u can get your mind off what u dont hav and b around ppl that hav it so much worse than u but still laugh at themselves and the world, its so humblin and has this gr8 side affect of puttin things in real perspective. go overseas, go on a holiday, broaden your mind, somewhere like india and look for empathy inside yourself. learn fun and humour, even when things arent goin how u want em 2, smile and laugh anyway! come on asho/whitehawk u can do it!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
the supply of cocks > then the demand for cocks. therefore the girls get to be picky. thats the way it is. the laws of the game. dont catch feelings about it, just do u and if ur as awesome as u think u are then u'll get some.
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RHP User
16 years ago
i love the real men... men who spend so much time at the gym staring at their reflections are only interested in peasing themselves.. bring on a man thats going to joyfully spank my wobbly butt and rejioce anytime..mmmm...
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StookyAndChooky
16 years ago
we have been on here for ages we haven't meet a huge amount of women from here but we face the same problem as any single guy does with on here, they say that want this and that etc you have that but yet you don't it at all. like saying that they want white but they for for black instead lol sad but true, they say want to be treated nicely and with respect yet they don't give out respect at all, they complain about people treating them badly yet they go back to them and stay away from the so called people that would give the respect and honesty, loyality etc. we have heard every excuse under the sun, why can't they say there are interested or not "be straight up like we are them", oh no that no on lol if women on here found it as hard as single guys and couples did they would learn a lesson but in reality we all know that will never happen because the number of men to women ratio etc. They know they have the power so to speak because of that fact, seems to be some of women here for own egos if nothing else, flirt and play hard to get etc on cam cos they know they can, people will even back stab other people just to get laided from a women to make themselves appear to be a better offer for them even if they are meant to be your so called" friend from here", its amazing what people say on here to try and get laided so to speak, sweet talk them, lie to them, say whatever it takes but what if your honest, seems to appear women don't like nice is so 80's but they want bad boy it seems with good boy charms or hot body with 6 pack etc Whatever happen to days of meeting up with people for a laugh and few drinks socially, if it let to sex and friendship what a bouns it was, back in those days people didn't have to lie to get sex from websites like this. This is female part of relationship writting up this as well not another male sookying so to speak. Signing of now Chooky fem part of couple here
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm not all that good looking a guy, and I've got a skinny little body. I get enough messages to keep me coming back to check daily and I've met quite a few people off here now with good results. What I have is that I know how to make people laugh. I have opinions on things, but I'm also open-minded and generally positive. I'm not too serious, I'm fairly playful, and I have been told I put people at ease. Basically I'm ME. Some people like that. Some people don't. But man.. Changing your profile won't do a damn thing until you change your attitude. BTW - Girls that always complain are just as bad as guys that always complain! It's not gender specific! ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes single guys do get a hard time on swing sites.. From what i see the guys who have NO IDEA and suck up to any girls in case they will get lucky Just spoil it for the normal fun guys.. Get some backbones guys..who wants a lapdog..being too wussy and easy makes the cool single guys look bad. Of course some girls and couples are like those at night clubs...they arnt there to meet anyone, just to run you down and get their jollys from the fact that others want them. In the end there are plenty of hot girls /guys and couples here...you just have to sift thru the time wasters Neo
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RHP User
16 years ago
Not all women are worried how a man looks or how much $ he has, how about a just plain simple good down too earth good guy who is honest truthfull reliable and trustworthy who is also half decent in bed ?? who after a while doesnt become Mr d-head, the more men are open to learning and understanding women the easier we will be to recieving of men, mowen are like books never miss the preface and dont expect to miss a chapter and still know whats going on BUT if you keep reading it can be one of the best experiences of your life like a novel you just cant put down and then becomes one of your favourite authors !!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
To Whitehawk77, i'm the female half of this couple and cannot really add much that has not been said but i think as a "male's advice" as to how to appeal to women then the post from BadBadDog on Oct 30 is very well written and does accurately reflect how women "see" men. So nice to see a man here write so eloquently on this subject. And Sophie_74 also on Oct 30, was also very good with her advice. You need to "sell" yourself on this site.This is advertising, or marketing. And re-do the pics. You seem nice looking but yr not selling yourself. Even though i am a bi-sexual woman and that is the appeal for me through a site like this, i dont have a stereo type of man that appeals to me. its certainly not young and buffed and carrying a 6 pack. my partner who i'm totally enamoured of, is not this. he's fit and looks after himself but his appeal to me and to many women i watch react to him is more than his looks.and he s nice looking but he's very self assured and self confident. he's very charming. and very importantly he's very well mannered. it may sound old fashioned, and he is much older than me, but it does sweep you off your feet. he's not a complainer and does not gush on about himself and he looks you directly in the eyes and is very interested in you. when i met him, 6 years ago, through an internet dating service i was overwhelmed and thought he was so out of my league. but he turned out to be down to earth and funny. thats what we girls like (and nice clean shoes of course!!). we both fell in love on our first date and have been together ever since. so be the man your mother wanted you to be is one saying my partner says when he's telling male friends how to meet the right girl! and as a bi-girl looking for girls, i can never tell what will attract me. when we are at clubs like lotus lounge i'll be very attracted to a girl who is so not "on my list" of what i'm looking for (she may be much older and size 16 for example) but i've talked to her and all of a sudden i'm lusting for her! thats what's exciting about this!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I miss whitey.....sigh
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RHP User
16 years ago
I got all excited and thought....." OMG!!!!! he's bacccckkk" Nick has/had been a good backstop ( for a while) even he has lost some "shutzpuh" siggghhhh along
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sorry Saturn...didnt mean to get you all worked up....lol Que Barb Streisand....'meeemoriesss of the way we were'
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RHP User
16 years ago
the need to wear a windbreaker and a hat.perhaps with a windbreaker i can keep my photos horizontal.........ahahahahahahahahaahahahahhahahaahhahahahahahahahaEarl
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RHP User
16 years ago
I can't walk past Toys'R'Us and see the Barbie and Ken dolls without thinking of poor Whitey, hope he finally found that blonde, slim 21yo.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Like a few have mentioned already, I've found good old-fashioned manners tend to go a long way. A little tact, a touch of humour and you're off and racing. I'm not the fittest guy around, and as such can't rely on washboards abs, but I approach singles and couples in a pleasant manner. As a result, over the last few months I've met with many singles and couples and had an absolute blast. There aren't any gimmicks, tricks or secret ways to finding playmates. Simply say 'hi' in a confident and friendly way. I've found that it's the easiest and most effective way to reach anyone, both on rhp and in the real world. Hopefully things start going your way soon. Dave
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RHP User
16 years ago
how could you go and resurrect this sorry, sorry topic...now, where's my whip, 'cos girl, you is due for a spanking...jose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Saturn65' I got all excited and thought....." OMG!!!!! he's bacccckkk" Nick has/had been a good backstop ( for a while) even he has lost some "shutzpuh" siggghhhh along yeah nick is nowhere near as good as whitehawk....i miss whitey....we should hunt him down and bring him back..lol roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'comeandgetme68'how could you go and resurrect this sorry, sorry topic...now, where's my whip, 'cos girl, you is due for a spanking...jose...However...seeing as how ur offering...'Lippy assumes the position"
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RHP User
16 years ago
Heard a rumour that whitey is back....hmm...
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