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Why am I so nervous!

January 07 2010

sex

I am jsut about to embark on a hopefully wonderful sexual relationship with an incredibly hot guy - but he is a bit younger than me (about 7 years) and just the most gorgeous specimen..........so handsome in my eyes I have to wonder what the hell is he doing wanting to bonk me......   My question - I am new to this kind of sex only thing.  I have been in a non-physical by loving relationship with my partner for over 9 years - we havent had sex for the past 3 of them.  He doesnt know about this.  I have been with another guy recently (and boy wasnt that a disaster) but for some reason this one feels different as I am just so sexually attracted to him - I am so nervous!    Guys - tips?  Help me out here.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    The age difference is nothing. You aren't kids anymore. Those butterflies you are feeling is intense excitement. I love that feeling of anticipation. I hope your legs shake and your knees knock together while you're doing it, ya sneaky minx! :p     Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Project just go with it and enjoy it.  I am sure he enjopys your company also.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    We cant tell you what to do. Just go with the flow

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    that sounds very kinky I love it !my advise wud be not to get attached to this guy so keep it very casual ...(that is if u love ur husband) just make it clear to him play meets only and no more then that

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Thanks Stalky - only put up my message in the hope you would reply!  Love reading your posts!!!!! Nothing romantic about it - want to fuck his brains out!  That aside - he does make my knees shake!!!!!  And the rest of me!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    On first reading "but he is a bit younger than me" I had an expectation of cradle snatching... but he's only seven years younger? I know a chap who is nearly 40 and keeps getting stopped at the casino to confirm that he is over 18. Met a sixty six year old woman of eurasian decent and you would swear that she was not a day over 40. Some people have genes on their side, look after themselves and have kept out of the sun. So in all likelihood you could look younger than he. Expect the nervousness will dissipate rapidly once the sex hormones kick in after a bit of hanky panky. Also waiting in anticipation for a report on the amorous outcome. Could you imagine web camming it on RHP with Stalky giving a commentary? Now that would be good reason to be nervous :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Nerves are normal and natural. This new man may be more than just casual sex It is the other emotion you may be feeling you have to check. Does he feel the same? Go with what feels right and have no regrets.good luck Hermes

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Nerves are good here, in an odd way. Don't go into this with any expectations and be clear what you want from the outset. Seven years is not a gap to worry about. When it does finally happy, enjoy it, alot.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I suggest turning all that nervous energy into sexual energy.    When I'm nervous I just focus on breaking the ice with a drink or by talking about something ridiculous OR doing something ridiculous.   I'm out with a HOTTTT 29 yo tonight (thanks to a response to one of my posts!! I'm SURE he will read this...LOL)... fun is the order of the night!  I have even suggested we go shopping for a new bed (I actually need one).  It seems like a silly way of getting to know each other.  It will overcome the age barrier and we can see how many bedding stores throw us out !  I've also made other suggestions.  All light-hearted fun.  Who knows where it will end but I like to go into these things without expectations.    Good luck... I have LOTS of fun ideas if you'd like some !   xxx Ms Saturn

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Gawd.. awwwhh! Now I'm getting an erection in anticipation on your behalf! hehe Yeah.. bugger romance... juet get into it.. hehe.!   Hugs Stalky hehe... I should never had had that shot of bourbon. I'm feeling really frisky.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I once read somewhere that that feeling of butterflies in the stomach is actually the nerves in your stomach contracting in order to send blood to the genitals quickly.  That kind of science takes all the romance, but you are not looking for romance your looking for ...well blood rushing to the genitals.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Damn sexycountrycpl, that seems like symptoms of "Irritall Bowel Syndrome"..all this time I thought my ex had IBS, but she was just getting ready to rush blood to her genitals..not sure who the fuck she was shagging then !   Trev

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    So you have a partner?but you are playing with another guy?Is that correct so far?Or did we miss read what you wrote?.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    How are you going gorgeous? Im mike 31 from the north sydney area, i am attached and was wondering if you might wanna have some desert with me? i love giving long slow sensual massages, come say hi

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I agree with Desserts. Go with your gut feeling. Normally way to go. who knows might even spark your love life at home. We all have needs/cravings fulfilled. Makes us happy & life is good.   Play hard   Andy