Why all the ghosting? Where are the real players?

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  RHP User

  4 years ago

  Women get them too. If I get a message that just says "hey" or "hi", I will reply with the same. ( I will put the same amount of effort in) They read the reply. Then nothing. Strange. But taken with a grain of salt these days. I'm sure there are profiles here that have no intention of anything more than the excitement of generating a reply. Lots of dreamers.

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  FeistyFatty

  4 years ago

  There is a reason for their ghosting ...... they have no interest in pursuing anything further with you. Simple🤷‍♀️. It doesn't really matter what their reason is. Ghosting guarantees finality.

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  nightingale8

  4 years ago

  If they message you first then that’s strange lol. Unless a face changes things, or they were just trying their luck to find someone to respond on here 😁

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  MsSuperFoxy

  4 years ago

  They ghost because they can. It's kinda like fishing. They are putting out the bait, you bite! Why even reply to half arssed messages with no effort put in what so ever. You've wasted your time. Ms Foxy Ms Foxy

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  RHP User

  4 years ago

  That’s the only kind of ghosting that sort of annoys me, when they message me and I reply then they don’t talk anymore. I don’t see the point in wasting my time like that but in reality it’s only 30 seconds of my life so oh well. It’s a difficult game, one day there’s no-one & the next day I’m ignoring people because I can’t keep up or I’m already busy with someone else...you’ll never know what’s going on in the other person’s world so there’s no point sweating it.

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  Alex_Lover

  4 years ago

  We have the same thing now and then from couples. Reach out, we reply, then nothing. It's more annoying when they have liked and fav'ed us, then messaged... we reply with something simple, respectful.... they ghost. People are weird. I'm assuming it's often the guy from the 'couple' hoping to chat with Margo. When I respond, all his hopes and dreams are dashed, and they ghost - hahahahah. - Alex

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  CrouchingTiger

  4 years ago

  I wouldn't over analyse, it's fortunate you didn't waste any more time on them.

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  teamaj2

  4 years ago

  Mr wild People have their own agenda and ways of negotiating this lifestyle and website . When we first joined I was often perplexed by peoples actions . I soon learned it is what it is and move on . Obviously, whomever they maybe are just here to get the thrill of a response with no intention of meeting anyone or they get cold feet ? Whatever the reason it’s the same outcome - it’s a no . As the communicator out of the two us I don’t respond to messages of hey , hi , babe , how about it ? Etc etc That is your choice . I / we find it’s usually a waste of time . We like to be able to communicate with those we hope to meet. Good luck . Ax

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  RHP User

  4 years ago

  It happens to everyone, unfortunately you're not special in this.

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  countrytouch82

  4 years ago

  Psychologists have looked into the rationale behind "ghosters". But few results as they disappear well before the interviews are competed.

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  RHP User

  4 years ago

  Yeh this happens alot. Fact is, 99% of people here either are married to someone who will never take the next step. Or they themselves have no intention of taking that next step Or theyre just time wasting , pic collecting loosers Many just enjoy the fantasy of it all. But will never have the guts to see it through Keep trying. Now and them you may run into the 1% that are actually serious

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  RHP User

  4 years ago

  I think that they are chatting to for the message count because they are not getting from the women on here. Makes them feel like it was worth signing up perhaps

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