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Why Do Men Find Anal So Fascinating?
May 17 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Because they want to stick it in your butt.
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RHP User
16 years ago
We are all different ..i like it because it is another part of sex or sexual exploration with a lover that can bring pleasure..However dont think you can put a strap on and stick it in me !!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Pusscat .Perhaps its because we are told as children that its dirty to touch there and as alll little boys know we always do the oposite of what we are told . I agree with Sweetiepie that on some level for some men it is a power trip the ultimate humilliation and yes it is tighter but in the end its the ladys choice no one elses we should all respect that part of our relationshipsPROFATxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
its tighter thats what iv been told...and not every girl does it roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Haven't had the opportunity as yet, but the allure is certainly in the fact that it is a little taboo.I'm sure its not as wonderful as anyone would have you believe, but the mind is a powerful thing.Sometimes the thought of sex is sexier that the act itself.One young mans perspective. Lets see what the learned have to say.Rick.
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RHP User
16 years ago
For some of us it's the closest we'll ever get to being trendy (gay) or in a minority group that people are expected to pander to (gay or French).
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RHP User
16 years ago
.. Jean you can always procure a belly laugh!Good question Wood and Puss, it sure seems a preoccupation with a lot of men. Is it that they wanna feel that gay feel? Probably not. I think for most men it's because they either haven't had it and want what they can't have or they like the dirty/dom/whatever feeling it gives them.I for one have had my, errr, fill of lovely sphincters and can say that the Puss is the best feeling hole you can stick your dick in. I guess it's tighter than a loose pussy???? Something I haven't had a lot of lucky me!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with you that alot of men on these sites love anal and are obsessed. I don't do it and if they chat about it too much...its delete and block!! I read a whole man's profile after they have sent me a flirt or message and if I read that they like anal either way they get an automatic "no" from me! I don't enjoy rimming so why would I want a cock up there if I don't even like the tongue. But most of all if they say on their profile that they love fisting...I don't look any further and that is a definate and huge "NO". This is just me!! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Men..., pre-occupied with anal sex??? In our bed hopping antics I am sure most blokes think that my clit is somewhere in my arse, not that I mind anal from time to time with my partner, he is gentle and I have the most mind blowing orgasms from it too , dp is awesome... I am going to have to stop talking about all this soon, I'm getting distracted! and guys go mad for dp too but not all can perform in those circumstances. I guess it's the taboo or the fact that it's a bit naughty, dirty or that only bad girls do it - happy to fall into the bad girl category! For us it's all about variety, doing what feels good at the time and enjoying each other.
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RHP User
16 years ago
It's just a little bit naughty that's all. People like to feel naughty. HUgs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think the taboo of anal sex is a valid point, and yes i think that most men (if they are honest) will admit it is a little "homosexual" fantasy. But mostly I think the reason most guys are fascinated with anal sex is pornographic depiction, not all girls will do it so it makes you "special" and an often unrealised sense that sexual pleasure is in the rectum (base of the penis and the male prostate are located here, so orgasm is quite strongly felt in the rectum).
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yes it's naughty and it feels fantastic - I can feel every delicious inch It is definitely not a degregation or humiliation thing for me - but would agree it is a bit dom/sub.
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pinkyandthebrain
16 years ago
Its the thrill of trying something new, something taboo (you're not supposed to go there). I have had many conversations with men and couples and honestly never been asked. I think it is trashy to hit someone up for anal. My man and I have done it a few times in the 10 years we have been together. He can honestly say, vag is definately the winner. He says it is tight yes but feels like a tube, whereas the vagina is perfectly moulded to house a man. Its just a "lets try it for something different" thing.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Mr Pound here. For me it is about dominance and when I took Ms Penni's freckle cherry it pretty well sealed our relationship. It is not something we do all the time but when the moment is right, it is all about fun and pleasure. I definitely don't go there for extra tightness, Ms Penni can hold me tighter with her pussy muscles than a than Scotsman holding his wallet.DP is next on the to do list, just got to find the right couple.Mr Pound
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RHP User
16 years ago
It's 2 times tighter and 2 degrees warmer
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RHP User
16 years ago
I LOVE playing with bums. I like poking things in boys bottoms more specifically. I like boys who enjoy this. I also think that guys who haven't had anything up their arse should never be allowed to go near a womans. Quid pro quo? Not really, a butt is not a cunt and needs to be treated differently and with care and you can't just go shoving things into it willy nilly.Oh and funloving - Guys can be fisted too!
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RHP User
16 years ago
its tighter /naughtier/ different i guess...so ive read
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RHP User
16 years ago
When the wife gives me the opportunity to have my way with her anally well I can pretty much cum in a matter of minutes. The first thing that attracted me to my wife was her backside. Ever sine then any opportunity I get to play with it is heaven to me. Whether it be licking it, fingering it or fucking it - I appreciate that she has given me this pleasure and I try to make sure I please her as much as I am enjoying myself. But it is all done gently and with respect. (and lots of lube!!)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Guys and Girls, Many thanks for your insight on this topic - much appreciated. While I do enjoy anal sex and the wonderful orgasms it brings, I have only done it with long term partners as there is much more trust there and it does bring you closer. I would also love to try DP at some stage. But for me I much prefer a cock in my pussy! Pusscat xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Ruggedly_Rugged' It's 2 times tighter and 2 degrees warmer Hahaha! Love it! Nice and succinct!Quoting 'Polar_Bear_Girl' I LOVE playing with bums. I like poking things in boys bottoms more specifically. I like boys who enjoy this. I also think that guys who haven't had anything up their arse should never be allowed to go near a womans. Me tooooo! Bums are fun! As is fair play! LOL
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RHP User
16 years ago
A fab word for tongue tickling it! I know there's 3 small G-spots just inside the.....entrance(don't like the medical term). Also G-spot No8 up the hallway a bit. Feels like a rubberband sliding along the member, as opposed to muscles in the pussy (see pussy control). D.P. - something all women who like anal should do at least once in their life. (gentle rhythmic thrusts in a 'one going in as the other goes out' technique is wonderful). As for EGO or individual-pursuit by a man/over a woman power trip crapolla. Not with Me on that one at all, though I don't doubt it's happened. Top marks for any cpl who explore this avenue(so to speak) and enjoy it whenever.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'goldenbiguy'I think the taboo of anal sex is a valid point, and yes i think that most men (if they are honest) will admit it is a little "homosexual" fantasy. ). Hehe - no it's not a homosexual fantasy - why do gay people think they invented anal sex and the straight population is copying them? What next..? Are they going to take credit for oral too?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lolz Jeano... that is so right. Anal sex is not a "gay" invention. First time I ever did it was by complete accident. I was getting very excited pulling out and plunging back into that warm wet pussy... then I missed. Ouch... Ooops... Sorry! ... "well don't stop now". Oh... Awwright! :p hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yeah i think it is the naughty factor. the tight unknown, but i must say i think it loosens up after a while ..lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Kegels Leesa.. more kegels.. hehe. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
I had a "friend" once tell me that anal sex is all about the sensation. He said that the best way to think of it is like this.... vaginal sex is similar in sensation to wanking using your whole hand whereas anal sex is similar in sensation to wanking using two fingers in a tight circle.... but what would I know.... hahaha Personally for me, I have a love hate relationship with anal... it can either be the most amazing or incredibly painful and uncofortable. Having said that though, the feeling of a man cum when he's cock is in your arse is HOT HOT HOT!!!!!
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