RHP

RHP User

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Who's tired of being ghosted?

September 05 2018

I suppose this is just a rant, but.... Chatted with a girl, 3 of us seemed to get along really well as we "seemed" to be looking for the same thing. We asked her on a date, she agrees 😁, set a day but not a time because she would get back to us with the time. Then nothing, she's gone. We don't mind people changing their minds, but at least let us know that it's not going to happen. - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    we have a girl saying happy to chat on the phone but keeps saying im busy chat tomorrow then keeps stalling so very fake It happens don't take it to heart

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    7 years ago

    Probably a dude guys🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    7 years ago

    It happens a lot on here. So many are fakes who have no intention of meeting up. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    As much as I hate to admit, because I'm sure women ghost too, but you've probably been duped by a bloke. If dirty chat was involved and if you sent pics, he was probably having a fine time spanking the monkey. I would love to hear from people who have been genuinely ghosted by women. I'm sure there are a few stories bobbing about.

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    7 years ago

    that the “ woman” who ghosted you, was actually a woman ? Unless of course you met her in real life ( or did a video chat with her ) before being ghosted ?? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    It's an unfortunate reality on here and modern dating in general. If we had a dollar for every time this happened to us we'd be on our world holiday by now. She may have been real, just found a better offer or got scared. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    And not just on here. You strike up a conversation, agree to meet and a few days before or even on the day, nothing. What a waste of time! It has happened even after meeting someone over a month. We arranged to go away for the weekend, he messages on the day, "sorry I have to work now". We had spent a really nice month together and I even gave him the option for it to be a fling and he said , no I'll pick you up and we can go away. Then nothing. Why the games? I just don't get why people have to play them. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Either it’s a fake profile or people just don’t have the guts to follow their fantasies and make them reality. Plenty of newcomers bail out when they realize they are about to do something uncommon. It’s easy to talk and say you want to do this or that...But ‘stage fright’ is a reality. Dont take it personal, ghosting has more to do with the person who disappears than those he/she does it to. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • horneycouplewa

    horneycouplewa

    7 years ago

    Been ghosted by men and couples. Now I make sure we video chat before any new meetings, still not a guarantee but eliminates the who are we messaging with. Had a couple of ladies contact us recently and tbh I haven't replied back as I treat all profiles the same. NO PIC'S OR INFO.... NO REPLY - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Firstly to ladies and couples looking for fun up my way 100 percent Committed guy here who will chat message and meet .As you say it goes both ways I have had women and couples Ghost not nice but lots do it. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    1. Real people are ones you’ve verified through phone/Skype 2. Interested people don’t ghost. 3. The weight of pressure can stop a train. Inspire, not coax Work on those three points, learn how to apply a few anti-flake or preemptive flake methods and you won’t waste your time - Posted from rhpmobile

  • blondes6365

    blondes6365

    7 years ago

    Happens all the time get used to it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Wasn’t Demi Moore in that movie? Hot, hot and hot! 🤠⚡️ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Sitting, waiting on my phone at 6,7 pm when we had planned to meet for dinner, only to never get a reply back ever. So frustrating. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Vanessa_N_James

    Vanessa_N_James

    7 years ago

    we have been accused of this even though we told the couple that we couldn't catch up with life being so busy some times its hard to line all the stars up especially when you live so far from every one

  • compressor

    compressor

    7 years ago

    If only people were honest about themselves and what they want, things would be a lot better

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    It is sad , however some people are too frightened to live their life. I feel sorry for those people, seriously though folks if you do not want to have fun please remember these are people you are hurting. For some who have body issues this could be a big step backwards. We are all putting ourselves out there in the hopes of some fun times and the possibility of long friendships lets keep it fun for every bodies sake. Please...…………..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I’ve always had the want to meet someone on here not sure what for but I think a lot of the women I have seen I’d love to be friends with more than anything. Can’t justify the 60 bucks to find out if they would want too .hope that doesn’t sound like a tight ass ..:) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Guests only..... No pics..... Empty Gallerys... Alarm bells ring. Verify people folks..... another is.... wifes away...., she will participate on a video link. Im not joking. Wife overseas.....had that one. If a 25 year old couple message you its probably some sweaty fatty with a box of tissues. BTW hello to all you beautiful real people out thete...... we rock it. YOLO - Posted from rhpmobile

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    7 years ago

    If you didn't actually speak in person on the phone (ie just text or online chat) than it was probably a dude being an idiot