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Who's real ? ...Who's not ?

June 16 2012

Last few days we have been sent confronting type messages.Message # 1... Tells us they are interested' but they want us to send our PG before they send theirs ? WTF ? They got funny when we asked why they never sent theirs with their message to begin with ?Message # 2.. Guy thanks us for sending him a flirt and wants to organise a meeting.. We never sent this guy anything.. sent him the type of reply he deserved ?Message # 3.. Couple ask's us if we are for real because there are so many on here that are not.. know what they mean, but just find it strange for a first off message...Message #4.. Nice message, nice profile... Obviously know how to tick the right boxes.. Lovely change...We're happy to send our PG with our return message. But if someone try's to con our PG out of us.. its just plain bad manners and it aint gunna happen...

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Come on be fair JJ   #1 - no idea of what MrJJ looks like - they might be hoping he's in the PG so as to gauge whether they want to play with both or just try their luck in getting MrsJJ to play solo (not saying they have any hope of that but we have both been around too long to know some are going to try anyway)   #2 - ahhh I love them. I send those response back too. I love the ones who send me a flirt, I send them a negative in reply then they send me a message thanking me for the lovely response and when can we meet?? Ahhhhh what??   #3 - give this couple a chance. Its a unique approach thats got you thinking at least. Hmmmm might try that approach myself one day.   #4 - lets us know how you go. Come on you know I like the details lol   Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    We are fair... If we feel there is a connection , our PG shows both...we have nothing to hide... but like most profiles here ' we know most are interested in Mrs JJ and so thats what we post... see for yourself if you wish?#4... Didnt really mind because we they sent their pics and we returned ours... just found the approach unusual, thats all..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    1# Our pet peeve - hate getting the message saying our pg gets theirs in return ! Wow thank you , so generous..... But we don't believe you ... So NO ! You made contact first , rules In our head state you give up pg first :-) 2# has not happened but thanks for the heads up 3# Well this site brags that it has over 2.5 million profiles ! But does not not state how many of those profiles are real or active ! So it's a reasonable question to ask we guess ! considering its more like 1% of 2.5 million

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    We recently had a flirt from a couples profile (can we name it ?) That had all the hallmarks of a fake . On telling him so, he responded with " fake this" and gave access to both PG s. Our response was ok cool then let's chat on the phone to confirm we all exist? Profile won't reply ! Gets them every time. Lol . Also love that their photos still have the logo of the website they downloaded their big cock photos from. Unless you have a suitcase of detachable penises to bring along it's probably best to use you own penis on your profile we reakon !

  • mrsrealistic

    mrsrealistic

    14 years ago

    yes - but just juice , when we sent our pics to you you disectted them like a doctor - sure we chatted later but you should not be bitchin about this shit

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Excuse me, I was not refering to you at all... If you care to read my post again you will see I said the last few days ? Cant even remember when or if we did communicated... Im sure if it was positive you wouldnt be so vindictive.. so who's really bitchin ? Disecting like a doctor ? OMG' How on earth would you know what we do and dont do with pic's... too silly for words..

  • wannabyummymummy

    wannabyummymummy

    14 years ago

    to air personal experiences here in this way guys. just because it didn't work out for you doesn't mean that JustJuice doesn't have the right to post an opinion.just sayin'............ Quoting 'mrsrealistic' yes - but just juice , when we sent our pics to you you disectted them like a doctor - sure we chatted later but you should not be bitchin about this shit

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'wannabyummymummy'Just because it didn't work out for you doesn't mean that JustJuice doesn't have the right to post an opinion. It was all pretty anonymous. Until now.Everybody be cool.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'wannabyummymummy' to air personal experiences here in this way guys. just because it didn't work out for you doesn't mean that JustJuice doesn't have the right to post an opinion.just sayin'............ Quoting 'mrsrealistic' yes - but just juice , when we sent our pics to you you disectted them like a doctor - sure we chatted later but you should not be bitchin about this shit Let keep the dirty linen in the Laundry please guys .. that's what PM are for ..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    JJ - I had already checked out your profile....just wanted to see for myself what it looked like before posting my response.   I just feel sometimes that some people are bit unfair in their profiles. Yes most are only going to look at Mrs JJ but shouldnt the profile really have at least one pic of you up there in public view? Even if it isnt your main pic? Then at least you can say youve given everyone a fair idea of who they are getting and not a one sided story, and it doesnt even have to be a face shot (as obviously you both value your privacy) just soemthing to give prospective playmates an idea.   We constantly see in the forums people complaining about not finding a couple who are both desirable to the other couple (or single) and I think it would save alot of time if people could see what both members of the couple look like before engaging in communication.   And yes before everyone starts getting defensive...I know Im not looking for couples, I know Im a single person but its many times that couples are looking for the unicorn (single bi girl) who wonder why they get knocked back from a flirt etc. We want to know who we are being approached by - not just one and I am assuming its the same when couples are looking for other couples (well I know when I was in a couple looking for another couple to play with we wanted to know what both looked like early on before we wasted either couples time).   But of course I dont know your situation and this is solely my opinion.   Kisses Focus   PS - I dont really like the single profiles without any pics either - but then Im very much a visual person

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    We give out our PG in reply to or when sending a message to some one we are keen on. (usually just to see face pics only if they are not in there public gallery) Our PG just has 4 everyday face pics of us both nothing to get to worked up about. If we don't get one in return then we just take access to ours away that day. We then refuse anymore communication until we get one in return. As there is no point taking things further until we do. If things go well then next step is the phone. Weeds the fakes out every time.Things are always so simple, smooth and easy when your dealing with a honest profile. We just don't let things get complex or difficult as 99.99% if they do your dealing with a fake.Tim

  • mrsrealistic

    mrsrealistic

    14 years ago

    no reply from just juice

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    boxing gloves.....cmon dont spoil the fun

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    If we just see a couples profile with pics of the female we just assume that guy is ugly and move on. We don't expect face pics in a public gallery but Jane needs at least a body pic that she like before even bothering to ask for a face pic.tim Quoting 'Lost_Focus' JJ - I had already checked out your profile....just wanted to see for myself what it looked like before posting my response.   I just feel sometimes that some people are bit unfair in their profiles. Yes most are only going to look at Mrs JJ but shouldnt the profile really have at least one pic of you up there in public view? Even if it isnt your main pic? Then at least you can say youve given everyone a fair idea of who they are getting and not a one sided story, and it doesnt even have to be a face shot (as obviously you both value your privacy) just soemthing to give prospective playmates an idea.   We constantly see in the forums people complaining about not finding a couple who are both desirable to the other couple (or single) and I think it would save alot of time if people could see what both members of the couple look like before engaging in communication.   And yes before everyone starts getting defensive...I know Im not looking for couples, I know Im a single person but its many times that couples are looking for the unicorn (single bi girl) who wonder why they get knocked back from a flirt etc. We want to know who we are being approached by - not just one and I am assuming its the same when couples are looking for other couples (well I know when I was in a couple looking for another couple to play with we wanted to know what both looked like early on before we wasted either couples time).   But of course I dont know your situation and this is solely my opinion.   Kisses Focus   PS - I dont really like the single profiles without any pics either - but then Im very much a visual person

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Who really knows,and yes it takes time to sift and sort .I wish it was instant soup but it's not.It is only when you actually meet someone that you really know. Some photos are fake,some photos are old,some people are too photogenic,some peopkle are not.Even if the photos are an accurate representation, it is one dimensional view. Messaging and phone calls help with the process but meeting is the real deal.Then you know, not only if they are really who they say they are but if you have a connection,a sizzle. When that happens it is really a big deal and so worth all the effort.x Hugs H

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Lost_Focus, as a fellow unicorn you are absolutely correct. However I'm more concerned with what the guy looks like. And why don't people verify their profiles? I won't go any further without it.

  • Paradisepair

    Paradisepair

    14 years ago

    First contact IMO also means those who flirt, we may reply with a message (asking for pics) but they made the first move...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Would have been nice to stay on track here but some just dont like it that way. For the record' no names were mentioned' the topic was purely about the way some people perceive a approach. That is what I pointed out and that is what the first few replied to until some ugly comments raised its head.The topic was not aimed at anybody, just the method of approach.. To those who could see it going off track and tryed to pull it back' thank you' Im happy to just back to the topic and continue where we left off... CAN WE ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Hi guys sounds like what we have experienced in the short time we have been on here.. I think these guys { singlel guys } are the main offenders we have found. Want to see pics with nothing in return WTF?? . Yeah sure we will open our gallery for you .. Or better still a friend request with sum1 who does not even take the time to have a pic of them selves on there profile or even in there p/g - sure thing Looking for friends join FB To all the descent couple and singles polite males thankyou xx ADZ N MAZ

  • HotandBig

    HotandBig

    14 years ago

    Thank You ADZ n MAZ!! Always a Pleasure to meet you guys!! I am a single guy on here but i have always been polite, real and always meet if we both agree to meet!! I find it extremely Hard and somewhat frustrating when couples or single females don't take you seriously or think your just another one of those annoying single or made up profiles!! I guess it is Understandable when you have a couple or single female profile and get 50 messages a day asking being rude and inconsiderate. To many Idiots on RHP spoiling it for the rest of US.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Too true forum friends although i havent verified my profile after so long !! wht waste peoples time..if there are no pics shared or a telephone number in tim,e then there is no go ..as far as i am concerned..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    This is slightly off track but having looked at JJs profile.   Always suspicious of persons or couples who list there location as Dawes Point, a number of people have that location and if looked up its an industrial area. If you can't be honest or upfront, or have the creativity to come up with a more beleivable location...well you have to wonder

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I've noticed on my single profile, as well as this one, that a few times when there hasn't been any communication either by me sending flirts/etc or receiving them for a week or so that I will get a flirt from someone. I've replied to them with a yeah or nay and several times the person/people have told me they never sent the first flirt. I've copied and pasted the entire flirt including their username to show concrete proof and still been told they never sent it. This hasn't been an isolated incident or just a couple of times but has happened numerous times.   I have my suspicions but wont voice them here for obvious reasons.       Nat ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Hey Focus, No' your post did not go unnoticed re pics of Mr JJ...and we appreciate your input.. But we still feel what we have is still quite satisfactory for what we are all about.. We both agree (you and us ) that the main focus will always be on Mrs JJ, so if someone reads our profile and is truly interested and grab our attention , they do get to see Mr JJ when we send our PG As I said earlier' we have nothing to hide and can assure you Mr JJ looks speak for themself.. Check and see.. J & J

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Yes we have also noticed that there are quite a few hot , unverified, profiles that tick the fake boxes using the Dawes Point location. They send flirts but never reply to messages ... Mmm interesting, we have our suspicions too but can't say for sure.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    HOT N BIG A true gentle manage took the time to find out what we wanted before any thing . Very unselfish lover who is considerate and makes time to listen and on top of all looks good smells good and plays even better.. Very we've to play with us any time Adz n maz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    On this thread so far only one couple has a photo of the guy all the others are of the girl or none and that is fairly typical.I would be interested in a couple with a bi male but no photo = no interest.When I could be bothered messaging I would usually open my gallery unless I was a wee bit suspicious, however many people ask for the gallery before offering same so no more, a wee bit of conversation required first I think.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Is a generic postcode when someone puts 2000 in as there postcode. Its just another privacy tool. I nearly had a kinippition when I first did our profile and our suburb popped up. We are real and we meet/play with people...I just prefer no-one knows ( unless we want them to, to know where we live..)Hope that answers your question.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'justjuice'Hey Focus, No' your post did not go unnoticed re pics of Mr JJ...and we appreciate your input.. But we still feel what we have is still quite satisfactory for what we are all about.. We both agree (you and us ) that the main focus will always be on Mrs JJ, so if someone reads our profile and is truly interested and grab our attention , they do get to see Mr JJ when we send our PG As I said earlier' we have nothing to hide and can assure you Mr JJ looks speak for themself.. Check and see.. J & J I dont have access to your PG...lol How about you put up a nice shot of Mr JJs shoulders - just for me (in oublic gallery of course) I do like a good set of shoulders...     Quoting 'Risque36' This is slightly off track but having looked at JJs profile.   Always suspicious of persons or couples who list there location as Dawes Point, a number of people have that location and if looked up its an industrial area. If you can't be honest or upfront, or have the creativity to come up with a more beleivable location...well you have to wonder I live on my own (though I dohave ownderful and protective nieghbours) and I know there is a gentleman on here who lives close to my area that I really dont want him knowing exactly what suburb Im in. I can always say Im visiting friends if I see him out but if my actualy suburb is on my profile then Im busted lol.   Just a little added security for me.   Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    DAWES POINT is a real place with real people in apartment style living located down near The Rocks in Sydney .Suspicions such as yours are not warranted and you show your ignorance by making such remarks. I dont know why anyone would do that' trying to fathom your motivations.. We have friends on RHP who state they live at Dawes Point so to take the recognition factor away from where they really live. They ' are fairly well known and prefer to play it low key on their profile' but so what' it has nothing to do with anyone else but them.. They could have choose anywhere in Australia' but they choose here.. I can understand why they do that.. can you ?

  • mrsrealistic

    mrsrealistic

    14 years ago

    okay - mr just juice and mr realistic need to meet in a park and but heads - for the rest of the nice people on this site take care , we will sort it out - hope mr juice getts that - peace

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    "On this thread so far only one couple has a photo of the guy all the others are of the girl or none and that is fairly typical." Damn straight we do ;) Mr likes to check out the guys too but is often disappointed by the inclusion of only one or two pics of the guy and a plethora of the female. We give the both of us equal representation pic-wise as it's what we would prefer to see when looking at others.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    We have thee pics of Jane and three pics of myself in our public gallery. although we are not looking for bi males. we just think its how you should represent your self if you are a couple. Mrnmrs4fun has at least one of the male 1/2. So there are a few profiles that represent both sides. I do agree that the large majority of couples have a public gallery full of the girls pics. If you lucky you get one of him hiding behind the sofa in the dark.While they are usually great looking female's unless you like blind dates and taking a chance on a mystery man there isn't much point to the profile. Jane usually mentions if the guy is worth looking at then they would have a pic up. Any profiles that just have pics of the girl to us just get treated as a single girl because that's all we have to go on. I guess its a bit like selling a car take a pic of the side that doesn't have all the dents.Tim Quoting '50zcool' On this thread so far only one couple has a photo of the guy all the others are of the girl or none and that is fairly typical.I would be interested in a couple with a bi male but no photo = no interest.When I could be bothered messaging I would usually open my gallery unless I was a wee bit suspicious, however many people ask for the gallery before offering same so no more, a wee bit of conversation required first I think.

  • HotandBig

    HotandBig

    14 years ago

    Wow Thank You mrnmrs4fun,I appreciate your great comments ! MrnMrs4Fun are just a Lovely, Inviting and Friendly Couple that Are both HOT an know how to Turn You ON!! Always have a Fantastic time when we meet.Would be honored to meet mrnmrs4fun !! HotandBig

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Great analogy that's exactly what it is ! not to mention the oil leaks and broken crankshaft !"I guess its a bit like selling a car take a pic of the side that doesn't have all the dents."Tim Quoting '50zcool' On this thread so far only one couple has a photo of the guy all the others are of the girl or none and that is fairly typical.I would be interested in a couple with a bi male but no photo = no interest.When I could be bothered messaging I would usually open my gallery unless I was a wee bit suspicious, however many people ask for the gallery before offering same so no more, a wee bit of conversation required first I think.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Dont try and hide behind your innocence, you have been the protagonist ever since this thread started.. Do us all a favor, take your sarcasim and your threats elsewhere' there's no brownie points for ignorance Oh ' regarding your no brainer threat' I would retract that .. Mr JJ hasnt seen this thread at all yet..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    This is not exactly on the topic, but just putting it out there that I am a real person.It is very difficult when you don't have the income to spend money on these sites, yet also don't get taken seriously This always happen, the idiots scare the girls away and make us nice guys lose out.