Who we knock back

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  No you have every right to pick and choose, especially with a cute body such as yourself. If you seek a certain male, or cpl/women for that matter where that age, looks, cock size, tit size doesn't do it for you, it is totally your call. Just annoys us when you see comments like stop flirting and start fcking etc and 1 has expressed interest in meeting because 1 thinks they may hit it off. Another pet hate of ours is all the people who add you to their HOTLIST but never make contact. Have they ever stopped to consider maybe the added need a little nudge hint hint. Not all are as conifent at approaching others like some can be. Best thing with RHP is you're able to see who's tempted so to speak unlike other well know sites. But in the end it is and always will be your call as to who you meet. Just don't shoot yourself in the foot in doing so. S and K

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Maybe Im nosey...... I am- I already know the answer on that onel. I cant see how someone viewing your profile or being sent a message/flirt can arc people up as what it seems to do to some people.Being fussy is totally your own perogative. You have standards , as everyone would have here. Some have a higher bar then others, that is cool! Dependent if I have been in the chatroom we may get heaps of hits on our profile from single dudes.Some send a fllirt others a message..no harm. Now we have NO mention in regards to our preference of single males and either its water off a ducks back but generally speaking we hardly get enough messages or flirts from males to warrant it a nuisance. When I go to who has viewed us if there is a pic there dependent on what I see in the pic is if I'll go in "stealth mode" so they cant see I have viewed them.Im generally interested in what people say in there profiles and I like to see how they "sell" themselves for want of a better word.Sometimes from a pic I know straight away that they are not what we are interested in I do this with couples and Male and Female profiles makes no difference to us. Disclaimer now...please guys..I have no issue you checking out our profile but unless you are a 6 pack ab toting Adonis.. you will get a thanks but no thanks ..lol...As for the Adonis's---click away!!!!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  No, I don't think youre being too fussy.As everyone else has said, it's totally your choice who you choose to chat, fuck or suck.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  You are quite speciific in your description which is great, it should allow for no mistaking what you are looking for.So maybe by happy accident of using search function they have hit upon your profile wherby your rules of engagement are noted . If they still are cheeky/forward/silly enough to send a flirt/message out of criteria then if I I were you Id probably have a generic polite NO NO NO" template that i would shoot off...or use the automatic template that gets sent once a sender has sent a message to you warning that they will not here from you again and be blocked if they dont suit what you are after..problem solved!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I used to be here as a couple, now I'm here as a single guy so I can sympathise from both sides LOLIf someone hasn't taken the time to a) read your profile and b) fill out there own with more than "I'm horny and my hanky is full, I need somewhere else to shoot my load and you'll do" then they really don't deserve a second look :)I respect peoples boundaries on their profiles, if someone says "No older than 35" then I don't message (even though I get told I look 35 I'm still physically not). Yes, this can be frustrating because I read what they want and apart from a single comment I KNOW we could have a great time and get along fabulously. But I also know that they're probably getting lots of messages from people saying "I know you're not looking for me BUT..." and I'd rather not hop on that merry go round, I prefer not to be annoying. At least, not until someone meets me in person LOL :)You have your requirements for a reason, they're what you're looking for and someone out there matches them. Yes, you may also have made your requirements such that you're going to miss out on some great people but lets face it, it's a crap shoot here LOL. I don't think you're too fussy, you want what you want and that's the way it is, why compromise? It means that some of us never get to meet but that's life. C'est La Vie :)WantPeakExp

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Thx for taking the time to read our profile and then commenting your opinion. Our profile has been rewritten some 4 -5 times before we settled with where it is now. Our first attempt was a miserable faliure and we found ouselves sending back replys we were uncomfortable with' but as time went on and we started to get the feel for the way things work here. We knew we had to be specific or continue to attract the people out side what we were looking for. In doing so' I guess we could be missing out on some really genuine people ' but I guess it can be abit of a numbers game some time. We definately are not snobs.. quite the opposite' but we do know what we are looking for. Cheers Jon

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  It's a trial and error thing. You think you have an idea of how it all works, so you put out your calling only to refine it again. When you first start out on the "guest" profile you kind of just fire off flirts to anyone that takes your fancy. Once you get in the gist of things you change your approach and possibly your profile description again. We try and keep up with the flirts but nowadays we don't get as excited as we used to over them - lol - or we're a little rude and won't reply if you don't fit our looking-for description i.e you bloody single males. If you've taken the time and used a precious message on us we'll of course reply, but it's definitely OK to be picky and choosy, after all you're the one that may sleep with them!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Perhaps you made someone's Hotlist so you wouldn't be forgotten? Or maybe they thought you were hot but thought they weren't in your league? At first we added people we really liked to the Hotlist so we could keep track of those we were really interested in, it really does get overwhelming sometimes trying to keep track of everything though, so many similar names, so many new people every day.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Personal preference is exactly that and none of us should feel bad about who we do and don't choose to invite into our beds or lives. I am very very picky, not about looks but about the kind of person I meet. I really like down to earth people who are non judgmental. I don't care if they are fat, thin, rich, poor, white, black or got poker dots. The people I stay away from are the "I'm too good looking/rich/smart to associate with you" and the people eaters who suck the life out of you with their life drama or constant need for reassurance.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  who you want and who you dont want i dont regret who iv said no too...because most of the time they havent suited what i was looking for at the time i regret the ones iv met and shouldnt have.... if your sure about what you want and its written plain and simply in your profile then you shouldnt worry about the those that waste your time by not reading it and sending flirts and wasting their messages xxRxx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I see it from both sides as a part of of couple and as a single guy. Many of the approaches are sincere and it is very difficult to ascertain who is right. heck, she is the best at being cautious after all I am a guy but even she gets it wrong at times. It is frustrating when you make an approach to someone with a fair idea that it will workout OK. Once we made an anonymous online approach to a couple with whom we have been having a long term relationship and they knocked us back andit has been the other way round. i prefer if possible to beet and greet over coffee - it never hurts and take it from there. I never assess people or couples on line unless they are just so way out it is obvious.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Quoting 'mouthwateringmmm'It is better to knock back those people, with whom you have little in common, than to lead them on and potentially hurt them , or waste their time. Most people are emotionally stable enough, to accept this with good grace. I hope!!!It is so much better to step outside with a smile on your face, than to have to tip toe through rhp, waiting for someone to growl at you or throw sand in your face Welcome back Customer hun...good to see you back xo xFunlovingx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Sometimes we look at who looks at us but only if its a couple in our age group 45-55. Wish RHP would make distance readily seen so we dont have to open profiles more than 150klm away from us. Other times cant even be bothered doing that, if those who viewed you were interested they would have made contact with a wink or a message. When we get the itch to play, we will then look seriously.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  The reality has hit me over the past 2 weeks. Gradually at first, and speeding up slowly to become a potential why am I bothering train wreck. The moment I read your first comment Justjuice, about 36 people viewing your profile this morning, I saw the "Bridge Out Ahead" sign. My Reality I'm no hunk. I'm no spunk. I'm not hung. But I really really good with my tongue. It's good in a way to reach this point. I understand and accept why I don't hear from many of the lovely woman I message. (At least I can suppress the self-doubt for a moment) Dam U guys need secretaries to keep up. Maybe that should be part of the RHP service for all you beautiful woman. Dam maybe I can fill the position and be everyone’s bitch. And remember guys, beauty is internal, so everyone is beautiful until they prove to me otherwise. I feel for all of you.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  The reality has hit me over the past 2 weeks. Gradually at first, and speeding up slowly to become a potential why am I bothering train wreck. The moment I read your first comment Justjuice, about 36 people viewing your profile this morning, I saw the "Bridge Out Ahead" sign. My Reality I'm no hunk. I'm no spunk. I'm not hung. But I really really good with my tongue. It's good in a way to reach this point. I understand and accept why I don't hear from many of the lovely woman I message. (At least I can suppress the self-doubt for a moment) Dam U guys need secretaries to keep up. Maybe that should be part of the RHP service for all you beautiful woman (and their partners,sorry). Dam maybe I can fill the position and be everyone’s bitch. And remember guys and gals, beauty is inner strength, so everyone is beautiful until they prove to me otherwise. Thanks Justjuice, A noble subject.

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