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Who makes the most effort on site?

December 12 2022

I've put a bit of complicated thought into this question which had evolved since I began and lost at least one post on the way through because I accidentally backed out before clicking post. 😅 I'll look on the bright side and welcome the new way to express the thought instead. 😉 I'm interested because I can see there is a lot to consider depending how you look at it and far more than just the wording I've used that it's not a competition. This is an effort to explore different perspectives. Please be nice to each other, Merry Christmas, Peachy

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Ex007

3 years ago

Each person here puts in the effort they choose to. I don’t work for RHP so I wouldn’t have the appropriate access to be able to answer your question. As far as gender or status etc I think you may be referring to.

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MrandMrsEss

3 years ago

Effort is more a measure of energy. Some people put a lot of energy into being positive while others expend more being negative. I’d like to reframe your question to say “who puts the most effort into making this site an inclusive safe space for people to explore their desires”?

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FeistyFatty

3 years ago

Hey Peachy 👏👏. Welcome back💕

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RHP User

3 years ago

Decides it was a stupid question but thought there might be layers. 😇

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RHP User

3 years ago

There are many profiles on here with no photos or bios. Blank pieces of paper, basically. On other sites you must provide a photo and bio. A headless pic of a man sitting on the toilet, dick in hand, means zero effort to me. Am I on the right track?

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MsSuperFoxy

3 years ago

Who makes the most effort on this site? OK, I'll go...I believe I do, when it comes to the forums. Ms Foxy 💋

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RHP User

3 years ago

What do you think Peach? I want to hear your thinking behind this question

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Obi1kenietzsche

3 years ago

Perhaps it’s wrapped up in context and perspective. Because what is “effort” anyway? Is “effort” men who will fuck anything with a pulse just sending out a plethora of shallow, banal messages to all and sundry (as in “whew, what an effort.. I just sent our 50 messages!) Is “effort” women putting up a well thought out profile with specific information and not getting too exasperated when it’s ignored? (as in “fuck, some men are dicks, but I’m still hanging in here.. just!”) Is “effort” men creating an honest profile and practicing discernment when actually sending a specifically hand crafted message, and then not getting the shits when it’s ignored? (as in “I’m a nice guy who is now feeling somewhat despondent, but I’m still going to hang in here.. just!”). Or is “effort” a woman dealing with a full inbox despite the fact that she has one single non descriptive pic (of her tits) and a generic one/line profile that says practically nothing yet implies she will take on absolutely anyone from 18 to 99 (as in “why oh why do all these silly men keep on messaging me?.. being on here is SUCH an effort!”). My take (after all that) is that it’s probably the genuine men on here who hold their presence and masculinity well that put in the most effort. And they do this because they are intelligent enough to know that they must. Xx Obi1

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RHP User

3 years ago

My take is the people who can go from online to the real world. Whether it works out or not. They are the bravest and also mostly honest about them selves.

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countrytouch82

3 years ago

Mmmm dunno about this effort thing... I did arrange another meet and greet in Melb CBD just recently. I posted all of the details about when and where, just turn up if you wish. But out of the 72 listed here as interested, only one turned up. (Plus myself, and two from another site). Go figure...

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RHP User

3 years ago

I didn't respond to the rest of your post... I thought that was very well put by the way and did echo some of my thoughts. 😅 I admire the men you describe at the end, more power to them! xo

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RHP User

3 years ago

That’s an easy answer - mrs Palmer and her 5 daughters

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RHP User

3 years ago

I'm reminded effort isn't always a positive thing since people are so easily manipulated because we want to trust. I'll catch you again when my ghost isn't haunting my every appearance in the forums. Thank you so much for all your responses! It was a lot of fun while it lasted. Here's the post I started for you last night Obi. I couldn't finish it but saved it to follow up today, lol. In a timely way... "Why? I can say things here I can't say anywhere else. I feel connected and have watched it shift and change over many years. It's been special to have a chance to explore myself here that I haven't had in any other place and I've learned a lot I value. " I've also learned my effort is a waste of time. I have a great life but do like to pop in when all is calm and bright. 😌🌝 If anyone would like to catch up via message, I'd welcome that . 🥰 xox

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RHP User

3 years ago

Nah fuck that, sick of being driven insane 😂

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madotara69

3 years ago

Peachy, I believe you put in an enormous amount of… self controlled patience while running that thread on synchronicity and perhaps a smidgin of faith in that one day into the future I may broaden the horizon and the intellectual capacity of a toasted muffin, from synchronicity having something to do with the inner workings of a Swiss watch and I am passionately curious ;) Mado Mado Tara xx

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