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Who is a real friend/playmate?
January 22 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
if you're not fun to be with why should she hang out with you? she obviously has more interesting things to do than hang out with you. she's wasting your time and you should just get rid of her asap
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RHP User
15 years ago
sorry to be so harsh but i think your being played i wouldnt even ditch my non-sexual friends at the last minute for someone else it would have to be one hell of an emergency for me to do that....the fact that she met her new friend to the same place as you were going says she doesnt care at all...its inconsiderate and nasty as far as im concerned if i was you id go look for someone else to play with...sorry roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Never mind big guy....she's looking elsewhere. It's just she hasn't told you this and you haven't asked. But you might need to ask her what her plans are so that you can take the rented sign down...don't want to miss an opportunity for a new roomy ;P Anyway, according to your profile you have travel plans for next week...wooohooo! ....just what you need to feel better ;P
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RHP User
15 years ago
I agree with Roxxy...so sorry! < This girl is using you for whatever reason...whether it be to get you to drive her around or whatever...she is not a friend at all. Friends do not treat each other like that. I don't know what her motives are for keeping you around, but by what you have said in your Post...she is not giving you sex and is always making excuses! < Honestly, I would delete her contact details and block her from contacting you again! A girl knows if she wants to sleep with someone, and she is not going to make excuse after excuse not to, and ESPECIALLY she will not be with someone in front of you when you both made plans together! < You seem to be a nice guy from what I read, do not waste anymore time on this girl...let some other girl who will feel lucky to have you as friend have the chance to come into your life! Karma will hit this user back! < Good luck and hope you find what you are searching for. xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Meah. Not much of a friend... sounds like some kind of misunderstanding to me. You can be assured that not all people are tarred with the same brush.... so hopefully someone else is more compatible. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Although, if I had a choice between being an immigrant (I am too) or an alien...beam me aboard, Scotty, and let's get all those women in the spandex space suits drunk. Party's one once you get us up to warp speed and don't invite the Klingons! | I think it's admirable that you have an attachment of some sort and would prefer to be with one someone rather than just anyone...but that said, this is the wrong one. Just call it for what it is and move on...she's a dud and enjoy the many benefits of finding that out early in the game. Not even a half decent casual acquaintance would act like that and if they did, it would be for the first, last and only time in my company before putting them back in the pond.| Next time...don't hesitate to use the Phaser and give her a double dose of nadion particles set to "stun". Don't know it if will help....but you will feel better afterwards.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Of course this is not normal. I agree with Roxxy...she is using you for when she needs the security of having a man to attend the club with. It makes her feel safer. I would also not even brush off my non sexual friends in this way. She is rude and all on RHP are not the same.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yep I totally agree, if she had told me I was not fun, I would be out of there in no time. But she has been telling me that she enjoys my company and wanted to be more than FBs. I was open to that, so I said that would be a good idea. Then she started to act the way I described in the post, that's why I was confused .. and threw me for a loop..... Quoting 'youngblack'if you're not fun to be with why should she hang out with you? she obviously has more interesting things to do than hang out with you. she's wasting your time and you should just get rid of her asap
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think she is just stringing you along as a backup plan,true friends dont do that to each other.Give her a *chomp* on her arse as you show her the door.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'hard1_4_u'Yep I totally agree, if she had told me I was not fun, I would be out of there in no time. But she has been telling me that she enjoys my company and wanted to be more than FBs. I was open to that, so I said that would be a good idea. Then she started to act the way I described in the post, that's why I was confused .. and threw me for a loop..... Quoting 'youngblack'if you're not fun to be with why should she hang out with you? she obviously has more interesting things to do than hang out with you. she's wasting your time and you should just get rid of her asap Is she hot? Is she fun to hang out with? Would you put up with this sort of behaviour from a woman who was not hot and was not fun to be with? Well three questions really not one but if the answer to the last one is "NO". Then get rid of her. Hell. get rid of her anyway. No one needs to be treated like that.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ignore, Ignore ,ignore..go and find ssomeone else..if she wants you she will come back..if she doesnt come back..means she didnt want you.. Hard problem..Simple solution...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'hard1_4_u' Yep I totally agree, if she had told me I was not fun, I would be out of there in no time. But she has been telling me that she enjoys my company and wanted to be more than FBs. I was open to that, so I said that would be a good idea. Then she started to act the way I described in the post, that's why I was confused .. and threw me for a loop..... Quoting 'youngblack'if you're not fun to be with why should she hang out with you? she obviously has more interesting things to do than hang out with you. she's wasting your time and you should just get rid of her asap They're all lines. You're the fallback guy. Women like to have one... you know... it makes them feel sexy and confident to have a man on a string. Fuck her in the arse. :pHugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Quoting 'hard1_4_u' Yep I totally agree, if she had told me I was not fun, I would be out of there in no time. But she has been telling me that she enjoys my company and wanted to be more than FBs. I was open to that, so I said that would be a good idea. Then she started to act the way I described in the post, that's why I was confused .. and threw me for a loop..... Quoting 'youngblack'if you're not fun to be with why should she hang out with you? she obviously has more interesting things to do than hang out with you. she's wasting your time and you should just get rid of her asap They're all lines. You're the fallback guy. Women like to have one... you know... it makes them feel sexy and confident to have a man on a string. Fuck her in the arse. :pHugsStalkyLMAO..hilariuos..Fuck her in the arse...lol..that will fix it hey stalky...lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' I agree with Roxxy...so sorry! < This girl is using you for whatever reason...whether it be to get you to drive her around or whatever...she is not a friend at all. Friends do not treat each other like that. I don't know what her motives are for keeping you around, but by what you have said in your Post...she is not giving you sex and is always making excuses! < Honestly, I would delete her contact details and block her from contacting you again! A girl knows if she wants to sleep with someone, and she is not going to make excuse after excuse not to, and ESPECIALLY she will not be with someone in front of you when you both made plans together! < You seem to be a nice guy from what I read, do not waste anymore time on this girl...let some other girl who will feel lucky to have you as friend have the chance to come into your life! Karma will hit this user back! < Good luck and hope you find what you are searching for. xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I agree, she and I did play a couple of times, and the after the second time, is when she asked if we could be more than play friends, but when I invited her out to dinner, movies etc.. that is when she kept standing me up. But after having made plans together to go to CI and then her dumping me at the last minute for someone else, that was the last straw. I told her to have a good life and said good bye. I guess all I want is someone who is as dependable as I am, keeps their word, and has integrity, is that too much to ask for in a swing/play partner? I sure hope not... but maybe women in Queensland are a bit more fickle that women in other states of Australia... perhaps I should move to Sydney or Melbourne? What do you think?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Maxking2010' LMAO..hilariuos..Fuck her in the arse...lol..that will fix it hey stalky...lol lolz... well if your going to put up with a nasty bitch like that it only stands to reason that you take advantage of the situation and get a bit of nasty sex in return! Surely that's FAIR .... there's a fair trade off in every situation, Maxxy! :pHugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Maxking2010' LMAO..hilariuos..Fuck her in the arse...lol..that will fix it hey stalky...lol lolz... well if your going to put up with a nasty bitch like that it only stands to reason that you take advantage of the situation and get a bit of nasty sex in return! Surely that's FAIR .... there's a fair trade off in every situation, Maxxy! :pHugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky They're all lines. You're the fallback guy. Women like to have one... you know... it makes them feel sexy and confident to have a man on a string. Fuck her in the arse. :pOoh harsh words from you Stallky? You seem to have issues with women having fall back guys and keeping guys on a string - dare I say because they want to go find themselves? Men are classic at doing that - definitley MORE than women. Why do men always lead us women on? xx Meeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'hard1_4_u'I agree, she and I did play a couple of times, and the after the second time, is when she asked if we could be more than play friends, but when I invited her out to dinner, movies etc.. that is when she kept standing me up. But after having made plans together to go to CI and then her dumping me at the last minute for someone else, that was the last straw. I told her to have a good life and said good bye. I guess all I want is someone who is as dependable as I am, keeps their word, and has integrity, is that too much to ask for in a swing/play partner? I sure hope not... but maybe women in Queensland are a bit more fickle that women in other states of Australia... perhaps I should move to Sydney or Melbourne? What do you think? hard1_4_u, I need to do this diplomatically so as to not offend any of my Eastern States friends, but having lived in Sydney and Melbourne, and spent a considerable amount of time in Brisbane/Gold Coast, I have to say that I have found (and this is MY personal experince only) Perth Women to be far more approachable, and more willing to take the time to get to know you. Apart from that, again from my experience only, Perth Women are by far the sexiest in Australia. A simple walk down in Northbridge or a stroll down the Hay street Mall on a Friday afternoon, simply boggles the mind. And thats not to mention almost any beach on a warm day, with Scarborough having supermodel contenders in plague proportions.......
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RHP User
15 years ago
Awwwhhh they're words of loving affection when I do it Meeks.. hehe...... but you picked me in one broadside shot.... There are times when I'd much prefer being dragged around on a rope... this string concept is way too fickle for my tastes... and maybe more men play that game than women... but we're amateur at it compared to most women.... power of the pussy you know! :p HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
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