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Who are you having sex with ?
October 11 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
Did you ever think that maybe their "friends" maybe just that - friends and nothing more. We have people on our list that are just good friends. Sometimes I am the opposite - I look at people who have hundreds of "friends" and think no thanks. And nope have never thought about who they are fucking as well - that is their business not mine!! Pusscat xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm looking at their friends public pics with cock in pussy when they are single and there's no condom! cringe. I get a knot in my stomach
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RHP User
14 years ago
myself lately :S but hey you want something done properly you gotta do it yourself i guess.
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RHP User
14 years ago
You can't assume that people have banged everyone on their friends list you know. I haven't even met all the people on my friends list ... Some are forum friends. To be honest sometimes the most scariest people they are rooting aren't even on their friends list! Come on Brae give me another chance, cause last time I looked you were on my friends list. Lmao! :D xx Meeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
But I do not judge it on the friends list. They, like me, may have friends on there for other reasons that sex. My daughter was on my friends list and hey, I sure as hell aint going there!!!!!! I judge more on the conversations we have over time. Like I said to one guy, when I go shopping I generally join the shortest queue. If the queue to spend time with a particular person is too great, I am going to find a queue that isnt so long. I dont like to be kept waiting.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Mate, you're lucky....I keep getting knocked back!
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contemplating1
14 years ago
Chuckling away at Meeka's last aparagraph above! Back to the topic, one has to make ones own risk assessment. Afterall when your friends and neighbours close their frontdoor behind them..... Who knows what they really get up to or turn into! Hehe.... So all is not necessarily what it seems...One way or another! Have a good one!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I suppose you could read it that way Brae since it would be hard to know what their individual definitions of "if required" were. I would take more notice of what their profile says and not worry about others. I have not met even half the people on my friends list so take no notice.
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RHP User
14 years ago
There are people out there with hundreds of friends on their lists, and some with none, some have had sex with people on their friends list and some haven't. Some collect pretty profile pics. Some simply have friends on the list. Some use the list like notches on a bedpost. The only way to find out in each individual case is to ask,
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RHP User
14 years ago
I like the points that are being brought up here, its interesting on what others think when it comes to others friends lists. Personally i joined this site cause i am single and been single for a long time and i know i have just as much luck with picking up here than a do in a club.......I go to enjoy myself not to pick up a chick i know it sounds kinda wrong dont it :S The people i add to my list depending on whether they oin it or not are people that i find attractive and i could see myself either having fun and enjoy it or could see myself having more than just a friends with benefits relationship. I never came on here with expectations at all but hey its a shame with so many beautiful females on here everyone has told me that i aint there type lol.Each to their own really we are all on here doing different things and for different reasons and really i dont think the friends lists means alot at all.
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RHP User
14 years ago
It is a question of trust - you ask, of course, but need to make an assessment of truthfulness of their answer. And practice safe sex yourself so there is no doubt in your mind that you're safe. Some of us even discuss these things with potential partners before jumping into the sexy conclusions ;-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
This is the first time it has come to my attention..maybe i should start looking now !! lol
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tamworthguy46
14 years ago
I realy don't see how you can judge someone by their frinds list.......It's probably the people that lie and don't tell people what they are doing ...or who...? that we should realy be concerned about......unless you know someone realy well.....you just have to have safe sex with everybody else ......shure you can look at someone face to face and know that they are basicly fit and healthy, and some people do pose a higher risk........but some std's don't show. so therefore we owe it to ouselves and everybody else to play safe. Tam
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RHP User
14 years ago
When you link the validations with the friends list it gets a bit more scary. When you investigate properly......groan....oh, never mind I give up, seriously.
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RHP User
14 years ago
The best thing to do is to insist on practicing safe sex always and there shouldn't be a problem. I am sure that most people on this site have had multiple partners and you would never know who they are. The majority of my sexual experiences have been with escorts so I have always practiced safe sex and escorts have had thousands of clients. The only other sexual experiences that I have had have been the parties that I have attended as a result of my membership here and I have always practiced safe sex at those. Having said that, at the party that I attended last Friday, oral was performed without condoms but there was definitely no cum in mouth on on body. When having unprotected sex, one thing that springs to mind other than catching an STD is excretment on your cock as a result of anal, it can happen.
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RHP User
14 years ago
a book by its cover? of course you can! we all do it...all the time..and those that say they dont are being dishonest.......
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RHP User
14 years ago
I must admit I'm a huge friend list checker for all kinds of reasons:like to see if I even fit in with their sort of friendsto see if theirs a mixture of male to female ratioto see who else they may be doingand yes when they have hundreds of friends just to question Whats the go?What do I gather from this a lot, but I have few friends on my list and not even sure if I have had sex with any of them I better go look.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Ok I'll be the one person the fesses up that I'm judgemental!! If you have 25 friends on your friends list and you are contacting me... it's a good chance you're doing or have done a couple or a few on your friend list. I'm not on here to find a string of lovers... I'm just after a playmate that I can get to know and experiment and have fun with for awhile... (how long is a piece of string... I know!) There has to be a connection What's the go with people having over 50 friends... no thanks from this little black duck!
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RHP User
14 years ago
We have ppl on our friends list that we chat to only some we play with, it is our taste no one elses. As for "sometimes safe sex" box being ticked that is a no brainer! It is easy to tick any box in your profile and doesn't have anything to do with reality. Whether future playmates tick a box does not alleviate your responsibilty to practise safe sex. If you are paranoid about disease etc stop playing, kissing and oral sex is a good way to spread certain lurgies. If you play separately imagine the joy your partner would have if you came home with the gift that keeps on giving.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I don't take much notice of the Friends list.I do, however, take a lot of notice of the validations and then view the profile of the people who have written them.At the very least it makes for an interesting read when you join up the dots, so to speak.I'm aware that some validations may be 'fake' but I also admit that I've ceased to find a potential contact attractive based on who has validated them.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hi interesting topic for sure and very interesting comments all round... i suppose evry one has thier way of verifying a profile /person and see what they are like...n while looking at the friend list can be a good guildeline to understand what kind of person he/she is...i honestly believe it cannot be an accurate judge of how the person is and who he/she has slept with and if they have used protection or not!!!!...for me a friends list is just that...a friends list...it is not the list of ppl one has slept with...one meets so many ppl on forums and chat n just add them as friends to keep track etc....n as for protection well even if someones friends have put "sometimes" what really matters is what the person you are considering has put in their profile and if you want to believe them...some ppl have been on here for years and have gathered a long list of friends..doesnt mean they are sleepinga round with every one of them...i for one have a fairly large friend list...i would not have met 90% of them..many of them would probably not be on the site any more either....n well some of them are thousands of mile away lol.. so..all in all..i suppse consider a person on what thier profile and they say..n what gut feel/intuition you get while speaking with them..a profile or a online chat can never tell u as much as a face to face meeting over coffee or a drink...so why over complicate stuff with too many variables ;)....we are all here to have fun...so lets not judge :)...n do that..have fun...
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RHP User
14 years ago
If I look at a guys friends list and he has nothing but fit and hot looking girls...then I won't go there! I don't understand why they would have such gorgeous young girls on their list and contact me! Validations are the big ones for me...I look and read all Validations and even click on their profiles...I must say some are a real turn off and some I simply don't like because of how they are in chat or in person! I also think that if they have 5+ girls saying "I can't wait to meet up with him again"...is a real turn off and to me...if he is getting so much sex from so many different girls...then why would he want me! I love pity sex...giving it to someone who gets none! xFunlovingx
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