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Who are you?
September 14 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
I kinda show (and share) everything, sometimes to my detriment. I was raised to be direct (it's cultural thing...) and don't always think about what I say and how I portray myself. A FWB has called me "Scary" on more than one occasion because of it. Thank the gods some find it sexy. But not everyone does, and I've certainly put people off because of what I say.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am Carlton... I am hp... Those who have met me know that I am just me. I lack the finesse to be anyone else, so I am stuck being honest, direct and apparently of a "sweet"- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Continues from above... Apparently of a "sweet personality" :/ Some can pretend... For a while, long term ? Nah, no hope. Hp xo 💌 I yam wot I yam... #Believe- Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
12 years ago
It took about 1.0002 seconds to find the answer, the first one anyway, hehe Spontaneous. The whole world just dissapears, for a moment, as I become your question.And if Tara heard me calling her a bitch from across a room full of people, She would know I was joking.Mado
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have learnt the hard way that nobody really cares who you really are. They are just after sex. So keep it light, keep it fun, keep your mouth shut about what you really think and feel, and try to give them a good time. But I guess it doesn't really matter. You never hear from them again anyway. x- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
and maybe wait until they are more acceptable before showing their true self. Good topic Freya, it should bring out the shrink in all posters.Be who you are and say what you feel, those that matter don't mind, and those that mind don't matter.I like that, and I'm like that.
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RHP User
12 years ago
some things about myself, need to be kept guarded. trust is a big thing for me.we are afraid as others will judge us, punish us, or use it against us in some way.I am pretty open to a degree. But I guard myself against others as well.been burnt to many times I am the funny entertaining lover , all fluff and no substance and aim to keep it that way.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I thought you were in Venice HP...no Aldis there
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77'I thought you were in Venice HP...no Aldis there The background in that new pic of his, Freya.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Stays the same, I tend to adjust my outward appearance to better fit the people I'm with at the time. My work face is very different to the Funlover you have got to know and love.When I was younger, I worked on cattle stations with all the machoness that implies. Every second word was a swear word. When I took time off you could usually find me at a bridge tournament, sitting politely with little old ladies, often as my grandmother's partner. It wasn't that I had to become a different person in these scenarios, I just had to adjust the outward appearance as not to offend.........as much.
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RHP User
12 years ago
yes Mes I did....that is how I know he is not pretending to be Dirk in Death in Venice..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mmmm my lack of pop culture knowledge bites me again ! It's just a little subliminal advertising... 😎I know it doesn't happen in here often... 👀 In Darlinghurst for one night only... Call now !! Hp xo 💌 I wonder if I've got time to watch death in Venice before the game ? #Believe
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RHP User
12 years ago
Online and offline, I usually walk around on and with two left feet stuck in my mouth and live with the accidents, misunderstandings and judgements caused thereby lol. At the same time I can be remarkably erudite. I am strong and vulnerable, I laugh and cry, smile and frown, am playful and serious, am admired and disliked, can be happy and angry, have good days and bad days. Sometimes I'm nice, sometimes I'm nasty. I trust but I'm wary. I am drawn to and repulsed by the forums. I'm sure I'm really not so different... hehe Cheers
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RHP User
12 years ago
We show us we show upmost respect. We show n shine as a family unit we are caring and very giving in every aspect... We are normal and we do things that are very normal! Hubby makes everything with his hands and will do so for others I keep house and will help anyone in need... Seems these features are no longer required her but ! It seems so long as we part out legs n let anyone there we win:( we don't want that we want friends that may have that extra if permits;) anyway we let all see our real sides so they can take it or leave it we guess:) Those that have tried us As friends keeps ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
If I could work who I was, I would be so far ahead. As it is, though, I try to present the facts of what I know clearly and concisely.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm real, but one dimensional, with all but the closest of lovers. I just don't think that this is the time or place, that playmates aren't looking for a real world person but rather an experience. Playmates don't need to see the whole me, after all this is just about sex, that's the side of me they are interested in, that's the side I offer. A lover, on the other hand, will have access to all that I am. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Nice post:)Well personally speaking i always try and show as much of whom i am (although thats an evolving thing right?) as possible but as i consider myself somewhat odd in many respects(who doesn`t) of course i hold back some naturally as shield from judgement.But i`m certainly not unique in that respect i would imagine.But the interlocking of minds before a meeting makes that encounter all the more sweeter,and as such im all for me' and her letting honesty be a pillar of our encounters,be it online or in person.Preference is king after allGood day to all.x
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RHP User
12 years ago
What you see is what you get, warts and all. It's not that I don't care what other people think of me, on some level everyone does. It is more that I won't compromise myself by pretending to be what I'm not in the short term.For me that's a very personal choice, although voicing it may sound like arrogance. Shakespeare's words strike very much to my core....This above all else, to thine own self be true.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MrsPeachyPear' Online and offline, I usually walk around on and with two left feet stuck in my mouth and live with the accidents, misunderstandings and judgements caused thereby lol. At the same time I can be remarkably erudite. I am strong and vulnerable, I laugh and cry, smile and frown, am playful and serious, am admired and disliked, can be happy and angry, have good days and bad days. Sometimes I'm nice, sometimes I'm nasty. I trust but I'm wary. I am drawn to and repulsed by the forums. I'm sure I'm really not so different... hehe Cheers Ha,you sound almost too good to be true
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RHP User
12 years ago
I gain nothing from pretending.I am me like me or dont like me. How can I find the people on my wavelength when I am not me.Nee I am not afraid....life is for living...and being scared is not living.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I inject my crass sense of humour into everything to avoid people seeing the real me, absolutely. It's an insecurity of mine that I fear that if people were to truly see me, they would run. It has it's positives though, but, it does make people run as they don't get to see me, which some have tried to see and given up as I tend to avoid me like the plague. Says a lot eh?? Lol- Posted from rhpmobile
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Cheekyarses
12 years ago
I agree alot with lady Tuscan :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
and sharing who I am. I've just had the most monumental arse bite. Seems like I've lost my ability to differentiate the good guys from the bad guys. Very disappointing ... *tosses her rock through a window and storms off*
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RHP User
12 years ago
painty come back....I found your rock, now just snuggle under it for a little while...then you can come out and play again
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RHP User
12 years ago
For paintme xo Because you're feeling poorly I won't stop in tomorrow... 😜 Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it... #Believe- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am me and I like me.I can only be the best I can be.I can't be someone I am not.With friends I grow with them.Opening up to just anyone is not easy for me.It takes time and trust has to me there.I have to feel comfortable and feel safe and secure.With lovers I have had, I've felt safe with some of them.Others not so as I haven't felt that fully.Maybe because I deep down I'm not really into them orThey've done something that has withheld me to open up to them.FOXYPaintme - come join me? We can bite each others arsses! Mine too just got bit and it hurts.We can have an arss biting part-tay! :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Although I am generally an open book and so are most people I meet.... Funny Dat.
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Kaleidescope as usual you words explain better than I could even with pride in the way. "Playmates don't need to see the whole me, after all this is just about sex, that's the side of me they are interested in, that's the side I offer. ". Paintme (pats couch and pours a wine, rings the rest of the team, ladies and selected gents; for an intervention (and to plot the demise of an asshole who sorely deserves castration) followed by shits n giggles and a group hug. Shit detecter being recalibrated while we wait ;-) xx. Hurry up you lot!!!
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Though my darlings do tend to get a hell of alot more than they are prepared for....at times. Gotta keep it interesting I guess....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sirlurkalot' I inject my crass sense of humour into everything to avoid people seeing the real me, absolutely. It's an insecurity of mine that I fear that if people were to truly see me, they would run. It has it's positives though, but, it does make people run as they don't get to see me, which some have tried to see and given up as I tend to avoid me like the plague. Says a lot eh?? Lol- Posted from rhpmobileI can agree you are difficult.....sorry but you know its the truth.I cant help to hold back in real life.....I dont even mean to, it just is.....I am associating with a new group of people atm and after about 4 weeks now they are getting surprised!! maybe even taken off guard but i keep teasing them now and making them all laugh whilst still be compassionate friendly and caring.My Ex husband I dont think ever got to see the fun side of me.....He stiffled me so much as a person and I was recently thiniking about this in relation to our sex life....I was so paranoid about being me as i always felt judged. I do often worry about being judged, not sure why though.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Foxy, Freya, Indi & HP, I met you all at the Brisbane night, and if that's who you really are, I am glad I met you.You are all fantastic, funny & wonderful people to meet. I didn't get "friendly" with any of you but you were all still great to talk to and spend time with.Thanks for the time together. Especially Freya, who made a newby feel welcome.Chaucer
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TrymeonForsize
12 years ago
I foolishly revealed my vulnerable side to someone here once....... Obviously momentarily forgot the nature of this site...... Will definitely remember to never do that again...... Xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
OP engaging Freya.. xxNever, to your question, never should I want to scare them away. Should they just know that I am but a normal person. A moat in a sea of waves. A soul easily passed along the way. At times I might say BOO, or hide in a corner and cry. Who am I? What a question, what an intriguingly luscious inquiry. Best left to be discovered, best left as a prize.Ask me an I am happy to tell. Who knows what message the bottle may have till you dive in and recover the treasure so long adrift, so willing to be opened, such need to be read.LOLJust a bogan from WA. Did I just give it away.
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RHP User
12 years ago
No apology needed. :)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
But I don't have a facade or an alternative persona either.I used to think it was a good thing to be open and revealing on first dates but I quickly learned it was information overload, if you let it all out, where is the mystery, the intrigue ?So I just go with the flow and allow the various aspects to reveal themselves in the fullness of time, some people are curious and explore me, some are happy with what they know and that suffices.We are all so very different and seek different depths and comfort levels, but any "relationship" that travels some distance accumulates knowledge about the other person, sometimes it is attractive and other times not.The recent election revealed to me some perspectives on a couple of friends, one whom I thought was a hardnut revealed a compassionate streak, one whom I thought had compassion revealed a hard side I had never seen. I, like many on here I suspect, have gone through a radical change in life, separation or perhaps divorce, "who we are" may indeed be a work in progress, or, as I like to describe it, a voyage of re-discovery. I try very hard not to be over critical or cynical about what i see here because more often than not I find I'm looking in the mirror.Love youse all.
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madotara69
12 years ago
Quoting 'Blindman67' OP engaging Freya.. xxNever, to your question, never should I want to scare them away. Should they just know that I am but a normal person. A moat in a sea of waves. A soul easily passed along the way. At times I might say BOO, or hide in a corner and cry. Who am I? What a question, what an intriguingly luscious inquiry. Best left to be discovered, best left as a prize.Ask me an I am happy to tell. Who knows what message the bottle may have till you dive in and recover the treasure so long adrift, so willing to be opened, such need to be read.LOLJust a bogan from WA. Did I just give it away. You still haven't forgiven me, though I shall wait forever, for you to see that BOO is merely a gentle way for how I see you.And seeing that Miss Freya must not have heard you, when giving my hiding place up. I have nothing out thow of ye shalt to forgive.It is OK to cry.Mado xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
One of the things I detest is you meet someone online and get to know a little about them. And naturally you form a mental picture of what you think they are, based solely on the information they give you, and how they have acted online. Then you meet them, and you are meeting someone entirely different to what you have perceived. That, ladies and gentlemen, shits me to tears lol I must be doing something right because nearly every woman I have met have commented that I was exactly like they thought I would be, both physically and personality wise. Now of course some have made that comment not as a compliment but I always take it as such. At least I am true to myself. Mooks
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RHP User
12 years ago
You could have just described me :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
to show your true self to people. Yeah sure you show a part of you to start with which is pretty true cause otherwise is a real waste of time, but to really know someone is not something that happens in a few "fuck" sessions, as orgasmic they can be...
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On_Safari
12 years ago
We loved having you there too!!! And methinks soneone had a sparkle in their eye for a mo too
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RHP User
12 years ago
Funlover71 That is really cute.. I think I generally show who I am, just different people get to see different parts of me
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'snuggle__pot' Mrs PeachyYou could have just described me :) I knew there was a reason I liked your style Snuggle_pot. :-) . It's funny, I just popped into the thread to post something from on facebook, I posted, 'that's me' in reply to it before my post on here lol. . I don't need to flirt. I will seduce you with my awkwardness.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Snuggle_Pot, my reply to you is meant to be the same font and size as the line below it. Pretty pink for colour though
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RHP User
12 years ago
You are very welcome.Such lovely words.FOXY
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RHP User
12 years ago
Honesty is my best policy. Take it or leave it. Some have taken it and admire me for it, others, well, who cares, they're not worth my energy!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sorry Chaucer, don't believe her... You're just not my type :P Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
It takes me a while to warm up to someone.It normally takes a while for me to show my whole personality.I don't pretend or act like someone else. But will hide / suppress certain aspects of what makes me who I am until I am comfortable with the person - and have figured them out enough to trust them.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think there are certain things that should be kept to yourself - until the right time. Certain things related to work, money, past relationships or even an unusual hobby/interest.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't actually know who I am. I've never been able to figure that out.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Ahh the benefits of being over 40. I know what I like, how I like and most importantly who I like. It takes too much effort trying to please everyone, so I please myself by being true to myself. My friends and family, know and except me, we have raging arguments, fantastic make ups and anything in between. Saying all that, I also love playing fantasy when I know I won't see the person again and I become someone else entirely.
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Plain280
12 years ago
I am on here loud, in real life a bit shy, I find people I meet online, you have to forget some of your written pre amble introductions when you meet in person. I try to be honest and I try not to hurt people in any way and treat them with respect.Why change you get found out in the end no matter how short the relationship or meeting is.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Who am I ......................I am me! I am human have my good points and bad ones. How I am on here is how I am in real life what you see is what you get. I will never hurt someone and if I ever do I would apologize. I like to be treated the way I treat others :) I have an outer shell but my inner shell is what defines me, my thoughts, deeds and heart take me or leave me just be honest to me I think I deserve that. I am a happy person so if you like smiles then that is me!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am myself at all times. But you don't get to see all of who I am straight away. I am not much into superficiality or falseness. I don't put up with it in others. It is much easier to be myself. This way I know that my friends actually like who I am not who I might pretend to be.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Bigmamma1'Ahh the benefits of being over 40. I know what I like, how I like and most importantly who I like. It takes too much effort trying to please everyone, so I please myself by being true to myself.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'OnlineSkill'I don't actually know who I am. I've never been able to figure that out.- Posted from rhpmobile I didn't have a clue either . I actually only just really found myself earlier this year. Yes I am strong, confident, vulnerable, funny . I am a kaleidoscope And if you see these things then that means that I have let you in.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have a devil on my right shoulder and a Angel on my left! FOXY- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
5000 spirits or layers of an onion...the Incredible String Band
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madotara69
12 years ago
A thorn in ones crown, or the pose for anothers teapotMado
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am what I am, open, honest, empathatic, fun and a little bit naughty However I'm also what people need me to be, not on here, but at work I support people to live independantly and for some I'm quite strict (bossy) others I use a "soft" touch (mother) and others I may challenge (forever challenging, it encourages Fuck You, I can do it!) At home I'm wife and Mum of three, endless responsibilities and caretaking of others, not to mention being a Hotwife (hard work that one ).On here though, without the responsibilities of "real life", so I'm probably a bit more me.......
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RHP User
12 years ago
Still, I don't expect people to know who I am as I have no fucking idea myself.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have never felt the need to hide who and what I am and believe honesty is the best policy.I do what I do because I want to do it and never expect anything in return, that way I am never disappointed.I am strong and weak... intelligent and idiotic... funny and serious... I am all and I am nothing.I am a man and I am me.Any questions?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'paintme' and sharing who I am. I've just had the most monumental arse bite. Seems like I've lost my ability to differentiate the good guys from the bad guys. Very disappointing ... *tosses her rock through a window and storms off* Your compass is just a bit off... don't let that dissuade you, there are still a few good guys left.Bring your rock to the Sydney M&G and we can take turns hucking it at by-passers
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