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Which is more acceptable in society , an MMF or an FFM????
May 23 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
Name change alldanite? So what, you are committed to staying lucid now. Hmmm we shall see. . MMF degrading - NOOOOOOOOO. I mean, no I don't think so Loz. But you already know my views on that. :P . The double standard comes from the boys being shy to admit that they have participated in sexual acts with other men. Even if there has been no touching between the two. As BadforRomance will tell you - "No gay stuff" because as you say "main stream" people may often immediately wonder if they are gay. So its easier not mentioning it all I think. But I am merely a chick so what do I know. :( I am sad today. Meeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
Why you sad . I don't know if anyone thinks it's degrading or Not AllAll (lol) I've only got my POV ,on my particular experience and it was nothing but beautiful, very respectful and caring and made me feel special and lucky enough to have experienced it. Would i do it again? heck yes....but obviously it has to be with the right people.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Contary to what some say here, Suggest you do google search as a indication how 3 somes are interperated by mainstream. Goggle MMF and you will get subjects dealing with 3 involved in same sex as well as opposite sex play., where the intention is same sex pleasuring each other as well as the opposite sex. Google MFM and you will get opposite sex play where the intention is pleasuring the lady. Our interpertation is same sex play is something you are born with and the same applies to opposite sex play, from what we can gather the majority of people are born with chrosome make ups / genes that make them attracted to the opposite sex so that is where mainstream opinion will be. Then the other group that are attracted to both sexes. But two guys getting together with the only intention of spoiling a lady is hot! And of course two ladies getting together to spoil a guy is hot....that is if he can keep it up and has help from modern day medicine like Viagra!
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RHP User
15 years ago
So we are talking main stream society as opposed to those on adult sex sites? I think that there is still a stigma attached to homosexual males or bi males.....certainly in rural areas it is more pronounced. It is not as widely accepted as two women together. Even those that are extremely straight seem to think that two women together or pleasing the one man is an accepted thing and I guess we have Hugh Heffner to thank largely for that way of thought. A lot of those that are not on these types of sites or into the swinging type of lifestyle still find to hard to accept two men together. It is silly yes, and a type of double standard I guess, but not thougt of as degrading by any means. Many times people are put off doing what they may enjoy because of the way others may percieve them, this does not only go for thier sexuality
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RHP User
15 years ago
Nope hold the frikken phone , why are you sad Meeks???? Fess up , you can tell me anything *evil laugh* seriously I do hope you're ok. Email me???? Right so I changed the name coz I changed my whole profile in order to see how it goes , there was nothing dishonest in it , just a hell of alot of omissions. So now it reveals the truth about me being a totally debauched sex maniac that makes every daddy with an ounce of common sense reach for his shot-gun , and reach fast. But it's in the sincere hope that I might more efficiently find the right people to play with (fruit-loops like me) and maybe even find 'the one' (that elusive biatch who wants the Loz Wang every night and 'just can't get enough' of me , and I of her , oh there's that Black eyed Peas song again , god I love that song) yes I'm a hopeless , incurable romantic....but anyway has anyone even noticed that I'm no longer ADN , I'm now ANAL???? LOL mofos , have you honestly not noticed that???? Romancefor4 may not be a big fan of that , butt I am lol (thanks for your comment though Romance , it's a good post and I appreciated it , so sincerely cheers) Sorry I'm really raving on here off topic , but I've gotta explain now or I may end up hijacking someone elses thread to do it lol ok we already know that I love to boast about being able to go All Night and I'm looking for same , butt All Lucid was of course about finding a good word last word to make it ANAL , so I was thinking Lusty , even Love , and a few other words like Lush pfffft or Lucifer lol (wouldn't fit) , Lucy , naap , Lavish , Loz , naap already using that , Lard , too skinny , Lark , maybe if I was on Twitter , Looney , now that might've fit , Latrine , flushworthy lol , Lurker , accurate , Lapdancer , you're on baby , Lemming , trying to quit , Lighthouse , too romantic , Large , accurate but over-stated lol , Liar , well not on the forums peeps , Life , too born again Christian , Loopy , too accurate , Learner , yes n no , Loser , just NO mofo , Larrikin , too accurate again , Lascivious , now we gettin warm!!!! ; but doh wouldn't fit either , so I went with Lucid , because what could be more lucid than calling yaself ANAL???? , that's pretty clear isn't it ffs blind people???? LOL ok and because I do actually want to be transparent in my dealings with people , and I want my heart to be clean and clear like a perfect gem (1 2 3 awwww) , and I want it to be glowing (another meaning of lucid) , so lucid is about perfect honesty and shining , and trying to shine the light on the truth to help others. God that's deep , I hope nobody has thrown up lol -So yeah it's a lofty (oh there's another word lol or maybe I shoulda used 'lol') goal I'm light years from achieving , but hey if you don't set your goals at the very top then you you'll only fall somewhere very average. Only thing is now I might have to start another profile full of omissions so that I don't become NigelNoMates or NigelNoSex lol so if you're out there magic crazy sexual deviant girl , then snap me up while the goings good , coz time waits for no wo/man :-) Hey the Beatles said it ; all ya need is Love , da na na nana , Love is all ya need , it's easy....
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RHP User
15 years ago
ANAL - if I thought I was your type at all and we were in the same town, I'd be all over you like a rash. Good profile update Good luck with it. :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thanks PBGirl , that's a bloody nice thing to say , I REALLY love your profile , oh well distance and dynamics huh , but thanks you lovely hippy , but go vego for chrissakes!!!! Haha just playin. I'm not a hardcore veg-gagger lol I really love the honesty and frankness in your profile , but actually I thought the best thing was your SOH. So I'm truly flattered , and your comment is much appreciated , good luck to you too , oh Gawd it's eHug time lol , Loz
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RHP User
15 years ago
to get all ANAL on us for missing it, you put so many frikkin lllllll's in there it's hard to see ya wally Tomorrow I'm teaching you how to do paragraphs or are you on your damn phone? Farkkk that was hard to read, but Im glad I did xxxx You're a lovley lucid creature, refreshingly open and honest, not just with us but with yourself most importantly little ANAL Angel
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RHP User
15 years ago
After saying ; how could you ever be sad with an ass like that Meeks???? So yep I did google the subject matter before starting the thread , and from what I read there was strong suggestion that threesomes with two guys n one girl were considered 'more degraded' than threesomes with two girls and one guy. The whole thing about the letters ie MFM MMF FFM MFM etc is perhaps difficult because it's not always or maybe even often recognized as being an indicator of whether it's the woman or man 'in the centre' , or as to whether it's bi or not. A good example of that is that even Rhp has not differentiated using those letters in the 'sexual interest' options on everyone's profiles. They've only got options ; MMF , MMF bi , FFM and FFM bi , there's no MFM or FMF options. I think it would be better if they did perhaps. But anyway what I was asking was 1) why (assuming I'm right) is it more ok for the guys than the girls? I think that's just another whole lotta horses__t that society projects. 2) Do Rhpers sometimes agree with that too? And 3) why do alot of swinging couples (in my experience) fail to talk about their threesomes with two guys and a girl , but are keen to talk about their fun with two girls and one guy? Yep one of the answers that came up the other day when I discussed this with a very experienced couple was that they were worried about being painted as a bi guy couple , but I'm thinking that even if it's clearly just straight chat , still SOME couples may think that it's just cooler to point out that single women are hard to get , and hey they did well ;-) whereas a single guy is pretty easy lol I'm not pointing the finger here I'm just saying that everyone tries to sell themselves a little , so that's fine. But what I think might be happening is that the whole scoring the chicks thing is being blown out of proportion , I think alot of couples should spend their emailing time (if they like an extra dick) in chasing single guys , more bang for your buck , more results. You've got so many great guys to choose from , and you're going to have great sex , the wife or gf is going to be in ecstacy (hopefully) , so is it time better spent???? And just so I'm throwing a zillion questions into one thread ; where can I get an FMF???? Lol any takers???? Just once it would be nice to be the centre of attention , I'm not looking for a harem or anything ;-) , Loz
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thanks for the compliments DGT :-) Yeah it was hard to read I bet , I'm always on the phone and can't do paragraphs ; yep sorry. Thought it was pretty funny you guys not noticing , but I wasn't thinking that it was all that obvious. See ya AA
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RHP User
15 years ago
I can really go on after too many coffees and energy drinks , the first night shift is a killer....apologies :-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
ANAL you don't look that lucid to me. :P I am with PBG shame you aren't in Sydney... although I definitely think you should consider moving. Lot more action here.xxMeeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
I love the idea of MMF ... DH on the other hand is a bit so when I experiment with this then it will most definitely be without my husband. Just need to find the willing gents to partake in it with me.
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RHP User
15 years ago
To answer the question, it probably just boils down to straight out homophobia.I'm on OK Cupid (yeah yeah I'm a geek) and after filling in all those questions I'm amazed the amount of dudes out there who think F-F sex is perfectly fine but M-M isn't. (hypocrites *cough*). I think because a lot of guys can't comprehend women not wanting the cock they just assume that two girls getting it on is done for their benefit, whereas in a MMF situation, shit, the other guy must be gay and want his cock and he just can't be masculine if a bloke is sucking on it!(Of course some of the most masculine guys I know are gay/bi so much for that)It's a weird one, but what can you do? As long as the norm is M-F (which it will remain due to biology) and people retain the ability for thought (unfortunately some are good at it and some are not) then there will always be those who think what they don't want to do is wrong (degrading/depraved/sick/whatever).Oh, and I noticed the ANAL - it stands out like dogs balls. ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thinking about the couples we have met, MFM 3 somes, and the occasional gang bangs come up in conversation a lot more than FFM 3 somes, but then the couples we met are not full on Bi compulsary because we cannot offer them anything in that department. We have played with Bi couples that are straighter than us....dah boring night! They didnt like swapping back and forth partners of the opposite sex? LOL dont you have sex with your wife before I do....dumb!!!! Also the couples we meet are not first timers (a lot of these 1st timers will push towards the bi female thing and fmf / ffm/ girls play guys watch, we think due the males insecurity with another naked male in the room and a reluctance he wants sex with your wife but has a mindset problem sharing his wife) In reality MAINSTREAM does not matter, dont you think? Eventually everyone will find compatable swingers / singles to play with!
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RHP User
15 years ago
MFM is a topic I love! but not MMF...Cause it is all about me! lol. I have on my profile that if you are not interested in MFM ... well basically bugger off! .. I for one am sick of some men thinking it is wrong. He can have his FFM ( minus me) I would only be willing for FMF with the right guy. I let guys know that I would like to have my MFM with him, or I just say NEXT! Well that is said to a potential FWB...lol huggies sweetpetite41xxxxxxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Our take on it is that no female is degrading herself no matter how she wants to party, whether it be MFM, MMF, MMMMMF or whatever, if she chooses that combination thence she is not degrading herself but merely exploring and hopefully having fun doing it.Now, that said we a couple and have had a few combinations, not always together mind but Sheba is one lady who will stand on the rooftops and shout that MMF (ie. a good daisy chain) is one bloody hot experience, as was the time she played with 3 guys who were enjoying themselves as well (MMMF). Basically she has been lucky to have the experience on a few occasions and loves it, would do it again and totally plans to when the opportunity arises (so did not want to say 'comes up ').She has also had a few MFM and FFM experiences and none of which she felt degraded her as she was in control and charge the whole time.From Gazz's perspective, well he has done a few MFM, FFM and had light play in MMF and he has enjoyed the lot and at no time felt that the lady was being degraded, but he does hope she enjoyed herself.For us, it is about enjoyment first and foremost and as long as the lady does not feel degraded then she has not been, nor should she let another's opinion influence her own judgement as some people may be offended by an action that oters feels is normal. We live our lives for ourselves firstly so we first answer to us and that is the way it should be.Shell and Gaz
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RHP User
15 years ago
Those are three words I tack on the back of a lot of questions whenever something is asked about what is more "socially" acceptable to anyone and really...according to who and by what standards? I would doubt most any of us are here on this particular site because of high degree of morality according to traditional societal values...so if you are asking anyone here and they are expressing anything more than their own personal preference, I wouldn't loose any sleep over it. | Personally from experience, perhaps one of the most sensual encounters of this nature was a FFM and in this case, the woman that I had been going out with for a few months introduced a very close friend of hers over a few drinks and in front of a warm fire. Certainly a participant, but equally so as an observer...of the sensuality of two women together that know and care for each other as both friends and lovers. Interestingly looking at some of these comments, it was not about me or any one person but rather the three together...compelling sexuality and very raw passion. | As for the rest yes, in the past where the footprints in the sand have long since been erased there have been other encounters with more than two involved,...but none even close to this one. And if asked or judged would simply reply... | ...compared to what and by whose standards?
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RHP User
15 years ago
CM -yep compared to what? Exzakkarry , I agree and my 'tude is 'go f__k yourself majority if ya don't like it' , however in saying that I still live in this society and am affected a little bit by the outside ; this man's no island. I'm sure you're in agreement. God knows I'd like to be an island sometimes , or on an island hmmmm. And I am just occassionally interested about what goes through their minds , being as they are friends and family members and people I love. By twist of fate you can't choose your family and often times you can't really choose not to be friends or mix with people of a by comparison closed minded nature. I know the mofos need sorting out , but Rome wasn't built in a day lol What 'outsiders' think doesn't bother me particularly nope , actually though I see opportunity to help the buggers , but most efficiently executed if I understand their bullshit. Of course on the flip side of the coin , knowing exactly how you're going against their 'standards' can be very naughty and a major part of things being down and dirty , if you know the finer points of what disgusts them then that paradoxically makes for a whole lotta fun. So tell me what really disgusts you wider society , let me pour it on my cereal , eat it for breakfast , and then go f__k my brains out all day using it as a catalyst and a fuel *evil mofo laugh* Jeez I'm raving again....
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RHP User
15 years ago
PBG -yeah I know , and the amount of homophobia still around is huge , I mean it's everywhere , oh well to bad for them lol. Romance -yep very interesting feedback , thanks , and yeah I agree , who cares about mainstream? But then also who honestly doesn't care about mainstream thought? Ok some people don't , but most of us even on Rhp I'm pretty sure are still connected with them all. Like I said to CM we are free however and can actually use that disgust to our advantage. Krissy -thanks for the advice , it's good stuff , yeah nup I'm not embarrassed about a thing , even though I'm still part of a big religious community , no I'm not afraid to ask for kinky shit either , just that sometimes it puts off the more vanilla people if you have it on your profile , so youve gotta figure out whether complete honesty is really the best policy.
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RHP User
15 years ago
You guys are definitely 'on the bus' and so nice to hear about the MMMF , that is damn hot , real hot. I chucked on an MMMM at the Hilton once lol but having a girl there would've made it better ;-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'AllNiteAllLucid'You guys are definitely 'on the bus' and so nice to hear about the MMMF , that is damn hot , real hot. I chucked on an MMMM at the Hilton once lol but having a girl there would've made it better ;-) I DID say I was going to be busy that night, but did you listen? nooooooo jk
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RHP User
15 years ago
Jnk :-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
There are obviously double standards because of the homophobic conservative society in which we live. Personally, I point the blaim at queens for this "situation." Let's face facts here.. you can be into other men but you really don't have to be a big girl about it... unless of course you are a big girly man... but then you don't have to squeal and say "darling" at the end of every sentence either. Oh, alright. Sissy boys can squeal if they want.. just don't call me darling. I hate that. :p And I can see it now. Sweetpetite stripped naked, greased up in baby oil and practicing her kung fu moves on the sissy boy.... I'll wear my referee singlet, and then she can do him with her strap on while I try and keep him limited to gagging sounds. Now... what's up with that? Sounds like a rather pleasant way to spend a Sunday afternoon to me!HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
the sissy boys are simply fabulous!!!! Really darling :P but please say more Swa-eeeetPa-teetah , oiled , naked and chopping , that sounds sexy as :-) -yep I say book that MFM Mrs Peachy , but make it a MMFM , why muck around? You've got 3 holes right??? ;-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Body oiled up n sparring I can handle! but the strapon is a no go for me....I think you have forgotten that it has no more amusement for me. Sorry darling...lol. allnite...Ummm..I think I would be pushing Mrs peachy outta the way for the MMFM... hahhaa... She would just laugh though and calll me a cheeky lil bugger.. Nice dream an MMFM. Huggies sweetpetite41xxxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
It all boils down to what 'mainstream' deems acceptable. If the majority aren't into, they're gonna bag it. Like any kinks or fetishes, anything that is not our taste is going to be 'wrong' isn't it? shame....but it's reality. what a boooring old world we'd be without us dirty lil freaks Look and someone must secretly approve, because I'm always surprised and pretty happy to find that I don't actually burst into flames upon walking into the Church They must think I'm a grinning idiot feeling the love , but Im really just happy to be fucking alive
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi all you forum regulars! Starting to really like you lot!I found this thread rather interesting as I only joined RHP two weeks ago and four days after joining got to have my first MFM with two gents I met on the site. I would do it again in a heart beat!! MFM = heaven for me but let me also qualify that, I want to be the centre of attention and the men must be straight. I will of course, make sure the men are satisfied too. Before anyone accuses me of being homophobic though, let me add that approximately 70 percent of my friends are gay men. I have also come to the conclusion that there is no way I could be involved in a FMF because I do believe that the females are expected to engage in some play together and I have absolutely no interest in playing with women. I like hard bodies with big cocks. Just my own personal preference. I do believe that society seems to be more accepting of FMF than they are of MFM. When I was young a guy screwing around was just 'having fun' or 'sewing his wild oats' but a female doing the same was a slut. I think we, as a society still have some preconceived notions about what is 'normal' and what is 'accepted' when it comes to sex in any combination with the male dominant role or the male being more 'promiscuous' being much more accepted generally. On a side note I did have one gentleman I met on here ask me what dirty things I was into when we spoke on the phone. I have to admit this question floored me. Dirty things? Was my being into anal dirty? MFM dirty? My wanting a gang bang dirty? Sleeping with married men maybe? Being into toys? I honestly consider nothing dirty if it is consensual and enjoyable. I ended up not being able to answer his question. One persons vanilla could be another persons chocolate or neopolitan! Anyone else's thoughts?As for MFM? Can't wait to find another two men who want to have hours of hot, sweaty fun! Maybe I'll even find that gang bang!Kisses all,L
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have never, and I doubt if I'm the only one attracted to this site, had the opportunity to do either MMF or FFM or any combination in between outside of the nuttual bed. So what about it people both are on my bucket list.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well i guess FFM is pushed harder in the media because it is sexy and it sells ad space... But MMF, FFM, MMFF whatever... who cares as long as everyone is having fun and its safe. I know exactly where you are coming from. Being a girl it is harder explaining a MMF then it is a FFM when it comes to labels. A FFM you're just having fun, a MMF and you're a s#%t... Its a sad world we live in sometimes.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yeah well doesn't surprise me actually coz you have a clean heart (but a dirty mind). Ok but what does surprise me is that God Himself being the one who invented sex and therefore LOVES it , didn't grab you and say "Oi do you like my place? Wanna get it on?" I mean how could the big man not crack an enormous fat with you around? My educated guess is that the only thing that bursts into flames everytime you enter a church , is God's pants.----------------MRS PEACHY you are so very right 3 blokes is not really a 'stretch' at all , go the 4!!!! Two in the mouth is not really hard. (of course alot of straight guys won't put their dick against another guys dick tho , bi guys win again) No wonder 4 is my favourite number hmmmm and SWEETPETITE4n1 with that name is quite clearly gagging for 4 dicks too , she's listed her age as 44 ; again that must be a subtle hint. RUFUN----4----ME2010 is also a definite 4 bloke contender by the looks , but I've gotta ask the serious question ; why not bi men???? A huge number of bi guys will be in a threesome with a girl and be totally happy not to play with each other , so you won't even be able to tell the difference , and also a great number of bi guys are much more interested in women as well (but they still love cock) , AND on top of that alot of bi guys are not interested in other guys if the guys are either straight or not attracted to them. So anyway , yeah why not bi guys???? You may have a great reason of course , I'm not knocking ya.
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15 years ago
and god I love Asian girls , they always seem to be so great in bed and have some absolutely magic skills in the oral department , not to mention libido , phew I could go on and on.... ----------------BEACHBODY -exactly right -there IS definitely a massive double standard in that area , women who have a larger than 'normal' number of sex partners are frowned upon much more than men with the same number , yeah it's bullshit and one of the things that just won't die....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hello there AllNiteAllLucid or may I call you ANAL for short?You raise some valid points that got me thinking I may be missing out. God forbid!! So I shall have to rethink my prior moratorium on the bi guys inclusion into my sexual escapades. As long as I remain the focus of attention and there are hard cocks to be had, well bring it on I say!!Kisses all,L
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well if the boys can't dance to the DP beat there's one thing that springs to mind ; standing DP where ya bounce the girl!!!! (slowly at first) -Great fun for all ages ;-) or how bout putting some music on with an appropriate speed of beat? Maybe a quick compilation with Barry White in the beginning (slow n deep baby) , then a bit of JT ta raise the tempo , and finally some hardcore speed metal or speed dance music lol (not for those who get a sore arse easily or forget to use a bucket o lube) , Lozzy
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RHP User
15 years ago
The other way could be to get the guys to clap hands together to the beat , ie high five each other , hey it would be a natural tendency anyway , like "yeah buddy we're DPing this babe , wahoooo!!!!"
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15 years ago
It's like alot of dances ; one person leads , the other follows , then there's no problem. The lead guy has gotta have a good intuitive rhythm and of course check how the girl is going , so that means it's best if the lead guy is the one facing her (the pussy guy) , coz he can see her face. But in saying all that , it's not always a given that having the two guys in concert is better , it usually is , but once she's 'loosened up' the rules can sometimes be thrown out the window and if there's room and she's not feeling pain , then they can f__k her however they like :P (but I never said that , you can't prove a damn thing). I dunno if you were seriously asking the question but I've noticed that alot of people haven't got much idea about this one , so there's a few answers for them :-)
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15 years ago
the woman can say "now , now , now" and give a good cadence like a military marching band lol
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15 years ago
Quoting 'AllNiteAllLucid' but I've gotta ask the serious question ; why not bi men???? A huge number of bi guys will be in a threesome with a girl and be totally happy not to play with each other , so you won't even be able to tell the difference , and also a great number of bi guys are much more interested in women as well (but they still love cock) , AND on top of that alot of bi guys are not interested in other guys if the guys are either straight or not attracted to them. So anyway , yeah why not bi guys???? You may have a great reason of course , I'm not knocking ya. More than that... I think it's more the norm than the rule... the woman is usually the centre of attention in an mmf, even when the guys are both bi, and quite obviously, it is not unusual for the guys to be attracted to the woman but not necessarily each other... and very rarely in my experience, the other way around.. i.e. not particularly attracted to the woman but attracted to each other.What interests me is, if there's no mm action as part of the mfm, then rufun could be none the wiser... i mean it should come as no surprise that bi guys might also have "hard bodies and big cocks!"... all the boxes ticked except for the straight card... so yes... I think that exclusion is a form of homophobic bigotry... but each to their own. HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
MMF that is ME..and i love it...and live and have done so with 2 men , my hubby and my boyfriend for years now.We are having a great time and enjoying life to the fullest, everyone knows about our life and the way we live it and i would not change it for anything.Polymory is what it is called and we are proof it works.Everyone is happy here..and we all enjoy the way we are accepted in our personal lives and club lives.Leesa, Bryan and John
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'AllNiteAllLucid' I've gotta ask the serious question ; why not bi men???? A huge number of bi guys will be in a threesome with a girl and be totally happy not to play with each other , so you won't even be able to tell the difference , and also a great number of bi guys are much more interested in women as well (but they still love cock) , AND on top of that alot of bi guys are not interested in other guys if the guys are either straight or not attracted to them. So anyway , yeah why not bi guys???? You may have a great reason of course , I'm not knocking ya. We think its much simplier to move on, If you are rejected the standard rules of swinging are applied "No means No" No questions asked. Explanation, "No way" We could be crying about the same, the amout times we get rejected by Bi couples! Or couples that insist play includes anal penetration. Dont worry about it. Get positive and go after what you want instead of worrying about rejections. I can see its a bit of a trap putting Bi on your profile because some will reject on that basis!
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15 years ago
WTF I now feel slightly dummer for reading that comment?
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15 years ago
Back on topic, I was not aware that there was a different level if acceptance of mfm over fmf. I have had a few fantastic mfm threesomes both joining married couples as an extra male or witha male friend pleasuring a woman. On every occasion both of us males were quite "normal" straight guys but not hung up at all about being naked near each other or rubbing up against each other (inside her and out) as we both did our level best to pamper her. The net result a great time for all. What could be better than a highly aroused woman showered with attention from generous male playmates? That said, like many guys I still dream about a fmf threesome... Maybe one day? Those that have hangups about threesomes are just plain missing out!
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15 years ago
you may find that the males ego is wrapped up in the reasons why they dont talk as freely about mmf/mfm as they do about mff scenarios. guys tend to not wish to praise another, escpecially when the other has had dealings or spent time with their partner...... its an ego thing...that perhaps failure or inadequacies may be read into the act of inviting another male to join you as a couple. few if any, males will tell you that the extra guy was 'sensational' or 'really well hung' or knew how to 'please a woman', for fear of exposure as being not quite up to the task. praise of or bragging of exploits that involve another woman may not have the same fears attached, and might even serve to highlight the guys 'masculinity' or 'virility'...........
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Polar_Bear_Girl'ANAL - if I thought I was your type at all and we were in the same town, I'd be all over you like a rash. Good profile update Good luck with it. :) I'm with you there PBG, ( & would be happy to be all over you too lol) I'd be there too if it weren't for the tyranny of distance..... so little time, so many great people to play with ho hum.... Maybe when I'm next in NSW???? Lubey
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15 years ago
Quoting 'AllNiteAllLucid'I can really go on after too many coffees and energy drinks , the first night shift is a killer....apologies :-) Yep, you wrote a huuuuuuge amount, but all good and well worth the read. If you could try some paragraphs, a little more punctuation & spaces LOL, it would be easier to read, admittedly. Once you have mastered that, you should write a book. Or do a thesis on the very topic that started you on this thread. It is very refreshing and, from a female perspective, really quite arousing to have your mind stimulated as well as your body. Mind you right now, I could really, really do with the body being stimulated arghhhhhhh.......frustrated!!! Such a shame that you are so far away as I would very much like to stimulate you in the physical way heeeeheeeee... XX
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'rufun4me2011'Hello there AllNiteAllLucid or may I call you ANAL for short? You raise some valid points that got me thinking I may be missing out. God forbid!! So I shall have to rethink my prior moratorium on the bi guys inclusion into my sexual escapades. As long as I remain the focus of attention and there are hard cocks to be had, well bring it on I say!! Kisses all, L Your mind is open enough to rethink your possibilites for fun great way to be. And exactly!! why miss out on something that might take you to a whole new level of pleasure.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Had my first MFMF on weekend, both guys straight and for me it was no problem. I don't see what all the fuss is about. If the girls are into the situation I'm not about to worry about what the guy along side me is thinking. If anything makes you uncomfortable I say; "call it a day", if your got those sort of hang ups your on the wrong site I say. Its all about respect isn't it. Well looking forward to the next one...any takers?
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RHP User
15 years ago
I don’t think it comes down to acceptability Most men in a relationship will not accept an MMf situation for the fact that they are afraid that there partner may meet someone new. But males will always go for a FMF get together. Make them feel more in charge. All I can say is to all men get a grip and live life you may just enjoy it. As for me I love both ways.
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RHP User
15 years ago
don't be 'rufun it' by goin without bi guys , there's other advantages too but a bit off topic maybe. Bi guys tend to be open-minded and you can usually kink it up with them more easily than straight guys in my experience. Don't get me wrong tho , I love straight guys , get on great with many , and love to f__k their wives heehee. Some of em can be VERY kinky too. And yes you can call me ANAL , it's for a laugh mostly (I mean what kind of nutjob would call themselves ANAL????) but I do LOVE f__king girls in the ass!!!! It's one of my favourite things lol ----------------ROMANCE -nope I'm not crying or worried or negative about my bi situation and that some couples or girls say no because you're bi. I'm just simply saying that oftentimes they're missing out and we're missing out on some high quality sex just because of ignorance and assumption on their part. Don't worry I'm getting plenty so I'm not looking for a shoulder to cry on. Sometimes people are afraid too , they don't like the unknown or think that just maybe the bi guy will make a pass at them , or horror of all horrors -they might become attracted to the idea of say -sucking another guys cock (jeez would that make them queer???? A fag???? Lol it's some hilarious shit really) some guys get a nice surprise when they choose to be a little ris-gay (risqué) and try a dick in their mouth , "hmmmm that feels good , and check it out ; my wrists haven't bent and my voice hasn't changed and I don't feel any less attracted to girls , shit this is alright , maybe next time I'll try it in my ass...."
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RHP User
15 years ago
yeah I can rave alright , yep can't do the paragraphs on the iPhone when at work , bugger. ----------------KRISSY G -you are so invited to our next MMMM AGM???? (Anal General Meeting) and I'm sure no-one would complain if we added an F to our F__k ;-) tie you to a chair???? I like the way you think....
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RHP User
15 years ago
I used to be a 'straight guy' until 18 months ago , now I'm a 'bi guy' -how bizarre , how bizarre , I sure didn't see that coming lol (ahhhh labels)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi! :) Well I've never been one to take others views automaically as My Own. I'm not going to start now .I will share mine, you decide if you agree or not.This goes hand in hand with it's cool to see an Older Guy with a Younger Woman way to go the Stud.!.. If an Older Woman is with a younger Guy then he must be a Giggalo ,she's emotionally needy has him to make her seem young.Both should be put in the garbage along with the view MFF is quite acceptable, because the Guy must be a real stud .He can handle those babes make them Smile orgasm like crazy and come back for more. Well ! I'm No Stud what I am is a very Confident Sensual Sexual Woman who does enjoy Younger Lovers mainly . I am organizing a 3 some with2 of My Male Lovers .I can't wait to be Pampered Pleasured by them in every way I'm more Woman that 1 man can handle (I don't mean size)when our Conection is strong . I know how to pleasure My Lovers 1-1 every one has enjoyed it so much that they are drained mmmmmmm bissful.To share Sexual Intimacy in a 3some FMM with Men I've enjoyed Oh! Man ! That will be an Amazing Experience I'm so Looking forward too it .So are the Guys :) Cheers Lu .
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RHP User
15 years ago
I love threesomes. I have only experienced the MFM way, never the FFM way. But I enjoy passionate hot mind blowing threesomes. So much fun, and it really is nice to see a woman being spoilt by 2 guys at the same time.Saozdude;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
MMF (Bi) is the ONLY way to play surely. Nothing hotter than 2 guys and you all going for it together!
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