Where can we find an "Erotic Photographer"

Looking for any tips or recommendation on how we can find someone to take some Penthouse style, hot sexy photos or video of us , we have tried lots of professional erotic photographers but they seem to not do and X rated shots for some reason ? we would love to find someone ideally a female or a couple who is professional photographer ( but there could be fun for all of us you never know ..) who can do a shoot for us , happy to payfor the service Surely that has to be a fun exciting job for someone ?