When your single guy/girl has 'met someone' - Grrr!

March 15 2012

In space of two days a couple of single guys I've been in contact with have both told me that they can't come to a party because they have 'met someone'.Far be it from me to begrudge someone happiness with a partner but WTF? I leave guys alone for a month or two and they hook up?? Should I be getting guys to sign contracts to ensure they stay single for a minimum of six month?Anyone else lost trusty singles to 'someone'? How did it make you feel? Did they try to bring their new girlfriends into the fold or did they cut all ties lest their new partner finds out what they had been up when single?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Met this amazing man we were sizzling, the next thing I know he says sorry Ive met someone else and I think she might be the one.   Oh well, I am disappointed however, its now on to the next one please.   Of course they dont want to bring their new girlfriends along, because they are good girls, not naughty girls like us. Who actually enjoy sex and like having orgasms.   I dont want to be a good girl anymore. Its more fun being bad!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    The are often marrrrrrried guys in the first place or they were dating a nice girl not some naughty girl of RHP, my goodness that will never do   and will they tell their new girlfriend, HELLLLL NO   Its stick your dick orama here. There in there out they wave it all about,wipe it on the curtains   And why? because they can.   You do not loose single men here, you never had them in the first place,all you had is that nice hard bit now and again, despite all the sweet whispers in a girls ear, its open wide come inside its Play school.

  • playfulminx

    playfulminx

    14 years ago

    Oh there's no emotional attachment as such (happily married here) but by gum it can be hard to find a reliable, intelligent, sexy single guy who is a good 'fit' (you know, socially...) and you do start feeling a nice friendship happening too which suddenly goes out the window because 'the one' arrives.I remember one guy did try and introduce his new girlfriend into the scene but it didn't really work :|

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Tuscan.. Spot on!!   I very much doubt they were single to begin with.. I have been a VERY norty boi in my life, and I din't think I am much different from most fellas.. We lie.. We cheat.. We deceive.. We male... NOT only on here.. but in real life too..   A FF of mine recently had a tradesman work on her house.. SPARKS FLEW..... he lef this card.. made ALL the right suggestions and lingered.... everything.. Said FF tells me.. reckons she is onto a hot new sex toy.. I encourage her.. asking for videos of it all... OK, I am a little norty.. I told you that.. HE calls her.. for a hook up.. she aggrees... he calls her back day of hook up and cancels.. says he has talked things over with his EX... and they are going to give it a go again... BULL S***... :) Been there done that... maybe widen the scope of what you are looking for in a FF ( i like Friend... NOT Buddy) and you MIGHT be suroprised at when you score :)   Just my thoughts... Caveman xx

  • hubbahubba01

    hubbahubba01

    14 years ago

    With all apologies and a propos of nothing, Playful, I think anyone who can use the phrase 'by gum' alongside "grrr" is an absolute winner. He obviously didn't know what he was leaving behind! Nice posts tho, and thanks for the read to all.Cheers,H

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I guess it's inevitable that some people will meet a partner here or outside if RHP and disappear as quickly as they came (no pun intended!). I agree though it's hard to tell the genuine from the fly by nights and I realise single guys are probably the worst offenders sadly.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Lol - I had to laugh...   I must turn ladies into girlfriend material... or they think I am so bad in bed they need to go back to what they had before   In the past 2 months - I have had 4 ladies (both RHP and non RHP) mention to me they have found "the one" - with two still happily going strong... one off to the doctors and the other to the psychiatrists... lol lol   Maybe it's just me ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Jane had a regular guy for about a year. Then we had the great idea that we would invite our regular girl over on the same night as the guy. Well everyone got on great but the two of them got on very well being both single and and a very good match for each other in general. At the time we thought good on them as one asked us for the others phone number. To cut a long story short we must have played match maker and lost our regular guy and girl on the same night LOL.Next time we will keep the two separate.Tim

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I thought I was onto a good thing for a while and a real wild time for sure. But she met a celebrity boyfriend who got jealous when she played outside their newly developing relationship. Our conversation went like this: "He gets jealous when I play with others and yet he still wants to play with cross dressers. How fair is that??" ... that's not fair at all but it doesn't upset you that he plays with cross dressers, so where is the harm? Next.HugsStalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I have recently met someone outside of RHP   its very casual but nice - no strings etc but at some stage I got to decide if i continue on with this site.   I have told a few that this is what is happening but after reading these posts i am beginning to wonder of they believe me! :)   Its always the few liars that make it hard for anyone to trust anyone on this site.   Cheers Dave

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    LOL @sydneyvaka!Yes it has happened to me a couple of times but then I figure that is a fairly high probability of that happening when I think of the guys I like to play with - great bodies, good looking, smart and funny - who the hell wouldnt wasnt to grab that and take them home to keep. Im married so I do set them free :)Sometimes when they say "sorry babe I have a gf now" I would love to have them just one more time...and other times it is Cest la vie...and other times I send naughty texts until they cant say no anymore and I get to have them again oh dear...somebody spank me !Minxy xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Yeah they lie but women do it too!!!   Its all fair game in here, especially with the single ones they have nothing to loose. Why become attached to someone who is clearly not after much more then a bit of fun, you're setting yourself up for unnecessary heartache and headaches. And Tuscanred was correct you can't lose someone you never had in the first place and I am talking on a emotional basis!!   Yes guys whisper sweet nothings into your ears and tell you things that you want to hear, its part of their game!! The only thing I dont like is when they invite themselves into your life and get involved and once they get what they want they dump and leave ya, had that happen to me but granted I was going through a stressful time and was vulnerable so was easily suckered in. To me if a woman invites to you over its pretty much a sure thing so cut with the crapand get on with the job lol !!!   Not sure if this is all relevant to the topic but I say enjoy yourself and have a good time!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    " I leave guys alone for a month or two and they hook up?"Ahem....herein lies your problem.They must be regular type fellas, open to relationships I guess, the bastrds.You need confirmed players who may be able to slot you into their schedule, but then would players want todo you more than once?Felonius....life is complicated for some orthe beck and call of it all

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    As, I'm sure we both mention before, we had a dear friend who would often share our bed. She met a good man but he's not into swinging. We are still very close friends though, it's only the physical part of our relationship that has ended. We thought we could discover similar relationships here. Not quite yet but we live in hope.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'meggiesgirl'   I dont want to be a good girl anymore. Its more fun being bad!!! i recently met a girl off a 'good girl' site and she turned out to be very bad indeed... best of both worlds :) but now she's gone :( loloh well, such is life

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Oh this is the Best forum post i have read in ages..Fuck havnt had such a good laugh for so long Top Shelf 10 / 10

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Of course they are not exclusive. It would be silly to think that. Of corse it was only a matter of time befor one found a partner and we just sped up the prosses. But it was nice to have them both as regular friends with benefits and just a shame it ended then. There is some disappointment as we were onto a good thing but we are happy for them. We offered nothing more then fun and friendship and thats all they did to. I guess the best outcome would have been to see them again after as a couple. Quoting 'sexymylf' Quoting 'timandjane' Jane had a regular guy for about a year. Then we had the great idea that we would invite our regular girl over on the same night as the guy. Well everyone got on great but the two of them got on very well being both single and and a very good match for each other in general. At the time we thought good on them as one asked us for the others phone number. To cut a long story short we must have played match maker and lost our regular guy and girl on the same night LOL.Next time we will keep the two separate.Tim How dare they hook up and become a couple (such as yourselves) and have fun or maybe even fall in love. Damn them, lmao! I think this is hilarious. What was to stop them from meeting others as it was? These things do happen, people come and go all the time and find partners elsewhere. Maybe theyre meant to be exclusive to you guys while you carry on being a couple

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ...just wait forever and not break the rules. This is "woman country" and if a guy can't just keep it in his pants forever, he shouldn't even be on these damn sites. | Men...we no right to choose and we should just live with it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Sexymilf, The original post was from the fem 1/2 of a married couple so why single us and and use words like selfish and get over it . I feel the direction of the original post was to have a Light hearted perhaps comical wine about singles doing what single do and have every right to do find partners.We were simply sharing experience that was along the same lines and with the same light hearted feelings about it in the end and not complaining. You seem to be cut up about being single with a negative view of couples?Tim

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'timandjane' Sexymilf, You seem to be cut up about being single with a negative view of couples?Tim maybe that's why she is single...***put my 2c in now i'm backing right out of this disagreement***

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    well fuck me stupid with a blunt axe and say it aint so!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    If my FB left me for a month or two, of course I'd go looking elsewhere. I don't sit around waiting for the phone to ring, so why would I expect guys to??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    hey playful.sound like you want your cake and to eat it to..you say happily married but want the fun on side.then complain when the guys you hook up with move on.my point of view is they have nothing to gain from you but the occassional call to fufill your needs.to me regular hook up more like once a week or so ,not months apart..on the down side being in open relationship may seen all good but at end of day.a lot do full apart because one partner gets jealous over what the other gets up to.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Seems to be an awful lot of misunderstanding here....Sexymylf, you've got the wrong end of the stick. Dumbfounded, you've got the wrong end of the stick. They're usually also the couples who probably shouldn't have done it in the first place.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    going by your age ,id say you wouldnt even know which end of stick to hold..and now reading your profile.your play mate gone and your single ,mabe you should go back and read my last comment.....if your falling out over what you"s got up to ,i rest my case

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Go and fill out one of those forms, and a posse will be rustled up to bring them in . . Guess if you left your car unlocked somewhere for a month, you'd have a similar result?