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When you dont click...

October 15 2009

Hi We am just wondering what other couples do, when you meet a couple for drinks and you feel like there is no attraction/no click. We usually have found that there has been a mutual understanding, like we all sort of go, well nice to meet you will meassage later and chat MAYBE. But we have found lately trhat some couples get really snarley - one couple chucked the shits if we didnt instantly reply to a message and called us - "look-ist" i guess they were extrapolating race-ist.....because we really werent that attracted to them..... When we play its special - we are SUPER BUSY- with our careers, so we want it to be meaningful, does that make us awful?

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16 years ago

We're in very much the same boat... So we actually chat on MSN first to make sure we click... Some people hate that, but that's not our problem, that's theirs.Have the first meet only just for drinks and testing the waters. And state that clearly in your profile, so if you don't find a click, you can all just walk away cleanly.Don't get hung up on them calling you names, this isn't high school... If they can't accept it, who cares?Oh, and we've only ever had one no-click, and that was when we just met up at short notice and hadn't chatted previously.

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