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When to leave after a hookup
December 28 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think it would be rude to leave immediately, plus some naked talking afterwards may lead to another session!!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Bacon and eggs would be nice.
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RHP User
10 years ago
On what the original intention was.... Yep for sure a jump and run can be fun butttt....id prefer a Chat and cuddle for me thanks - and depending on the maturity of the relationship maybe a sleep over and breakfast.
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RHP User
10 years ago
How is a jump and run fun? After sharing bodily fluids and the most intimate of acts, bodies tingling and exhausted, you know what I like to do? Do it all again 😯 Way more fun. Getting straight up and leaving, worse having zero contact after the event, for me strips away the experience. Example of that, met a guy for coffee one day, only young, and fucked in his car lol in busy carpark, bad girl 😀 but during the act he was suggesting we could have a longer indoor session, he's very good with teasing, I was happy after the encounter, sent him a message thanking him and said he was awesome. No response. So okay, I moved on, whatever. About a month later I was at the beach and get a message from him saying he'd been thinking of me? Not very much apparently, pretty sure he saw me and got horny, wanted some quick action. I didn't reply to the message. So anyway, the moral of the story is to take a moment guys, to really appreciate the experience and let the other person know, just my thoughts. Oh and I don't need to be cuddled, I need to be able to start running my fingers up his leg and get him hard again lol mmm 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hmm depends on the play I think, in a group or couple situation leaving probably suits as to not overstay your welcome. As for partners, I have a connection with. Well why leave when you can jump back into bed again ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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MnauMnau
10 years ago
... if it is too early (evening) then you can go to pub/club/walk/home..., or ... if it is too late (evening), it would not be nice of him to let you go, or ... if it is too early (morning), one quicky will do it, he should be ready for you anyway, or ... you can jump on him again, or ... if you liked it, stay and ask for more.. Seriously, just tell him what you like/want. PS: I would definitely join you in the shower.
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RHP User
10 years ago
The norm for us;Well we have had many +1's stay overnight in hotel rooms where we have a 6pm check out the day, soooo that means a hot breakfast and lunch AND..... Never experienced the 2 hr smash and grab because we refuse to go down that road. The more time spent=a fantastic friendly send off= a return visit.....win/win. Oh and yes we book a king sized bed and all sleep together, none of this separate room bullshit ( fucking weirdo's sleeping in separate beds) Recently we had a wonderful play with a great couple that went for hours and the send off was highlarious, Mrs S shook the guys cock to say thanks .....cause it was that big, and I gave his partner a very warm hug and kiss to say goodbye. Mr Squirt Reynolds
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RHP User
10 years ago
Unless not possible or practical or desired by the other person/s. It's all up to them as chances are I'll be visiting them and not the other way around. I'm not there to get off, I'm there to enjoy a naked woman in my arms, and other forms of intimacy, sex and conversation. So certainly never in a hurry to leave.
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
IMO Never stay. Give it about an hour after then leave. I dislike that feeling "Fuck! They will not leave" kinda moment. I would rather leave or they leave before the awkward moment hits. I always say thank you too, no matter what. I think it's only good manners. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think its good manners to stay for a little but not too long you don't want them thinking they can't get rid of you. Unless its otherwise arranged that one of you has to run off straight after of course - sometimes youre on a time limit and thats fine too
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RHP User
10 years ago
I love a little pillow talk! If a guy left right after (or asked me to go) I'd think he was only after my body and not the rest of me. That works for many people I'm sure, just not for me. I do prefer sleeping alone though.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've had lovers in the past had to dash after a pash. Plane to catch. Family BBQ to attend. But I have also had others stay and play again or hang around for a hydrating water whilst laying exhausted. Sometimes its best to get those questions out in the open straight up, before play time. ... Damnit.. i wanted to use the pun "I'll take my bat and balls and go home".. but it just didn't fit in (haha.fit in). - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yeah I think there is nothing hotter than after a hot steamy session laying back relaxing and enjoying the juices and passion before running some ice over her body and sharing one anothers juices and going for round 2. There is also the morning sex which you can never turn down if its there.
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RHP User
10 years ago
of things I like. 1 fuck and leave 2. sleep over. But I am never really a talker it makes me kind of cringe.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Hiii The woman i was seeing she would not leave me for hours until.i come 4 times she suck me up really then i get used to it every week.respect the woman who trust i always make coffee for her after all session we take shower together .n watch tv n then leave.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Done the........" I've got an early start at work" when you have someone stay the night. Get them up and moving, both jump in your cars at the same time with a quick " I'll give you a call". Drive off with a wave. A quick around the block, back home and back to bed alone.....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Dismounting with a leap, arms raised... yelling "CLEAR"...... .... then running out the door.... is considered poor form.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Due to my current living situation I will always be playing somewhere else. I stay for awhile but I avoid sleepovers with FWBs / FBs for a number of reasons. At the moment I do not want, nor am I capable of giving emotional intimacy, so I keep things on a friendly and casual level only.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Miss decided she would spend the night in the spare room with her new lover... As he is a great guy and true gentlemen couldn't see a problem with that... Its a trust thing. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Avoid that ackward moment and leave before it happens.. I was with a couple who's intention was to fit some play ( for her ) into the afternoon before a business dinner at the same hotel that night. A kool arrangement as far as I was concerned.. We enjoyed a couple of relaxing hours of chatting , sex , sitting around naked then more chatting til it was time for me to leave... I would never wait til someone asked me leave... You know when it's time...
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
A lot of married people on here who say they are single would do the pash and dash. Or if they have a quickie over use all kinds of excuses, "I have to go to work now.." Translates to "you have to get out, so I can remake the bed before my partner gets home and finds you here". 😜 Ms Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
That's awesome. Perfect relationship in my book 👍
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MissBishere
10 years ago
I like after sex random conservations and lots of cuddles so I like him to stick around for a while. what would make it even better is to grab a meal and a movie and then have a sleep over.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I find that hanging around too long becomes awkward so I generally I like to get out before the boyfriend gets home.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Does it count if they dash before the pash, before sex even? Lol Fuck i'm not doing myself any favours here 😯
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RHP User
10 years ago
If the sex was good, and i felt there was a connection, then i want to stay and chat, i want to deepen the whole experience even more which will hopefully lead to even deeper experiences in the event that the hook up happens again. If the sex was ho hum, without any real connection or just plain bad.....well, i am probably out of there as quick as i feel is polite.
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