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When should a girl put out ?
July 06 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
A woman should definately not put out if a man buys her an expensive dinner and drinks! You could always call him but after 3 weeks its a bit late - he was just not into you! Pusscat xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
..not as payment for a nice evening or becuase you think its what he wanted. I would have to agree with pussycat he just wasnt into you. Honey move on and as the saying goes around here NEXT!!!!!! My question for you is - why wait for him to contact you? Its been 3 weeks. If you liked him that much why didnt you contact him before now? Kisses Focus
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RHP User
16 years ago
You honestly believe that he doesn't want to see you again cause you didn't put out? Your kidding right? Do you honestly believe that he would see you again if you did put out? Surely you're not that naive? Sorry but it is obvious that this guy just isn't into you...at all. End of story. xFunlovingx
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RHP User
16 years ago
yeah sorry but im with the others why didnt you call him??? us girls can make the first move, you know there is nothing at all wrong with that but i think you have left it a little late now....but if you wanna test the waters just message him and say :hi.. how have you been?" if he gets back bonus, if not let it go, it has been a while ohhh and no i dont think its because you didnt put out and if it is then he isnt worth shit roxxy
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RHP User
16 years ago
No you shouldn't put out because you're expected to or think it's expected, you should put out because you want to,it feels right and feels safe. Why don't you offer to take him for drinks or dinner as thanks for him taking you out? I wouldn't necessarily say he's not into you, he may just be preoccupied doing other stuff.
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RHP User
16 years ago
fffft. If the guy wanted to buy a root he needn't have gone to all that bother. As for "when do I put out" ... well.. .you know... "when the mood takes you there" is the good answer. I wonder if he's sitting there in his favourite chair wondering when you are going to call him. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well it looks like it unanimous. There is no reason to "put out" (thats so bad a phrase) and this is 2010, a woman can ring you know. In fact, it is so hot if the woman rings the man.oh and FL, those boots, THOSE BOOTS!!! are to die for or die with if you apply those fabulous heels.
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RHP User
16 years ago
he went to all that trouble, and you didn't put out......sheesh, no wonder he hasn't called!Seriously though, as Stalks has put it, you put out when the feeling is right....if at all?????Why don't you try calling him?? who knows, he may actually answere, and you may actually get the chance to "Put out" for him at some stagegood luck hehe
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RHP User
16 years ago
definately credit where it is due. But NanaS I am sure we all would have said the same thing. Even Unlce Stalky agrees with us. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
16 years ago
LOL - can I be a very sexy Aunty please??? Pusscat xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'woody_pusscat' LOL - can I be a very sexy Aunty please??? Pusscat xxYou already are!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Maybe he lost your number, or his phone broke......maybe he's sitting at home distraught because he can't contact you and hoping against all odds that you may ring him! Maybe he has had a work place accident because he was preoccupied with thoughts of you!C'mon people its not always the obvious answerCheers Nev............Why is it women won't make the 1st move or stranger things have happened!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Try for dessert after dessert ? With some luck you may get breakfast too ! seriously though the time is right when the time is right ..Dont bash yourself up over it ..Maybe ring him and see if he wants to go out again.
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RHP User
16 years ago
you want to to, not cos he bought you dinner. Personally i jump in boots and all, but that is just me. Where i come from we meet a guy, spend all weekend with him, if the sex is good then he is our bf for the next few weeks, but hey that is when you are single, which I am now not. At the end of the day, put out when you want to!!!!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Instead of my traditional Christians in July party, you've inspired me to consider an Aliens in July Party.... A gang of people are invited to dress as aliens... and a gang of others, selected on the basis of their character, are invited to be adbucted, bound, fiddled with and experimented upon. I can see it now. Hugs Stalky Quoting 'mikle' Aliens abducted him and had alien anal sex with him and now he feels like less of a man.. so much less of a man he cant bare it to face you, talk to you even for the horror you might see in his eyes or hear it in his voice.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I agree with Capitol here (amazed) yep you put out only if you want to put out. Dont believe for one second he hasnt called because you didnt Bonk him.. Maybe he thought you wernt so keen on him.. why not give him a call or a simple txt message. Cant Hurt and I would guess he would be more than happy to hear from you again
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RHP User
15 years ago
I say only put out when YOU want to. and only put out because you are happy with that person or because you just want to..no one should just out out for dinner and drinks alone...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hey there Sweetiepie,Not all guys are uncomplicated you know and maybe he wanted something a bit more than just a shag, if a woman gets in contact with you then you know she is interested, why should guys have to do all the leg work, I mean its just nice to hear from someone you took on a date.Maybe the guy didn't think you were interested in him and was waiting for a sms or an email saying you had a lovely evening and would like to do it again sometime.It does go both ways.I know I get a fuzzy feeling when a woman contacts me first.PK !!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Your worth a phone call!!! And don't you forget it! Busy??? Bullshit. Can't be that hard to phone and say "Yay or Nay". Hell, even my pockets can call people!!! Not even a text? 7 letters. BUSY ATM. Didn't realise it was Rocket Science! Whatever you do I wish you the best of luck :) Calling or texting him might open the door for you or let you shut it for good. You never know, Maybe he has been Super Busy!!! Or maybe he broke his thumbs going home straight after your date Addickted xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' Honey, listen to aunty Focus on this one. He just wasn't that into you. Guys are very simple creatures(in the best possibly way, i LOVE their uncomplicatedness), if they are into you they will walk on broken glass to get to you. Sex wouldn't have made any difference, just would have made you appear and feel cheap and used. You were treated to a lovely evening, he behaved like a gentleman and payed for everything, offered a kiss at the end of the night and treated you really nicely..............very nice thank you. There's plenty more where that one came from who will really be into you as well. Be thankful for a lovely experience and move on. Nana S xx hehehehe I don't believe that's good advice I'm afraid. Perhaps the guy didn't see the sign she likes him or misinterpreted it or maybe he's like me and gets focused on other shit and forgets to call. If a guy is a little bit insecure he may need a bigger hint a girl is keen, sometimes the line between friendly and keen is difficult for some to distinguish and those frightened of rejection often err on the side of caution. Personally I like to encourage people to get out and go after what they want and never tell someone to give up unless it 100% they have no chance. Humans (yes I include men) are very complex creatures that respond well to encouragement. Think mentor people, stop being Schleprocks with that little storm cloud over your head.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'SWEETIEPIE2010' Society has emasculated men enough! :( booooooooo!!!!!!! Society has indeed Mrs S so much so that it has become dangerous for me to even agree with you. Out there in life are lots of lovely ladies who have been looking for the right "man" to come around think they find them then suddenly they switch off , yes both of them. I often sit listening to the politically correct peeps on the radio telling me about how "modern men" are suppose to behave ...... somehow suggesting this is better ? Is it ? Really ? Now I am in no way suggesting poor behaviour from men is excusable so before some one makes the jump of "hurclean" proportion please understand me men need to have respect and good manners. It is just that we have washed cleaned and sanatised men to such a level that they truly don't know who they should be anymore. No this will not make me more popular. I understand my thinking is in a minority. I do though know that many women are beginning to realise this. They may not yell it from the roof tops but its an growing theme I recieve in communication. OH to answer the question .... put out when you feel comfortable ...... just understand if he loses interest after sometime. I personally am a lousy fisherman if the fish aint biting I move on. Brae I sit on my won
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