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When "meeting up" never happens

January 23 2011

So far our search on RHP has been unsuccessful, we have made a few friends but when it comes to meeting up with online surfers within a 100klm range we are always let down. We find that people like looking at raunchy pictures but when we ask for face pics quite a few get all cagey and then block us. We would rather say that they are not what we are looking for on line than having to be put on a spot when meeting up for drinks, as we like to meet first and play later. We are sure that we are not the only ones getting frustrated with the site. Unfortunaltey North Queensland (Cairns and surrounds) do not have the facilities as the Gold Coast and Brisbane have that is with Couples International and other swinger venues. So to meet other like minded couples we only have the swinger sites to fall back on, which to date has been unsuccessful. We are true to ourselves with our profile content and our up to date photos and we would appreciate if others out there would be true as well. Are we asking too much or is this the way the site works ? A & C

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RHP User

15 years ago

you gotta just keep trying :)

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Innercircle

15 years ago

If there isnt a party organised in your area, organise a meet and greet yourself :) By organising it, you'll have contact with those that are keen, and show you are genuine.

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RHP User

15 years ago

i think now you have posted this things will change,you guys look great, maybe host a party with those that are real, if you cant do it at home there are some amazing resorts around you. cheap off season.

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RHP User

15 years ago

Agree with you guys about trying to meet people, we had similar problems when we lived in WA. As soon as people found out where we lived, they found some reason as to why they couldn't meet but it basically boiled down to the fact that it was to far for them travel whether it was for the initial meet or a follow up get together and they where the ones that had made the initial contact. We dont have a problem travelling to meet people when work committments allow us. People in the big cities are happy to meet provided you come to them. We dont have a problem providing a face pic to people when we are asked and we will always answer all flirts and messages we recieve. We're always looking to meet people........

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RHP User

15 years ago

After living up here for over 2 years we have found that the 'parties' is Cairns arre so male heavy that we just haven't really found hat we are looking for at all......And whilst organising party is great in theory, again we find when we have tried ALOT of male interest and non genuine couples.... So Luvpuppy I know what you mean!!

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RHP User

15 years ago

To the litany of carefully orchestrated authenticity. Or simply put, amount of crap artists about. You may find who you're seeking, but you're gonna have to wade thru some crapolla in the mean time. Good Luck.

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redhotozz

15 years ago

The answer is to rent a house for a week on the coast, put up a couples and single ladies only party on the saturday night, lay in some condoms and lube, cover your costs and let the party come to you.

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RHP User

15 years ago

Great in Theory- But for many of us we can't take a week out of our busy everyday life!!! And like it has been mentioned- for some reason- couples up here that we would play with don't seem to be able to go to parties... Luvpuppy- We messaged you and are more than happy to swap face pics

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redhotozz

15 years ago

Thats very true......we typically only look for playmates once or twice a month. It was, however, only a suggestion, and even a weekend or saturday night will do!

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RHP User

15 years ago

Agree with Michnruss re the top heavy male interest and non genuine couples. We have been in Cairns for only a short time but the amount of interest from males that obviously dont know how to read is staggering with flirts and messages far outweighing any interest from our prefered choices. When we have had contact from couples and replied that we are interested in catching up, we hear nothing back from them at all. Am beginning to wonder whether it's all worth it.....

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