When is a good thing to much of a good thing?

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I'll let you know when a good thing is too much when I get to experience it. And that's not to say that "too much" even appeals to me. Perhaps it is possible to have too much of a good thing. I mean, the older I get, the harder it becomes to multi-task. I also suspect my selectiveness (read: fussiness) means it will be incredibly unlikely that I will ever have too many lovers and yummy men to pick from! . Fussy Flirty x

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I had the best thing going for me but just lost it. No idea how but I did

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  ^^^ its only a temporary setback Miss_bbw.....this too will pass and you will get your mojo back...and if its a guy /gal your lamenting over ...well somehow it wasnt meant to be..and someday some other significant willl walk into your life , rock your world and their presence will justify why it didnt work out with the ones that got away...stay true...   Too much of a good thing TR...???. perhaps..Flirty posted it all beautifully....yep we probably do have too much choice..however finding the rite choice..now therein lies the tricky bit......and like Sir Galahad on the eternal Quest for the Holy Fucking Grail...Im still searching....searching....(Mmmm...Sound like U2 song..and I still havent found what Im looking for ...!!!) ........................................................................................................................     damn its in my head now......           And I still havent found what Im looking for !!!

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  ...and yes, not only would the membership (paid and/or guest) be incredibly disproportionate it would certainly favour the females here on this site with the ability to pick and choose. A wild guess but maybe in terms of active members....what, about 500:1 or so, maybe even higher. Interestingly, it is the men that most likely generate the greatest proportion of the revenue for the folks that own this site albeit that would drop to a number that would make it highly unlikely to sustain this as a business venture if that were not the case. | I have always wondered that, if instead of relying solely on the written word or what we decide to put up as our pictures...how different might it be if we just happen to gather one day and all wander along Collins St. on a nice spring day and see who if anyone got noticed or got that "second chance" to survive the cut. Physical presence, movement, and little things like self confidence are not easy to evoke in this venue....and those alone can make an incredible difference. | Let's just say that from a male perspective...most of the ladies here start out ahead of the game and stay there. Hate to think how many times a bit of cleavage in a corset or bra has immediately demanded to see face pictures or more then started the screening process from hell. | But then again...maybe that's half the fun too. | | Never bet what you can't afford to loose and never assume you hold all the cards.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  ... when it turns out the "good thing' really was, too good to be true.If it really is a good thing, then there is never "too much".ChasingMidnight, have often wondered that exact same thing myself.Maybe sometimes there is too much information divulged before an actual face to face meet. Perhaps an image or expectation has been formed (through no fault of either party) that simply can't be lived up to. Then again, maybe that is just an excuse

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I've always been selective so it's not like I've raised or lowered my 'standards' of desirable characteristics in a sex partner (no bastards, no borings, no stupids) but I've been able to find more people that meet those criteria in a shorter amount of time than it would take if I were out in bars or whatever taking my chances on guys who might turn out to be the clingy type and force me to find a new hunting ground every few months. One good thing that has come from cutting down the time it takes to find partners is that I've met more people and had to find the confidence and ability to carry on that first-meet-get-to-know-you conversation with a virtual stranger more times than I'd ever be able to force myself to do without these sites. I used to be really shy and awkward and now I'm much less shy. Awkward remains but in a louder, more potentially embarrassing way but my propensity to give a shit has greatly decreased.xx Sarah

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I shall get over it soon.   Bring on the "good thing".   Dammit SLK27 now I have that song in my head!!!!

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I think that it is difficult, like Midnight said the odds must be 500 to one. I also think the number of women who pay for memberships also slims it down. Two guests trying to get it on, sounds like a problem right there. I have meet a fair few men with my photography, ( and do not get excited people I do not bonk em all) Some are from RHP some are from adds in the paper. I have managed to see how nice they are, how their photographs did not do them justice neither did the profile. Cull as much as you like, be picky and you will still have too many choices, as a woman on here. That s not a bad thing, but it does make it harder for those nice quiet guys to get anywhere at times. I also think that men need to be more flexible in what they want, give women a chance and not flick them off if they do not look like a play boy bunny. You are right(Midnight) it is the screen process from hell, that’s life on and off the computer. When I was really over weight, and was crippled with my back, I became the invisible woman. I was in the end content to just forget about men it was famine of self choice. Sometimes with this to much access to the easy and quick sex, like Mc Donnalds, like junk food I think we can have too much of anything.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I always say...." if a little is good, a lot is better!..."

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  ....so why not make it a very good time.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Except hubby won't let me cut loose lol

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Amount x of indulgence has a co-efficient of expansion until a rate is inversely observed for reasons valued by the indulged. Eventually a balancing behavior will eventuate like an osmotic effect as excitement dulls to mediocre and sophistication and quality evolve. Simple math with a tarty calculator.

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