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When asked "What Did You Get Up To This Weekend" Do You Tell The Truth ???
April 13 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
what else to say..my answer is always the same...."just staring at the wall"..xxQ
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RHP User
12 years ago
I was literally just asked this question ten minutes ago but a guy who started chatting to me on another site. As I just got back from holidays on Friday afternoon, I spent Saturday morning doing laundry, then babysat my niece at my sister's house for 24 hours from noon Saturday until noon today. Then I took my daughter to the airport as she is spending the next ten days with her father. But when asked "What did you get up to on the weekend", I simply answered "Nothing too exciting". I honestly don't think anyone cares about what I get up to, so why bore them with the details?
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
I give the same answer "I worked - quite boring isn't it". Secretly I think some people expect one to say.... "I'm on RHP and I fucked all weekend?". Is that what they want to hear?? I mean do guys really think women do that who are on RHP??? Or another question is..."How's it going for you on here, had any luck?". They are boring and unproductive, sticky beak questions in my eyes. Come on guys ask us interesting, more thought provoking questions that are not sexual.. *this is from a single women's point of view BTW* Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Answer with what I did. Here's my answer copied from an email "Very exciting stuff this weekend lol I got to catch up on all my housework! Then I took the kids to the beach where we played in the rain. Sunday we spent watching movies and baking" If it was a weekend where I did non mummy stuff I'll tend to say "not to much - had a few drinks and met up with a fwb on Sunday. Mmm that was fun" - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'll say some thing like "I had a very good time ;-) You?" He doesn't have to know that means I watched an entire season of American Horror Story, whilst eating peanut butter from the jar.)
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RHP User
12 years ago
So erm....how else do you attempt make a connection, and be seen to be interested in someone?? Lol *shakes head* - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
The question can be small talk or genuine interest, in person it's easy to tell, online I kinda need to know the person a bit first before I can tell. If it feels like genuine interest then I'd go into some detail, watched my sons play footy, went to the gym, saw a band or whatever. When I ask this question I'm looking for highlights as I think learning what other people do with their time is a good way to get to know them and work out where the common ground might be, asking 'What did you do?' gives me more realistic insight than asking 'What do you like to do?', both are important things to know.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Qefenta2'my answer is always the same...."just staring at the wall"..xxQ Say you were staring at the ceiling. For hours.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I guess it depends on how long you have known the person.. If it is the first message, then I would gloss over the boring stuff and concentrate on the glamour.. If it looks like it is leading to a meet, or you have been chatting for a while, then I think the question is genuine and they want to know what you get up to. I think most people would say that their life is mundane, but other peoples lives are interesting to people.. Just ask the publishers of women's magazines!!!!! Judge xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' I give the same answer "I worked - quite boring isn't it". Come on guys ask us interesting, more thought provoking questions that are not sexual.. *this is from a single women's point of view BTW* Foxy when I get asked that I give the same answer as Foxy When I don't work and I ask the question I start it with hey how's things ? I did this awesome Mountain bike ride on the weekend then I took the kayak out on the bay what did you get up to.sadly most of the time it is hey I worked all weekend how was yours (joys of our own business)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oh but then my nose would grow:-) :-) xx Q
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mmmmmm I'm not the only one but I watch episodes of castle or chuck or Bones and on and on and on and on and on now I'm just getting carried away. crunchy or smooth? I like crunchy.
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RHP User
12 years ago
That's what I did on Sunday, but apparently saying that is provocative. Is adding I watched 6 episodes of Breaking Bad going to make it any less provocative? Or should I add that I was wearing my comfort pjs, no make up and ate a whole packet of Tim Tams?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' I'll say some thing like "I had a very good time ;-) You?" I'll give the same answer, whether I was reading a book or out getting my clit pierced. Whatever I did is none of the writer's business, and what I choose to divulge can be interpreted the wrong way. Am I boring and lonely or hot but easy? I don't share things that personal until after I meet someone, and even then I may choose to keep it vague. Keep 'em guessing.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I spent the weekend in the pilbarra :-) amongst the red dust working as usual lol,the joys of the fifo lifestyle just gotta love it.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Who cares its just an icebreaker
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RHP User
12 years ago
I wanked a lot cause girls dont answer icebreakers :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Depends on how you look at the question and the person asking it... They may very well be just breaking the ice to move into more detailed question of interest :)) no not taking sex either
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RHP User
12 years ago
No, I don't think potential dates want to hear that sort of detail. Don't you want to appear a little mysterious or sexy? You can't do that when you tell them about boring every day stuff. Everyone does that, right? Would you want to hear that sort of thing from someone? Probably not. I just say I had a quiet one, mainly did stuff around the house.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You mean..... women in here like to receive emails that show interest in them.... and not just asking for a root, or a templates so called 'erotic' story?!!! Faaaaaaark. Who knew?!!!! lol ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Find it ridiculous, that women want thought provoking questions from the get go?? Let me paint this picture...... First message: Hi there, I noticed in your profile that you are an animal lover, you enjoy the great out doors...etc.... But that's pretty boring to talk about, and let's face it, it's downright unsexy.... So... What I would dearly love to know, is what your thoughts are on the following chemistry problem:- Au2H2OPb diffused with AgH2 = ??? Sir_stir. Really???? That's not showing a damn scrap of interest in the person as while you've acknowledged their interests, you don't know if they're a chemistry major. But..... It's thought provoking.....so that's ok right?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
A message will simply read "how was your weekend?" without so much as a name . That just doesn't make me want to engage.
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RHP User
12 years ago
As many have said, it's just an icebreaker. They're only looking for a hint to ask you more questions about yourself. I don't lie. If all I've done, or planning to do, is catch up on housework, then I say exactly that. If they're really interested in getting to know you as a person and there's a chance you may meet them some day, they will one day realise you don't lead the superhero exciting life you made out to lead and that could be worse. If they're not willing to hear about your boring weekends, they're not worth your time.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sir_Stir, yep. At least it's different and stands out. But please tell about what you had for breakfast... I really wanna know. Also what do you wash first in the shower... Your arse or your face? Bwahaha. :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
A lot of you seem to do house work on weekends. I get mine done during the week. Bugger working on weekends! Yes I use this as a way to see if a person is available for a bit of a chat. It's not that I care about the details, I just like to know if they've had some fun.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Dear Funlover.... I did the housework but unfortunately I am quite the procrastinator... So it takes me all day because I have to masturbate between each task. :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
Only joking... I only flick the bean before I start. 0:-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' You mean..... women in here like to receive emails that show interest in them.... and not just asking for a root, or a templates so called 'erotic' story?!!! Faaaaaaark. Who knew?!!!! lol ;-) - Posted from rhpmobile No that isn't what she said....... I believe Foxxy is saying that these guys are displaying stalkerish behaviour and being sticky beaks by asking her how she is or what she got up to on the weekend. I would have thought they are normal questions people ask in conversations, online or in real life. Seriously Foxxy, do you honestly think men really care what you got up to apart from just making conversation?
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RHP User
12 years ago
You all crack me up...... Four times I answered about a raunchy weekend and four times I got asked, wow tell me more, I'm not being a perve but I've been looking at those types of things and I really want to know........... But here's the thing, as most of you know, "I'm married" so I'm not looking for the relationship etc etc and so I tell all and you know what, surprise, surprise that is the vein of ALL questions thereafter................... Everybody is the same, we all want a little spark in our life, because if you've got the children, the house and the mortgage, well then that's what we look for........... I say, what's wrong with reading a great book by (authors name inserted), have you heard of them......... Or, I've been looking at this, have you heard of it etc, etc, etc
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RHP User
12 years ago
You all crack me up...... Four times I answered about a raunchy weekend and four times I got asked, wow tell me more, I'm not being a perve but I've been looking at those types of things and I really want to know........... But here's the thing, as most of you know, "I'm married" so I'm not looking for the relationship etc etc and so I tell all and you know what, surprise, surprise that is the vein of ALL questions thereafter................... Everybody is the same, we all want a little spark in our life, because if you've got the children, the house and the mortgage, well then that's what we look for........... I say, what's wrong with reading a great book by (authors name inserted), have you heard of them......... Or, I've been looking at this, have you heard of it etc, etc, etc
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RHP User
12 years ago
that someone will put into their answer will be a great indicator of whether or not I'd be interested in talking to them what was your weekend like? - great, very relaxing, yours? - yeah mine too, and what do usually you like to do on the weekends? - and so on, the conversation immediately becomes what it should be, i.e. about people themselves, not about things around them small talk is for small minds
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RHP User
12 years ago
Bahahaha.... Well....I'm glad you asked!!!! I wash my...... Awww fuck it, why tell you, when I could SHOOWWWWWWW you? ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Au2H2OPb diffused with AgH2 = Fucked all night Friday got fuck Saturday was completely fucked by Sunday
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RHP User
12 years ago
I do love a good pair of virginal 22 year old German backpackers that I've met at the local shopping centre... Gamer level : chevtrek ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sir_stir' I do love a good pair of virginal 22 year old German backpackers that I've met at the local shopping centre... Gamer level : chevtrek ;) - Posted from rhpmobile Or Ivan Milat?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hate to say it, but if I've slept all day that's what I've done. I'm not going to say I went skydiving lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Personality is responding :0P Mrs_AJ - Posted from rhpmobile
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