When Your 'Straight' Friend Goes BI

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Great storey, enjoyed the read and glad you had such fun. To answer your questions - No, never had a straight friend who turned out not straight. So, No to next question as well. As far as behaviour in front of others goes, well I think you are keen on this girl from an ongoing relationship perspective because if it were just about sex, not sure you would be putting this much thought into it. Whatever your feelings towards her, I don't think a conversation with her discussing how you both want it to appear at this time to everyone is unreasonable. Hope this helps and it all works out for ya. Just my opinion

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  AnnieWhichway

  9 years ago

  Its always been a 1 off. But they weren't besties or anything. But guys are a different beast. We took it for the fun it was and carried on as normal. At first there felt like there was an elephant in the room but just look for the body language from her. You will soon see how she feels about what happened and wether it may happen again. You need to be open but reserved toward her.

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  Katkat

  9 years ago

  First of all if its my close circle of friends that would just be weird I don't know what or how I would react. I do have close friends that are LGBT but I never disclose my sexual activity to them to me that is something private & I intend to keep it that way. I prefer to do it with someone who is a stranger danger haha 😉 or just go to a private party keep it simple. Mingle with Rhp friends sharing is caring you know. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Tall74nHard9

  9 years ago

  from an outsiders point of view, Annie has it well put. As it is a new experience, I would say take your direction from her. If she doesn't want to make things 'generally' known at this point in time, then play it down in public. If / when she might feel more confident in letting her more inner feelings come to the surface, let her help you guide her on her way. Tall

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Great stuff, hot story, happy ending there. I imagine that might be me one day, when the right said hottie is before me, in your friend's position I mean. It would only happen randomly for me. But hot stuff, nice one 👍😉

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  agree with Tall's comment, take your guide from her. If she's happy to display affection in front of others or let it be known, go with that, if you're also comfortable with that. Even if it stays at that one encounter, no reason why the friendship can't continue. We're all adults and you obviously both had an amazing time, nothing to feel awkward about

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  ... my answers to your questions : - Nope, I've never had a straight friend who turned out to be other than straight. And because of that, I can't answer your next two questions. I am straight. For now. LOL!!! One never knows how things might change! I do appreciate beauty and some female bodies are just naturally va-va-voom! I think in my entire life, there might have been that very, very rare one or two occasions when I did think, "What if..." but thus far, I've never explored that aspect. I'm way more attracted to men atm and prefer their company to most women's. :P OP, I have to say, I had a peek at your profile and you are extremely gorgeous! Love your style!

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I had never thought of my mate sexually...but one night after a few drinks he stuck his cock in my face and ask me to suck it (he has known for years that I am bi, but I've never tried anything with him). He asked a lot of questions, but that was as far as it went. He said if ever he was gonna experiment, it would be with me because he trust me. We had another time about 12 months later... he was a bit more adventurous, which surprised me. Was a lot of fun, and if it happens occasionally, I'm cool with that. I reckon now I could even ask him when we're n the right situation. He has enjoyed the encounters and we have taken about it. We are still great mates and it hasn't effected our friendship. He is straight, but has just like to have a play with me when we've had a few drinks and the time is right!

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  What a fun night!! I've had things like this happen more times than I care to remember, and it is always a thrill. Being the bi beacon that you are, she's obviously been curious and decided to try her Bi on. Where it goes from here is anyone's guess, but I'd heed the advice here and have a sneaky little private chat to feel her out on where she wants to take things from there, and to avoid further awkwardness in the future. Just recently, I had a devout straight woman flip a switch and go to town on me, was unimaginably hot so I know how you must be feeling. She's not in my friend circle though, so I guess I can avoid that navigation until I see her out again. A fair few women are afraid to come out as bi and have bi relationships, so it may just be about experimentation. I hope for your sake though that she may want more. Xx

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Great story, so thanks for that ... you go girl. No advice ... sorry. I am intrigued however as to what happened last night, care to share?

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  @doitwithpassion so Thursday night was interesting! There have been some developments - unfortunately not good for me, but great for her. So Thursday I went out for dinner with a number of girls including the hot girl I had sex with on Saturday night. We acted completely normal the whole night like nothing had ever happened, even though I couldn't stop picturing her naked lol. Anyway about half way through the night she tells me things have gotten serious with a guy she was seeing. They are now in a committed relationship as of Monday. When I got with her Saturday night they where on a 'break' because he wasn't sure he wanted a relationship. Apparently the time apart made him realise he wanted her in his life. So for the foreseeable future I wont be getting any more sexy time with hot girl ;( I know she's telling the trust because she has been keeping me updated on the details with this guy for months (I knew she was on a break from him which is why I decided to kiss her on Saturday night) and on Monday she's posted 'in a relationship' on Facebook publicly and all her family and friends commented etc. So I'm very lucky I got with her when I did but at the same time now that I've had her I'm going to miss not having her again. I always respect relationships so she will now go into the 'friends only' box. And I'll just have to forgot what she looks like naked lol. This seems to be a reoccurring thing for me. Every-time I've found a girl I'm super attracted to, I've then played with them once and then some guy comes along and snaps them up lol Seriously guys piss off haha Taby x

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  I'm sorry, Taby. Bloomin guys coming along and snapping all the good ones up! At the same time, I'm sure you're experience with her will long live in your memory, and who knows. .she may be single again sometime in the future and you can take up where you left off :) Nibbles Xx

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Thanks for sharing the update and I really am sorry it didn't work out. Your comments do highlight though perhaps how many women do have the urge to explore their sexuality even if they don't continue with it. You seem like a genuine person Taby so I hope you don't let yourself get used in this way. As long as you are having fun and not getting hurt it's OK but take care of yourself and your emotional well being first.

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  RHP User

  9 years ago

  Hi, actually I have a beautiful friend (girl) who is a lesbian and since my partner and I really like her, I hope soon she turns bi all of a sudden. Also For the first 40 years of my life, I was a Lesbian, so I may have shocked a few friends when I found a perfect match for me and his amazing:)))) and I am bi:)) also in the past have been out with my straight friends and some have decided they may be gay, so I have helped them explore that idea and see if they were.:)). Actually my partner and I seem to do that a lot together now too:)) - Posted from rhpmobile

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