M50
Whats your rate ?
August 16 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
with the girls...if it is a date from here or other places...its 100%! Isn't it for all females? I just took that as a given!! Not that I have given it out at all times...for me if it's not there it's just not going to happen at all!! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
if i want him i get him 100% ohhh nooo sorry one i didnt get...seems love was found before i got on the plane 99% roxxy ....:-(
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm 50/50 some days i just honestly dont want to. i almost never go out with the intentions of sex. If i dont feel a connection in person then the sex just sucks. So if i meet and no connection so no sex I'm not fussed because i had no plans to doing anything anyway.
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RHP User
15 years ago
For me personally, with women its about 30% sometimes the attraction just doesn't carry over in real life....If that connection isn't there i generally am not interested in anything more than a chat and a coffee, and some women don't resemble there pics either! Like Brae i have done my fair share of pulling the pin on the exercise because it just didn't feel right, even thoough the women wanted it go the distance.For me with guys its close to 100% For us as a couple i would say its more like 70%hehehe...... Just goes to show the fussiness factor varies according to what type of scene your playing in. Well for me/us anyway!Cheers Nev
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RHP User
15 years ago
My conversion rate meeting:sex ratio is about 20:1 Many of the ladies I meet are with the intention of friendship rather than sex and anything else is a case of "suck it and see".
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ours would be pretty high, say 80% as we don't date that often and are usually pretty sure we want who we're meeting but there's always those times when the sparks aren't there and we're left to entertain each other, which isn't too bad either.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Ruggedly_Rugged'My conversion rate meeting:sex ratio is about 20:1 Many of the ladies I meet are with the intention of friendship rather than sex and anything else is a case of "suck it and see". I will be first in line to "suck it and see" xFunlovingx Happy that I beat Roxy and Co to that line....hehehehehe
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RHP User
15 years ago
Too easy...100% conversion, not strike ratio. If we have agreed to meet casually, we do...so call that 100%. If we have agreed to meet to play...we do, so call that 100%. Now then, how I choose to "swing weight" the ratio of these meetings in entirely up to me...no disappointments and no regrets. I haven't kept track but would guess the ratio is about 75% toward the latter of the two...so you can do the math. Boundaries are only limited by imagination and agreement...right? | I have even met someone just to go for a walk in the park. Call that 100% too.
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RHP User
15 years ago
If I were to publicly tell what my conversion rate was, it would not really be all that nice to hear... I mean how are all the other guys going to handle me having a 200% conversion rate Brae???? They're going to lynch me like crazy... I mean come on dude... I can't be honest now can I... :-) In all seriousness though, regardless of the conversion rate, I think it's all about the leadup to the date itself. I think that it's the connection that exists before the date that helps determine to a large part how successful it will be and if it will be leading to play or a 2nd date etc. I think that if you are interested enough in a lady to spend some time getting to know her via MSN, email, phone calls before you meet that it's a fair sign that you are on the same wavelength. Here's hoping your mojo comes back real soon mate... Wayne hugs n xx to Miss Sarah ;-)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Now for all out there my man Wayne is the coolest cat in Sydney ! This chap can woooooooooooooo the fairer sex ! He is my inspiration ! Not only is he COMPLETELY dicreet ! he is a a charmer to boot ! I am sure his rate would be ....... Thankyou as well..... feel my Mojo sneaking in ....... any one out there want to help me find it ? Brae ..the impressed !
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Quoting 'Ruggedly_Rugged'My conversion rate meeting:sex ratio is about 20:1 Many of the ladies I meet are with the intention of friendship rather than sex and anything else is a case of "suck it and see". I will be first in line to "suck it and see" xFunlovingx Happy that I beat Roxy and Co to that line....hehehehehe DOH!!!!! how the hell did i miss that one hehehe roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'niceguy0068' If I were to publicly tell what my conversion rate was, it would not really be all that nice to hear... I mean how are all the other guys going to handle me having a 200% conversion rate Brae???? They're going to lynch me like crazy... I mean come on dude... I can't be honest now can I... :-) In all seriousness though, regardless of the conversion rate, I think it's all about the leadup to the date itself. I think that it's the connection that exists before the date that helps determine to a large part how successful it will be and if it will be leading to play or a 2nd date etc. I think that if you are interested enough in a lady to spend some time getting to know her via MSN, email, phone calls before you meet that it's a fair sign that you are on the same wavelength. Here's hoping your mojo comes back real soon mate... Wayne hugs n xx to Miss Sarah ;-) that only works though if both parties are completely open and honest with each other something some men dont understand roxxy
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Letsgetcrazy09
15 years ago
Um $300 and hour $1200 the whole nightROFPMSLLets
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Letsgetcrazy09'Um $300 and hour $1200 the whole nightROFPMSLLets Nick...you've changed your name??? Lmfao hahaha Bet he is spewing he didn't get that line in first on this post...It's on most others...hahahahaha xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Is that in U.S Dollars Lets. Cheers Nev
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RHP User
15 years ago
If we looked at total views over 12 mths and number of place it would have to be .001%
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Quoting 'Ruggedly_Rugged'My conversion rate meeting:sex ratio is about 20:1 Many of the ladies I meet are with the intention of friendship rather than sex and anything else is a case of "suck it and see". I will be first in line to "suck it and see" xFunlovingx Happy that I beat Roxy and Co to that line....hehehehehe Quoting 'Letsgetcrazy09'Um $300 and hour $1200 the whole nightROFPMSLLets I seriously needed a laugh tonight guys...thankyou...You two crack me up.. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi everyone What an interesting forum topic! It's quite enlightening reading the differing viewpoints. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and it's great to have these forums as it gives one an opportunity to 'step outside one's own paradigm' and see the world from a different perspective. I am VERY discerning as to with whom I have sex - any aspect of it, from just a gentle mouths-closed kiss to indicate affection and appreciation to a full-on home- or hotel room-wrecking mutual hammering which takes AGES to clean up. (You can see why I enjoy meeting potential lovers in top-end hotel rooms; I don't have to clean my house. I am VERY respectful of the wonderful people who work as house staff in said hotels; I don't treat them as second-class citizens who are there to wipe up after me as if I were the Queen of Bloody Sheba. I'm not. I'm simply a guest enjoying the facilities provided. (I place in the bin all the expensive wine bottles and the condoms wrapped in many layers of tissue paper and sanitary bags so hotel staff don't have to deal with evidence of bodily fluids, place used towels in the shower recess tidily and restore the knocked-over night lamp to the bench. I also pull up the bed linen and open the curtains to let the light in so they don't walk into a cavern of carnality. I am very happy to perform these small courtesies to hotel staff because I believe firmly in 'Treat others as you would have them treat you'. BUT back to the topic of my rate ...) Of the men from RHP whom I have met in the past 2.5 years, I would say I have slept with fewer than 20% of them. I agree with alll contributors who say the sexual chemistry must be present from Moment 1 for any kind of sexual activity to occur. Chemistry dictates compatibility and connection, in my humble opinion. I CANNOT have any kind of sex with anyone whom I do not value first as a human being; I need to feel affection and friendliness towards them and need to feel they feel the same for me in return. Respect - leading to mutual pleasure - is a two-way street. The energy needs to flow in a cybernetic loop. It may appear as if I have not performed my due diligence and spent enough time researching the potential for good or great sex before I have met men from RHP in this time. This is not the case. I spend a great deal of time getting to know many facets of the character, circumstances, history and hopes of my potential partner(s). No, I do not conduct formal interviews requiring candidates to submit a CV of sexual experience and then ask them to fill in a questionnaire so I can determine the likelihood of a 'match'!! I hate endless emails back-n'-forth; it's easy to get this information from people by speaking with them in a calm and friendly manner on the telephone. IF the phone call(s) go(es) well, I like to exchange facial and full-body photos so we can each mutually 'select'. Time is SO precious there is no point wasting it with people who do not make one feel aroused by the sound of their voice, what they say, how they say it and how they look. Good communication is the key to determining the probability of 'scoring' (if that's the word you use to yourself to describe experiencing a sexual encounter). SO. If I am so careful and perform my due diligence so conscientiously, how come my conversion rate from meeting to f**k is so low? Simple. You can - I have - do(ne) ALL that hard work, prepare for the meeting by grooming oneself well and presenting as physically attractive as possible, show up at the appointed time at the agreed place and find that deliciously ephemeral and elusive quality of sexual chemistry - that glorious feeling of the blood leaving your head and rushing to your groin, leaving you light-headed - just isn't there. Full stop. BIG bummer if you take that attitude or an opportunity to enjoy yourself anyway having a pleasant conversation, a glass (or four, in my particular case!) of wine, a few ciggies (also in my particular case) and maybe make a true friend for life or just have a nice time which adds quality to your life for a few hours. Either is fine with me. Sexual chemistry is utterly inexplicable. Why is it a roaring, head-spinning, panties-soaking, mouth-drying, pulse leaping at your throat and wrist, heart-exciting 'BOOOOOOM' in the first second's glance with one person and a 'Oh, hi, nice to meet you in person finally; how are you?' phenomenon with another? Scientists are doing LOTS of research to answer that question for us in more detail. The answer lies in the inescapable fact that our brains are wired in certain ways to discern sexual chemistry at a biological and physiological level and reject anyone who does not possess it for our particular brain. Unless, of course, you are not discriminating at all and are happy to f**k anyone who comes along on the grounds they have a cock or pussy and that will do you. Everyone has a perfect right to do this if it feels good for them; each to their own, without judgement; we are all wired differently in terms of personality. I simply cannot do that; it is antithetical to my whole Being. So, although I have met some very nice guys from RHP - and some right swines, as well, but that's another forum topic - if those physical symptoms do not blast me outta my head the moment I meet a man in person for the very first time (or shortly thereafter), I can't do it. Yes, it has been disappointing to me and also to the man to go to all that effort and find Major Factor X, which we both anticipated with great excitement beforehand would be present, was missing for no discernible reason. However, with mutual goodwill, we have made the best of it and enjoyed each other's company, fully-clothed and physically separate, for the pleasant experience we could work together to create. "Suck it and see" is a really commonsense, robust attitude expressed by some contributors to this forum. Sorry this post, which I intended to be brief, has turned into War and Peace!!! Maybe I should have just said 'Suck it and see' and then shut up!! Good luck, everyone, in your search for someone who has Major Factor X and does it for you. I have been happy with the 20% of men from RHP with whom I have enjoyed soft, loving, leisurely encounters ... and one truly spectacular hard f**k which made me ache for days; I had bruises all over me (FABULOUS!!). Mind you, he did, too!! Well, I'm off now to answer my mail and get in touch with the men who have written to me in the past coupla days who make my groin ache and hope more of the above happens for me (and them, too, of course). Keep your fingers crossed for me they are what I'm looking for so I can raise my rate to 100%. Lol ... PS: Brae, best wishes to you your mojo returns. Maybe you just need to take some 'time out' and stop looking and just wait for your natural internal rhythm to assert itself in its own time? PPS: What does "ROFPMSL" mean?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Geeeezarse Double D...I just measured that post on my screen and it's longer than....most of mine! Almost needed a "wiki" too...but not quite. | Besides, the batteries run out fast on those "wikis".
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RHP User
15 years ago
Magic Mr Midnight, do you come with batteries included? Or do I need to buy some specially?
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RHP User
15 years ago
PS: Mr Midnight, if I was measuring something, it would NOT be the length of a post on a screen!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Batteries...no way, Double D. I prefer an ecologically sustainable model that is enviromentally friendly...and eventually, biodregradable. You mght think about a "wiki" that is solar powered, what with you living there in Queensland? | By the way...what's a wiki?
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