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Whats with women and their body image?
April 23 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
are sadly of the minority and they are just going on what they've been told or shown is the 'ideal' size'my ideal size is the where I'm comfortable that my boobs still stick out further than my belly, I can still do a few yeehars cowgirl style, and all my clothes still fit......fuck the scales I say !!!!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'D_G_T' are sadly of the minority and they are just going on what they've been told or shown is the 'ideal' size'my ideal size is the where I'm comfortable that my boobs still stick out further than my belly, I can still do a few yeehars cowgirl style, and all my clothes still fit......fuck the scales I say !!!!! I would rather be the scales on the floor
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'll pay that
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RHP User
14 years ago
Some say thin or average but are large, it is where the person feels comfortable and what they believe them selves to be in those cases. Then you have the others that go of what others say Then there is the misconception and understanding of the term in it's self. Another site I am on was chatting to a lady who said in her profile well built, (my perception of well built is around the cuddly area maybe little larger) How ever she had the normal cat walk type figure as in slim/slender, and her interpretation of the well built was totally different to mine. So depends on culture or understanding of the said word, maybe this could be the issue you find Take D_G_T above, if the picture is her ( I have no doubt it is) you would say slim, but sure is cuddly unsure if she is the type that would like to be cuddled though. Maybe I go take a peek at her profile (again) see what she says she is, if I’m not blocked already Just a bit of a different avenue!
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RHP User
14 years ago
The tragedy of women is, usually when we are young and gorgeous we dont know that we are....it's not until we are older and look back at those photos of ourselves and realize....most women will always find something about their shape,hair,skin,height, to criticise and wish it was different. In western culture we prefer tanned skin,soak in the sun,use tanning products.My friends in Bali buy skin whitening products because a fair skin is preferred.Cosmetic companies make fortunes out of our insecurities ,so does the diet industry and yet many people in the world are starving.Go figure.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Yes it's funny the impressions we give off.......Heedless I am simply just choosy about who I cuddle, i love a cuddle as much as the next person. Though I am the type to cuddle, I may just not be looking for one right now.I can assure you that pic above was taken at the start of this year, and as I dont find crap food as interesting as some may, I havent changed since .I consider myself to be maybe the slimmer side of average, but I have curves not bones, and I have muscle tone too.I've also had my 3 children but will never use that as an excuse....if I start to feel squishy in places it's purely because Ive been a lazy cow and haven't exercised and have overindulged.If this comes off as harsh, you know what? I really couldnt care less, I'm sick and tired of being made to feel 'less' of a woman for not having more curves like the bigger girls.....reading all the comments on here also relating it to the likes of a dog bone, that is plain fucking nasty I refuse to be made to feel like shit because someone has a fatter arse than me and wants to drag my personal image down to where THEY feel comfortable with it!! That crap is not on
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RHP User
14 years ago
down and out for the day now.
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RHP User
14 years ago
How I see myself is not how you see me at all and how you see yourself is not the person I am looking at.
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Tart_Du_Jour
14 years ago
Come back! I was just going to give you a good old boobie squish. I will wait patiently for your return.
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RHP User
14 years ago
thank god women have 'body issues', if it means they care enough to take care of themselves...how can that be anything other than a good thing? my wifes had 3 kids, breast fed all of them, but sees things she doesnt like.....so sets out to fix them...thru diet and exercise and by caring about her health....... works for her, and no doubt. many others here as well..............
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RHP User
14 years ago
....you may want to have a read of it Heedlesshorseman
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Heedlesshorseman' Some say thin or average but are large, it is where the person feels comfortable and what they believe them selves to be in those cases. Then you have the others that go of what others say Then there is the misconception and understanding of the term in it's self. Another site I am on was chatting to a lady who said in her profile well built, (my perception of well built is around the cuddly area maybe little larger) How ever she had the normal cat walk type figure as in slim/slender, and her interpretation of the well built was totally different to mine. So depends on culture or understanding of the said word, maybe this could be the issue you find Take D_G_T above, if the picture is her ( I have no doubt it is) you would say slim, but sure is cuddly unsure if she is the type that would like to be cuddled though. Maybe I go take a peek at her profile (again) see what she says she is, if I’m not blocked already Just a bit of a different avenue! Quoting 'D_G_T' Yes it's funny the impressions we give off.......Heedless I am simply just choosy about who I cuddle, i love a cuddle as much as the next person. Though I am the type to cuddle, I may just not be looking for one right now.I can assure you that pic above was taken at the start of this year, and as I dont find crap food as interesting as some may, I havent changed since .I consider myself to be maybe the slimmer side of average, but I have curves not bones, and I have muscle tone too.I've also had my 3 children but will never use that as an excuse....if I start to feel squishy in places it's purely because Ive been a lazy cow and haven't exercised and have overindulged.If this comes off as harsh, you know what? I really couldnt care less, I'm sick and tired of being made to feel 'less' of a woman for not having more curves like the bigger girls.....reading all the comments on here also relating it to the likes of a dog bone, that is plain fucking nasty I refuse to be made to feel like shit because someone has a fatter arse than me and wants to drag my personal image down to where THEY feel comfortable with it!! That crap is not on I was not meaning any thing against you, in the least, more of complementing you; I have read before you have 3 children, I to have had three and you look far better than this Fried Egg, for sure. The only reference really was the cuddle that again I did not mean to upset you by, you seem in your posts to be a very strong lady and direct, though also quick, funny and whity, that was the only reason I was unsure if your one who would like warm full cuddles (strength and direction). At no point did I say you did or did not like them only unsure. Nor was I meaning anything direct by it. I will have to take far more thought in my words of choice on here, at least till I get to know some personalities a little more. If I offended you I am sorry, I actually admire your thoughts and posts as I do many others on here. I shall take that frying pan of my butt, give my self a bashing!! If you let me know your nearest post office I shall send you a nice bottle of wine to show my sorrow. No not sucking up at all, explaining and expressing my apologies and I don’t mind paying for a wrong doing, if that is the way it was seen, but I a sure you it was not meant in such context G
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Heedlesshorseman' Some say thin or average but are large, it is where the person feels comfortable and what they believe them selves to be in those cases. Then you have the others that go of what others say Then there is the misconception and understanding of the term in it's self. Another site I am on was chatting to a lady who said in her profile well built, (my perception of well built is around the cuddly area maybe little larger) How ever she had the normal cat walk type figure as in slim/slender, and her interpretation of the well built was totally different to mine. So depends on culture or understanding of the said word, maybe this could be the issue you find Take D_G_T above, if the picture is her ( I have no doubt it is) you would say slim , but sure is cuddly (as in wanting to cuddle you, thinking you look great and have nice curves or i would not have said this) unsure if she is the type that would like to be cuddled though. (suppose here my thoughts should be mine not expressed, even more so on a public domane or to insinuate any thing)Maybe I go take a peek at her profile (again) see what she says she is, if I’m not blocked already Just a bit of a different avenue! Point taken Ruby, suppose i am of different culture, and back ground one of the reasons i some times go on far to much so that i am not miss understood by my choice of words or what is meant behind themI shall look up that post as i feel pretty shit when a complement was ment but read in the wrong way or understood the wrong direction.I sharnt post again till i find it and read it, if i can find it and you dont mind i may ask for direction how to find itAgain i apologies to all concerned even more so to D_G_T
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RHP User
14 years ago
Was just a book suggestion
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RHP User
14 years ago
I shall find it read it digest it, thankyouJust got back to page 115 searching, thanks for informing meI shall be quiet on here till found and readI am, believe it or not very sensitive if and when i feel i have upset a womanto this end dont have a nice feeling inside at allSo i shall close of till i am at ease with itThx again Ruby
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RHP User
14 years ago
I recently changed mine to 'see photo' because it's open to interpretation. I being the pedant that I am deemed average to be overweight as that is the 'average' in Australia. I am not thin or slim or athletic (yet lol) so I picked a little extra padding as to me 'little' means a small amount and I found it the most befitting description as I do have some cushioning and curves. Thing is others in the real world and not in my alternate universe read the options in an ascending order of smallest to largest- I did not hahaha- so after a couple of questions about it I changed it to.... make your own mind up- like it or leave it :)Cass xxx I agree with Mike dissatisfaction is the impetus for change and betterment :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I must be missing something,I have read through what Heedless said a number of times and the only thing that could have been misinterpreted was his comment that D_G_T would not want a cuddle and I assume he meant from him. Could find no mention of dogbones. Mike I assume you have heard of eating disorders,
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Hesione' I must be missing something,I have read through what Heedless said a number of times and the only thing that could have been misinterpreted was his comment that D_G_T would not want a cuddle and I assume he meant from him. Could find no mention of dogbones. Mike I assume you have heard of eating disorders, absolutely.... i'd be ignorant if i said otherwise..... but i wasnt going there, as there was no need. was sharing how it is in our household.... we see something we don't like (Shel more than me) and we fix it... by altering eating habits, or doing a bit more exercise, or by setting off an a 3k walk every day for a month.... many here do similar....why? because they arent happy with what they see in a mirror, and like us, respond accordingly.... was actually putting a 'positive' spin on things............ 'body image' issues can be constructive....and drive people to attain fitness and good health, when they may not have had the drive under other circumstances........Shels 50, mother to 3 (plus my 2) and grandmother to 4, shes fit and healthy because she doesnt like what she sees when shes being lazy and thoughtless.... i reckon thats a great way to be...........
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel'thank god women have 'body issues', if it means they care enough to take care of themselves...how can that be anything other than a good thing? my wifes had 3 kids, breast fed all of them, but sees things she doesnt like.....so sets out to fix them...thru diet and exercise and by caring about her health....... works for her, and no doubt. many others here as well.............. and surgery??? Hugs
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RHP User
14 years ago
What is average? Probably fair to say that most average people, certainly older ones anyway, are just a touch cuddly. There are some of us couples that actually prefer other couples who are just that! There are also those who look for the athletic, slim or body beautiful types. Each to their own but we love cuddly/
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RHP User
14 years ago
Is there nothing here that is sacred? Turns out we cant believe a profile's age, body shape, penis size, marital status or that the pictures are genuine or recent.On the internet nobody knows you're a dog. But at some point you may want to meet people and then the extra legs and fur will give it away for sure.Woof,Mr C
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RHP User
14 years ago
Previous threads along these lines have descended into nasty a fat chicks vs skinny chicks slanging match.Not sure if it was the heedlesshorseman but I suspect an old wound may be open.If it's going that way again can we try jelly wrestling for the title instead?
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RHP User
14 years ago
l look fabulous
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RHP User
14 years ago
to some degree, I mean who doesn't care about how they look.(except the poor wretches that bury themselves in their vices cause they have issues) We're human and guilty of the same traits. Those gorgeous girls you live with that don't have body perception issues?? In a perfect world we'd have no issues, but don't kid yourself norty, how we look is an issue....we're humans and vainity is most prevalent in us then any other species of animals. Test it out and tell one of the gorgeous girls they're not as hot as what they looked a few years back....I dare ya! (stand back and duck and weave)
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RHP User
14 years ago
... wanted to jump through my screen and give you a big hug (u too headless). I just hate to see anyone upset. You have a lovely figure D (and don't listen to anyone who says otherwise - they are probably jealous). And to the Op: it's all relative. I think generally women can be really hard on themselves (I know I'm guilty of that one). It is a topic capable of stirring a great deal of emotion. Us girls are delicate creatures but don't worry we bounce back pretty quickly. KK xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
...and still uncertain as to what in the world you are talking about, so perhaps you could elaborate?| Quoting 'nortyfun2day' And before anyone get on their soapbox I live in a house with several women and the body perception thing is not an issue they are all bloody gorgeous.|So being the cynical bastard that I am (and having glanced at your profile) it might be best to explain who all these women are that have perfectly aligned body images? |Then really, what's the point of your question...are you saying that women tend to be overly-critical of themselves here in this venue, broadly in a grander scope or that you have a certain type of woman outside of that bevy of beauties that you live with that you prefer?|Realistically, there is not a single person that lives up to every expectation of another...we all have our flaws and in fact those are often the things that I personally find the most attractive in any individual is that they are just that, very individual and not flawed at all. Women, and in particular those who have brought new life into this world...their body is a canvas, mother nature is a master and touches her body with a delicate stroke that tells the story of her life. What I look for when I use only my eyes to see are the things that define character.|If all you see is the body image, good luck...you have dug a very shallow grave and may you rest in peace upon your demise which may be sooner than you think living in a houseful of women who pride themselves as perfection, just don't look in their mirror.|Your pallbearers no doubt....will be beauties one and all.
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RHP User
14 years ago
From my point of view, in a specific RHP context ... My profile says average. Some men message me and say I'm gorgeous, hot, definitely not average, I need to change my profile etc. Others, lovely blokes they are, are kind enough to send me unsolicited comments about my saggy boobs and even that, and I quote, "you're a big unit aren't you". Flattery is lovely of course but mostly I don't take too much notice of what is said about me. I work at trying to cultivate a realistic self-perception. I think part of the mismatch between body rating on here vs pics might be down to clever photography. My photos are definitely flattering - because it makes me feel good. The hint is in the body weight listed in my profile. If I was contemplating meeting a man I'd make sure he saw more realistic pics of me before we went ahead. In fact I'd probably make them a little unflattering so that he got a bit of a nice surprise with reality. So I completely agree women's body image can be a mine field of emotion and warped perception. But I also think RHP creates an artificial situation for women to describe themselves and for others to judge. Or maybe it's just me :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Thanks to Adobe Photoshop working in close collaboration with clothing companies like Victoria's Secret, what is constantly drilled into women's heads is that the women in those pin ups, magazines and catalogues are classed as 'slim', where in fact if you've seen any of the un-photoshopped photos of the models, they're scarily thin and all that the photoshop has done is to paint some skin colour over the ghostly frame of their rib cages and protruding hip bones. As human beings, we are never happy with what we have, and trying to achieve that 'perfect' body is an incredibly elusive concept. Having worked briefly in the fitness industry and being an avid gym attendee, I'm all too familiar with women that have the most beautiful bodies proclaim that they wanted more defined abs, slimmer thighs, and more toned arms. Enough is just never enough. What many women see in the mirror is a figment of their imagination - a larger, imperfect version of themselves. More than once I've looked at myself in the mirror and thought that I looked like I had put on some weight, or felt that I had, only to discover that I actually had to bring in a notch on my belt for my work slacks that morning. Taking off the belt and looping it together, it surprised me that I had actually lost weight, when I personally felt that I may have gained some. Human beings are funny things.
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RHP User
14 years ago
So don't feel too bad.Mr Chic was correct, it's a bit of a history lesson around these parts .I am very supportive of my friends who do have body issues and are most definately overweight (Im talking real life here as in outside rhp) I am also the first to point out their positive attributes as soon as they start on themselves, I remind them of how 'I' see them and why they are my friends. What they don't realise is that when they then scoff at me if I mention I'm going to need to work on a certain part of my body that (Im not even talking flabby here) Im talking loss of muscle tone, needs more work....is that they insult me by doing so. Where on earth does it say that someone who is slim and wants to improve themselves through a healthy way...has no feelings? This is the part that get's my arse hairs up (no I dont have them) .There seems to be a misconception that because you are thin , this should mean you have nothing to worry aboutUmmm hello!!! I have the same day to day troubles and things to deal with as the next person..As a perfect example on page one of this thread, someone mentioned they prefer the cuddly ones , yet still found the need to throw in the dig of 'body beautifuls' .......guess what ? I dig cuddly chicks to, I love a nice juicy ass to grab.But ...and here's the important bit......I won't feel the need to have a dig at them because they aren't the same as me, or because Im unhappy with some other part of my life, and want them to feel just as shit as I do.I'll grab their sexy ass because they are a sassy, sexy, confident , and beautiful woman , nothing more nothing less..So Heedless you can stop feeling bad now......I might be skinny to some, but Im big on the inside , and I always !!! love cuddles Especially if you've just made me cum and given me jelly legs
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RHP User
14 years ago
Nearly spat my wine out over your " big unit" comment Seriously mistaken, some men are so weird with what they think is hot. Body image is a woman's curse , media, society, upbringing, and men. All men know the most cutting words to say to women to " put them in their place" Age fixes it all - turn 40 you lose the fuck you gave what you look like naked;) Freeing is an understatement - take me as I am
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'DeliciousCplBris' Nearly spat my wine out over your " big unit" comment Seriously mistaken, some men are so weird with what they think is hot. Body image is a woman's curse , media, society, upbringing, and men. All men know the most cutting words to say to women to " put them in their place" Age fixes it all - turn 40 you lose the fuck you gave what you look like naked;) Freeing is an understatement - take me as I am And exactly who wouldn't take you as you are??? come on seriously you look UNREAL!!! I mean you make any 20 Y/o chick go red with jealousy, afterall... is easy to look good at 20 not so easy to look 25 at 40!!! ;pD_G_T... same goes out to you hun!! ;)
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RHP User
14 years ago
a valuble lesson young man. It is a foolish man who talks about body shape preferences round these here parts.You will be guaranteed to put some noses out of joint, and there is nothing more sacred than the sisterhood.Man size bashing however is considered a sport.There is something appealing about all women....Felonius....plays his cards close to his chest.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Thanks D_G_T for clearing my mind of what how why, and fully understand your points made and accept them Nor did I know of any previous post where some thing along these lines created such issues, I wish there was a way to search them all or put under more headers to make it easy to browse, one would maybe read through the previous ones more or search them a little. My bad The only way I can give you jelly legs is if in a standing position but I may go all flimsy and jelly like too, also a bit bouncy like a bouncy castle, so only hope its not looking over the edge of a building unless a railing in front. Or to be more precise more like disco legs from the break dance era Or if you accept the botte of wine for me being so unthoughtful in my post at not looking or thinking it can be taken the way it was. Cue at the post office was too big to stand and ask if what I wanted to do was possible, though asked the bottle shop if credit could be put forward and they would need to speak to the manager. Unsure about your local bottle shop but where there is a will there is a way. Again I apologise for any hurt feelings any where within any one who uses this forum or read the post, they truly was not meant that way at all. To this end hopefully we can all move on from here in a forward upward motion
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Heedlesshorseman' The only reference really was the cuddle that again I did not mean to upset you by, you seem in your posts to be a very strong lady and direct, though also quick, funny and whity, that was the only reason I was unsure if your one who would like warm full cuddles (strength and direction). At no point did I say you did or did not like them only unsure. Nor was I meaning anything direct by it. I will have to take far more thought in my words of choice on here, at least till I get to know some personalities a little more. Sorry to single you out Heedless... but what the? A woman is strong and direct, so therefore you are not sure if she likes cuddles? I won't go on because I don't want to give you a complex but that is crap. Makes me wonder how people perceive me then... I am outspoken, and outrageous at times and don't take things seriously... so what does that say about me?
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RHP User
14 years ago
You are too sweet DGT! You have an awesome body and don't let anyone tell you different. And as you say... sexy is an attitude! Now I have seen lots of your pics... and that naughty look in your eyes and that smirk just say it all.Woo hoo! Who wouldn't want you! I am cuddly... well my doctor would just call me overweight. I think society's perceptions of what is a healthy weight have become distorted as mentioned above. In both directions, fat or skinny. xxMeeks
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100' Quoting 'Heedlesshorseman' The only reference really was the cuddle that again I did not mean to upset you by, you seem in your posts to be a very strong lady and direct, though also quick, funny and whity, that was the only reason I was unsure if your one who would like warm full cuddles (strength and direction). At no point did I say you did or did not like them only unsure. Nor was I meaning anything direct by it. I will have to take far more thought in my words of choice on here, at least till I get to know some personalities a little more. Sorry to single you out Heedless... but what the? A woman is strong and direct, so therefore you are not sure if she likes cuddles? I won't go on because I don't want to give you a complex but that is crap. Makes me wonder how people perceive me then... I am outspoken, and outrageous at times and don't take things seriously... so what does that say about me? Meeka, You are right, though explaining my choice of words, or should I say trying too, I seem to burry my self deeper and deeper into a hole I surely do not want to be in, and definitely don’t want the nails in the lid, so I have to decline on an explanation to them. I can pm you if you wish I am fully aware I have said the wrong things without a full explanation or my post would turn into a small book Then leaves more error for more slander that in many eyes I do so deserve, I have no issues with the comments each and every one has to make against me, I probably deserve a banning. I may be a strong man, and strong willed and strongly built though I was mainly brought up under my mother and two sisters, wether it is that or a real soft spot I have no idea but believe me I turn to putty if I upset a woman no matter from what walks of life she comes it digs me more than any one. Nor would I go out my way to dig at a woman, even if she upsets me. That is just me as a person and as a man. Be it a week or feminine type after this saga, it is still me. Yes I feel the knife very deep and very hurtful within me, but I said the words, I posted them so I fully accept responsibility for them no matter the inner pain I feel or I have caused any one. I have also apologised to the person and to every one who sees the thread, if they too feel an unjust in my words. If there was a way to make good, I would. If you feel there is any thing to offer to make better of this situation I am open to it. No matter what any one else says about me or my choice of words or the context in what they came across in, they was not meant in the way so many think. I don’t mind you having a go at me for it, though I wont answer any more on this thread, nothing worse that putting salt in any ones wounds, I don’t mind mine being buried in salt it was I that put words to paper before thinking of any misinterpretation so I deserve all I get. If any one requires an answer to any thing I have said, all I ask is not to block me and I will explain in a PM, if you feel my answer should be made known then you may interpret it in this thread. Though I can not and will not answer on this thread any more, please don’t take me wrong I do not mean that nastily but I don’t want it dragging on for all concerned. In turn giving it an open for any one else to carry it on even further. I believe from others that a thread of this nature got very very nasty an I do not want to be the cause of another I have no issues with what any one says about me, it is your right and your choice nor will I hold a grudge or judge you for it. This is typed calmly, slowly and explanatory not with anger , meanness or malice in any way, shape or form so please do not take it that way.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'roxxyrose' Quoting 'mikeandshel'thank god women have 'body issues', if it means they care enough to take care of themselves...how can that be anything other than a good thing? my wifes had 3 kids, breast fed all of them, but sees things she doesnt like.....so sets out to fix them...thru diet and exercise and by caring about her health....... works for her, and no doubt. many others here as well.............. and surgery??? Hugs because she had a little 'boob job'? most of the pics in our profile actually predate the surgery....which was her50th birthday present from me...late last year, even though i maintain she didn't need it in the first place...... i get a Harley for my 50th....so i guess i'll be as pleased as she has been.... oh and guys....i reccomend you get your gal a boob job if shes asking...the rewards are many, and frequent...lol... Shels actually been a gym patron since her teens, and was a competitive water skier and body sculptor for many years....shes carried the fitness and tone since we first met back in 1975.... and her best mate is the same...except shes a brunette.......
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RHP User
14 years ago
Please I don't want to be burned at the stake, I just don't understand how the OP was being offensive at all... I read the topic as being about how there are so many gorgeous women on here, who don't realise it. I also took the point of view about his 'gorgeous women' house mates as being gorgeous in his eyes... as this is how he views most women, that we are all gorgeous in our own way and to get over it. That being said, there is a huge problem in our society with the media perception of what is gorgeous... someone already touched on airbrushing etc, and yes it is to prey on our insecurities to sell us all sorts of crap which can't do what it says. While we are on this subject I want to put something to you all...I am struggling at the moment with someone who has contacted me, and is persistent. I look at him as being 'out of my league'. Can't bring myself to meet him, am highly attracted to him, would love to do all manner of dirty things to him. Yes they are my pics, and I have had alot of compliments about them... but I'm still unsure. I kick myself every other day and try to urge myself to go there. He's seen my pics, obviously he likes them, that is me, But simply can't. Does this mean I have body issues? I don't know... Anyway, I just want to finish up with saying, there are so many gorgeous women on here, you are all looking bloody fantastic. Some of you are a little older than me, and I can only hope that I will look that good.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I don't think Meeka meant for you to feel that you were being deliberately mean or malicious, public perception or the reflection of our posts on our persona has been a delicate subject of late. Meeks anyone in their right mind can see that you are a gentle and funloving soul , with a touch of hot spicy Italian feistiness that only comes out very rarely and is kinda Hawt when it does ..Heedless I actually can see (upon reflection) how you might come to the conclusion that I'm not into the soft fluffy side of life, I certainly dont hold it against you either, Im a big girl and I will own my posting style and how it may skew perception of me as a person. I can be and often am , flippant, lippy, cheeky, and more about laughs than tears.........but most posters who have been here for the time I have, wouldve seen a glimpse here and there of me sans armour and I think it's enough for them to know when to roll their eyes at my efforts to be hard ass ( or is that total ass) lol..Like you I can't stand to think I've upset someone due to something Ive said, and Im pretty sure I've dug myself deeper holes before too, in trying to get my reasoning across. So don't go censoring your posting style as it will only prevent the 'real you' coming through your words (which I might add are bloody long, almost as long as my profile )As Keeping Karma said, us girls bounce back pretty quick.Take the positives as they happen..........this thread is the perfect example of how discussions can and do give you an insight to a person you may never have had the chance to see otherwise.You're alright
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RHP User
14 years ago
... a lovely example of two beautiful people xx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'keepingkarma' ... a lovely example of two beautiful people xx I'll take that hug now thanks KK ..Saskia tell me 3 things you LOVE about your body....it doesn't have to be size related, it can be a double jointed finger, or how your boobs look in your favourite bra lol .......look for them, enjoy them, remind yourself of them often and only concentrate on them. Perhaps one or two of them are probably what your interested friends sees that you don't.And it's only because we stop looking for the good in ourselves and start searching for anything bad lol.Though it sounds a little more of a confidence thing than a body issue thing that is holding back from the next step possibly?.Mine are 1. I love my shoulders, they are straight and square and I often receive comments on my collar bones as well.2. I Love my legs.......I never actually realised I had good legs until I was asked to do this same thing.3. I love how my bum wiggles when I walk it makes me feel like a girly girl and it also makes my ponytail swish from side to side pmsl.
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RHP User
14 years ago
DGT. You are right I do need to focus on my good areas. You are just gorgeous chicky, but I do know where you are coming from with the whole curves thing. I'm always wishing for more too. I guess what we all have to remember is that everyone is beautiful in someones eyes... its difficult to do , but if we perhaps remind ourselves that there are men on here who will go out of their way to say 'No fat chicks' on their profile, and then there are those who say we slimmer ladies look like a bag of bones... I guess there really is someone out there for everyone! Oh and then there are those guys who say they are not overly fussed with body shape / size, as long as they have a good personality as all women are beautiful... how enlightened... or are they just desperate? Hmmm
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RHP User
14 years ago
my tits are bigger than your's
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' my tits are bigger than your's everyone's are *sits here and gives her empty pencil cases a hoik up just in case anyone is looking*
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RHP User
14 years ago
pumping them up from the nipple.......that's right isn't itI must I must I must increase my bust Seems wrong to me that the less boobs I have , the more expensive my damn bras get
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RHP User
14 years ago
could use the pussy pump.... it just seems wrong they are just so damn expensive regardless of boobage size.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' could use the pussy pump.... it just seems wrong they are just so damn expensive regardless of boobage size. It sounds great in theory..........are you going to come with me to emergency when I have to explain what the hell I have stuck to my tit?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Nope.....your on own with that one but.. ill be at the back with the Doctor
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RHP User
14 years ago
i meant you're.......fuck now im gonna have grammer police on to me...............see you at the hospital lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
my lefty is about to pop please dont let him be one of those 'gives oral for hours' types
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RHP User
14 years ago
good god NO. They are so boring in my book.......I'll clarify though, his an intern so i could be a while on the rest Fun Fact #1 Inspirit don't like long long pussy lickers
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'DeliciousCplBris' Nearly spat my wine out over your " big unit" comment Seriously mistaken, some men are so weird with what they think is hot. Body image is a woman's curse , media, society, upbringing, and men. All men know the most cutting words to say to women to " put them in their place" Age fixes it all - turn 40 you lose the fuck you gave what you look like naked;) Freeing is an understatement - take me as I am
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'DeliciousCplBris' Nearly spat my wine out over your " big unit" comment Seriously mistaken, some men are so weird with what they think is hot. Body image is a woman's curse , media, society, upbringing, and men. All men know the most cutting words to say to women to " put them in their place" Age fixes it all - turn 40 you lose the fuck you gave what you look like naked;) Freeing is an understatement - take me as I amWhat I was trying to say was ....If there was a Facebook "like" for this statement I would have hit it :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'D_G_T' Quoting 'inspirit' could use the pussy pump.... it just seems wrong they are just so damn expensive regardless of boobage size. It sounds great in theory..........are you going to come with me to emergency when I have to explain what the hell I have stuck to my tit? please please please let me come to the hospital with you....that would be hilarious and i do love a good giggle Hugs
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'roxxyrose' Quoting 'D_G_T' Quoting 'inspirit' could use the pussy pump.... it just seems wrong they are just so damn expensive regardless of boobage size. It sounds great in theory..........are you going to come with me to emergency when I have to explain what the hell I have stuck to my tit? please please please let me come to the hospital with you....that would be hilarious and i do love a good giggle Hugs Let's snap a banana off in my arse while we're at it.........we can make a night of it I've never been into humiliation before, but meh I'll give it a whirl for the sake of your giggles !!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' my tits are bigger than your's You reckon?
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RHP User
14 years ago
No need to get mellow dramatic.....this a discussion. No? You made a comment that you are not sure if strong & direct women like cuddles. There is no need to apologise for that, it is merely your observation. And I can say that I don't like it... doesn't mean I am saying anything against you or your are wrong or that you are a bad person or that I was slandering you!! Please don't ever feel bad on my account... truly it would be a wasted emotion on your part, because I couldn't give a rat's arse! I don't mean that in a bad way so please don't go on..., please. xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
saskia you are beautiful and your body whoosh
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hey saskia you wouldn't believe the physical attraction I have for you I need to be your toy are you feeling the same
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RHP User
14 years ago
All you need saskia is some confidence about yourself coz damn girl you are fine you'll find that I can give that back to you I wouldn't want to change a thing about your body and looks are a1
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