Whats with all the questions????

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  ‘Ladies and Gentlemen’, how gracious of you Maxy I think this thread being put up by a single guy is just priceless!!! Sorry M, but it is sorta nice to know that it isn’t just the single females that get the ‘hoar/slut’ stigma for having a healthy appetite for sex! I thought guys were meant to take a Polaroid and proudly stick it up on the wall with a no.xxx on it, or whittle a notch into their bedpost or sumfin?! Lol! (Kidding................. girls should totally be doing that too!! ) You shaved 4 or 5 girls from RHP!!! I haven’t got to shave anyone yet NO FAIR!!! ‘When did you last have sex?’ who the hell are these people? I am a nosy ask EVERYTHING bugger, but even that question to me is just plain strange? Maxxy you know the answer to this, everyone has their own version of 'right' some peoples 'right' just don't make much sense to the rest of us. For this female, being on dating/meet up site is fine, talking to a single guy is fine, he has seen 4 or 5 girls in x months, not fine, only comfortable with a guy that sees no more than 3 people annually – my comfort zone for respect or some shit (!), had sex on the weekend, again not fine, because he hasn't had time to get to the doctor for a full swap, blood test for everything test, not enough time inbetween people?! Or maybe it was none of that and it just was a line because she turned chicken on the whole RHP meeting someone idea, or had PMS, broke a nail, likes to be random and horrible to people after leading them on....etc blah you'll never know and off a website not surprising really, is it? People aren't necessarily who they say, or say what they mean blah blah etc And I reckon in some cases it wouldn't even be intentional, i am sure people from the comfort of their home wanna do this that NOW NOW, but push to shove it is a BIG FREAK OUT, and then say anything to get out of it!! I haven't done that of course... (I just say that i am CHICKEN and start to cluck to lighten the mood of the bad news and then segway into the chicken dance, and then tell a y did the chicken cross the road joke... eases the tension for me anyway?) 'insert chicken dancing emoticon here' P.S. U better have that 2nd story up soon b4 chilli and i get violent on your ass, we don't care that you are a slut. It means more spicy stories for us!!!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Are looking for more than just sex and a good time maybe. You are obvioulsy just a slut. Imagine hooking up for the weekend and then trying to chat up someone midweek. MY GOD! Dont you have any decency? Ha ha haaaa Maybe the girl in question thought that you would have sex with her and then two or three days later be talking about it to someone else...or worse...looking for someone else to fuck. It kinda makes her feel as if she is not gonna be good enough for you. I ask the question about how many have they met from on line but I really dont care when the last time they had sex was. All these women rave on about total honesty and all that crap and when a guy is totally honest they can not handle it.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  You little slut you (God I love it)...honey you know the way to answer these questions are to turn it around on them ... either say you dont think that should matter (hell as far as she knows you could have hired someone to satisfy your needs) or get them to answer the question first - if its good enough to ask its good enough to answer...then you can either be truthful or filter your answer to best suit the person...some people really cant handle the truth . Kisses Focus

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  if a guy is experienced *smirk*in meeting women offline. Cos if he`s going to be all `I`ve never done this before...`, i`d rather pass. It`s like the how many ppl have you slept with question... I honestly don`t remember. But I can give you a ballpark figure. And that`s probably going to either a) intimidate ppl b) put ppl off or c) make ppl say `congratulations. i don`t give a toss`... Ppl tell fibs, so there`s no point asking relevant stuff ie `Do you always use condoms? Have you ever had unprotected anal sex? Is your housekeeper blowing you?` straight off the bat. And then there`s the whole `Don`t ask the question if there`s an answer you don`t want to hear` thing... As Fionabee said, tho, I think it`s more insecurity. They`ve found someone they think might be a catch, if there`s any competition, they won`t get treated like the princess they truly are...

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Someone recently asked me a load of very personal questions and as always, I just ignored them. About a week passed and I got that "world's colliding" flirt reply. I mean, how rude... hahaha. Next. :pHugsStalky

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  how many people from here I've shagged, and when was the last time I had sex. And it's not the first time I've been asked! Although I suspect thats more about sussing out if I'm a time waster.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  C'mon Maxy. If you get tackled with all those questions, think of it as a warning sign.. unless you want the headfuck that will go along with them... NEXT... . No offence, but I really don't understand people who complain about 'What is it about women/men on here that......' Are they saying 'oh I've found the ideal fuck-buddy/FWB/NSA married partner, until they opened their mouth'. If you can ignore the fact they have some form of agenda being behind those questions and you're just looking for a root, then play their game and try to get the answers right. I'd prefer to just have a wank and wait for someone that clicks. It's less messy - all you need is some tissues.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I actually applaude the women who ask lots of questions. . It actually takes guts to ask those intimate questions, because the woman knows that she may have to say 'cya' even though she is very attracted to you. Many women of course don't ask the questions and end up crying at the end because "he wasn't up front" with her. . If you don't ask, you can't know the answer. But assumptions based on information such as assuming that you are a player, are another thing and really just showcase the narrow mindedness of that person. However, ya gotta ask yourself though, why did that comment sting?

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  Bubbaj

  15 years ago

  it wasnt on a dating site that those questions were asked.... if i answered those questions, im usually said goodbye to becoz im the opposite i love asking those questions here becoz im curious....although i would also probably ask them in the middle of sex too!

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