M52 F51
What's the go????
February 12 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
im with you, i always reply although now i dont reply to the "i think your hot, what do you think of me" flirt because i just figger its someone going through the hot or what pics and is just liking the boobies hahaha but for mail i always reply even to the dumbest of dumb messages lol as for blocking you...what a cow if i was you id be thankful...people like that just arent nice people at all and now you dont have the hassle of her so "NEXT" roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi guys, It is possible that the girl just changed her mind and was too embarrased to face u again .... ...but i would put money on it that you were never speaking to a girl but that the profile could have been a guy. We are starting to realize this happens quiet a bit. We contacted a 20yr old girl and got a reply from apparently from her boyfriend who told us she is no longer single and she will not meet anyone alone but they are happy to meet as a couple. So I asked for a photo of him and he didnt have one but would show us on cam!! The bells started to ring. So i the woman asked him if they only played together or if they played solo and he replied with both. GOTCH YA!!! I thought he said she would not play as a single. So I did block him not for any other reason than i might forget in the future he was a shonk and I might talk to him again. The more people we talk to the more we realize how common it is. They ruin it for the rest of us genuine couples. We know u guys and ur cool so just keep seeking the nice people on this great site. xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well, I am old school too and last night I was stood up, yeah sure he messaged me about 9.30pm saying hey - what are you up to? I told him not to bother ... and then I come on to find a nice message from him saying enjoy my single life, like I have offended him... I don't get it, I am not angry as such but I am certainly not going to bother with that guy again. I think people should be reasonable, after all we are all here to have some fun and if they can't make it or are too shy or scared surely a text or message would be the thoughtful thing.... Ladyalways....
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RHP User
15 years ago
No show AND block. that's like double pussying-out.
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erotictouch4u
15 years ago
To organise a meet and not show could be forgiven as things happen to change the best made plans, but to block you without an explaination or chance to find out is rude. How much planning and conversation took place before the meet ? I had one member ask me for an explaination why I contacted them when I did not EXACTLY fit their requirements and then block me before I had the chance to explain. Just as rude in my opinion. ET x x x
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RHP User
15 years ago
Wow that sucks n blows at the same time and not in a good way, very sorry to hear that people are like that. We are only new to this site but we always log in and answer all messages and flirts even if it not someone that fits what we want and not turning up without a call or anything is just sooooooooo wrong and not good enuf at all. Sorry to hear there is people like that out there
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tank__girl
15 years ago
In the ask the Girls bit, Re. Getting 'Stood up'. Yup! It seems no show then go 'the block' is the norm with these people. That's 'just' what happened to me too, when I 'was' stood up by a female off here... And as I've already said "GUTLESS"!! And again, I say we name and SHAME!! Grrrrr...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thanks for your comments guys. Nice to see that there are real people on the site.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yeah, the no show wasn't really a concern, we understand things can come up but getting blocked??? CRAZY.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Unfortunately "shit happens" woops!! Who said that lawl!!! MrnMrsVI, they are not worthy of you, there are plenty of fish in the sea... I think there should be a RHP list of feedback for certain RHP abusers, like a reference list of feedback where you can add undesirables like you have experienced, like a reference check kindathingy! Hell we all don't want to be stuffed about. It's just wrong..I feel for you. xxx
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john60
15 years ago
You being the female , it surprises me you got stood up. It was prolly a guy just picture shopping.
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RHP User
15 years ago
and internet 'dating'. thankfully so far we haven't had any 'no shows' we have been ignored, blocked,uninvited,canceled on and we have lost count of the number of messages that have not been replied to.BUT we have also met some wonderful, genuine,lovely,sexy fun people on here who make it all worth while and we have come to not take it personally and treat each new meet as a new experience taking it for what it is and how it comes. We are not going to be everyone's cup of tea just as not everyone is ours and if they don't have the common decency to reply to us then we are not missing anything because they are not the type of people we are looking for anyway.It has been said before but i will say it again, just because this is a dating/sex site should not mean that common manners are out the door but sadly that is the case with some people we choose to avoid those people and treat others as we would like to be treated and spend our time with those who think/act the same way.I am thinking you dodged a bullet with this one and as the forum favs say 'NEXT!!!'Mrs GC
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JessicaRabbit
15 years ago
I've been cancelled on a few times, and while I understand that things get in the way (sometimes even at very late notice), it still sucks but the truth of the matter is that some people just don't have enough common decency to say that they may have changed their mind and are no longer interested or that they're just stringing you along for an ego boost. It does work with everyone though - not just single females who are unreliable, although we do have a bad rep. For this reason I don't organise to meet someone unless I genuinely plan on turning up, and the only reason I have done a no-show (after informing them as soon as I could) was when something actually came up. The only times that I have been cancelled on have been by single males. Dida xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
welcome to 'adult' play ........ the no show is pretty normal.....you may find that the 'she' was a 'he' and it was never going to happen.........the ratio of wankers to real people here is pretty high, so get used to it. our policy has become 'yea yea whatever' until they actually show..........
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