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What's the deal maker for you?
July 13 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
C'mon girls hurry up and post some replies, i need new ideas for new material lol x
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RHP User
16 years ago
A Deal maker for me, is someone with an attracting profile... one that stands out from the rest! I want someone that keeps me on my toes and wanting more, some one i can have a sexy convo on the phone with. I dont want a guy who warms up to me too quickly, i like a little challenge. My deal maker guy is someone that leads an eventful exciting life, great sense of humour and goes crazy in bed!
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RHP User
16 years ago
If thought is put into their profile, with wit, clarity and honesty. Of course, not meaning to be shallow here, but the profil picture matters as well. If that's lacking, maybe they're shy (like we are), seeing as what a small place Perth is.. Nevertheless, you can kinda tell how people are by their writing. And theres no point getting with someone regardless of how hot they are, if theres no naughty playful banter to begin the night! ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
whats stand out in a male profile to me well one not his dick as the main photo (pass) A male profile that gives an insight to who they as a person they way the talk about them selves they way they write I hate with a passion guys who write to u and call u babe and what they want to do to u in their first message i can hear the toilet flushing as their message goes down the highway no where lol If guys/girls want to get further and get to know to know the opposite sex a bit better try manners and been polite its been working through mankind since jesus was a dot in his dads dick lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Good and polite conversation should always be a must Be an open the door kind of guy for the Ladies Remind your lady just how Beautiful she is Also at the right moment spank her Naughty Ass when she Needs it or Wants it How is that thought pattern Ladies r
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RHP User
16 years ago
1. the picture (if there's one) - a well thought out casual composition that says something about the person 2. the profile - well written, insightful, show's some personality, no excessive use of the words/phrases 'fun', 'easy going' or 'good times'. 3. the message - shows obvious signs they've read my profile.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sounds like a deal maker to me Cravinxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Minx, We are new to the site, but I (he) love reading the forum and I see you have some regular input, all articulate and insightfull. Ok, now I have given you a big head...lol. I would suggest that in my experiance (male perspective) most women have a great bullshit radar and can spot a bullshit artist from 5km.So from my perspective, what I have found to be the deal maker for most women I have known is honesty!!! A person who lies is always caught out....or maybe that is just my age talking.
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RHP User
16 years ago
It's in his eyes as well as his smile.... the profile pics are their opening line. Then if their message is coherent, and not completely boggled with typos, then they have my attention (although I'm not looking for a man at the moment, lol.... this still gets my attention regardless). ;-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
All Ladies are Beautiful it's just the degree of Beauty that changes Yes in the eyes and the smile Attidute is a big part and control of emotions their is a right time for both Just like the Old saying Their is a Fine Line between Pleasure and Pain Thankyou charliemaree Deal
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RHP User
16 years ago
is someone with respect and humour! plus lets face it, someone im attracted to physically but mentally as well! n guys no txt tlkin! i f*&%in h8te it! :)
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wantingfun08
16 years ago
Respect for the other person is always a must. I agree that beauty comes in many different forms.Charliemaree whats ur main thing in a guy?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ahhh Tool.... you are my perfect woman ( of your generation) hehe xx (bring back the TEXT)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Cravinxxx has got it right, girls love a bad boy who is a gentleman. Cheeky, fun but still polite and respectful. The deal maker in a guys profile is showing that they have more in their lives than trolling sex sites for a quick fuck. Guys who dont complete their profile get a quick flick through, if they leave out any details, to me thats because they feel (and probably are) inadequate in that area or are deliberately hiding those details... still a red flag. Any "Ask Me" is a red flag. A guy who's completely open and straight forward, tells it like it is, no matter what that story is, is a winner. That doesnt mean Im going to have sex with the guy, it just means I like his profile, and.. if everything else fits I'd like to know more about him. A profile that doesnt include all the vitals is a waste of time. No-one likes endless messages back and forth to extract the details they could have included up front. A profile without a pic, and it doesnt have to be your face, but "a" body pic, shows what kind of shape your in, so theres no nasty surprises if you do eventually meet. A face pic with EYES and not a pair of sunnies in your PG is a winner.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Was reading these comments and thought what about the guys (not defending you guys here...haha) who have fantastic personalities but lack computer skills or who could even be dyslexic? It's very easy to get behind a computer screen and have a different persona to who you truly are and sometimes it is very hard to portray that personality in words (unless of course your a poet and you don't know it) like me!!!! haha. Honestly, what captures my attention is a nice butt, nice smile, hunky torso (initially) but must have the personality to back that up - which can be hard....a few shallow people out there. :o)
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RHP User
16 years ago
I like the ones that dont give a f _ _ kCant stand needy, desparate, suck ups
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RHP User
16 years ago
We try to be fairly open with others profiles as there are different reasons why people may keep their profiles short or attack it in different ways (I once rewrote our profile after being taken for a ride by an annoying member and after a few glasses of wine - not my best effort). Same goes for photos - some are shy or want to preserve their anonymity. It's all good.This is how we tackle it:- If we see a profile we like but are unsure whether we're their cup of tea we might shoot off an inquisitive wink- If we seem to match we might shoot off a short message, again to see if there is initial interest - this brings me to another point - other posts have asked about what should be in a message and everyone wants that perfect message that tells them all - ffs who has the time on something so impersonal as the web. We'd much rather get to know someone face to face so we can take in their body language, there scent, there demeanor.- After a few messages you can usually tell if you might gel with the person/sThe deal maker: when we look knowingly into their eyes then into each others and we all know it's going to be a fun night!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I don't do cold calling, I hardly ever read my messages at all, well only to scan for the peeps I know. I don't think it is a way of getting a true sense of the person. I'm often in here and in chat, and that provides more insight into who the person is. They have to be respectful, witty, show some intelligence, and can carry a decent conversation. Oh a little cheeky helps too hehe. Tis the way I have met up with people on here, not through messages. Good luck fellas. xxMiss Honeyxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
i learnt the hard way with you and it was i didnt have a pic of myself so i have one now so if u want msg me and i will send it
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RHP User
16 years ago
Can anyone shed some light on this, I don't think I can pull it off, lol.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Manners.....and mutual appeal! lil cheeky.. pics..mutual appeal..similar interests..prepared to be a friend...mutual appeal.respect...have same interests sexually( I get sick if guys who have 1 on 1 or FFM...When I like MMF or MMF bi) ..these are NOT same interests..... And not live 200kms away.... oohh...and mutual appeal.. huggies sweetpetite41xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
If a guy has me interested,it's because he has READ my profile LOL.... and he has TIME for me. Sometimes it's a bit of a wait to meet - kids, commitments blah blah blah...but it's that time between the initial attraction and flirty chat and the actual meeting that will either make or break the interest. It doesn't take much to keep my interest - a message, an sms, a phone call....not 20 times a day (who's got time for that!!...that just gets a bit creepy eewww)...but yeah, it's nice to know that the person I find interesting is waiting to meet meet me. I just trust the process...it all declares itself in the end
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think I might make a few changes to my profile. I'm new to this scene and after seeing what others have got and the general consensus of this thread it seems my profile is lacking. I knew I needed to add more but I'm still not quite sure how to word it so it stands out, but without coming off like I'm full of myself.
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RHP User
16 years ago
OneBrightStar....!!!....You are a just as your name say hun!... Time..... kisses sweeetpetite41 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx PS....I had a guy yesterday..short but nice message...good pics and profile..so I messaged him back...Then he wanted to know when I am in next in Perth....HUH....Derrrrrrr me.....why would I be so silly to think he read my profile and wanted to possibly come down this way during the summer......*shakes head and sighs*
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Fellow Forum poster's Great to see some common issues bought out into the open! I totally support all that has been written thus far. Definate deal breaker for me is someone who is presumptious and obviously has not taken the time to read my profile. Whilst I enjoy sensual activities ( & more with whom mutual interests are present) I am definately not here to please, tease and be a cheaper option for a rub and tug!!!! Ho Ho Ho (no pun intended..lol)
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RHP User
16 years ago
tigress505 makes a valid point about the dyslexic, which could also apply to stutterers and the chronically myopic. But then started thinking about the many phobias that plague our lives.. The total mood killer is Heterophobia, a fear of the opposite sex, which can be accompanied by Androphobia, women who fear men, or Caligynephobia, people who fear beautiful women. There are so many ways to be dysfunctional… Lalophobia a fear of speaking, Deipnophobia a fear of dinner conversation, Philemaphobia a fear of kissing, Erotophobia a fear of sexual questions, Dishabiliophobia a fear of undressing in front of someone, followed by Gymnophobia or Nudophobia a fear of nudity, Medorthophobia fearing an erect penis, particularly when accompanied with Megalophobia a fear of large things, Aphenphosmphobia sufferers will fear being touched, Clinophobia a fear of going to bed, Kolpophobia a fear of genitals, Coitophobia a fear of sexual intercourse, Hedonophobia a fear of feeling pleasure, not to forget Pteronophobia a fear of being tickled by feathers. On a frivolous note… What about profile pictures that have been Photoshopped? Does that mean that short guys can keeps a lady on her toes Aren't all good salesmen liars? Unless the product can sell itself. Sweaty armpits… does that mean I'm hot? Bad Boys with manners seems an oxymoron. Is the fine line between GENTLEMAN and a BAD BOY called Schizophrenia?
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RHP User
16 years ago
My previous post should read... Does that mean that TALL guys can keeps a lady on her toes ?
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RHP User
16 years ago
I like the last two lines of your first reply.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well, this is my first post here on RHP!! Deal Makers for me are: Humour - a man that can make me laugh is always a bonus An interesting profile - one that shows he has taken time to put information specifically about him - not one of those stock standard ones - they are a BIG turn off!! A pic.... Im not shallow, but there has to be some kind of physical attraction? You dont have to necessarilly have to be drop dead gorgous, but there has to be something. Being a local - close to me as I dont drive!! Thats a start lol THEN when we meet, thats another story!!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well, this is my first post here on RHP!! And the second time I have tried to do this lol For me, I'll seriously think about you if: You have a photo - Im not shallow, but there has to be some physical attraction. I have to be able to tell you have spent time on your profile - I hate those stock standard ones If I can see a sense of humour, thats is a huge bonus. I have to admit, in the past I have been VERY sexually orientated, but lately, a man who can make me laugh is becoming a lot more important. Sex is great, but companionship and conversation before and after, make it soooo much better!! Play Safe xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
deff must hav a sense of humor!! ... I also tend to like strange and unexpected msgs that catch my attention .. dont liek straight out msgs asking for sex!! big turn off
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thank you for putting the topic up it has been wonderful, knowing what would be a good insight on what you ladies would like, and would and would not respond too. I will be changing a few things in my profile, thanks to the post. cheers Pete.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Bemybabynow said For me, I'll seriously think about you if:You have a photo - Im not shallow, but there has to be some physical attraction.Yet she has no picture! C'mon whats good for the Goose is good for the Gander. Cheers Nev
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