Whats so bad about 50?

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  sweetgem

  12 years ago

  It is not yours or anyone's fault that you fall outside other members' preferred age range. There's nothing bad about 50s, it's simply people's preference, that's all. Like yourself, everyone has a right to choose who they want to meet and play with :-) For me, I rarely go for any man who is older than 40 years old, because I have met too many men from online (not just RHP, but other websites too) who have lied about their real age! So, if I met someone who claimed to be 40, then he would pretty much be at least 42, some were even 45! Therefore, if I put down 45 as the cut off age, then I would be guaranteed to meet a 50 (or older) year old in reality, and I have uncles who are in their 50s! Hence, you can imagine how unattractive the thought (not the person, don't get me wrong) of meeting someone so much older than me :-( - Posted from rhpmobile

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  rupamohan

  12 years ago

  Try to say what best you can offer. This needs to be right at the top of your profile. Try to state only conditions/ rules that are really important to you. Shorten your profile you can always add more to it at messaging stage. Good Luck!!! Rupa(f) We don't discriminate but understand ageing will start changing physical appearance after 40 and it starts getting tougher to have good match. Some will be able to compensate with other skills but not all. We have met some very sensual mature age couples with good massage skills. We don't have parent or kid age phobia. Have played with members half of our age to 60.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Well my dear,you are nearly half my age:-) :-) xx Q

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  There's an age difference between us as well, and though we can't say how many couples that has prevented from coming across our profile, I'm sure there are a fair few. We will at times contact couples whose age requirements suggest either I'm too old or Mr Tryst is too young. They can judge us by our photos then if they like. But people want what they want, we don't take it personally. Good luck! x T&S

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Hi guys, we're in the same boat, but never let it affect us. When we first ventured into the lifestyle we found our age gap did have its limitations slightly, as the majority of the couples we met at the clubs and through the online sites only wanted to play with the sexy wife. Well, the sexy wife ended up putting it straight with any prospective play friends, "We come as a couple, we play as one, take it or leave it." We've found that It's usually the female of a couple who dominates the decisions wether to play with the "older guy" but expects that her man is included, even though he's no prize bull himself, but hey he's 40 not 50 so that gives him a meal ticket. We've also found that you get a better mix attending the private house parties, as this way, even if there is an age difference you are meeting people face to face, not as a profile that someone can just dismiss due to the criteria not being what they desire.. We all have our age requirements, but too many nice people get overlooked due to being 1 or 2 years older.. Enjoy your journey guys!

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Its just not fair is it op.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  You get to chat with 99 yo's, now they have something to complain about, not us young middle agers. We've noticed profiles of 40/50 where they seek max of 40yo ,,, wonder how that works for them

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  It appears that your cut off age is 55. Would you be willing to meet up with a couple where the male is 60 if the female is 48 (same ratio as you)? The REAL question is: is your partner willing to meet up with a male that is 60? Because it is usually the females who have the final say don't they? If age isn't an issue for you, as it appears you say, why not contact couples where the female is at least your age or older than you? After all, you say you find it quite annoying that some people close themselves off to the possibilities that slightly older people can bring.....so if you practice what you preach, wouldn't there be heaps of couples older than you that would be happy to meet up with you both?

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Greying hair, wrinkles, expanding waist line, high blood pressure, rising cholesterol, sleep apnoea, degenerative conditions caused by numerous injuries throughout the years and the constant bad breath resulting from all the medications to treat much of this. For myself, these days, during sex, I often wish that it wasn't me there.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  For us we have a rough guideline of 10 yr in each direction. Lol But even that is just a guideline. Many people don't look their age and this usually comes down to how well they look after themselves. Mrs Madmanx can pass for mid 20's quite easily and we have come across some couples that have proven to be damn hot dispute their higher numbers. It's funny, I would even say we have found it much harder to find interested couples since cracking the 30 barrier....

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Personally, below 35 is my cut off age, the older man, the perfect touch, they know how to treat a girl are intelligent, verbal etc etc. Well at least the ones I'm acquainted with..... My favourite 'friend' is 54 and he has more stamina than some 40 year olds.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Yes have to agree , I get the same sort of thing , I think I still look pretty good , but some comment are nasty and some reply from teenagers are stupid etc , but your profile is just fine

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