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What's a small gesture that you appreciate?

August 16 2018

So I read a series of tweets where someone asked what small gesture does your partner do that you appreciate. Specifically small in nature, but you appreciate it, to you it's a nice thing to do. Doesn't necessarily mean sexual, just simple little things you like that they do. A few things I've done that's been appreciated in the past is when I used to work late I'd always cook and make my previous partners meals so they don't have to when they got me from work. During winter Jumping into a cold bed I'd warm it up for them first. Opening doors etc. It can be anything, this isn't just for partnered people it could be for FWB.

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RHP User

7 years ago

In the shower recently as I sobbed for a bit... So many small loving moments that I thank him for every day, including going to work. Driving through peak hour, he does that for us. Peachy

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RHP User

7 years ago

Swallowing 🤣 - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

He does so many things for me. Sending me sweet messages and phone calls when he's away for work. Cooking for me. Hugs and kisses. Taking me away for romantic weekends and short breaks. And most importantly allowing me to be truly myself and grow sexually. 😊😊😊😍😍😍💚💚💚 - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

...beside my car when I was changing a flat tire and offered to help? Thank you for the best BJ I’ve had in years! ⚡️ - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

One of my exes loved to pore over my body in search of blackheads, then squeeze them when she found them. She had the lightest touch while she was looking for them, not so much when she found them. It was a mix of mostly pleasure with the odd bit of pain. In exchange I would give her Dutch Ovens. A nice little arrangement really.

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blondes6365

7 years ago

Have to say where hubby keeps house going in and out he is the main cooker and gardner keeps everything on a level ground

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dianet

7 years ago

a kiss out of the blueor reaches out to hold hands

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On_Safari

7 years ago

Yes he has a foot fetish the upside of which he likes buying shoes for me- the other BONUS is every night my feet are pampered (blissful sigh) it’s soooo nice and in return he likes having his back stroked both exchanges are PRICELESS!! ~ Indy

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RHP User

7 years ago

At the Dutch oven 😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

A nice text how beautiful you are My favourite chocolate stash replenished Just doing washing and stuff makes my life easier. - Posted from rhpmobile

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boobsandbusted

7 years ago

face creams and moisturiser to help slow the wrinkles ,and keep mr beautiful ,lol, i’m sure if it was in the budget she would be sending me for a hair transplant ,but knows a lost cause when she sees it , 😂😂😂 mr b - Posted from rhpmobile

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EarthQueen

7 years ago

He brought me a coffee in bed in the morning without me asking. - Posted from rhpmobile

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MsSuperFoxy

7 years ago

Had a discussion with a lover about how penguins search for a pebble for females and mate for life. Low and behold, next visit they gave me (beautifully gift wrapped) a DVD of Happy Feet. I thought that was thoughtful and sweet. Ms Foxy

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RHP User

7 years ago

Between breakfast in bed on occasion, buying my favourite chocolates whilst out supermarket shopping, sending me texts throughout the day telling me he's thinking about me, household chores while I'm out for the day, kissing and cuddling. There is a lot more I could add but really love the feeling of being loved, in love and desired 💕 - Posted from rhpmobile

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BrightBubbly

7 years ago

He moved out !!! - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

Small gestures mean the biggest things to me. Things that show they take the time to care or listen. Thoughtful gestures mean so much more than a material gift. I love a coffee made for me in the morning, and remembered how I take it. Booking a favourite restaurant or food you’ve mentioned Turning up with a bottle of wine and nibbles A text during the day to say they were thinking of you A massage if they noticed your back sore Sadly, these are far and few between, maybe why I appreciate and enjoy doing them for my man as well. - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

7 years ago

Once a solid platform is created ... some of my favs are .....to do 1. Booking a nice restaurant.. 2. Picking a wildflower as u stroll down to the beach ... 3. Morning coffee and croissants 🥐 in bed .. 4. Giving massages & playing with your girls hair whilst chilling on the couch on a movie night .. It's the little priceless ( non materialistic) things that go a long way ..

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RHP User

7 years ago

I would come home from a gig late, and by the time I lugged the gear in from the car, peeled off what I had been wearing, took off the heels & face paint, I'd be spent. Finding that little gesture of thoughtfulness meant that was thinking of me right before he climbed into bed, I found that very special. Another time (more recently) a former lover helped me blow wave my hair when I was getting ready go out for a family dinner but was not feeling well. Small acts of intimate kindness like thst that are diamonds. . - Posted from rhpmobile

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