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What you are seeking? and do you follow through

November 16 2009

Just wondering if people on here are just after "fun only" or are after "relationship"?Just a little curious from the messages I have recieved from members here.Thanks Millie

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    lol i asked this question yesterday and had a very solid casual response... i am starting to wonder if guys hide behind the ionly wanting casual thing so they dont get hurt too... just like us girlies do

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    ... we'd be friends with benefits. But hey, we're generally looking for friends. If we have chemistry and wind up playing, that's a bonus.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Which includes a chat while we are having that fun.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    We think you have to develope a fun only type of mentality, but open for friendship if everyone finds they have other  intersts in common. From our research those searching for that special couple and go down that track, Swinging is short lived and normally results in problems. We belive it can be done but really depends on the couples involved, also bearing in mind swinging is about fun and variety, we are not saying every weekend but when the mood takes you there ...for us the ideal would be every 4 to 12 weeks, but twice in one week has also happened. Cheers

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I am on this site seeking fun - an ongoing no strings affair of sorts but with someone whose company I enjoy (not a wombat). I am not looking for a relationship. But each to their own I agree though many are probably hoping subconsciously perhaps for something more.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    at the end of the day I think we r all on here looking 4 a good time however i think in general most single people would be open to something more if the right person came along...this is a great site to get straight to the point. everyone wants to have great sex but i guess sometimes u meet the kind of person u want to have great sex with all the time or someone u dont want to share...for me the fun is in the exploration until that one comes along x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Fun, fun, fun was what I joined for Millie - I responded to a question that was similar to yours and got weird responses that just made me very confussed!   Just so you know Millie - I am DEFFINITELY on RPH for fun  - I can't even spell relashion..relateeron...relationship (there you go)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    You took the words right out of my mouth...lol   I am here to explore and hopefully the right guy will come along where he is experimental...Saying this though I have seen a few DBL standatds ( guys won't take a woman who is on a sex site as a serious partner)... Somedays I am left wondering if I should get of this site....But...I would miss my friends to banter with on MSN and forums..lol..   sweetpetite41 <<<< sighs and thinks of summer nights at a beach...And all the other fun I wish to have..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Thanks all that replied.I will admit that I put on my profile "wanting relationship eventualy" only because at 1st it was what I thought I wanted and since then have changed my mind, and also to stop randoms contacting me acting like a freak.You should always have fun in your life and I was tied down for a long time and I think I need to spread my wings a bit 1st.Cheers Millie

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    meeting new friends is always good...   meeting friends with benefits is even better   xxxpandaxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    A FWB is great when you can find one... Most here seem to be tyre Kickers   Not all  just a few... Anyone free tomorrow morning ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    well I am seeking a lady whome I can hopefully worship and be comftable with on manny levils.