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What to wear to a swingers club???
June 13 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hey guys hope you enjoy the swinging scene as much as we do, well that all depends on what club you go to.We dont know anything about the clubs in perth but the ones in sydney are all different, but as far as im aware when you go to some you just go in your normal clothes and change when you want to play. But the club we go to in surry hills you go there and they provide you with things to change into females get a sarong if that how you spell it and the men get a tiny little dreesing gown kind of thing so i hope that helps you guys, if not find out what one you want to go to and then ring them and ask them what they provide then you will know what you will be wearing, cheers
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RHP User
15 years ago
check out the sensual ball website and see what type of outfits. most cpl clubs have theme nights so go dressed up but with a sexy version and it'll add to the fun lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well you are going out to a PARTY!!! not a backyard bbq, so dress as you would when you head out clubbing or to somewhere special! NO THONGS, NO SWEATSHIRTS NO TRACKY DAX, HELL JUST THINK ABOUT WHAT TAKES YOUR EYE WHEN ONE OF THE OPPOSITE SEX OR EVEN THE SAME SEX TAKES YOUR EYE AND TELL YOUR PARTNER, Not hard afterall is it, remember dress to impress! if you look all daggy and your partner doesnt lift his eyesbrows when you say your ready, go get changed into something slinkier, you dont have to be all tits and arse you know, sexy sensual and flirty is the go, head up shoulders back, boobs out an sashay baby sashay walkin the walk, be confident that you look good. Hope this helps
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RHP User
15 years ago
I would wear what makes me look smart and sexy? accent my good features. Some people will dress up in their hottest gear, other look like they just "got off the couch" (see other thread) ;) depends what sort of fish you are trying lure...lol Bernie
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RHP User
15 years ago
For a first time lady going a swingers club I would suggest you dress in something that makes you feel sexy yet comfortable. I would also suggest that you wear sexy underwear and if possible sexy layers, so that you can remove as you feel comfortable. Sexy heels help too. For a man, clean tidy undies, nice dress pants and a button up shirt. When we first went to a swingers club, we emailed the owners to find out more info on what to wear and that was really helpful. Have fun!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I googled what to wear swinging and came across RHP! So you are not alone.Sexycountrycpl have got it spot on... Layering is so the way to go... so if you DO decide to get in on the action you don't necessarily have to get completely naked. My first swingers club nite was a theme night, a greek toga night... so that made it alot easier. Other than that if you think along the lines of if you were heading to the city for a night out and then decided to go to the adult club... you would be perfectly dressed. Even the famous "little black dress" the staple of any womens wardrobe would be most suitable. You are given a locker so you can take something extra sexy to change into once you get there (if you want to).When I go, I started out just wearing classy dresses or mini skirts and heels. Now that its winter I rock up in my sexy lingerie or chemises under my coat and just slip my coat off and stash it into my locker and Im ready to party.Just a sidenote... I've been to clubs (or some nights), where there hasnt been much action goin on... but its still very sexy and social environment. You certainly DONT have to play if you dont want to, and if you chose to just play with your partner.. others should not join in uninvited, and you can tell them so. A polite NO. But be warned if you do play, you will get an audience hehe! The thing to remember with saying no, you should only have to say it once without giving a reason. You should also do it politely as it may be the other persons first swing experience and he may be nervous as all hell approaching someone anyway! A nice decline rather than nasty is not going to wreck his or hers first experience in swinging!Have fun! I love clubs, I meet my friends that I've met on here, there and I feel safe, its like a nightclub, they have a spa, its BYO and you are hardly likely to get "Glassed"Anna xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
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RHP User
15 years ago
Please explain? Lol, to whom were you "really a-ing" too
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RHP User
15 years ago
The first Swingers party we went to, I asked the host what we should wear..She said - Dress like you are going out clubbing. I wore a corset and a high waisted skirt, and the MR wore jeans and a nice tee... Infact, a girlfriend came along with us, and she wore a sexy black top and jeans with heels... So, I gathered - as long as you felt sexy, and looked respectable, then it was all good! (MRS)
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RHP User
15 years ago
LIKE ! Quoting 'foreverlove7985' The first Swingers party we went to, I asked the host what we should wear..She said - Dress like you are going out clubbing. I wore a corset and a high waisted skirt, and the MR wore jeans and a nice tee... Infact, a girlfriend came along with us, and she wore a sexy black top and jeans with heels... So, I gathered - as long as you felt sexy, and looked respectable, then it was all good! (MRS) Just leave your Ugg boots at home NO matter how sexy you feel in them !Brae ............
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'looking2try3'LIKE ! Quoting 'foreverlove7985' The first Swingers party we went to, I asked the host what we should wear..She said - Dress like you are going out clubbing. I wore a corset and a high waisted skirt, and the MR wore jeans and a nice tee... Infact, a girlfriend came along with us, and she wore a sexy black top and jeans with heels... So, I gathered - as long as you felt sexy, and looked respectable, then it was all good! (MRS) Just leave your Ugg boots at home NO matter how sexy you feel in them !Brae ............ unless its a Skanky hoe party
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'looking2try3'LIKE ! Quoting 'foreverlove7985' The first Swingers party we went to, I asked the host what we should wear..She said - Dress like you are going out clubbing. I wore a corset and a high waisted skirt, and the MR wore jeans and a nice tee... Infact, a girlfriend came along with us, and she wore a sexy black top and jeans with heels... So, I gathered - as long as you felt sexy, and looked respectable, then it was all good! (MRS) Just leave your Ugg boots at home NO matter how sexy you feel in them !Brae ............ Jeezus, who on earth feels sexy in uggies?!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have to tell you never wear jeans! How could anyone think they are sexy? My first time at a new club I found some women wearing everyday clothes which were only fit for in the house and yes ...jeans..they sat at the bar all night while their men were in fucking the women like me who at least tried to look sexy.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'WIFE2BSHARED'I have to tell you never wear jeans! How could anyone think they are sexy? My first time at a new club I found some women wearing everyday clothes which were only fit for in the house and yes ...jeans..they sat at the bar all night while their men were in fucking the women like me who at least tried to look sexy. It's probably that we are nearly 2 decades apart in age - but - Skinny legs, paired with a sexy top and stiletto heels = HOT. (MRS)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'foreverlove7985' Quoting 'WIFE2BSHARED'I have to tell you never wear jeans! How could anyone think they are sexy? My first time at a new club I found some women wearing everyday clothes which were only fit for in the house and yes ...jeans..they sat at the bar all night while their men were in fucking the women like me who at least tried to look sexy. It's probably that we are nearly 2 decades apart in age - but - Skinny legs, paired with a sexy top and stiletto heels = HOT. (MRS)You are so young, Jeans are just so hard to remove when the mood strikes, no! asked my man and male friends, the only ones who seemed to think that they were sexy was their women, but if thats who you are looking to attract go for it! MEN LIKE SKIN BABY!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm very confused Quoting 'WIFE2BSHARED' Quoting 'foreverlove7985' Quoting 'WIFE2BSHARED'I have to tell you never wear jeans! How could anyone think they are sexy? My first time at a new club I found some women wearing everyday clothes which were only fit for in the house and yes ...jeans..they sat at the bar all night while their men were in fucking the women like me who at least tried to look sexy. It's probably that we are nearly 2 decades apart in age - but - Skinny legs, paired with a sexy top and stiletto heels = HOT. (MRS)You are so young, Jeans are just so hard to remove when the mood strikes, no! asked my man and male friends, the only ones who seemed to think that they were sexy was their women, but if thats who you are looking to attract go for it! MEN LIKE SKIN BABY!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'WIFE2BSHARED' Quoting 'foreverlove7985' Quoting 'WIFE2BSHARED'I have to tell you never wear jeans! How could anyone think they are sexy? My first time at a new club I found some women wearing everyday clothes which were only fit for in the house and yes ...jeans..they sat at the bar all night while their men were in fucking the women like me who at least tried to look sexy. It's probably that we are nearly 2 decades apart in age - but - Skinny legs, paired with a sexy top and stiletto heels = HOT. (MRS)You are so young, Jeans are just so hard to remove when the mood strikes, no! asked my man and male friends, the only ones who seemed to think that they were sexy was their women, but if thats who you are looking to attract go for it! MEN LIKE SKIN BABY! Yes, I agree that you're better to wear something that shows a little skin - especially to a swingers party... But if you and the people around you are THAT horny - jeans come off easy enough! IMO - as long as the individual feels sexy, isn't that enough? Afterall, that's the required result, isn't it?
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