M54 F53
What to wear?
December 18 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'll offer my face as a seat :p
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wannabyummymummy
13 years ago
If you are still rocking it then wear it!!!dont worry about the age it is just a number anyway, if you still look good in what you are wearing and you feel comfortable then wear it, to hell with what is considered the 'Norm' you are in Tamworth for sodding out loud they will judge you no matter what you wear !!lol (I lived there for 14 years so i get it)Seriously you look HOT just go with it and have fun dont let your age change what you wear let your mood do that
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
Hard trucking - you are cheeky - butt I like it :-))
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RHP User
13 years ago
You're officially a woman in her prime... As such it would be best for both yourself, and society in general if you wear as little as possible. Nakedness being preferable. Consider it a community service, you'd be raising the happiness quotient considerably in your little corner of the world. Peace, A fellow fabulous fortysomething funster
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
Wannabyummymummy - thankyou for such kind words! I will answer this abit later!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'll be 40 in a few weeks, and... really??
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RHP User
13 years ago
If it looks good then show it off...
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RHP User
13 years ago
You know what I did go looking for a traditional housecoat the year I turned 40 but I just couldn't find one anywhere. Then I decided, fuck it I am going to be 40 and fabulous. Not sure what you are thinking? :(( - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
But honestly wear what you are comfortable in. I see plenty of women in their 50s and 60s getting round in clothes that my daughter would probably wear, but if thats what makes you comfortable or how you want to dress then go ahead, just because us girls get older does not mean we have to dress like a pensioner :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
if u still got it, show it off.love seeing a mature women looking sexy
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Letsgetcrazy09
13 years ago
From the post I am assuming this is Mrs Cheeky 40 is but a number (he says approaching 50) Wear what u want....... a smile is all that's necessary .....lol Lets
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RHP User
13 years ago
was the big 40 in September, but I think if you are comfortable in what you have been wearing up till then, why change? Just make sure you play up your best assets, although tastefully (not like all the young things in snog, marry, avoid... this pearl of wisdom can be taken by those at any age in fact!) You can always attend a personal colour/style course, a friend of mine did this not long ago (she's also 40) they give you swatches of your personal colours and advice on what to wear to best play up your body type/features. She says it was wonderful and is no longer lost when clothes/makeup shopping. I think I may attend one too, I am venturing out into the workforce soon, totally new vocation, so my 90's powersuits and officewear are not going to cut it! Just look forward to a new exciting phase of your life.
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RHP User
13 years ago
...and attitude. The rest is just the window dressing and no matter what you wear or not, you'll still look hot!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I wear what looks and feels great. No way am I dressing old and dowdy.. I have a girl friend in her 60s and she is a very sexy woman in her clothing, jewellery and make up style. My kids are a good measure of what I have on .. if they don't think its okay they very quickly tell me.. My 20 year old is usually with me when I shop .... A strand of pearls are definitely a necessity for an over 40s woman... perfect accessory draped over a gorgeous naked body
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RHP User
13 years ago
that when you turn 40 it is important to throw away or give away your whole wardrobe.Make your way to Target or Big Ws Very Ugly Clothes section specifically designed for your now age group.Choose the ugliest possible dresses,make sure the hems cover your ankles and that the Tshirts are as baggy as possible. Do not under any circumstances dye your hair...,let it grow as grey and long as possible ,do not wear makeup,stop going to the gym,stock up on icecream, chocolate and very greasy foods.Join the Exclusive Bretheren or any Doomsday sect,and pray a lot. I hope this helps,yours sincerely Freya Lifestyle Consultant to the over the hill,ooops,over 40s. Ps and please realize that any sexual activity must cease at once.
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
Freya I'm going to message you later! You are cool! Xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Happy birthday... I can't help but notice you appear a little younger in your profile age?- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
I should stop occassionally borrowing the teenage daughters clothes?
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
I'm 40!
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RHP User
13 years ago
"She is clothed in strength and dignity and she laughs with out fear of the future"Repeat after me...must have more shoes Post your Comment
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RHP User
13 years ago
...is it neccessary to join a sect? And if you don't give up sex it just gets better and betteras does the shoe collection!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13' that when you turn 40 it is important to throw away or give away your whole wardrobe.Make your way to Target or Big Ws Very Ugly Clothes section specifically designed for your now age group.Choose the ugliest possible dresses,make sure the hems cover your ankles and that the Tshirts are as baggy as possible. Do not under any circumstances dye your hair...,let it grow as grey and long as possible ,do not wear makeup,stop going to the gym,stock up on icecream, chocolate and very greasy foods.Join the Exclusive Bretheren or any Doomsday sect,and pray a lot. I hope this helps,yours sincerely Freya Lifestyle Consultant to the over the hill,ooops,over 40s. Ps and please realize that any sexual activity must cease at once.I was totally with you, until the last sentence.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Happy birthday... I can't help but notice you appear a little younger in your profile age?- Posted from rhpmobile Profile age: 44, Age in profile: 47, Real age: 50? I can understand you don't want to attract older men, as you mention, but I'd say just make that clear in your profile. 50 Is the new 35, after all! (I just made that up, so surely it's true).
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RHP User
13 years ago
Someone had to say it...I bet a lot were thinking it :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
I shouldnt be borrowing the teenage daughters clothes sometimes?????
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RHP User
13 years ago
People are brainwashed by hollywood,movies,news,magazines fashion shows as to how one should look and what should be worn.Just wear what makes you feel comfie and happy.Conforming to rules that have been made up by social lites and models is why people are not happy in life.Wear this ,look like that, blah blah blah You should wear what you like and if people have a problem with it ,they need to get a life.I will be forty soon to ,bring on naughty 40's i say
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
Hard trucking you made my day!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Peeves me that some people think that because they reach a certain number they should prepare for the downhill run to the grave ? I wear what I like... if I see something I think will look good I buy it... I get comments on my taste and in the words of a lady friend recently' I inspire the guys in our circle of friends to do likewise.. Mind you' some of my friends have let themselves go , and for some it wouldnt work.. But if you take the time to look after yourself, you will get away with heaps... That goes for women and men...
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RHP User
13 years ago
It is wrong to buy all my clothes at SUPRÉ?
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RHP User
13 years ago
My profile read does say why.. . old Men just don't do it for me ... I make sure everyone that messages me knows Im the true age I am.. Im not saying older men.. just old... these days I love maturity...As you know once its set you can't change it . Sassy (feeling very guilty)
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RHP User
13 years ago
If you have nice legs and arse,,,Dress, skirt, Jeansor Lingerie
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sweetheart I'm 49 & when I turned 40 I made my family & friends all very happy by finally starting to dress the way I was ''supposed to''... then when I turned 46 I realized I was totally freaking miserable, so I ditched the ''supposed to'' clothes, replaced them with cropped sweaters, slashed jeans & thigh boots, took up pole dancing & have been smiling my ass off ever since :PJust forget the myths & ''old'' wives tales, dress & live however the hell you feel like living it hun cos the only ''right'' way is the way that feels right to you ;) XXX
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
Jay - you are a very wise man!
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RHP User
13 years ago
That is just sooooo old. Now at 50 I still dress in really tight figure hugging stretchy stuff from Supre. Midriff is bare, sporting a bellybar and tatt. Jeans are really jeggings and sit just above the pubic line, tops cut way low and sheer. Iphone stuck in the bra so I can keep in touch with the world, skirts that only just cover my crutch and my shorts dont even cover my vagina. . Hell woman wear the fuck what you like and feel comfortable in. It is no ones business but your own.
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RHP User
13 years ago
she told me her real age in our first message exchange......and I wasnt even hitting on her :) Mrs Cheeky - his business shirt, your lovely naked bod underneath - some sky high stilettos - gorgeous unforgettable perfume...a string of pearls (classy MsSassyMe) a smile and a great attitude............. ....and to hell with whatever else you wear..as long as you wear it - it doesnt wear you...your comfy and happy... And if I may Freya - Ive been keenly observing your profile pics over the last few days..very nice..very classy - do I detect a Tuscan influence there...???... and to everyone else that I owe messages to..sorry, will reply as soon as I can... I edited my profile this time last nite.....24 hours on...still have a locked profile.......even though I messaged RHP Help twice asking why !!!,,,,,. I can post but cant reply to messages ??...guess I should upgrade my membership ..rite....roll on pay day...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Long skirts, and tops that show nothing. But the boys do love to slide those long demure skirts up my thighs. I am not into mutton dressed as lamb no matter how attractive a woman is. If you want to show your tits then lengthen your skirt if you want to show your legs then cover your tits like a wise woman told me, either make your lips red and less eye make up or your eyes made up with less lip a woman who has class looks sexy. A woman trying to look like her daughter , well its just a tad sad to me. nothing wrong with a little arse with class. but each to their own. my sister is 58 and has long blonde hair and she looks bloody awful, but the thinks she looks hot so if she feels good thats all that matters as if we have that magic mirror that makes us feel hot no matter what we wear then good I just do not want to have people looking at me and going..ohh dear honey give it up! in the bedroom well I will dress anyway that I like , and I can do hooker pretty darn good
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' It is wrong to buy all my clothes at SUPRÉ? bad kitty David Jones is for you
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' she told me her real age in our first message exchange......and I wasnt even hitting on her :) Mrs Cheeky - his business shirt, your lovely naked bod underneath - some sky high stilettos - gorgeous unforgettable perfume...a string of pearls (classy MsSassyMe) a smile and a great attitude............. ....and to hell with whatever else you wear..as long as you wear it - it doesnt wear you...your comfy and happy... and your due for a new shoot as well, come see me in the new year And if I may Freya - Ive been keenly observing your profile pics over the last few days..very nice..very classy - do I detect a Tuscan influence there...???... and to everyone else that I owe messages to..sorry, will reply as soon as I can... I edited my profile this time last nite.....24 hours on...still have a locked profile.......even though I messaged RHP Help twice asking why !!!,,,,,. I can post but cant reply to messages ??...guess I should upgrade my membership ..rite....roll on pay day...
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RHP User
13 years ago
you do indeed detect the talented Tuscan,she is the genius behind my new pics.....
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RHP User
13 years ago
The one with you and the newspaper was a great shot.
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RHP User
13 years ago
MsD,Supre?...I dooos nooo thunk sooo....don't forgot I have seen ya dressed....styling girl,styling
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hey, SassyJust commenting that's all. And no I didn't realise you couldn't change your birthday. Damn I was contemplating going back to 39
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13'you do indeed detect the talented Tuscan,she is the genius behind my new pics..... Mmm thought as much.....Im impressed..Like Meeka I love the newspaper one as well..and your cheeky "rocking your corset" which I glimpsed yesterday...and I very much like this one as well TR did most of mine as well...including my main profile one that I have up now...I think she has a excellent eye Time for update though Tuscan..but hell I got your email today..you are one busy gal...I will have to book into see you before I go back to work in the middle of Jan (yes I will be a monied client!!) xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
I don't think it'd matter what you wear, you've got a body most women would kill for at 40.
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luvsilver
13 years ago
Change absolutely nothing!! 40 really is the new 30. I'm 44 and I have an extensive wardrobe of bright colours, patterns and at least 20 little above the knee dresses.. I even own a pair of hot pink pants which look fabulous with a little white t-shirt and denim jacket. The secret to pulling it off in your 40's is simplicity teamed with your own unique style and a fabulous handbag to finish it off. I am also conscious of length.. while I am too short to wear below the knee(looks like I"m wearing a bag off to join a knitting class lol) I am careful not to take my dress length too far above the knee. As for jeans, nothing looks sexier than a woman in a pair of figure-hugging jeans and a pair of killer heels whether she be 20's 30's or 40's.. Mrs. Luvsilver
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' she told me her real age in our first message exchange......and I wasnt even hitting on her :) Thanks gorgeous lady xx
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On_Safari
13 years ago
Elegance, class, style. Then there's the clothes and kicks that go with it. Personally I love a tailored look and soft fabrics. I think most men appreciate the tease factor, it's not what they can see it's what is hinted at, a lowcut bodice, a high slit skirt, back seam brazillian stockings with a lace top hinting at suspenders or maybe stay-ups. Sometimes less is more. Lol BUT who am I to comment, here's what the greats say: “You can never take too much care over the choice of your shoes. Too many women think that they are unimportant, but the real proof of an elegant woman is what is on her feet.” —Christian Dior fall 2011 “Fashion is not necessarily about labels. It’s not about brands. It’s about something else that comes from within you.” —Ralph Lauren at his fall 2008 runway show “Over the years I have learned that what is important in a dress is the woman who is wearing it.” —Yves Saint Laurent in Paris, 1974 “A woman’s dress should be a like a barbed-wire fence: serving its purpose without obstructing the view.” —Sophia Loren in Paris, 1960 “I wear my sort of clothes to save me the trouble of deciding which clothes to wear.” —Katherine Hepburn circa 1935 “Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.” —Leonardo da Vinci But in essence nothing makes a woman more beautiful than the belief that she is beautiful. Clothed or not. May I also adds doing housework naked with your pearls on adds to thier natural lustre.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I say who cares what you dress in...as long as you are comfortable, confidant sexy and sassy!!I'm 41 (*cough cough* profiles says different - oops did I just say that??) and have issues finding clothes that fit..last item of clothing brought kids section in Best and Less - a kids size! now that's embarrassing. However Item of clothing was a once piece very cute jumpsuit.I have a 17yr old and we swap and share clothes a lot...so do what feels right for you. :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' Quoting 'Freya13'you do indeed detect the talented Tuscan,she is the genius behind my new pics..... Mmm thought as much.....Im impressed..Like Meeka I love the newspaper one as well..and your cheeky "rocking your corset" which I glimpsed yesterday...and I very much like this one as well TR did most of mine as well...including my main profile one that I have up now...I think she has a excellent eye Time for update though Tuscan..but hell I got your email today..you are one busy gal...I will have to book into see you before I go back to work in the middle of Jan (yes I will be a monied client!!) xxI have some interesting costumes as well, more stuff so call me in the new year and we will do a shoot again
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RHP User
13 years ago
Don't know why but I always imagined you had dark hair. Oh, we'll, guess my mental picture was way off. I bought a very reasonably priced dress in Target a couple of months back ( cheap) and have had many compliments whilst wearing it. I believe if I feel good I look good.
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
Thanks deep dark woods xxxxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13'MsD,Supre?...I dooos nooo thunk sooo....don't forgot I have seen ya dressed....styling girl,styling You liked that, ha? And On_Safari: That picture is amaaaazing!
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On_Safari
13 years ago
Not my prettiest pair of heels though ..... just exploring the darker side of Me.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' Mmm thought as much.....Im impressed..Like Meeka I love the newspaper one as well..and your cheeky "rocking your corset" which I glimpsed yesterday...and I very much like this one as well Loving the pics Freya, but am I missing something? I see the book, but no newspaper...
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1playfulcpl
13 years ago
having seen u, it dnt matter wat u wear as ur 2hot 4clothes lol ,u got it
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RHP User
13 years ago
Anyone of a certain vintage would recall the ads on tele for Osti.....lolDont think they are around now so we have to make do with clothes from all types of shops.Personally...I dress how I like and dont really care what others think, I buy from shops that my 27 year old niece buys frombut I do draw the line at hipster jeans showing off a gstring .These days, fashion is ageless in many ways, I have clients in their 70s & 80s that raid their granddaughters closets and they look fabulous.
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RHP User
13 years ago
40 is the new 30 wear whatever makes you feel good
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RHP User
13 years ago
Cheeyarses' thank you for your positive comment...Kellykicks... Me too' Tried to fall in line with what I thought was the proper thing to do.. then one day the penny dropped and I never looked back... and its paid in more ways than one.. if u know what I mean..
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RHP User
13 years ago
the book in two pics is an accessory given to me by TR herself.A small joke if you can see the title...prentious moi..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13'the book in two pics is an accessory given to me by TR herself.A small joke if you can see the title...prentious moi.. But a book does not a paper make. Love the way you dress by the way!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think clothing is more location/event specific than it is age specific these days. And from what I saw in your pics you have a great body so if you got it, flaunt it ;-)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Apparently, with the big five-oh coming up, I have to start wearing long shorts, with a belt above my navel and knee high socks and sandles to boot.
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On_Safari
13 years ago
I notice no-one's suggested a wife beater with footy shorts and thongs dressed up with a flanno. Or the classic t-shirt, jeans and thongs.....???
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RHP User
13 years ago
When your a well put together as you are you can wear what you want for as long a you want. Long may you flaunt it G & A XX
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RHP User
13 years ago
Since turning 40 last year and actually joining the swinging scene -- i have flaunted and found myself abit more confident , with the attention and coments from other people , not just my hubby ---loving it all i dress now to show my curves and bumps
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RHP User
13 years ago
I find nothing hotter on a 40 year old woman than tight jeans and high boots, god that looks amazing!
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RHP User
13 years ago
You look great , age is only a number , you wear what you feel comfortable in no matter what age ! Let people judge you and not bother what what they think , I'm 4o ish and at this stage in my life I don't care about what people think , you should adopt that attitude too.
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RHP User
13 years ago
why thank you,and it was a paperback not a paper
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RHP User
13 years ago
roll on 50 for the jman
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RHP User
13 years ago
Don't forget your cable knit cardigan :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
If it feels good and looks good then it must be good. Wear what you are happy in no need to change. Keep the happy, sexy and positive attitude. People notice and are attracted to attitude more than anythying. SFxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
If it feels good then wear it.... I turned 40, 5 years ago and must admit it NEVER occured to me i should trade in my wardrobe for a new one... I wear what i am comfortable in, what i think i look good and I KNOW i have great friends who will be the first to say - 'Good God woman what the hell are you wearing????' So should i become mutton dressed up as lamb - God forbid, they will be there to tell me so. I love to show off the girls a little (weight gain should have a plus!), still wear my short shorts but havent forgotten that cellulite will let me know when to put them to rest. I remember a year or so back seeing some strappy heels in a catalogue... you know the straps going up around the ankle along the shin and commented to a friend a work - 'am i too old for these?' - she laughed at me so i bought them! Confidence is sexy
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
Actually, while at dinner with friends last night - I was given many compliments about my appearance n my fitness..... I was very flattered n had no idea that I was thought of like this but this person - made me feel very good....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903'Apparently, with the big five-oh coming up, I have to start wearing long shorts, with a belt above my navel and knee high socks and sandles to boot. Neptune_Drift wears suspenders, and he's yet to turn 30...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Pissed myself laughing-nearly
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_Devious' Neptune_Drift wears suspenders, and he's yet to turn 30... They're load-bearing suspenders! Actually, in Australia I believe they're called braces, while suspenders are used to hold up stockings. So I'm wearing braces in my profile pic - the suspenders are in my Private Gallery.
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RHP User
13 years ago
No, Jensman you are getting 40+ mixed up with the busdriver look!! Neptune... Load bearing, just what sort of a load are you hiding in those pants??
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ironing my twinsets as we speak. Now I just need a pearl necklace. Anyone feeling generous?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Forty is the new thirty and all woman look hot in a nice pair of shoes, clothes optional. A little heel just to show those toned calf muscles............................
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RHP User
13 years ago
MS_Devious my pearls would look so good on you......happy to help you out when ever you like
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RHP User
13 years ago
I dont know that my wardrobe has changed since turning 40, but one thing is for certain……everything that goes underneath has become a bajillion times naughtier I dress for the occasion always, and never show everything at once…..If my dress is short and Im showing legs…I will never show cleavage in the same outfit, same goes for opposite.You can be as sexy as hell, but having it all out on display kind of takes you down a notch in the style stakes .Boys like to use their imagination too
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luvsilver
13 years ago
Ms Devious Asking if anyone will give you a pearl necklace on this site Get ready for the offers-lol Happy birthday in advance ( welcolme to the club) Luvsilvers
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twomagichands4u
13 years ago
Quoting 'Grabby' I dont know that my wardrobe has changed since turning 40, but one thing is for certain……everything that goes underneath has become a bajillion times naughtier I dress for the occasion always, and never show everything at once…..If my dress is short and Im showing legs…I will never show cleavage in the same outfit, same goes for opposite.You can be as sexy as hell, but having it all out on display kind of takes you down a notch in the style stakes .Boys like to use their imagination too Trust me Grabby, I am using mine....
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Grabby'I dont know that my wardrobe has changed since turning 40, but one thing is for certain…… everything that goes underneath has become a bajillion times naughtier I dress for the occasion always, and never show everything at once….. If my dress is short and Im showing legs…I will never show cleavage in the same outfit, same goes for opposite. You can be as sexy as hell, but having it all out on display kind of takes you down a notch in the style stakes . Boys like to use their imagination too thats the aim afterall isnt it?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Im new to this forum stuff but i too I'm in my 40's and loving it. I have a 22 year old daughter who goes through my clothes when she goes out lol. I say wear what feel right, to suit your mood, to turn on the boys. Life is to short to worry about what others say, their only wishing they looked as hot!!!!! LL xxx
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RHP User
13 years ago
Simple as that!
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