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What to do if one partner goes wild while the other is more reserved
September 05 2019
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FredAndGinger2
5 years ago
How to handle what? Which person's viewpoint are you referring to?
MsSuperFoxy
5 years ago
I would just observe, and carry on enjoying myself.
I just don't want to get involved in other couples/peoples business when I'm out, nor do would I want too. Let them do what they want to do and let them sort their own shit out.
Ms FoxyMsSuperFoxy
5 years ago
Hope its not one with children around (say BIrthday party/BBQ etc), cause that shit is not on.
Adult club themed party, RHP event party, swingers party with swingers/swingles, same as above just dont get involved.
Ms Foxy
AnnieWhichway
5 years ago
Every one is after different things. Who's to say that is there normal reference point?
She may be a hotwife and hubby decided to tag along to slide the sausage into action for a change.
Maybe it's their version of a gangbang.
Don't 've judging others by your own boundariesRHP User
5 years ago
Suck it up.
And put 10 credits in the my turn bank.
FeistyFatty
5 years ago
I wouldn't care less. If i was, like you just a spectator, then its none of business. And if I was half of the cpl, more than likely its already been clearly discussed and we'd each know how each other play..... so I'd still not care less lol. My hubby and I are total opposites like the cpl you mentioned and i think you'll find its not that uncommon.
0z_boy
5 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy'
Hope its not one with children around (say BIrthday party/BBQ etc), cause that shit is not on.
Adult club themed party, RHP event party, swingers party with swingers/swingles, same as above just dont get involved.
Ms Foxy
Oh dear.
try1ngit
5 years ago
That maybe the way they like to play. Every couple has a different dynamic as to what they do and how they do it, usually discussed prior to the event.If that is different to your way of play, so be it, each to their own, we say.
horneycouplewa
5 years ago
And that's the case for us.
My hubby is private and conservative where as I am the wild one..
So long as everyone is happy who cares really :)
sweetnsensual72
5 years ago
No pic no replyHxxx
countrytouch82
5 years ago
How would you handle this?
Likely with an erection... :PRHP User
5 years ago
I feel that if you have attended an event like this, whereby you both are expecting to have fun, there’s no restrictions unless requested earlier.
When I go out to an all you can eat restaurant, I get some of everything. My partner, well he is not into as wide a range as I am. He sticks to his safe favourites. At no point does my meal choice impact his and vice versa. We both go home feeling satisfied from our meal that we went to together. 🤷♀️RHP User
5 years ago
That would be fun.
Wife never goes berserk like that.
She picks one or two good looking guys and once she is done with them, they have to learn how to walk anew : )
KittyDeluxe
5 years ago
It's no bodies business except the couple themselves.
So I reckon you're perhaps talking about your own personal situation.
What you do is talk about it with your partner. With words. And then you listen. And then you come to an agreement.QLDtwo4fun
5 years ago
It was swingers party people go there to play. Some times one half of a coulpe has a better night than the other. As long we both have fun, we don't mind who plays more.
MsSuperFoxy
5 years ago
Not everyone goes to a "swingers parties" to play. There should never evrr be any expections or pressure to play.
Ms FoxyRHP User
5 years ago
Me Foxy so why go then? I hate height so I don't go st and at the top of a bungee podium just to look. I don't bother going.
MsSuperFoxy
5 years ago
Because people can and are allowed too. Thats ok if you dont want to go, you dont have too. We all have our own preferences. But like I stated above there should be no expectations and no one should be pressured into playing if they attend.
Ms Foxy
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