What should I have said?

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I think you did well, very diplomatic I think, but I am not a man, lol, they may feel differently. I love his boldness, very smooth *drifts off to la la land to imagine my dream man sweeping me off my feet*

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  MsSuperFoxy

  12 years ago

  I totally understand what you are saying...I have that feeling too, It's awkward, as in something I don't think I will ever get used to. Is it because maybe we are a little shy?? maybe intimidated?? I really don't think it's lack of confidence, maybe just more out of our comfort zones..?? However I do think for a man tho, to go out of his way like that does show courage. He saw something he liked and he would've watched and observed for a while I reckon, before he plucked up his nerves to talk to you. I believe "some" men do get bold in situations like that and I think perhaps some are really really desperate, as in always on the hunt, think they are gods gifts..maybe? I had one guy scared the be-jesus out of me once in a servo by knocking on my vehicle window, when I was ready to drive off. I told him he shouldn't do that...nah didn't give my number. Other times I have been out and given my number - all depends on their approach tho, I may flirt back, I may not.. Foxy

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  MsSuperFoxy

  12 years ago

  then you are not attracted. I think you did well with your answer. Foxy

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  You smiled and said you weren't available? Nothing more? Sounds good to me. If anything, you could add something like: "But thanks for making my day!". That way he knows that even though you weren't interested, what he did had a positive effect in a different way.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Exactly what you needed to do in your circumstances. You're not really obligated to someone else's well being or self esteem to let them down gently.... but well done you for doing it anyway. DG

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'Meander' You smiled and said you weren't available? Nothing more? Sounds good to me. If anything, you could add something like: "But thanks for making my day!". That way he knows that even though you weren't interested, what he did had a positive effect in a different way. I wish those words had come to mind at the time :) Thanks Mea

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Exactly what you needed to do in your circumstances. You're not really obligated to someone else's well being or self esteem to let them down gently.... but well done you for doing it anyway. DG But imagine a world where we did a bit more to thank others, express gratitude and generally be nice. It was a flattering experience for me and I think men are demonised enough. Doing something in return to make him feel good is hardly a chore.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I was fishing last week first thing in the morning i had a throw net which i use to get bait , i noticed this tanned toned fit looking woman a mile away she walked past and we gave each other a great big smile and she walked on looking back moments later we again smiled ,20 minutes later she returned walked up to me and asked if i had caught anything ? I told her if i threw my net over her she would be the catch of the day ! We chatted and she said i made her day with a compliment or two i threw in not to be sleezy ! But because it was deserved . When i got back to my car there was a note on my window " hi are you the nice man fishing with the net? Im single call me !! So i did and we are going out next week :-)) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  lilmiss,you did well.....hindsight is always a wonderful thing....pity his was not your type thoughxx Q

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'Bigocean72' I was fishing last week first thing in the morning i had a throw net which i use to get bait , i noticed this tanned toned fit looking woman a mile away she walked past and we gave each other a great big smile and she walked on looking back moments later we again smiled ,20 minutes later she returned walked up to me and asked if i had caught anything ? I told her if i threw my net over her she would be the catch of the day ! We chatted and she said i made her day with a compliment or two i threw in not to be sleezy ! But because it was deserved . When i got back to my car there was a note on my window " hi are you the nice man fishing with the net? Im single call me !! So i did and we are going out next week :-)) - Posted from rhpmobile Always love a happy ending, good luck :)

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  MsSuperFoxy

  12 years ago

  That's a wonderful fishing story. fingers and legs crossed for you. *oh hang on - off to Sydney for weekend; make it just fingers* AND Please keep us up-to-date.. Foxy

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  madotara69

  12 years ago

  I mean how often does a lady take to courting from a gentleman. If only there was that thing, you could have rushed him home and fucked his brains out and lived happily ever after. The RHP way, he he Yeah I know, fuck off Mado Mado Tara xx

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  erotictouch4u

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'Meander' You smiled and said you weren't available? Nothing more? Sounds good to me. If anything, you could add something like: "But thanks for making my day!". That way he knows that even though you weren't interested, what he did had a positive effect in a different way. ET xox

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Please make sure you keep us up to date with your love story ;) You're such a keeper ;) a true gentleman! Xx - Posted from rhpmobile

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