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What part of LADIES ONLY don't the men on here understand?

February 16 2011

Ok, so I've been a member of RHP a couple of times to try and find some nice, genuine women to meet up with for fun times (seems to be very hard to meet anyone serious about meeting up but anyway, that's a different story). I have strictly posted on my profile NO MEN and I will not reply to a man. I have a great man and do not plan on trading him in or messing with other guys behind his back. What is it with guys who still send flirts/messages? Do you think all of a sudden women/couples who say NO MEN on the profile are going to change their mind? I deliberately chose my new name when re-joining to reflect the LADIES ONLY idea. Sorry to whinge, but can I be anymore explicit? Guys out there who are looking for girls, it's not that hard to search for the women who actually want to meet men. If you can't read what someone has written or even take notice of their profile name then I'm sorry but you don't have much hope to meet anyone. Bit of respect please guys. Does anyone else have this problem? I just ignore them but it is annoying when you have a few new flirts and think someone is interested in you to then find they're the completely wrong gender!!!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I know, I know.....I have the same problem.....lol Just kiddinGuys are want to try their luck i guess, maybe its the bra shot...doesn't do it for me but.......Just ignore them and keep your eyes on the prize!Wishing you lots of luck!Cheers Nev....aka Carlotta Spicy Wiener

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    This should be posted in SWB.. secret whinger's business. :p.Fact is.. now that you've posted to the forum.. you're going to get even more unwanted attention.... so brace yourself!HugsStalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Oh the nagging is relentless But maybe you should look at it from a different angle and perhaps accept that you look lovely and guys just cant help themsleves

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    dont you know that most men on here is irresistable and even though you only want women...the men on here will change your mind well im fairly sure thats what they think anyway lol i get the same thing...i have NO married men on mine...what i didnt realise is defacto, boyfriend, attached and couples dont count under married what a dumbarse i am so hun no matter what you write on your profile, some on here will think they are special enough to try and get you to change your mind....and believe me, try they will roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I get flirts and messages from women and couples. I think they assume that I am bisexual or lesbian because I am a Mistress.I keep saying it! Read the damn profile!!Perhaps we should find a sledgehammer to apply the hint!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    u look really hot, and i was wondering if u would like to meet up. satisfaction guaranteed and all that jazz. i've got a miniscule dick. more like a large clit really, i promise u wont even feel it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i recently rated a photo of a lady, as guys can do on this site, and if you rate them hot it can send a flirt out..............next thing you know i get this dirty message from this women berating me about not being able to read.......................FFS I didnt even look at her profile.................so with all due respect to all you whining.....GET OVER IT................thats my second rant for today.................

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I kind of agree with you and kind of don't...The Flirts that say "I think you're hot, what do you think of me" and the like, I assume I got as they rated my profile pic rather than look at my profile...so that doesn't bother me who sends them to me...Men, Women or Couples or anything in between! It is a compliment to me! ; Having said that though...the ones that send messages...and are out of your age range or wrong sex or a couple when you don't ask for that...are the real ignorant ones! When they go to send the message and they do not fit your criteria, they actually have a box open up warning them that they are not what the person is looking for...and asks if they still want to send the message. Once they hit that yes button...then they deserve to cop whatever is coming to them...reply or not! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    It is because all you need is a real man to show you exactly what you are missing!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'fionabee'It is because all you need is a real man to show you exactly what you are missing! Everyone knows that the best cure for lesbianism is a serious deep-dicking

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I only sent you that one note and I did explain that I feel exactly the way you do...ladies only, please. I thought the next 4 paragraphs explaining that what with all these pansexuals and bisexuals and trysexuals...it's really hard just being a gardern variety male lesbain. | I can't help it...it's just who I am. I like women, so there, I am "out and proud" and feel better for saying it. | I am kidding of course and did not send you a note. I probably did look at your profile and thanks for looking at mine, too. So now that all that is out of the way, if you ever make exceptions... | ...I think I tick most of the boxes?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' I kind of agree with you and kind of don't...The Flirts that say "I think you're hot, what do you think of me" and the like, I assume I got as they rated my profile pic rather than look at my profile...so that doesn't bother me who sends them to me...Men, Women or Couples or anything in between! It is a compliment to me! ; Having said that though...the ones that send messages...and are out of your age range or wrong sex or a couple when you don't ask for that...are the real ignorant ones! When they go to send the message and they do not fit your criteria, they actually have a box open up warning them that they are not what the person is looking for...and asks if they still want to send the message. Once they hit that yes button...then they deserve to cop whatever is coming to them...reply or not! xFunlovingxI agree with you on that point Funloving but isnt that what the block button is for? (this is my first emoticon to btw)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Pfft! You make it sound like you genuinely believe they read your profile then contact you! *eyeroll* . Most days, you will find you stand a better chance of finding rockinghorse shit around these parts than you do of finding someone who will read your profile before making contact and that does not just go for the men either! But don't lose heart. This place is like a lottery, I hope they call your numbers soon.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    A couple of years ago, I hooked up with a chick from a vanilla site. Anyhooo, it was a bootycall and she lived about 100ikms away, so i had a shower and shave etc, andoff i went about 10 o'clock at night. I had left messenger open and Kj started chatting to her, and she told her that she didn't realise I was married and was a bit embarrassed.So I found her place, and we chatted, she was drinking, I wasn't (driving), stuck with cofee, and she told me she had been talking to my wife on Messenger, and hadn't realised I was married. (All this info was of course in my profile) Then she said she didn't even read my profile, just liked my pic, said it reminded her of her ex....lolWe didn't end up having sex, she was nice enough and we had a great evening chatting, but she didn't really light my fire, especially after she said that I was really lucky to get to be with a woman in her early thirties, I thought WTF has that got to do with anything, jeeze don't do me any favours...lol. So When she asked would I stay the night, I politely declined and left.Life is full of interesting experiences isn't it.You know it has just occured to me I have never met any chicks off Rhp only from a particular Vanilla site.Cheers Nev

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Most of those flirts are probably an automatic flirt from the "hot or not" vote... people see your picture and rate you... any rating over 3 prompts a script to send you a flirt. Now.... before you berate guys for not reading your profile, I hope you had the decency to read the flirts you get and appreciate if they're from the hot or not. You're still going to get flirts though.... I mean to say, I flirt with people for the pleasure of flirting.... Recording a flirt doesn't always mean that a person wants to bed you. Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Wow, this has proven to be a controversial topic... I understand your points Stalky and I guess like others have said, it's a tall order to assume people read your profile maybe just because I do. Some people just like the flirt like you said. I only flirt to people I'm interested in. Each to their own :) By the way, my intention was not to 'berate' by any means. I have no prob with guys out there looking to meet gals but it's only a waste of their time to contact girls who aren't interested. No offence intended, just not looking for a guy!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'CarlosSpicyWienr' You know it has just occured to me I have never met any chicks off Rhp only from a particular Vanilla site. Cheers Nev I keep telling you babe that you have to get down off that rock if I am ever going to stand a chance with you - my poor fair skin burns way to easy for your location...oh and I dont mind if you are married...nor would I be embarrassed about it...and can I chat with KJ on msn too??????? Please?????? . On topic though...dont worry about it ladiesonly..take it as a compliment...template reply messages if you so choose and keep searching...you never know your luck . Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You like to tease an old bloke, and ok I admit, I enjoy it.If I hadn't of read your profile I would be believing ya...lolI am sure she (Kj) would chat with you.Cheers Nev.....changes are a foot....but I don't want to say to much on here.....shall Inbox your email.

  • ArtsyLusttty

    ArtsyLusttty

    15 years ago

    Know the FEELING!!!s3d xxx