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What makes you keep your mistress?
April 28 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
But i would say the married guy is in a bit of trouble should it end, under the Mistress Laws seeing as they have been hmmm sort of together for more than two years, she will have entitlements, should she feel so inclined to persue them, or worse if the Wife finds out she will take half, the Mistress will take the other half, and next thing you know someone will find him dangling at the end of the rope. Back to the question , perhaps he loves her, maybe his wife isn't interested in him and your girlfriend fills that void in his life, Maybe he is just doing it for kicks.Cheers Nev....Women are wicked wicked creatures and get men into all sorts of trouble, or is that our dicks!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have often wondered this also. My cousin was a mistress for many years for a man. He did eventually leave his wife for her...which i guess means he did actually fall in love with her. I dont judge her of course...as I was not present in her relationship with him. I have also seen a married man. I and he knew right from the beginning that it wasnt for an affair. He stated he was not looking for one, and well I certainly wasnt either. However, a few months into seeing eachother here and there, I told him it had to end, thinking it would be nothing to him. He had always stated it was all about the fun in the moment. After only a few months, and me telling him it had to end, all of a sudden he wanted more. Where am I going with this...I have no Fffing idea...all I can say is...any kind of relationship is never ever really cut and dry. There are always emotions involved...even a simple FB will come with some emotion. That is what makes us humans. So, after 3 years of a relationship...he must love her in some way. But your gf must have something for him also. Affairs evolve. They are generally not planned. Most of the time, from what i have heard, men love the attention and love to feel wanted and needed....not just sexually...but in all aspects. Perhaps your girlfriend keeps things fresh and new and exciting for him. Just my opinion Mrs Shy xxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
The mistress is only entitled to half of HIS half (so 1/4)
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RHP User
16 years ago
The same mistress on the side year after year? That's such an old fashioned concept. How passe. Tiger Woods had the right idea.. right up until he started paying them off. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' The same mistress on the side year after year? That's such an old fashioned concept. How passe. Tiger Woods had the right idea.. right up until he started paying them off. Hugs Stalkypmsl - scones.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Interesting topic Sweet Desires.. I think some people want their cake and others too..Of course it is case by case so dont jump down my throat people !! But unless your promised something will change etc etc and the cake will soon be just for you to eat , it would appear both side would be eating the cake..Do we know what the GST is for this cake ?
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RHP User
16 years ago
The mistress is only entitled to 50% OF HIS 50% (so 25% of the original total)
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Letsgetcrazy09
16 years ago
Well is the foodstuff of staple diet and made by the two, together or separately, doesn't matter, or is it purchased from the cake shop? There could be some capital gains issues too! Oh and is she on the payroll, perhaps there could be some fringe benefits..........hehehehe......oh there is...... ;-) Cheers Lets
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting '2hunky2spunky'The mistress is only entitled to 50% OF HIS 50% (so 25% of the original total) How unfair - she should get 50% of her 50%. Sheesh!! I mean if they share the man,they should share the profits
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' Quoting '2hunky2spunky'The mistress is only entitled to 50% OF HIS 50% (so 25% of the original total) How unfair - she should get 50% of her 50%. Sheesh!! I mean if they share the man,they should share the profits hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaaha(roxxy quoting Earl) you funny bugga Jean roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Where are you? I wanted to hear what your reasons are for keeping your mistress for so long. Wait until I tell her she's entitled to 50% of what he's worth. How many men actually know this? How many mistresses know this? Taipan..... GST? Are you an accountant or something? Sweet D
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RHP User
16 years ago
If your going to have a Mistress you have to ditch em after 12mnths to be on the safe side! If your a female this law could be a really good little earner, you could have 5 suckers on the go at once and after a couple of years clean em out, naturally you would only go for the guys who have lots of assets. Sounds almost Agricultural!, Harvest one ....plant another!You could probably make a mill a year.This would be legal right?...or is it grifting, guess they would have to catch you first!Cheers Nev.............The Law really is an Ass isn't it.........Stoopid Politicians never get anything right!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Nev, If a "person" (I say this because it can work both ways - you know... target the unsatisfied housewife in my milkman outfit :p )... if a person targets a number of prospects as you suggested then the potential income will be treated as taxable in his/her hands in thta income year. On the basis that a person could earn significant amounts in any one year with a few prospects on the boil... teh best strategy I can see would be to establish a family trust and operate your trade so as to funnel the income into subsidiary companies. You could of course claim travel expenses and of course uniforms.. and shoes, lubes, medical expenses, motel rooms and so on as deductables. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Theres money to be made....lol If said Constitutional Corporations had field operatives as well, what award would we pay them under? and the mind boggles at the Oh&s implications....lolBags not writing up the safe work method statements for that!Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
how do i go about all this...i think this might be for me would i need a pimp or something to keep track of the men??? do i need an accountant to keep track of my share of his money??? hmmmm the mind boggles roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Contact, Stalky he's in charge of recruiting, What field were you interested in, a Targeting Operative or an ops worker, I think we offer a pretty good renumeration package! Plus one week a year all expenses paid on the company yacht!Cheers Nev.......Hehehe
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RHP User
16 years ago
il take whatever position that pays the most STALKY WHERE ARE YOU?????? yay this could be fun hehe roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sweet_Desires, from my experience as a "Mistress" years ago...for him it was more the communication that we had with each other. He could not talk to his wife about anything and when he tried...he was faced with talking to a brick wall. I remember that he passed a night course he was doing with flying colours...and it was my house he came to straight after getting his results to celebrate as he knew that I would be interested and happy for him and she would not!! Our sex was hot too and we did it in many public places and unusual places as well. We were seeing each other for over 2 years but then broke it off after he found out I was sleeping with one of his work mates (took 3 months to get caught lol). But also speaking from my ex hooker days....many many married men came into the Establishment I worked in and to be honest not all wanted sex. Alot of my regulars just liked the hugs and the affection and the COMMUNICATION they were missing at home. I was shocked that alot of the time the main problem at home was the communication. Many of these men had children and many also did love their wives. But...men are human as well and need that affection, need to feel they are wanted and needed and love the communication. They miss it when it is taken away from them...some stories actually brought me to tears. I also had a male friend that was forever playing up on his beautiful wife (to see them together you would not see a problem at all)....I asked him one night to be honest and tell me why he played up on her (we were not sexual) and his answer?? "I love my wife very much...but only want kids to one woman in my life"...Confused me, but he was being honest. Many people have different reasons for having a mistress or a mastress (?) and I say it is there life and if they are 2 consenting adults...then noone else need judge them as long as they are upfront from the get go. xFunlovingx
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bondage_reality
16 years ago
My old boss had a mistress for many yearsHe left his wife for her n had another kidNow he has a new mistress n says its the thrill of the chase n the challenge of avoiding getting caught
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RHP User
16 years ago
Very interesting indeed and perhaps worth expanding to both the male with a mistress and the female counterpart...a married woman with another man? For your consideration then and speaking as a man...is it possible to truly love two women and for perhaps, very different reasons? I believe that the answer would be "yes". | I am not married so that is not an issue however past experience would tell me that it is indeed a reality. Whilst love in it's true form is often not is what is discussed here...then perhaps a deep and abiding trust and friendship would be an equal substitute. Often sex is just a very natural outflow of those emotions experienced in physical form. | Perhaps just thoughts...but I never limit possibilites. Life is far to short to be contained by convention.
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RHP User
16 years ago
i am shamed to say it but i had a realship with a married man before. he told me his wife knew about me but at the time i trusted him that he was telling the truth cos i was young. we saw each other off and on for a few months but later on during the times he was seeing me one day he was talking to me on the phone then his wife come in the room and said who u talking too then i know for shore she din,t know what was going on. then a few days later he come over to my place and i told him it is over i dint want to hurt anyone but clearly i did i hurt him and hurt his family. he told me why he was doing it after i asked him he said cos his wife and him don,t talk anymore, they don,t have sex anymore, i make him feel young etc etcso maybe that why. i don,t know what was the truth anymore what he said.i m never going to that again i learnt my lesson the hard way you could say.mrs kinky :) x
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