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What makes you go limp?

May 20 2010

To all the guys out there and the girls who know the answer to my question, what makes you go limp? You are with a girl you are sexually attracted to, everything is going well and then bang! In the middle of a heated session you go limp. Please help us understand. I heard one of the reasons is when some guys wear a condom.

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  • tamworthguy46

    tamworthguy46

    16 years ago

    Being a proud Aussie male this has never happened to me...lol No Seriously there are many reasons, as complicated as the individual.....They would vary from, fear of performance, Guilt, physical and psychological problems,Wearing condoms,when your not used to them, I suppose can reduce the stimulation, and seems to be the most common excuse !.... Viagra and the like can help with the physical dysfunction,but you still have to have the desire to have intercourse for stimulants to work. I tend to to think that bit of regular cardio exercise, as well as limiting other drugs, such as anti depressants,Alcohol or even nicotine go a long way to avoiding problems of the physical kind.......And if it is a psychological problem...maybe the person just doesn't want to be there ?......from my experience if myself or partner wasn't really into it and your just going through the motions, I tend to loose interest. Bottoms up tam

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Dont jinx me , Daniella !!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Wait for it people, our favourite member should be able to come with up some shite.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    going for it in the 69 possi and she lets ripa big Fart...... I would think that i would be laughing so hard that it might just go Limp from laughter

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    oooohhhh I'd say the 20th hour.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    If the condoms being used are too tight, i have had that problem once, haha, it just plain hurt to be honest. Other times have included seeing her mother in the garden through the window

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I would think some members that drink may have the problem but then it wouldnt be hard to start with. Others may be if they were with someone then down go the pants and it's not a girl after all...lol, guessing that would do it pretty fast for a lot of guys, others may become more turned on...lol. How about the dad walks in, or sometimes the mum, guess it depends on the mums looks and reaction. A woman who states she wants to sit above you and shit on you, think that would put me pretty well off my game.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    sorry but its diabetes thank got for viagra

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    No problems here dianella. But the small blue pills can help out if that is a problem

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Julia Gillard!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day will do the trick ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    all the things i had done wrong during the day...and then all the jobs that i still had to do...why the fcuk she couldn't have waited 'til after....jose...even thinking about her now turns the wood into a twig...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    E.D. is really no laughing matter, but when it happens to you, and sooner or later it happens to us all for a time, all you can do is laugh it off. As tammy said... anxiety is the single most popular cause. Some people do not have the mental attitude to be exhibitionists and having sex means feeling relaxed (and stimulated). I first experienced this type of ED when called upon to fuck the stripper on stage while I was supposed to sing "bring back that loving feeling".... in that instance the fucking part was a no brainer but the singing frightened me pale.. I sing like a Tom Waits with a head cold... so no measure of stimulation would make me rise to teh occasion.. the only thing rising was my blood pressure and my temperature. Then there's the "OMFG wtf is that?"..... I won't go into details but sometimes a guy finds himself in a situation where he jsut has to pack up his junk and get the hell out of there. Then of course, there's the inattentive lover. She's lying on her back with her legs up and I'm doing my best tongue work .. then she asks for architectural advice ~ "do you think I should re-paint this ceiling". And the interupting host at a sex party .... "oh excuse me you lot... I just want to re-arrange the bedsheets so Stalky doesn't jizz all over that mattress again" And the interrupting "friend" at a sex party .... forming a congo line behind me and spoiling my rythm just at the wrong moment.... And the starfish.... I mean.. my dick gets bored ffs. Answering the phone.... Bad technique.... oh yeah.... saying "Oooh la la" over and over again... (don't ask). saying "fuck me.... fuck me.. cum on my tits" over an dover again .... (too much pressure!!) hehe Oh yeah.... Im sure there's more. We're a fickle mob us cock owners. :p Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    when you are in the middle of a hot 3 some with 2 girls and the rude people at doorway start laughing and talking about school holidays zzzzzzzzz Some people have no etiquite Neo

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    16 years ago

    We know what party that was Neo & Trinity LOL....what is wrong with people??

  • DonnaBrett

    DonnaBrett

    16 years ago

    ...on a serious side. One thing you must never do Dianella..is make a big deal if it happens. The screwy thought patterns of the human brain are a powerful thing. If you go on about it or complain...it's gonna be all over red rover!The reasons can vary from guy to guy... booze, drugs, tired, nerves (ie: OMG I can't believe I've got this chick? or OMG I hope that guy's dick doesn't touch mine LOL etc etc)Cheers

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Thanks for all the comments ...some made me laugh so hard. It all makes sense though ... won't make a big deal out of it if it happens, lol. To all the guys ... hats off, so brave to let the cat out of the bag. To all the gals .... we are all listening, ain't we? Keep the conversation rolling ...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I don't know how you could go limp, for me when it's up, it's up for good

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I am fortunate not to have that problem during the event itself but before...and beyond the help of any drug known to man to change the less than likely outcome, as it were? | A squeeky or whiney voice! Think Fran Dressler in that show "The Nanny"? Sorry, but I think I would take even Charlize Theron for a miss if she sounded like that! | And talking incessantly about "your ex" or a past relationship that has gone astray? Forget it...let's just sit quietly together and read my last year's tax return, shall we? | I suppose it might happen after several hours of non-stop play...but then again, who would not stop for a bit of a rest and a nice glass of Dom now and then?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    It doesn't matter what reason the guys gives for having a soft on...I'm always gonna think its coz he's just not that into me.I wish they would tell me BEFORE they got me all worked up though....JMO...BJxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    nothing to date ....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Sometimes BJ's done wrong...once needs to touch the gold member with due care and sexy light touch....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    working out that the chick you r fucking is your twin sister that was adoped out when yous were babys

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    ...this guy left huge brown skid marks on my white sofa and white 1000 thread count egyption cotton sheets.shamefully i've been avoiding him since the discovery.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Anxiety from time to time has killed it for me. It only happened with one girl (who I was extremely attracted to) over a couple of differing situations, the initial cause was over some emotional distress. From that point on, I think my head was applying so much pressure to perform that my other head wasn't quite receptive to.Other times anxiety has made it difficult to have multiples in a session, although maybe I just needed a protein bar lol. In those cases I wasn't exactly comfortable with the person I was with. By no means because of that person, just a little too shy and didn't know them well enough. No good at this one night stand business I tells ya.Stalky, maybe you should try karaoke to fix your singer's anxiety :P. And think, it could be worse, you could sound like a neutered Barry White with a head cold.Cheers,Z

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Too much ROCK !