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What makes a bad boy?

December 16 2012

I've been labelled numerous times as having a bad boy image. Now what confuses me is that no one seems to be able to pinpoint or define a what makes a guy a "bad boy" so I'm not sure if its a compliment or not. Is it motorbikes, tattoos, muscles, partying, etc? Is it the 3am booty call guy? Ladies, I'd love to get some sort of definitive answer if you could. Cheers TC

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    you want to be seen as a bad boy TorturedIMO they are narcissistic,manipulative,charismatic,arrogant ,ego driven,with conversely a fragile ego,careless unreliable Peter Pans.

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    13 years ago

    Bad boys, bad boys - what you gunna do when they come for you? There is an aura about a bad boy, you either have that image or you don't. Some men who look like bad boys are quite the opposite and are very gentle people. A total attitude aura...

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    You man the fuck up!!! :p add another royalty DG

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    what you described is an arrogant insensitive self centred asrehole ...a bad boy is something very differenthe is the type of man that a girl falls in love with very quickly , desires to the point of madnessthe kind of man who is comfortable in his own skin,knows everything he needs to know about a womancan make her cum with his smouldering glance, his sweet wicked smilea word of appreciationa complimentthe type of guy who always has an innuendo a man of mysterythe man who is never caged....but if he fixes on you his universe will revolve with you at the centrehe is loyal in emotion, in his devotion once he has chosen you he will always fancy women, he can not help it..... it is intrinsic to his being, women need himhis attention is empoweringhis is intelligent, courteous, respectful, protective.......loves and admires his mumhe watches people, he learn about themhe knows what women want....and how to use that to his benefithe is dynamic and a chameleonhe can carry off a suit .....and jeansthere is a presence about him he never makes you feel used even as he is getting in to anothers bed....he does not kiss and tell....he is manly....he is fun to be with because he makes you feel specialbut if you are not able to captivate him and hold his attention....he will break your heart and soul and leave you brokenhe will never know you were so attachedyou will have just been data in his quest

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Not at all, I'm just curious on the definition of the term as it has been applied to me a few times recently and also when I was in my late teens. Personally I'd rather be known as a good bloke, who busts his ass to to the right thing by people. But no one seems to remember any of the good stuff about me :@

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I see a lot of myself in your post, not all of it but definately a fair portion of it. Thank you for your contribution. It seems there is more to the "bad boy tag" than I have been led to believe so far

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'missbowpeek' what you described is an arrogant insensitive self centred asrehole ...a bad boy is something very differenthe is the type of man that a girl falls in love with very quickly , desires to the point of madnessthe kind of man who is comfortable in his own skin,knows everything he needs to know about a womancan make her cum with his smouldering glance, his sweet wicked smilea word of appreciationa complimentthe type of guy who always has an innuendo a man of mysterythe man who is never caged....but if he fixes on you his universe will revolve with you at the centrehe is loyal in emotion, in his devotion once he has chosen you he will always fancy women, he can not help it..... it is intrinsic to his being, women need himhis attention is empoweringhis is intelligent, courteous, respectful, protective.......loves and admires his mumhe watches people, he learn about themhe knows what women want....and how to use that to his benefithe is dynamic and a chameleonhe can carry off a suit .....and jeansthere is a presence about him he never makes you feel used even as he is getting in to anothers bed....he does not kiss and tell....he is manly....he is fun to be with because he makes you feel specialbut if you are not able to captivate him and hold his attention....he will break your heart and soul and leave you brokenhe will never know you were so attachedyou will have just been data in his quest Where's the bad bit ?

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    If someone has told you that you are one...maybe ask them what their idea of a bad boy is   For me...it means a man, who is ultimately no good. Well, no good for long term anyway. Could leave you heart broken as he leaves a trail of others around him, including you   But, as I say, we all have different interpretations on what 'it' means

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting '50zcool'Where's the bad bit ? 50, Was thinking the same thing myself

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    The only bit that I could see in MissBs Post that was ''bad'', was the leaving because the woman didn't capture his interest. Bad indeed.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'missbowpeek'what you described is an arrogant insensitive self centred asrehole ... a bad boy is something very different he is the type of man that a girl falls in love with very quickly , desires to the point of madness the kind of man who is comfortable in his own skin, knows everything he needs to know about a woman can make her cum with his smouldering glance, his sweet wicked smile a word of appreciation a compliment the type of guy who always has an innuendo a man of mystery the man who is never caged....but if he fixes on you his universe will revolve with you at the centre he is loyal in emotion, in his devotion once he has chosen you he will always fancy women, he can not help it..... it is intrinsic to his being, women need him his attention is empowering his is intelligent, courteous, respectful, protective.......loves and admires his mum he watches people, he learn about them he knows what women want....and how to use that to his benefit he is dynamic and a chameleon he can carry off a suit .....and jeans there is a presence about him he never makes you feel used even as he is getting in to anothers bed.... he does not kiss and tell.... he is manly.... he is fun to be with because he makes you feel special but if you are not able to captivate him and hold his attention....he will break your heart and soul and leave you broken he will never know you were so attached you will have just been data in his quest

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    maybe this is the best description of a bad boy.Lady Caroline Lamb wrote in her diary in 1812,after she met the poet Lord Byron,that he was ''Mad bad and dangerous to know''

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Textbook answer.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    A bad boy is someone you would never want to see your daughter with....

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya13' you want to be seen as a bad boy TorturedIMO they are narcissistic,manipulative,charismatic,arrogant ,ego driven,with conversely a fragile ego,careless unreliable Peter Pans. Could've said it better myself...I would like to add....if I may?? APATHY to the list....

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Can I ask was this refereed to in bedroom??*in a cheeky seductive sexy voice*"Ohhhhh you're such a Bad boy now come here and fuck me hard" ummmm puts a whole different meaning there??

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    that when he gets out of your bed after a five second fuck, and looks in the mirror and thinks he is shit hot   then you say   Um fuck that was realllllllllllllllly bad, you are such a boy   bad boys , I love em , at least you can pull the rug from under their fat ego

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    knowledge.is power.......knowledge and rugs are everything LOL.......but there is no substitute for a humble dynamic intelligent alpha.......mmmmmmmmand neighbour Joey......we should do a beer (champagne) in the new year.....we could discuss those rugs should there be a need to

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    hmmm...what happens if bad boy meets bad girl....or are they mutually repelled by each other sparks could fly.....

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I never understood why my ex girlfriend was calling me sometimes bad boy and no I recognize a bit myself on it not all of that but my pleasure come when I please someone if I don't please I move on because often it's start with a good eyes contact. Any way thanks for this topic tortured. Quoting 'missbowpeek' what you described is an arrogant insensitive self centred asrehole ...a bad boy is something very differenthe is the type of man that a girl falls in love with very quickly , desires to the point of madnessthe kind of man who is comfortable in his own skin,knows everything he needs to know about a womancan make her cum with his smouldering glance, his sweet wicked smilea word of appreciationa complimentthe type of guy who always has an innuendo a man of mysterythe man who is never caged....but if he fixes on you his universe will revolve with you at the centrehe is loyal in emotion, in his devotion once he has chosen you he will always fancy women, he can not help it..... it is intrinsic to his being, women need himhis attention is empoweringhis is intelligent, courteous, respectful, protective.......loves and admires his mumhe watches people, he learn about themhe knows what women want....and how to use that to his benefithe is dynamic and a chameleonhe can carry off a suit .....and jeansthere is a presence about him he never makes you feel used even as he is getting in to anothers bed....he does not kiss and tell....he is manly....he is fun to be with because he makes you feel specialbut if you are not able to captivate him and hold his attention....he will break your heart and soul and leave you brokenhe will never know you were so attachedyou will have just been data in his quest

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Not attractive......now naughty boys on the other hand......

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    the bad boy poet and adventurerwas over indulged by his mum,had an affair with his sister,walked with a limp that was an embarrassment to him..,he had polio as a child.At age nine he was sexually abused by his nurse,and probably by one of his mother's lovers.He was bi sexual having a number of liasons with men while at Harrow and Cambridge.He pursued Caroline Lamb and when she succumbed to his charm he quickly tired of her in true bad boy style.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    A bad boy in my view is someone that pushes you to places that you would not normal go. After a bad boy, you wake to think "oh my god did I do that?" . If you want more a real bad boy will show you a world that has been in the mind but not in action.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    That's rohypnol not a bad boy!!