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What it’s like setting up a gangbang
January 04 2024
Experience tells you it’s important to chat with guys to make sure you’re on the same page. So you message guys. And they don’t reply. Or they reply and so you share your 12 profile photos. They send you a solo dick pic then ask if you ‘have any more photos’ 🙄
Finally you have 10 guys who are *absolutely committed*. Then two of them block you because they’ve now jerked off and are done. Three just stop answering any messages. You ask the remaining 5 if they’d mind advancing the few dollars to help split the cost of the non-refundable hotel room you’ve now booked based on all the interest. They knew about this but you ask if they could transfer the money in advance to indicate they genuinely intend to turn up.
Three suddenly realise it’s their mums birthday or they might have a work shift but they’re not sure or they have a friends party but they thought they would drop in after but they might be too drunk so nah.
Two guys are left. One cancels en route because he ‘thinks he has covid’ so can he have his $80 back and the other just ghosts.
So you check into your $400 hotel you really couldn’t afford 15mins from where you live for a romantic evening for two.
This is a slight exaggeration but only very slight. Sometimes it works out and it’s great but it is hours and hours and hours of fucking around for those few occasions.
Comments
FeistyFatty
4 months ago
Is charging guests a thing now? I'm hosting wrong 😋
fun2behere
4 months ago
Yes agree. Way back, when I was more innocent and naive, I tried to organise a few MMMF for female friends. no charge. Same thing. Accounts disappeared, ghosted, no shows. And some who did arrive got stage fright - which I understand but it did not help the fantasy of the woman to be acted out. Also know a couple where it really is her thing to do bukkake and GB. They initiated an event and got like 150 interested, 20 messaged and 2 turned up ! Too many men who are wankers and probably married just fantasising and wasting genuine peoples time. Indicators like verified and validations help weed out the fakes and time wasters. We know this is an issue as so many of us talk about it. Just be pleased when we meet real people. Meet n greets, events, parties and clubs seem the best way to meet real people.
MrandMrs
4 months ago
Better to go to an event which allows single men and have a gang bang there rather than trying to host one on your own.
Margo_Lover
4 months ago
We've not hosted an event like this, but with our experience with individual people we'd expect something along those lines.
Given how flakey most people seem to be online, I doubt we'd try.
- Alex
Sawadee
4 months ago
Thankfully ' we never experienced these extremes , but is very close to the reason Mrs S is no longer part of our profile..
countrytouch82
4 months ago
I've never set one up but been in close contact to those that do/have. You are correct in all the flakiness. Although personally, the asking for money in advance triggers some that have fallen for fake events before (ie the hosts aren't real). If I've met them or it's an established event, sure. The private organisers I have known also do meet and greets first, before any playdates. That is, turn up to x bar at x time. Only risking time and not so much money.
The couples I've known also repeat this as per their interest. Yes it's time consuming, but you might get 3 out 50 good guys. The next time, a different 3 from 50. Maybe 2 the next time with a couple of regulars. Eventually, a "stable" of reliable gentlemen is achieved, but yes, for those just wanting a one-off fantasy (not you it seems), it's not worth the hassle if starting from scratch.
Pleasureseeker1
4 months ago
I attended a supposed mmmf but I was the only male who turned up , awkward at first and alot of waiting around for the others to attend which did not happen
We both still enjoyed the night with each other but it left a bad taste for both of us
Blueflamingo
4 months ago
Gangbang is a common fantasy i think, also one of mine. But I've always been afraid of said scenario and disappointment. Porn has probably ruined a lot as in giving me too high expectations.
For me I would not feel comfortable with 5 or strangers at a hotel room. Strangers who I didn't know and who don't know me.
The only way I see this ever becoming a reality for myself is to build up a harem of fwb. Guys who I've been with before, see regularly and who I trust and who trust me. If the stars then align and everyone shows up and everyone feeling comfortable, then it will a success for everyone.
I think many forget that single guys also needs to be respected here. They can't just be experienced to rock up, pay up and stand to attention on command. I think thats why many gets flakey because they a scared of not performing and live up to expectations.
Hottieandblondie
4 months ago
Coming from woman you should note this “ it takes a lot to come out of our shell for something like this “
Having that said it’s surprising to know that single men think they are the prize and treat you this way.
Then they go posting on forums why they can’t get a response from couples or why they have not much luck as a single guy.
Gingerninja12
4 months ago
It's funny because me and a mate love to share we been lucky enough to enjoy a couple of beautiful woman and it takes time for the men to get in sync with each other we have a couple of mates that also join us when requested but finding the time all four of us are in town together is rare
When we are and we try to find a GB girl some 30 rmsgs ten confirm 5 dissapear 3 ghost two make excuses and no one shows so I suggest you open a GB group profile and add friends then a post in forums over the month you should find a few with genuine interest in GB and the others are horny at the time and getting no responses elsewhere
peter196921
4 months ago
Very sad, i understand people put themselves out there, and it’s not easy for a lady then getting stood up is low form, if I commit I turn up, even if I am nervous I still attend if I have committed, sorry to hear
cinamontan
4 months ago
Been to a few well organised ones back in the day, alot of fun. Though not as private as the one you have been trying hope you get to satisfy your fantasies in 24
MFMHotWife
4 months ago
GB's take quite a bit of work to organise, sorting through all the potentials takes time and effort, however, when it all comes together it sure is fun! Best we've managed to arrange was 4 extra blokes, MMMMMF in all. Previous experiences have shown despite my best efforts at selecting what seem to be genuine players is sometimes 50% attendance, oftentimes less! Keep on working on it, your instincts over time through messaging will help sort out the players from the wankers!
CharliePeanut
4 months ago
I used to run gang bangs / rape fantasies. The way I did it was to assemble a group of guys who were reliable and respectful and when a lady wanted a gang bang I would provide the guys a potential date and time. Most could usually make the event, but some worked FIFO and may not have been in town at the time. I also managed the std testing especially if a session was all bareback.
This worked really, really well. If the guys said they would turn up, they did. It always ran smoothly and we all had a lot of fun. We became like brothers with no inhibitions whatsoever.
In order to form this group however it did take a lot of effort. I looked at the application statistics and only around 1 to 2 percent of the applicants became part of the group.
Sweetpineapples
4 months ago
It is the RHP e perience for not just gang bangs and singles but also for couples. After 4 years we still have a love hate relationship with RHP because of the emotional roller coaster of fake profiles, late cancellations, and flakey people. Seems to be more predominant in Sydney for us. Our Melbourne experiences have been largely awesomely positive .
How hard is it for people just to be genuine? My answer would be for RHP to negate free/guest profiles. Make it mandatory for a CC or proof of identity to be on file to allow a profile . I know this wouldn't be 100% foolproof but would go some way 🤷♂️
Takecontrol702
3 months ago
Hi Guys I’ve read your comments and agree how difficult and frustrating it can be. I have organised many GB in the past and sometimes you like why do I bother? However if it is the gangbang experience you want, it would probably be better for you to organise a group of existing guys who are all friends/mates who are use to performing together. They won’t be afraid of coming in contact with touching their friends dick for example and they will more than likely show. It would be better if you organised a meet and greet prior just so everyone is happy and knows what is expecting in the situation. The downside is you may not find any attractive to your liking, the plus side you have your experience.
The other alternative would be to go and get in touch with an BDSM club explain your needs and wishes and they will organise you a GB on their premises with guys that they work with. I don’t know what the cost of the experience is unfortunately and again you may not be attractive to any of them.
Manicmedic
3 months ago
I've arranged several gangbangs with similar results in NZ. The last I simply asked on arrival for $40 as they arrived. It was pre-arranged with them. 1 person declined and I told him that if he didn't cum I would refund his money. No refund was given.
I had over 100 replies and 60 confirmed, 20 confirmed on the day and 12 arrived.
1 busy girl. She wanted them to be charged as it was part of her fantasy. She wanted condom free sex but 3 didn't. Once she was excited she didn't mind covered.
Alexis
3 months ago
Hey mate, if you ever want to reschedule I just want to let you know that I would be super keen on something like this.
It sounds super hot, I’m actually stroking it right now just thinking about it.
You have my commitment that I would show up. And I mean one hundred percent comm…..
Oh wait, sorry, I just realised that it’s my cat’s sister’s wedding anniversary soon, I’ll have to cancel sorry.
All the best 👍
hotcuckcouple
3 months ago
Yes we know the difficulty of it well
Kinkypair69
3 months ago
We have had a couple gb. But rather than going all the leg work we came on rhp and contacted a gangbang group in Sydney.
We told them what we were after. Do’s and don’t ‘s
They sent us photos and descriptions of each man.
We picked out who we liked and set the date.
We met in a bar. The men treated my wife with respect and made her feel comfortable.
After a half hour or so we made our way to the room.
It was a night of pleasure over the next couple of hours for my wife.
Let’s just say she had a smile on her face for a very long time.
Hotasianwife
3 months ago
Hello. I have organised many creampie gangbangs for my Asian wife at her request. Everyone shows up and pays money for the room. We have not had any issues. We turn down many men. But we may have just been lucky. Men are horny for creampie in Brisbane in Asian girl
MasterBigCcock
3 months ago
Thats why you only should request from Verified and Validated Guys
I arrange them and it is a lot of work especially with the fakes but after all the years I have been doing this I have a reliable bunch of guys
Cheers
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