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What is your opinion on...
October 06 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
do not want
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have never had any relationship success with girls who put out on the first date.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well in my experience I have never had any relationship success with girls who put out on the first date. Sometimes it is nice to play a bit of cat and mouse
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have started all of my relationships with "one night stands" lol, and some of them were long term. If the chemistry is there and you're both consenting adults go for it I say. It's the 21st Century after all. I would never get into a relationship if I hadn't "tried" the goods in the first place!! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
id rather they dont but it all depends on the circumstances
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RHP User
15 years ago
depends on the girl...depends on the guy..but quite frankly...i find it highly offensive that a guy would deem a girl that fucks on the first date asNOT relationship material.YOU'RE THE ONE THAT FUCKED HER MATE!!!So you fucked on the first date too...ya fuckin hypocrite!JMO...BJxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Girls have every right to refuse to fuck on the first date! Pusscat xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
To decide when, if ever they dofuck a guy. I generally know, however if we are going to be compatable and can not therefore see the point in dragging things out. You know you are going to do it eventually so why the wait? What is achieved? Never could understand the rules of the games girls play. Fionabee.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think i would be more concerned about a girl who puts out on any date through a sense of duty. Which is kinda what you are saying maybe.I see no problem in waiting till she is ready.......then again i'm not a youngster.....if you had asked me when i was, you may have gotten a whole different answer.Cheers Nev
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'd say she'd leave a positive impression on me LOLHonestly, and notm just because she had sex, but because I think it is ridiculous when people insert all these silly conditions into dating and sex - lets be honest, it is often girls with these extra rules "Oh, I can't have sex until we've been out X number of times... or its been at least blah blah, and I can't call him or it'll look like this or that, blah blah blah".If you feel like sex with the guy, then have sex with the guy. Why waste X number of weeks/dates only to find out you're no good together in the sack and you'd each rather find someone else.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MissBJ' depends on the girl...depends on the guy..but quite frankly...i find it highly offensive that a guy would deem a girl that fucks on the first date asNOT relationship material.YOU'RE THE ONE THAT FUCKED HER MATE!!!So you fucked on the first date too...ya fuckin hypocrite!JMO...BJxxx Totally agree with you BJ hun...such hypocrites these dickheads that think it is ok for guys but not girls! Pffffftttttt xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I am with you 100%. In fact it is something I have maintained since I was a teenager. Back then it was really frowned upon to be having sex on the firt date. Big deal. Why wait for all the fun?
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RHP User
15 years ago
I would never expect a girl to fuck on the first date. I also wouldn't judge her harshly if she did or didn't. If the moment is right for both then go for it, if one isn't ready there should never be pressure. Our first date was so charged with energy we could barely contain ourselves, but we did. Until the second date the very next day!! Sometimes putting off that glorious act can deliver so much more delight than the act itself. Jez do what feels right for you and the right kind of guys will always respect you.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Why put the fire out ? Picture this...we meet and get on so well..we flirt with eachother have the random kiss or brush against eachother..everything feels great ..but wait the brain kicks in and says ..time to call it a night !! the good brain is bashing my fly down wanting to come out !! which brain am i going to let down ?
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RHP User
15 years ago
you meet...you have sexual attraction toward each other.....you flirt, you fuck....SIMPLE.....on the other side you meet....there's no chemistry/spark....YOU DONT FUCK......this is a no brainer...... different people have different approaches to this topic....."if it feels good, do it"
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RHP User
15 years ago
As for me and any one im with, if it feels right and your both consenting then why not, its not taboo, although some may preach so. We are adults after all and we need to see past the social restrictions that the conservative elite try to control society with.
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RHP User
15 years ago
did anyone go on the assumption there was going to be a FUCK .. if so then yeah maybe its a let down .. but if it was just a date then no harm in waiting is there?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Im agree with MissBJ and FunLoving and also a lot of what else has been written If a girl is not looking for a partner or is really out to find FWBs etc then she will often be more relaxed and go for it.... if she is looking for 'the one' then she might hang out a little more But those guys that 'fun and run' with promises of I will be in touch ... well thats not on... a simple ... thanks but Im moving on .. is always better than watchiing the phone wondering if he will call... I think based on many forum posts .. its that type of thing that women get a smidge jacked off ... and maybe will wait until a 2nd date to see if a bloke is at least true to his word ... :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm a really sexual person - I probably wouldn't end up in a relationship with anyone who equally didn't want to fuck on the first date. I'm certainly not interested in getting emotionally involved with someone so backward as to still have that "there are girls you fuck and girls you marry" belief. In my opinion, they would most probably be the same ones expecting the wild sex to stop as soon as you settle down with each other. Being branded as not relationship material because I choose to lead with the thing I most want to do, rather than having to play games and pretend to be coy (not an act I do very well)... yech! Just like Funloving, I have never had a relationship that didn't start with sex on the first meeting. I only sleep with someone if the attraction is there, so... why not? Did this reply sound a bit testy? Sorry! Definitely a topic that gets my goat :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Why waste time waiting for the second date? Just do it if it feels right. I agree with you BJ. I hate those hypocrites too!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Depends on the situation. I consider a 'first date' quite different to 'met her at the local and pantsed her that night' situation.Honestly, if I like a girl enough to 'date' her, then it's kind of cool if we don't fuck for a little while, sometimes adds to the excitement. But at the same time it's also kind of cool if she jumps me at the first red light on the drive to the cinema/restaurant/hens night...........so yeah, after all that blabber, either way is cool with me.
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RHP User
15 years ago
MsValkyrie..dont apologise for your true thoughts..this is the best part of the forums when we say what we believe...Now all those who said they fcuk on the first date... Lets get toegther !!
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